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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Shugavee(f): 5:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





I swear that guy is so Naive .... Maybe he thinks this is "Zeeworld" or those stupid "Korea Love Films" he likes watching grin grin
I know of many couples still waiting on God, n I know of men that waited 30 years or more b4 kids. That’s what love is patience !! U won’t be the first or the last to wait ,, not doing that don’t make u smarter.

Thank God , for IVF , u don’t hv to wait for many years b4 use this procedure
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by DaddyRochie1642: 5:51pm On Mar 10, 2020
Shugavee:
I know of many couples still waiting on God, n I know of men that waited 30 years or more b4 kids. That’s what love is patience !! U won’t be the first or the last to wait ,, not doing that don’t make u smarter.

Thank God , for IVF , u don’t hv to wait for many years b4 use this procedure




God Forbid that I have to wait for 30 Fvcking Years before I have a Child, ... I strongly Believe I won't wait that Long,

If you think about it Logically, ... If a man like for example decides to get married tomorrow, ... I'll tell the girl what I want, she'll have to get pregnant first before anything is done, ...we'll both udergo thorough medical Check-ups before we proceed.

It's a smart thing to do considering the society we live in.


FACT

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by DontBullshitMe: 5:52pm On Mar 10, 2020
Ensuring that you marry a virgin is the best.

Anything short of that is daylight robbery.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Shugavee(f): 5:52pm On Mar 10, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





God Forbid that I have to wait for 30 Fvcking Years before I have a Child, ... I strongly Believe I won't wait that Long,

If you think about it Logically, ... If a man like for example decides to get married tomorrow, ... I'll tell the girl what I want, she'll have to get pregnant first before anything is done, ...we'll both udergo thorough medical Check-ups before we proceed.

It's a smart thing to do considering the society we live in.


FACT
okay .
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by revolt(m): 5:54pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:
Fvck it. I don't judge people by their past. I don't mind marrying an ex runs girl, if I love her. There are some Barren virgins, too. I think if you are enlightened, regardless of your age, you will judge people less.
I am not perfect...no one is.
these kids.... dont worry. The quickest way to die isnt cyanide. Marry the wrong person you will be speaking to the walls asking how you got into that mess every night till you finally die of heart attack. Guess what? They usually make the best widows loooolll........ie cry the loudest at your funeral and form love for you when they actually poisoned you. I dont even know if there are still marriageable ladies in lagos from what I see online these days..

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by DontBullshitMe: 6:03pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:
Fvck it. I don't judge people by their past. I don't mind marrying an ex runs girl, if I love her. There are some Barren virgins, too. I think if you are enlightened, regardless of your age, you will judge people less.
I am not perfect...no one is.
If only these girls you intend to overlook their past will consider you if you were a homeless, broke guy.

You better wake the fuçk up and never settle for anything short of a virgin.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Hisduchess(f): 6:11pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:


You are not enlightened. You want to marry a good girl but you don't mind knacking a lady that you are not married to yet, with reckless abandon. Freaking double standards. Anyways...it's a man's world.

God bless you for enlightening that dumbo.most guys who keeps bashing women on NL live a life of double standard and is disgusting.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Fisher007: 6:27pm On Mar 10, 2020
DontBullshitMe:

If only these girls you intend to overlook their past will consider you if you were a homeless, broke guy.

You better wake the fuçk up and never settle for anything short of a virgin.

You said it all. Most young guys are dumb. They don't use their brains and never think rational or logical. They work with their emotions too much.

A rational person will want a virgin and to be sure after birth na multiple DNA test. Now being a Virgin doesn't guarantee success or faithfulness in marriage. But you are sure of your first and second seed.
Marriage gan is still a scam. But at least your children/legacy shouldn't be.

After even if she cheats you can free her and let her be used as public toilets by othermen. Experience will personally teach her lessons. When she realise she holds the key to sex and not the key to a stable relationship.

