Pardon my English and long easy as am a confused brother.

My girl was complaining of headache and after treating malaria and typhoid it persisted so on her own she did PT test and called yesterday that she think she's pregnant n I ask she go to a clinic and do a confirmatory test which she did and it came out positive.

Our Background
I am 30 and she is 27. We have been dating for four years now. She combines her education with a job that earns her 85k. She is currently in her first semester HND two.
I am running my masters and hustles where I earn about 120k per month.
Am the only child of my parent where as she is the first child of her parent with 2 other sibling.
Am from the middle belt while she is from the east. We live in the far north where the cost of living is a little lower compared to other region.

The problem
I we spoke at length today and she feels she can't keep the pregnancy.
She among some of her reasons are
Her education as she would be rounding up this year.
Her parent would be disappointed and she wouldn't want them to be disappointed.
She said is not sure she can face the shame that would come with the pregnancy.


I sincerely want her to keep the pregnancy as age is not really on our side and we would be taking a life We can't create. But I also understand I can't force her.
May I mention that her parent insisted she finished education before giving her hand out in marriage so the long dating period.

Am sincerely worried and scared for her. As she is seriously considering terminating the pregnancy and I want otherwise but she thinks am just been selfish as am not putting her into consideration.

Sincerely I don't see how am been selfish. We agreed we would be meeting Tomorrow to talk about it.

Please your advice would be well appreciated as I would be happy if she can keep it or at least point out reason why I should support her in terminating the pregnancy.
Thanks in advance

is well bro

you should have consider this B4 doing skin to skin...

When you were inserting your small prick in her wide Toto it didn't occur to you to inform us, now that your small prick has proven it's worth you want an advice from UnaToto.




My advice is,do everything possible to keep the child because he might be the next Ronaldo who will help Nigeria win the world cup.



UnaToto

When you were thrusting in and out, did you call us

Whoever is carrying the pregnancy has the final say. That’s how the world views it these days. If you don’t support abortion, don’t pay for it.

tell her parent the truth they will be forced to give her hand in marriage to you

When you were thrusting in and out, did you call us ..

JAOS:
tell her parent the truth they will be forced to give her hand in marriage to you

Thank you.

I will never marry someone that did abortion for me. Believe it or not if she terminate that pregnancy it will hunt both of you in the future.. forget religion.
Killing is a sin even in the eyes of nature and the wages ain't funny bro

This is really pathetic....

I quite understand your plight, a very good friend of mine was once in your shoes. He got a girl pregnant while we were still in school and he wondered how his elder brother who has laboured and even refused getting married in an attempt to see him through school was gonna feel.

He contemplated abortion but I told him that I can never be a part of such. After much dissuations from me he had a rethink, the girl in question felt embarrassed and didn't even open up to her own parents.

They spent all their semester breaks in school until she gave birth.

No sooner had she given birth than they opened up to their respective parents. Emotions were high up the day the girl's parents visited them in school because tears of joy flowed ceaselessly for hours.


Don't ever contemplate an abortion, complications might arise, in your attempt to solve a problem you might just end up creating an unsolvable problem...Death.

Lie low for now, see her parents later, the deed has been done.

Tell her that I said she shouldn't terminate the pregnancy

If she don't

Two years from now she will be celebrating he never terminated the baby


I won't say a word

igboticboy:
This is really pathetic....

I quite understand your plight, a very good friend of mine was once in your shoes. she got a girl pregnant while we were still in school and he wondered how his elder brother who has laboured and even refused getting married in an attempt to see him through school was gonna feel.

He contemplated abortion but I told him that I can never be a part of such. After much dissuations from me he had a rethink, the girl in question felt embarrassed and didn't even open up to her own parents.

They spent all their semester breaks in school until she gave birth.

No sooner had she given birth than they opened up to their respective parents. Emotions were high up the day the girl's parents visited them in school because tears of joy flowed ceaselessly for hours.


Don't ever contemplate an abortion, complications might arise, in your attempt to solve a problem you might just end up creating an unsolvable problem...Death.

Lie low for now, see her parents later, the deed has been done.

Thanks so much

cRobo:
Tell her that I said she shouldn't terminate the pregnancy

If she don't

Two years from now she will be celebrating he never terminated the baby


I won't say a word

I would tell her what you said...

prazil:


Thanks so much

You are highly welcome.

Tell her if she terminates it, your hand is not there. In times like this, what the woman really needs is support.
If you want her to keep it, it's best you go with her to see her parents now. That will encourage her that she's not alone.

