Greetings...

I can't help but notice the way guys and ladies bash each other here. On several occasions, when a lady open a thread seeking and advise based on her current situation or maybe based on the mistake she made in life/relationship/marriage. More than 70% of the guys that will respond here will bash her personality instead of offering meaningful advice. It seems like guys here don't want ladies to have their freedom always bashing them and calling them names.
There was a thread last week about a lady trying to move out of her parents house to leave alone. It surprised me how most of the guys started calling the lady potential olosho, that she is seeking for freedom to be messing around. I mean how low could some guys think.
On another thread, a lady complained of how she got pregnant and dropped out of sch, next thing, guys started abusing her that she is a loose lady. How will the abuse solve the problem she is in already. Don't get me wrong, it's not like am supporting them in what they did, but there are ways of advising and correcting someone of their mistakes.

Can't we just offer meaningful advise without attacking someone personality.

The ladies too does same, but they do it out of reaction to the bashing they get from the guys. And because the guys are more in number on this forum, the ladies voice gets muzzled out.

Let us be more matured in our dealings here cos our response to issues like this could actually push someone into depression.

Ok

Bashersland forum

It's actually a war between fvck Bois/yahoo boys and oloshos.

Just note that it will never change it all started when kids invaded nairaland because they now have access to internet and phones. Gone are the days when nairaland use to be
A very matured forum even some of the matured people are mentally weak. They cannot set a good example for the younger once to follow .

Rich4god:
Greetings...

I can't help but notice the way guys and ladies bash each other here. On several occasions, when a lady open a thread seeking and advise based on her current situation or maybe based on the mistake she made in life/relationship/marriage. More than 70% of the guys that will respond here will bash her personality instead of offering meaningful advice. It seems like guys here don't want ladies to have their freedom always bashing them and calling them names.
There was a thread last week about a lady trying to move out of her parents house to leave alone. It surprised me how most of the guys started calling the lady potential olosho, that she is seeking for freedom to be messing around. I mean how low could some guys think.
On another thread, a lady complained of how she got pregnant and dropped out of sch, next thing, guys started abusing her that she is a loose lady. How will the abuse solve the problem she is in already. Don't get me wrong, it's not like am supporting them in what they did, but there are ways of advising and correcting someone of their mistakes.

Can't we just offer meaningful advise without attacking someone personality.

The ladies too does same, but they do it out of reaction to the bashing they get from the guys. And because the guys are more in number on this forum, the ladies voice gets muzzled out.

Let us be more matured in our dealings here cos our response to issues like this could actually push someone into depression.

See many of the guys here are frustrated and Broke and they've had ladies insult or dump them cos of their dry pockets.. So you'd expect them to release their bitterness and frustration here.

Nairaland is like fuji house of commotion.

Check other social media sites like Twitter and instagram, the same people have sense over there but are extremely stupid on here.

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Rich4god:
Greetings...

I can't help but notice the way guys and ladies bash each other here. On several occasions, when a lady open a thread seeking and advise based on her current situation or maybe based on the mistake she made in life/relationship/marriage. More than 70% of the guys that will respond here will bash her personality instead of offering meaningful advice. It seems like guys here don't want ladies to have their freedom always bashing them and calling them names.
There was a thread last week about a lady trying to move out of her parents house to leave alone. It surprised me how most of the guys started calling the lady potential olosho, that she is seeking for freedom to be messing around. I mean how low could some guys think.
On another thread, a lady complained of how she got pregnant and dropped out of sch, next thing, guys started abusing her that she is a loose lady. How will the abuse solve the problem she is in already. Don't get me wrong, it's not like am supporting them in what they did, but there are ways of advising and correcting someone of their mistakes.

Can't we just offer meaningful advise without attacking someone personality.

The ladies too does same, but they do it out of reaction to the bashing they get from the guys. And because the guys are more in number on this forum, the ladies voice gets muzzled out.

Let us be more matured in our dealings here cos our response to issues like this could actually push someone into depression.

A SIMP CAN NEVER DISAPPOINT.SO YOUR EYES ONLY SEE THE BASHING DONE BY GUYS BUT GOES BLIND WHEN THE LADIES BASH guys. SIMPS Are Fools.SMH.CORONAVIRUS IS MORE SENSIBLE THAN SIMPS LIKE YOU. ATLEAST,ITS AFFECTING BOTH genders.