But trust all these Zeeworld/ telemundo infected men out there, who believe all their life is to be in plantation/ slavery for a woman. All this Adam /provider wanna be brothers. Time will tell.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Hisduchess(f): 6:33pm On Mar 10, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





God Forbid that I have to wait for 30 Fvcking Years before I have a Child, ... I strongly Believe I won't wait that Long,

If you think about it Logically, ... If a man like for example decides to get married tomorrow, ... I'll tell the girl what I want, she'll have to get pregnant first before anything is done, ...we'll both udergo thorough medical Check-ups before we proceed.

It's a smart thing to do considering the society we live in.


FACT

So you think those ones who didn't have kids didn't believe in having kids immediately? or haven't you heard of miscarriage after which non ever came again and they became childless? Haven't you heard about a woman dying with her first pregnancy? Or haven't you heard of a man losing all kids at a go. Oga life happens and there is never a way to know which will happen to anyone,we wish ourselves good always but life happens.if you want to get married just pray hard,ask God to help you and take the leap of fate,decide to love that person amidst any challenge you both might later face cos challenges must come is just that one will pray that both of you will conquer it in togetherness.The type of life I choose to live as a single lady is basically for me to be able to have a clean and clear mind when I get married cos it is often worst if you lived a reckless life as a single and gets married only to find it difficult to concieve, but just know that fruitfulness in marriage sometimes has nothing to do with promiscuity, sometimes it's okerechi .I will advise that you don't go before God especially in marriage decisions.

Peace!!!

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Xmen149(m): 6:33pm On Mar 10, 2020
Chizuru01:


Well, that's your choice.

For me, I can't be blinded by love to make a wrong decision i will regret.

I wouldn't want a situation where people playing with their kids will be painted as a mockery on me inside my brain.

You may not understand until you make such a grave mistake

what is after marriage she got miscarriage and never conceived again or baby gave up after birth and she never conceive again...

i think the best will be to run test in relation to pregnancy same as men do sperm count test...cos na who God won bless em dey bless
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by GhostGhost(m): 6:37pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:


Sir, I don't want to stoop down to your level and exchange words with you. Kings don't argue. Let's just agree to disagree on this issue.

I am optimistic you are going to get married to your desired virgin wife, give birth to six beautiful daughters with pretty faces, and figure 8 shapes.
Me on the other hand will marry a "bad girl," treat her like a queen and have six sons that fvck for a living.
My six sons will fvck the brains out of your six beautiful daughters, with reckless abandon.
lolz you see I wasn't wrong when I addressed you as a kid. These are facts that are going to happen. People will give birth and their kids will grow and be excited about sex, get a bf or gf and they fvck each other but like a toddler you are you haven'tade your peace with these facts . Maybe you plan on fvcking your daughters because you don't want any other guys to fvck them when they must have grown. Go back to suckling kiddo.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by chigoizie7(m): 6:39pm On Mar 10, 2020
kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Story.

Who made that child illegal?

Is there any law that states that?

People are not blinded anymore.
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:43pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
lolz you see I wasn't wrong when I addressed you as a kid. These are facts that are going to happen. People will give birth and their kids will grow and be excited about sex, get a bf or gf and they fvck each other but like a toddler you are you haven'tade your peace with these facts . Maybe you plan on fvcking your daughters because you don't want any other guys to fvck them when they must have grown. Go back to suckling kiddo.

From your write-up, there are two things involved. It's either you lack manners or English is not your first language. If lack manners, you're a Marlian...but if English is not your first language, kindly return to the cave you came out from.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:48pm On Mar 10, 2020
DontBullshitMe:

If only these girls you intend to overlook their past will consider you if you were a homeless, broke guy.

You better wake the fuçk up and never settle for anything short of a virgin.

Don't be naive. Women are naturally wired to seek out a male that can provide for her and her offsprings.
We as men should Man-up and make it happen.
Feel free to marry all the virgins in the world, save me the "bad girls."
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by GhostGhost(m): 6:50pm On Mar 10, 2020
DaddyRochie1642:





God Forbid that I have to wait for 30 Fvcking Years before I have a Child, ... I strongly Believe I won't wait that Long,

If you think about it Logically, ... If a man like for example decides to get married tomorrow, ... I'll tell the girl what I want, she'll have to get pregnant first before anything is done, ...we'll both udergo thorough medical Check-ups before we proceed.

