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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by edoairways: 6:03pm On Mar 10, 2020
omomummy13:


You're smart. I 've said the same thing before. Those coordinating this lame stories are so bad at it. You need to employ pros. At least, make it convincing small. Shior
What if the story was real or super story?
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by DaRuud(m): 6:04pm On Mar 10, 2020
Why are some girls so cheap ,

Even a 77 year old man can you with the brain of a 23 years old lady and she will fall pregnant for him


Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Millenniumlady(f): 6:04pm On Mar 10, 2020
Professorcplus:
.Child of the world. Why do young girls prefer married guys. You have been lied to and beside, the man doesn't have to open his mouth to tell you he wants you to be his side chick. This is why I don't condemn wife bashing their husband's side chick. This could have save you a lot of stress. Now the deed has been done, just tell your parent what has happened and and don't let your waywardness affects the child future. .
Married men are more caring

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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Hoodbilonia: 6:04pm On Mar 10, 2020
U throw things too much. Im sure u have thrown a knife. Imagine what you would do if you had a gun
Madam take sniper. Wayward odeh
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by ElasticStone(m): 6:05pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

Honestly, you are not wise.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Susu888(m): 6:05pm On Mar 10, 2020
Mehn! Your situation is messed up shocked nd i thought i had problems.


@O.P you have no other way out.... i suggest you don't tell them till you're finally in naija because some fathers can cut off (allowances) when angry with their children. Tell them about everything when you're home in presence of trusted uncles and aunties to help manage the situation...... going by what you said about ur dad being strict he might react in a moment of anger and frustration then only God knows what might follow. Make sure you're not alone with him.

The poor kid is the one i feel sorry for the most,the trauma that kid will go through especially if you have a big family with strong attachments to culture. They will harass and discriminate the poor kid (born out of wedlock).

Keep praying... God will sort you out.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Butoneday2(m): 6:05pm On Mar 10, 2020
Anyhow you want to tell them tell them, and don't come here seeking for advice. This is not a counseling section.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by noisy45(m): 6:06pm On Mar 10, 2020
Btruth:
.....who makes you a judge? Obviously their plans on her was shattered. But what's God plan for her?

I will put a bullet to her head if I was her parent
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Jayslyder: 6:07pm On Mar 10, 2020
I only have one question.. Are you Nigerian??. If you're.. You just disgraced an entire nation with this high level of foolishness!!
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by AkupeMBANO(m): 6:09pm On Mar 10, 2020
Richy4:

Usually, I don't like stories without paragraph.. However, I managed to read this one... and will take paracetamol for my effort... smiley


I have one question. Why was your VISA not canceled when you dropped out of college? Just asking because every good institution will alert the Immigration authority.. when the funding was not coming cheesy

the story too fake bro. no dey waste your FBI knowledge!!
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by pennywys(m): 6:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
NextD18:
The normal me would have condemned your waywardness and unequivocally call out your evil plans and intention of destroying his marriage.

But I'll ignore!

My advice is; Kindly open up to your parents, you did not kill or steal from them, what happened to you is a mistake and something that can happen to anyone in different forms.
They are your parents and won't kill or denounce you as their daughter for making a mistake. Open up to them and let them know how sorry you are to disappoint them.

The earlier the better!!
your parents will be so disappointed at you, not becos you have a baby but for the fact that you drop out of school without their knowledge and do everything for them to believe and keep wasting their money that you are still in school. You fooled them

Well, go ahead and tell them and face the consequences, but if I was ur father I will cut off the tides and leave you to face ur world
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Midas01: 6:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
Like your mother's brain right?
GOFRONT:
He told you he was married but now divorced and then still living in the same apartment with her.......How else can a lie be more glaring and Obvious??.......Our girls and their vegetable seed brain sha!!!