Idontgiveafuck2:
A SIMP CAN NEVER DISAPPOINT.SO YOUR EYES ONLY SEE THE BASHING DONE BY GUYS BUT GOES BLIND WHEN THE LADIES BASH guys. SIMPS Are Fools.SMH.CORONAVIRUS IS MORE SENSIBLE THAN SIMPS LIKE YOU. ATLEAST,ITS AFFECTING BOTH genders.

lol... Am pretty sure you didn't read my post. Secondly, I didn't see how sensible you sounded in your reply by calling someone names. It's wise to get some sense before you open your mouth.

Rich4god:
lol... Am pretty sure you didn't read my post. Secondly, I didn't see how sensible you sounded in your reply by calling someone names. It's wise to get some sense before you open your mouth.

YOUR POST IS AS SENSILESS AS YOU. Bleep OFF.NEXT TIME BE OBJECTIVE.

manGODDED:
Bashersland forum

Aka RomanceLand

Where anything and everything u say can and will be used against you

Meeyankee:
Just note that it will never change it all started when kids invaded nairaland because they now have access to internet and phones. Gone are the days when nairaland use to be
A very matured forum even some of the matured people are mentally weak. They cannot set a good example for the younger once to follow .

It's really obvious this place have turned to kids playing ground. The one that piss me off the most is those ones that involve in tribal comments. The afonja and iPod groups. They see it as fun, not knowing the damage they are causing by throwing tribal comments against one another.

Idontgiveafuck2:
A SIMP CAN NEVER DISAPPOINT.SO YOUR EYES ONLY SEE THE BASHING DONE BY GUYS BUT GOES BLIND WHEN THE LADIES BASH guys. SIMPS Are Fools.SMH.CORONAVIRUS IS MORE SENSIBLE THAN SIMPS LIKE YOU. ATLEAST,ITS AFFECTING BOTH genders.

I expected you to read in between the lines and fathom what OP is trying to say but the frustration in you won't let that happen.
SMH

SweetCunt97:
See many of the guys here are frustrated and Broke and they've had ladies insult or dump them cos of their dry pockets.. So you'd expect them to release their bitterness and frustration here.

dry pocket? chai enough reason why wen dat pocket gets wet he wud continue to enjoy oda ladies upon havin a gurlfriend he cant have money and settle for less.. lie lie

Simp Nigga

Rich4god:
It's really obvious this place have turned to kids playing ground. The one that piss me off the most is those ones that involve in tribal comments. The afonja and iPod groups. They see it as fun, not knowing the damage they are causing by throwing tribal comments against one another.

This is the society they are creating today is going to purge all of us when one tribe will no longer see anything good in other tribe. Nairaland these days no communication,no proper discussion. Just full of religions war, tribal and gender war.
They don’t even know what they are doing tribal war is the ugliest war a country can ever found it self.

Miniso:
dry pocket? chai enough reason why wen dat pocket gets wet he wud continue to enjoy oda ladies upon havin a gurlfriend he cant have money and settle for less.. lie lie

Their problem sir

StrikeThru:

I expected you to read in between the lines and fathom what OP is trying to say but the frustration in you won't let that happen.
SMH

ONLY BITTER PEOPLE LIKE YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS LIKE THE OP TO PLEAD THEIR COURSE.Bleep OFF WOMAN.

Welcome to d home of salvage reply
Junior brother to Twitter

Hmm

Meeyankee:

This is the society they are creating today is going to purge all of us when one tribe will no longer see anything good in other tribe. Nairaland these days no communication,no proper discussion. Just full of religions war, tribal and gender war.
They don’t even know what they are doing tribal war is the ugliest war a country can ever found it self.

I tell you my brother, there is no proper discussion any more, just pure hatred, jealousy and mouthful of insults. Look at the thread about northern Nigeria development on the front page. Instead of one to see comments applauding the growth achieved so far by the north, everyone is busy throwing insult, calling them almajiri and parasite. But the question is, are they not giving southern governors allocation too. Look at bayelsa, despite its small size and huge allocation, the state is nothing to write home about. And yet these guys can't challenge their govs, just looking for who to blame and insult.

Idontgiveafuck2:
ONLY BITTER PEOPLE LIKE YOU WAIT FOR OTHERS LIKE THE OP TO PLEAD THEIR COURSE.Bleep OFF WOMAN.