It's a smart thing to do considering the society we live in.


FACT
I hail u like wetiiiiin boss, these overgrown babies are very funny imagine talking about consciously and intentionally marrying a runs girl aka who're that has been a public toilet for any cretin, touts, sensible guys and more once they have her price. All in the name of love hahahahahaha telemundo really got these kids high on some shitt. Well men de marry ashis on steady but at least not intentionally Naaa, see talk oo. That kid talks like someone raised by a single mother and no good father figure Or man around to show n teach him what being aam is all about. A man is supposed to run mostly on logic, critical thinking and more and not on 80% emotions. Baba how levels naa

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 10, 2020
revolt:
these kids.... dont worry. The quickest way to die isnt cyanide. Marry the wrong person you will be speaking to the walls asking how you got into that mess every night till you finally die of heart attack. Guess what? They usually make the best widows loooolll........ie cry the loudest at your funeral and form love for you when they actually poisoned you. I dont even know if there are still marriageable ladies in lagos from what I see online these days..

Learn to express yourself better before replying me. angry angry angry

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by GhostGhost(m): 6:52pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:


Don't be naive. Women are naturally wired to seek out a male that can provide for her and her offsprings.
We as men should Man-up and make it happen.
Feel free to marry all the virgins in the world, save me the "bad girls."
lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
This is what u get when u raise a boy in the midst of so many females he turns out to be a bitchhasss pack of flesh with a cock smiley . Effeminate

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 10, 2020
Shugavee:
yassssssass, u are a king indeed ❤️

Only a queen can spot a king. I see you, queen. cool
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:54pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
This is what u get when u raise a boy in the midst of so many females he turns out to be a bitchhasss pack of flesh with a cock smiley . Effeminate

Cry me a River

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 10, 2020
jeff1607:



What you put up there is a different scenario

When there is no child , it's a different ball game plus women tend to be hostile towards kids that don't belong to them ,just like preferential treatment while a man has a sense of duty to any child under his care

Let me correct you - it's some women and not all women that tend to be hostile towards kids that don't belong to them, ok.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by GhostGhost(m): 7:00pm On Mar 10, 2020
Hisduchess:


God bless you for enlightening that dumbo.most guys who keeps bashing women on NL live a life of double standard and is disgusting.
hahaha what a world, a sperm bank now has access to internet. Listen unfortunate marmosettt with monthly bleeding wound plzzz think for a while before you post. Men and women live and dish out double standards to their advantages which isostly favorable to women. Stop bitchhhing I'm only pitying the poor boy and trying to cast a light for him to see but he's blind for now but I trust time. He's high on telemundo juice but it's sure going to drain off. Good evening to you my African special cretinoussss ogre wink
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Hisduchess(f): 7:03pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
hahaha what a world, a sperm bank now has access to internet. Listen unfortunate marmosettt with monthly bleeding wound plzzz think for a while before you post. Men and women live and dish out double standards to their advantages which isostly favorable to women. Stop bitchhhing I'm only pitying the poor boy and trying to cast a light for him to see but he's blind for now but I trust time. He's high on telemundo juice but it's sure going to drain off. Good evening to you my African special cretinoussss ogre wink

You are a dumb ghost so I have nothing with a dumbass much more a ghost.thank you

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by oglalasioux(m): 7:10pm On Mar 10, 2020
kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

Says who?

An illegitimate child is a child born out of illicit sex between a married person and someone he/she is not married to. Two unmarried people cannot have an illegitimate child. Both English law (which we practice in Nigeria) and Jewish law (which we follow as Christians and Muslims) recognize the legitimacy of children born from rape victims.
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by engrchykae(m): 7:11pm On Mar 10, 2020
kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child
who is the lawyer that tag children illegal or legal
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by GhostGhost(m): 7:13pm On Mar 10, 2020
Xmen149:


what is after marriage she got miscarriage and never conceived again or baby gave up after birth and she never conceive again...