Thank God it's a Man's World...
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by adelaja70(m): 6:11pm On Mar 10, 2020
How did you tell us?
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Btruth: 6:12pm On Mar 10, 2020
noisy45:


I will put a bullet to her head if I was her parent
Okay now. And the law will come after you.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by tiredoflife(m): 6:14pm On Mar 10, 2020
Useless thing
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Ablemax(m): 6:16pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
op I would like to Bleep and pregnate you again, with a second child....since is what u do is to go clubbing and fucking around instead to read ur book.......
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by cr7lomo: 6:21pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:

Thank you . I’m really nervous I'll try to talk to my mum tomorrow

U are an evil LovePeddler...u wanna c another marriage destroyed... Start reapig what u have sowed , u wanna break another woman's marriage ... He will never leave his good wife for a LovePeddler like u...u are an easy lay
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by makydebbie(f): 6:21pm On Mar 10, 2020
I'm 21 years old and not this stupid tho. Everything was just a red flag from he's separated, living with his wife and all.


The people telling op that her parents will forgive and accept her, makes me wonder where my parents passed or no be African parents again? Because if I'm carrying this cock and bull story, my dad go disown me for the final time.


Lastly, before you get married to anyone, you've to work on your anger look at the mad way you throw things at people. Crazy.

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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by 1Dray(m): 6:26pm On Mar 10, 2020
Sanchez01:
Another script just landed. This isn't worth any sane person's time. Neh!

Why is everything script to you?
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Chuzoetoh(m): 6:29pm On Mar 10, 2020
Tell dem ur an idiot.
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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by tunize(m): 6:29pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
Who i b to judge u. We all make mistake in life and is a good thing atleast u have realised ur own mistake, u jst have to tell ur parents everything because sooner or later they're going to find out. Pls try and go back to school.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by andrewbaba44: 6:30pm On Mar 10, 2020
Richy4:

Usually, I don't like stories without paragraph.. However, I managed to read this one... and will take paracetamol for my effort... smiley


I have one question. Why was your VISA not canceled when you dropped out of college? Just asking because every good institution will alert the Immigration authority.. when the funding was not coming cheesy


Story

Do you know if she is paying for resident permit with the money her parents do send to her ?

No institution will alert any immigration because you are no more attending school ,it’s none of their business sir ,as far as she is living there legally she have no issues ,student permit is not the only permit to use staying legally
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by delishpot: 6:32pm On Mar 10, 2020
You were his maga. Confess to your parents and decide if returning home is the best option for you. Unfortunately you did not even go to the scho they sent you so if you stay back in the abroad, you will be doing ogwaja job unless you know how to hussle which I doubt cos even as you were chasing penis up and down, you still did not mention having any job at hand. So your time was spent between penis and having fun.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Fortyfifty(m): 6:33pm On Mar 10, 2020
Do you really think you can hide this story from your parents for ever. Your answer will determine your decision.

I don't know why people are doing so many weird things this days. E b like say devil don posses every body.
Just saw a girl now that did abortion for a different guy and she is billed to marry by month end.
Na wow
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Depriest2020: 6:34pm On Mar 10, 2020
NextD18:
The normal me would have condemned your waywardness and unequivocally call out your evil plans and intention of destroying his marriage.

But I'll ignore!

My advice is; Kindly open up to your parents, you did not kill or steal from them, what happened to you is a mistake and something that can happen to anyone in different forms.
They are your parents and won't kill or denounce you as their daughter for making a mistake. Open up to them and let them know how sorry you are to disappoint them.

The earlier the better!!

What is a mistake? That she opened her legs for a married man to knack & put her in a family way is what you call a mistake? As long as postinor2 still exist, I don't have advise for stupid & dumb people.

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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Dearlord(m): 6:35pm On Mar 10, 2020
What do you mean by mistake when you are busy throwing shoes, chairs and your pussy at people who are busy solving their lives?
My only advise to you is to throw the news to your parents asap.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by victorazyvictor(m): 6:37pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?

I don't want to talk to u because u won't like it.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Damsman10(m): 6:38pm On Mar 10, 2020
Adgideon:
Concerning the guy and ur child I have nothing to say to you, 4 stopping school I have nothing to say, 4 lying to your parents that you are school, when you dropped out I have nothing to say, 4 still collecting money from your parents I have nothing to say, 4 your daughter I have something to say that I hope that she doesn't grow up to be like u

Dynamic33:
I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.


