Blizzy9ja:
If she actually fought at a party cuz of food I think the guy was embarrassed

I wasn't fighting for the food...the woman was raining insults at me...I can't keep shut in that situation

Sixfeetbelle:


At least you agree it was harsh. Other people commented truths that weren't this crass. He can do better

sometimes people need harsh Truth

OneCorner:
Fvckin glutton

Did u even read and understand before typing
Ode

U ar to blame nor some issues are very avoidable. You were told the food is not for you right? But u gave an excuse to the fact that u had already taken a spoon. That moment a simple sorry and return the food wud have sorted everything." Party and food na wisdom" its embarrassing now sey na food dey cause quarel me i for vex live u shall but not to the extent of break up.

Lostz:
sometimes people need harsh Truth

That is not harsh truth. He was being crass. A sign of indiscipline. He out rightly insulted someone he's never met as if they stole a piece of yam from his barn!

Sixfeetbelle:


If you're frustrated and unhappy with life generally, putting down people and calling them names will not make your life any better.

"For out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh"

I almost laughed lol,
And from the abundance of a gluttons stomach
Their sense runs wild
Go and sleep hungry bitch, hope you still have garri to soak.

[quote author=Lightangel65 post=87442984]

You are a glutton, hungry bitch. And you deserve it, so go cry yourself to death. Piece of shit[/quote

Fvcking idiot,
Did u even understand the topic at all..
Dewe

Sixfeetbelle:


That is not harsh truth. He was being crass. A sign of indiscipline. He out rightly insulted someone he's never met as if they stole a piece of yam from his barn!

He just saw how hungry you looked and judged it so, no hard feelings

raphroye:

You should've let go of the food to avoid embarrassment...ordinary food o

I said I wasn't fighting for the food

Sixfeetbelle:


That is not harsh truth. He was being crass. A sign of indiscipline. He out rightly insulted someone he's never met as if they stole a piece of yam from his barn!

she brought her stuff here

Tife556:


I said I wasn't fighting for the food

You were fighting like you hadn't eaten in days

Lightangel65:


I almost laughed lol,
And from the abundance of a gluttons stomach his actions speak.
Go and sleep hungry bitch, hope you still have garri to soak.

Actually, no I don't. Do you have any to give me, or will you insult me first before giving me?


You don't pass your message across to people by insulting them. Learn that today.

Have a good night.

[quote author=Tife556 post=87449700][/quote]

Yes I saw a hungry begger and I called her one.
Hope that meal wasn't the only one you had this week, since you radiate of hunger

Lostz:
she brought her stuff here

Since what I'll say concerning this issue won't change your thoughts, I won't bother anymore. But I know and believe manners maketh man.

Have a good night.

Sixfeetbelle:


Actually, no I don't. Do you have any to give me, or will you insult me first before giving me?


You don't pass your message across to people by insulting them. Learn that today.

Have a good night.

You too good night, and dream of foodstuffs, cause you know, you will like never get to eat them

funmisticqueen2:
Don't beg him fire. He's immature for not asking for your own story. If he can't accept your appetite, then he doesn't love you

cant you tell her to control her appetite
so if someone has a bad habit, people should accept it because of love, what happens to change??

so if i smoke weed now or drinks a lot you should accept cus of love..... rubbish

Paxie55:

Exactly. I eat alot, even more than the op. And my Boo, is very okay with it.
The guy is probably broke and afraid of future.

just shut up and curtail your eating habit
no one likes a glutton

for the fact that you can even say i eat A LOT means you have an issue

too much of everything is bad not to talk of food.

Lightangel65:


You were fighting like you hadn't eaten in days

U're just looking for a fool like u to argue with...
Ain't one..

Tife556:

U're just looking for a fool like u to argue with...
Ain't one..

But you hungry, you can check the dustbins for reminants, guess that will get you through the night, keep some for family so they don't you know like starve to death and stuff.