i think the best will be to run test in relation to pregnancy same as men do sperm count test...cos na who God won bless em dey bless
yes life happens but that doesn't mean we should throw logic, common sense, critical thinking and reasoning to the wind. Unforeseen circumstances can blow up in anyone's face, yeah but as a rational being one should plan, research and move with precaution if not they're probably heading for doomsday. Why do we now consider genotype AS SS AA and stuff like that? To minor and avoid future problems, love is the most beautiful and axing thing in the world but one has to be very careful in making certain decision as regards to their partners. Ascertaining a partners former lifestyle is very important because most past comes to hunt folks, it will be fvcked to introduce ur wife to friends only for them to remember how she was that ashawo wey dem fvck tire that year or even ur bro or cousins. She might have messed up her health or ability to get pregnant and tomorrow mofo will be fasting and praying for years just because his wife was reckless with her sexual life years ago. That's why one has to confirm the lady still got a womb and also he's got dope healthy sperm count. When I I to chill at my friend office the number of ladies that comes for abortion!? Goddamn you'd be surprised, what happened to condoms? Contraceptives and not taking chances!? We all ain't perfect but we ought to do our better.

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Usama2000: 7:14pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
yes life happens but that doesn't mean we should throw logic, common sense, critical thinking and reasoning to the wind. Unforeseen circumstances can blow up in anyone's face, yeah but as a rational being one should plan, research and move with precaution if not they're probably heading for doomsday. Why do we now consider genotype AS SS AA and stuff like that? To minor and avoid future problems, love is the most beautiful and axing thing in the world but one has to be very careful in making certain decision as regards to their partners. Ascertaining a partners former lifestyle is very important because most past comes to hunt folks, it will be fvcked to introduce ur wife to friends only for them to remember how she was that ashawo wey dem fvck tire that year or even ur bro or cousins. She might have messed up her health or ability to get pregnant and tomorrow mofo will be fasting and praying for years just because his wife was reckless with her sexual life years ago. That's why one has to confirm the lady still got a womb and also he's got dope healthy sperm count. When I I to chill at my friend office the number of ladies that comes for abortion!? Goddamn you'd be surprised, what happened to condoms? Contraceptives and not taking chances!? We all ain't perfect but we ought to do our better.
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by engrchykae(m): 7:14pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
LOL LOL I laughed so hard and almost choked on my drink, you sound so gullible bro. Na your type them de pray for, love is awesome but love shouldn't be stupidd.
Adopt? its a gamble a very horrible gamble. There's nothing like knowing this is my blood.
seeing your small man or woman grow and remind you of the things you did when you are that age.
It's a priceless situation

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Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Usama2000: 7:14pm On Mar 10, 2020
GhostGhost:
hahaha what a world, a sperm bank now has access to internet. Listen unfortunate marmosettt with monthly bleeding wound plzzz think for a while before you post. Men and women live and dish out double standards to their advantages which isostly favorable to women. Stop bitchhhing I'm only pitying the poor boy and trying to cast a light for him to see but he's blind for now but I trust time. He's high on telemundo juice but it's sure going to drain off. Good evening to you my African special cretinoussss ogre wink
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 10, 2020
kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child
Fabu
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by DAramis: 7:16pm On Mar 10, 2020
mhizv:



There are ways you can know this medically. Go for a thorough check up

Pap smear
Homonal test(progesterone,thyroid)
Hysterosalpingogram(it's an x-ray the fallopian tube and uterus)
Know someone who took his fiance for series of test,B4 they got married. If there's a problem with her you'd definitely know.

Instead of knocking her up. angry

We learn everyday. If there are other test involved that you know of, you can drop it here for him to be aware. It would also go along way to enlighten others (me inclusive)
Re: Marriage: Look At The Smart Strategy Men Now Use To Avoid Mistake (pictures) by Nobody: 7:17pm On Mar 10, 2020
justnock:


You are not enlightened. You want to marry a good girl but you don't mind knacking a lady that you are not married to yet, with reckless abandon. Freaking double standards. Anyways...it's a man's world.
Bride price says hi!!!
It is not double standard..

It is your right!!!

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