Not to judge but I think she would be one of those beautiful angels with a frozen conscience.

The earlier you told your parents everything the better. They will forgive you but never forget how disappointed they were to find out their daughter whom they had high hope for had deceived them for over three years.
A cousin of mine was out for less than a year and collecting school fees. The parents still mention it until today.

YOU have made a MISTAKE but then such is LIFE. Now you have to PICK yourself up and be strong for your daughter. Speak to someone you trust, it's dangerous coming here because most folks will angrily drive you to depression. STAY STRONG, STAY SAFE.
Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by Timijo(m): 6:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
Anyone that believes this cock and bull story is on his own. Cooked up story to pull traffic.

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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by wofayouths(m): 6:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
Can anything good come out Clubs? The life of Clubbers ends in crumbs.

Reveal your mistakes to your parents and the wife of the child's father. Yes! You offended her. God saved you from that man, he would have done the same thing he is doing to his wife if he divorced her. The man is a big time cheat.


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Re: How Do I Tell My Parents I Have A Daughter? by mrfm1: 6:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
Dynamic33:
I met my baby daddy three years ago. We met on my 21st birthday. I went out to the nightclub to celebrate my birthday and I met this handsome 32 years old. He couldn’t stop staring at me until he approached me and introduced himself and we exchanged numbers.

He called me the next day, we chatted for about an hour and he told me he was married. He has two kids but they now are separated. In the process of divorce but they are still living together, separate bedrooms while he is waiting for the house he is building to finish so he can move out.

I was jealous and angry at him. I told him he is lying to me, they are still together and still fucking he just want to use me then dump me but he promised me that there was nothing between him and the wife, and that they had stop having sex when she was pregnant with the second baby and the baby was now 8 months and he has proof that there was nothing between them.

We were meeting at my place and staying together until 2-3am. Sometimes he doesn’t go back until the next day and on those days that we don’t meet, we chatted on the phone until late 1-2am while he was still in the house so I was happy that there’s nothing between them.

He brought the children to me, I fell so much in love with them and will be spending the day with them and it felt great to bond with them.

Then later I got pregnant, he told me to abort it because they are in the process of divorce. If the court finds out he impregnated someone somewhere else everything will go against him. I told him not to worry I will keep it as a secret until he sorts out the divorce but he insisted that I should abort. I didn’t like it. We had a misunderstanding. In anger I hit him with my heels shoes and injured him on the forehead. He was bleeding but he didn’t fight me back. He just left and I was very sorry. I kept begging him, asking for forgiveness, he kept ignoring me and for three months we didn’t contact each other because he was still mad at me.

Then few months later, he called and asked to meet me and I begged him for forgiveness for everything I did to him and I accepted to abort the pregnancy. I was already 5 months gone and two days before the abortion he came to my house and told me that while we’re on the break, he was stressed and started drinking and mistakenly had sex with his wife and she is also pregnant. He said that she lured him to have sex to stop the divorce process but he do not care about it. He will go ahead with the divorce because he still loves me and wants to be with me and he pleaded with me to do the abortion for him so he could win the divorce and custody of his children. I was very angry that I threw a plastic chair on him and asked him to leave my house and to never come back that it was over between us. I deleted and blocked his numbers and removed all his pictures on my phone. He was begging my friends to tell me to forgive him but I rejected him and I now have my beautiful daughter, my joy, my everything.

But the only problem I have, my parents sent me abroad to study, I dropped out three years ago and they don’t know I'm not longer in school and that I now have a child because they keep sending me money every month thinking I’m still in school. When I’m not so on December I did traveled back home to my parents and I left my daughter with a friend for 2 whole weeks. I couldn’t sleep or eat and my parents said Now that I’m in my final year after finishing it, they want me to come back home for good by July and where will I leave my child ? I don’t know how to tell my parents about my child? And also that I left school three years ago my dad is very strict and am scared.

Please I’m very sorry for the long post and advice me on how to tell them please?
Omo daada ���

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