Froshloaded:
When you were thrusting in and out, did you call us

No they didn't, op please let your parents know what is going on with both of you, they can break the news to her parents. Be by her side please, I'll never support abortion

prazil:
Pardon my English and long easy as am a confused brother.

My girl was complaining of headache and after treating malaria and typhoid it persisted so on her own she did PT test and called yesterday that she think she's pregnant n I ask she go to a clinic and do a confirmatory test which she did and it came out positive.

Our Background
I am 30 and she is 27. We have been dating for four years now. She combines her education with a job that earns her 85k. She is currently in her first semester HND two.
I am running my masters and hustles where I earn about 120k per month.
Am the only child of my parent where as she is the first child of her parent with 2 other sibling.
Am from the middle belt while she is from the east. We live in the far north where the cost of living is a little lower compared to other region.

The problem
I we spoke at length today and she feels she can't keep the pregnancy.
She among some of her reasons are
Her education as she would be rounding up this year.
Her parent would be disappointed and she wouldn't want them to be disappointed.
She said is not sure she can face the shame that would come with the pregnancy.


I sincerely want her to keep the pregnancy as age is not really on our side and we would be taking a life We can't create. But I also understand I can't force her.
May I mention that her parent insisted she finished education before giving her hand out in marriage so the long dating period.

Am sincerely worried and scared for her. As she is seriously considering terminating the pregnancy and I want otherwise but she thinks am just been selfish as am not putting her into consideration.

Sincerely I don't see how am been selfish. We agreed we would be meeting Tomorrow to talk about it.

Please your advice would be well appreciated as I would be happy if she can keep it or at least point out reason why I should support her in terminating the pregnancy.
Thanks in advance

She is a gold digger & a theif sir. Is her name Lamanii22?. She ask me for money

Boxer007:


She is a gold digger & a theif sir. Is her name Lamanii22?. She ask me for money

She is not lamanii22! An she is neither a thief nor a gold digger. Thank you

prazil:

She is not lamanii22! An she is neither a thief nor a gold digger. Thank you

My brother . All women are useless n we don't need them. Please can i turn u gay sir? U will love it because u hamdsome

ValCon888:
Tell her if she terminates it, your hand is not there. In times like this, what the woman really needs is support.
If you want her to keep it, it's best you go with her to see her parents now. That will encourage her that she's not alone.

I did support her all the way. I would go with her. Thank you

.

prazil:

She is not lamanii22! An she is neither a thief nor a gold digger. Thank you

Awwwwwwn.... This really melted my heart....


Thank you so much prazil! I really appreciate you Hun..

prazil:

She is not lamanii22! An she is neither a thief nor a gold digger. Thank you

My brother. All women is useless & they all look like gold digger Victorian. We don't need them sir. Can I teach u how to be gay so u can be happier sir? Victorian is useless too

Boxer007:


She is a gold digger & a theif sir. Is her name Lamanii22?. She ask me for money

Omg! You effing gay!!!! Sadly you lots can never be accepted in our country... You're the most terrible gay of all...

Lamanii22:



Omg! You effing gay!!!! Sadly you lots can never be accepted in our country... You're the most terrible gay of all...

Go away I beg. You are a gold digger n a theif stealing man. Go away no man want u. U gold digger. Stick wit your kind n let us men stick together. Wot do u have that I don't have. U are a ole. Go away u husband snacha

Lamanii22:



Omg! You effing gay!!!! Sadly you lots can never be accepted in our country... You're the most terrible gay of all...

Please please please I beg u. Let me sleep wit u so I can stop to be gay. Ok, how much do u really want sir?

Boxer007:



Please please please I beg u. Let me sleep wit u so I can stop to be gay. Ok, how much do u really want sir?

Lol... You can't stop being gay... Just accept who you are in your sad life!....

Boxer007:



Please please please I beg u. Let me sleep wit u so I can stop to be gay. Ok, how much do u really want sir?

One million naira or nothing...

I wanted to let you know that condom is cheap but it is too late.


my advice is that whatever happen don't be part of any decision to take a life.
if she stubbornly proceed with the abortion, don't continue with the relationship.

Lamanii22:



Lol... You can't stop being gay... Just accept who you are in your sad life!....

So what? But why can't I taste u? Ain't females suppose to like moiney? How much cash will u charge? I will save.
How much?

Lamanii22:



One million naira or nothing...

Ole ole ole. U are a ole N I don't like u. You the main reason why handsome guys like me are gay. All women are disgusting creatures. We need gay right movement to ban all females from forums so all men can chat nicely without being intarupted by u female gold diggers . Preaxh