Hmm...

You need a doctor

StrikeThru:

Hmm...

You need a doctor

SMH

Phenomenal16:
Welcome to d home of salvage reply
Junior brother to Twitter

Lols, are you on twitter?

If a lady comment here,whether she is right or wrong,she should just be prepared for hateful comment/replies.As for me I just report such comments.

Rich4god:
I tell you my brother, there is no proper discussion any more, just pure hatred, jealousy and mouthful of insults. Look at the thread about northern Nigeria development on the front page. Instead of one to see comments applauding the growth achieved so far by the north, everyone is busy throwing insult, calling them almajiri and parasite. But the question is, are they not giving southern governors allocation too. Look at bayelsa, despite its small size and huge allocation, the state is nothing to write home about. And yet these guys can't challenge their govs, just looking for who to blame and insult.

After reading some comments on the northern topic you are talking About I had to close the tape,After now so many of here will come and tell that they are educated without knowing the meaning of education.we spent so much time doing nothing instead of to fight the government so that our unborn kids will not see us as weak,people we are busy fighting each other on the internet.but in real life whenever we see the people that put this country into this mess we hail them.
Bayelsa is a good example, I am from south south the truth need to be said.
The ibo and Yoruba thinks they are the only tribe on nairaland buy calling each other names . But in real life the two tribes keep getting married to each other.”, keep doing business together. Nairaland mediators are the worse they only know their work when you mention them. They need to do more to keep this place Clean. Well I don’t have to talk much because I don’t know the agreement between the owner of the site and the mediators. They cannot do more than they were asked to do.

EliteDude:



Lols, are you on twitter?

..nop

Rich4god:
I tell you my brother, there is no proper discussion any more, just pure hatred, jealousy and mouthful of insults. Look at the thread about northern Nigeria development on the front page. Instead of one to see comments applauding the growth achieved so far by the north, everyone is busy throwing insult, calling them almajiri and parasite. But the question is, are they not giving southern governors allocation too. Look at bayelsa, despite its small size and huge allocation, the state is nothing to write home about. And yet these guys can't challenge their govs, just looking for who to blame and insult.

You are perpetrating the exact same thing with this caustic post, so shut up!

Rich4god:
I tell you my brother, there is no proper discussion any more, just pure hatred, jealousy and mouthful of insults. Look at the thread about northern Nigeria development on the front page. Instead of one to see comments applauding the growth achieved so far by the north, everyone is busy throwing insult, calling them almajiri and parasite. But the question is, are they not giving southern governors allocation too. Look at bayelsa, despite its small size and huge allocation, the state is nothing to write home about. And yet these guys can't challenge their govs, just looking for who to blame and insult.

tribalist

Rich4god:
Greetings...

I can't help but notice the way guys and ladies bash each other here. On several occasions, when a lady open a thread seeking and advise based on her current situation or maybe based on the mistake she made in life/relationship/marriage. More than 70% of the guys that will respond here will bash her personality instead of offering meaningful advice. It seems like guys here don't want ladies to have their freedom always bashing them and calling them names.
There was a thread last week about a lady trying to move out of her parents house to leave alone. It surprised me how most of the guys started calling the lady potential olosho, that she is seeking for freedom to be messing around. I mean how low could some guys think.
On another thread, a lady complained of how she got pregnant and dropped out of sch, next thing, guys started abusing her that she is a loose lady. How will the abuse solve the problem she is in already. Don't get me wrong, it's not like am supporting them in what they did, but there are ways of advising and correcting someone of their mistakes.

Can't we just offer meaningful advise without attacking someone personality.

The ladies too does same, but they do it out of reaction to the bashing they get from the guys. And because the guys are more in number on this forum, the ladies voice gets muzzled out.

Let us be more matured in our dealings here cos our response to issues like this could actually push someone into depression.

WOW! IT IS AMAZING THAT YOUR TOPIC IS GUYS VS GIRLS, YET YOUR EXAMPLES ARE ONE SIDED....ONE WOULD THINK THAT YA A GIRL BUT YA NOT.

YOU SOUND LIKE A SIMP SHA.... NO HARD FEELINGS

Gandollaar:
You are perpetrating the exact same thing with this caustic post, so shut up!

How.... I want to learn from you.