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Akinbahm:
I am a type of man who doesn't give a Bleep, a Man who doesn't ass lick and dictate the affairs of the marriage (Man up)...

The problem facing marriage nowadays is each party failed woefully at his primary role which you aren't excluded by doing the duty of the other party...

Your job/duty in that marriage is to cater for the well being of your wife and kids Financially [70:30 u take the larger ratio for u to av more control of ur marriage and the 30% allocated to her is for her to appreciate & respect you more and made her financially wise (not being an extravagance)], Morally, Spiritually etc and be able to Protect them from external force which include their security, ability to Man up when the needs arise not being a sissy u turned to which u claimed caring...

Your wife should not compete with you with ur responsibilities Financially and others I listed up there and don't compete with her with her responsibilities cooking and others.. I didnt say u should turn her to slave in fact if you maintain your role perfectly she wouldn't be travelling unnecessarily and house chores would be easier for her.. we now av washing machine, microwave water heater and many more that will make the hefty job looks easier to her.

In summary maintain your duty and she should maintain hers don't overlap all in the name of being caring...

solex2346:
At all,she always comes up with an excuse that she's not feeling fine,she want her to stay with her parents so that they can monitor her health pending the time she comes back

solex2346:
Not really! Honestly,i don't even have it in mind

solex2346:
MONEY does not make a happy home,can you put here a photocopy of job description of a house wife or that of the husband given by either pastor or at the registry? have you ever heard or seeing your child refusing his or her mum to bath them while they request for their father to bath them. That is what we call love for the children,familiarity and relivancy in the family. the root cause of early divorce in our community is lack of endurace and tolerance. try to learn while elders are speaking. good day

solex2346:
Think about it,you wife should be your best friend and not your slave,someone you can share your worst secret with,your gossip partner,your mother,your sister. Don't be a father that children won't be able to approach,don't be a lion at home and a dove out there.

Sexyliciousbri:
She is trying to avoid stories that touch the heart and soul.