Everyone has flaws just admit you and a glutton and a hungry bitch, not that it's uncommon given your gender

lefulefu:
eating too much is not the issue but fighting over food at parties is the coco
only bush girls involve themselves in fighting over jellof rice and chicken legs in parties

Lol. I understand. I was just teasing.

Tife556:


I wasn't fighting for the food...the woman was raining insults at me...I can't keep shut in that situation

You told her you are eating already, you can’t release the food anymore. Is that not where the problem started?

I don’t think your guy is far from the truth. How can he take you to his cousins’ wedding, only to hear that you were fighting with someone? To worsen the situation, the fight was about food. Something you should have easily walked away from. You embarrassed the guy. He is not to blame here.

dominique:
She didn't fight over food, she was fought with over food. Someone handed her food at a party, was she supposed to reject it? Once she had started eating, the organizer working with the caterer should have just let the matter slide. The woman that wanted to collect someone else's half eaten food to serve to someone else is the cause of the problem here. Her mistake was replying in kind, she should have just kept her cool considering she's in the midst of her prospective in-laws. A sincere apology and solemn promise to her boyfriend that she will conduct herself better in public when food is involved should salvage the relationship.

OP, this is all the advice you need.

Tife556:
I was at a party today with my bf ..it was his cousin's wedding... After everything and it was time for food at the reception... My bf was greeting some guests and the caterer sharing the food brought me rice...I just took a spoon and behold I saw a woman behind the caterer saying the food isn't for me.. I told her am eating already I can't release the food anymore... Then she began shouting at the caterer before I knew it..people were gathering and I politely told her to leave the caterer alone since she made a mistake but she faced me instead....I was furious and we rained insult on each other..my bf had to drag me away from there...
He took me outside and said all sorts of things to me , even called me a glutton without knowing what really happened...And he said he was tired of my eating attitude and needed a break ..The painful part was when he said all the food I eat goes to waste without it showing in me..I was really hurt and I left there angrily...but I was really ashamed because his mum was there....
I admit I eat a lot but I just can't control my urge for food...
I don't know if I should be angry or apologize to my bf ...
Someone pls help me

We have a shortage of clinical psychologists in Nigeria. Please watch "Surprise Me", a movie, a lady dealt with compulsive overeating in it, her therapist said some interesting words. Good luck

Liar, liar, pants on fire.

Paxie55:

Exactly. I eat alot, even more than the op. And my Boo, is very okay with it.
The guy is probably broke and afraid of future.

Ode!! You fight a lot at parties too

He's not supposed to break up with you just like that, but you should have known that you came there with a man and quarrelling because of food is so embarrassing. His friends or family members may use this to muck him sometimes. Give him some time and try apologising to him. You can send him text messages to explain what truly happened and that you're sorry for embarrassing him like that. Tell him you love him so much and that it won't ever happen again. Maybe he might loosen up but you are supposed to just drop the food, no matter how hungry you were.

Tife556:


I wasn't fighting for the food...the woman was raining insults at me...I can't keep shut in that situation

You can actually keep shut. It doesn't take anything from you or reduce you to anything lower. None of the insults will inflict injuries in your skin. People who are there may even be your voice and speak for the quiet girl who is too decent to wash her dirty underwear outside. Now, see what your not keeping shut has caused.
Is it worth it?

Paxie55:

Lol. I understand. I was just teasing.

over here though if u go to celebrations they do serve urself here as in buffet.food is nothing over here.u will eat and u will be belleful but if u eating without control ppl will be looking at u .

Georgekyrian:


Ode!! You fight a lot at parties too

I'm a born fighter. Ode.

Kylekent59:
He took you to a party and you were eating without brains.

His friends must had told him you are a gourmand on their first sight on you before the public embarrassment.

I hate girls who eat too much.

They are always lazy.

The takers who don't give anything in return. Nah Dem.

Some girls can Cry for food.

This wan Fight for food.

You heard it clearly, "This Food is not meant for you ".

But the demon of food in you does not take NO for an answer.

I'm sure you didn't finish half of that food. Ode!

What a boyfriend lol