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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Omar09(m): 3:15am On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " wink.....my status says it all

That woman is his mother. Unless late. Then mother figure.

Well simps will like what you typed there.

And of course your siggy, people might be turning to take a better look at you wondering why such a lady is walking about with vegetable in her teeth... Don't be so sure dear.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by MadeINchenzen2: 4:50am On Mar 23, 2020
Jeboy:
The fact the op sees a lady as a mere pussy really shows either the value he places on women or the kind of women he frolicks with.
As an ambitious man that wants more than just breast and buttocks as wife. I need a woman with emotional intelligence, spiritual gifting, a woman that can support my dream etc and I found one. Why wont I do all that is necessary to get her..I dont mean rubbishing my self esteem. Except I just want her for sex alone and not all of us here are fuckboys.
Story !!!

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by rex444(m): 5:01am On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.
hahahahahaha your profile tells about your persona.... anyway I had the courtesy of gracing thru your profile and had wanted to respect myself not to write but then wrist watches .... actually got me although I do Casio and Blacks maybe I could see some samples but not that buying yet oooo
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by shortgun(m): 5:59am On Mar 23, 2020
ichidodo:
Whatever you do guys never ever ask a lady out..It puts ladies on a spot(ladies are the the most indecisive creatures and wouldn't like you putting the pressure on them), it shows you are clingy... desperate and feminine. Ladies hate that...You can pick up a lady but never ask her out.When you feel comfortable with yourself all you have to do is to flow with the ladies...ensure good rapport plus "game" before long... You're swimming in pussies. And never discriminate pussies, one pussie is the same as another.. There is no special pussie or "my dream pussie" all pussies are the same..
I don't agree that all Pussies are the same.
As someone who sampled many Pussies grin; I put it to you that Pussies are different.
The all pussy are the same statement is a scam by females to tie u down to one pussy.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by nwachukwu9(m): 6:30am On Mar 23, 2020
Nothing is wrong in chasing twice and at the same time nothing is wrong in respecting her decision and move on with your life. All ladies are not the same, some may tell you No at the beginning but when the see your genuine willingness to love them,the would accept you with a yes and reciprocate the love. while on the other hand some ladies would never accept you, no matter the genuine willingness you display, I once asked a lady out the first time she said No and I asked her second time she still didn't accept. This lady rubbished my name in the compound, she was telling everyone that she doesn't love me and can never date me. I later found out that she was dating a road side Mechanic.in essence love should be the bedrock of a successful relationship,where there is no love there can never be a genuine relationship, don't start giving her money to buy love as she would only take advantage of you. In general you can ask twice but always observe her mood when you ask it tells a lot. Never ask 3 times

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by ndcide(m): 7:02am On Mar 23, 2020
Jeboy:
The fact the op sees a lady as a mere pussy really shows either the value he places on women or the kind of women he frolicks with.
As an ambitious man that wants more than just breast and buttocks as wife. I need a woman with emotional intelligence, spiritual gifting, a woman that can support my dream etc and I found one. Why wont I do all that is necessary to get her..I dont mean rubbishing my self esteem. Except I just want her for sex alone and not all of us here are fuckboys.

You may soon need more than her... Time will tell.
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by ndcide(m): 7:06am On Mar 23, 2020
shortgun:

I don't agree that all Pussies are the same.
As someone who sampled many Pussies grin; I put it to you that Pussies are different.
The all pussy are the same statement is a scam by females to tie u down to one pussy.



Please explain further
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Sotland: 7:10am On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

You've just proved his topic right.. Given a reason why he shouldn't ask you out for the second time because it could be a pesistance NO and a waste of TIME. So, if you could proof hin right with the above,why your first comment??
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by missimelda01(f): 7:45am On Mar 23, 2020
Sotland:


You've just proved his topic right.. Given a reason why he shouldn't ask you out for the second time because it could be a pesistance NO and a waste of TIME. So, if you could proof hin right with the above,why your first comment??
If there's any chance of me saying yes, I wouldn't say a plain NO.. it's okay to get confused about what you want for a while, that doesn't mean the guy's feelings should be toiled with, asking for some time would be better than saying a NO. I wouldn't advice my brother to ask a lady out for the second time after she said NO the first time.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Mraphel: 7:50am On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " wink.....my status says it all
A woman you will chase more than one must have giving you clue that she's interested.
On phone, she might have called to say HI
Not the FORMING type

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by missimelda01(f): 7:51am On Mar 23, 2020
rex444:
hahahahahaha your profile tells about your persona.... anyway I had the courtesy of gracing thru your profile and had wanted to respect myself not to write but then wrist watches .... actually got me although I do Casio and Blacks maybe I could see some samples but not that buying yet oooo

I love Casio, and they are very much available. Please send me a message on whatsapp (check my siggy).
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by missimelda01(f): 7:53am On Mar 23, 2020
AfroKnight:


It’s always good to state it in unambiguous terms.

No. Yes. I need a few days to think about it (and then you take a few days, not 5 weeks of silence).


Far too many naija ladies entertain this sick notion that a guy must work hard to get a yes from them. WTF! That stinks like narcissism. If you say yes only after 2 days or you say it after 2 years, it doesn’t automatically improve his impression of you. Actually, the longer it takes, the more your “yes” develops a sour after taste.

Leave intrigue for your romance novels. In the real world, time is money. We shouldn’t waste it.
I agree with you completely.
It gets boring when two matured people keep going back and forth.
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by missimelda01(f): 7:55am On Mar 23, 2020
Dybala11:

You're very correct jor, unfortunately some guys don't take NO for an answer. No is no, it can never equate to yes in a millennium.
Those ones are not okay, if they can't take NO... They are many other words that can be used to pass the same message grin
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Sotland: 7:56am On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:

If there's any chance of me saying yes, I wouldn't say a plain NO.. it's okay to get confused about what you want for a while, that doesn't mean the guy's feelings should be toiled with, asking for some time would be better than saying a NO. I wouldn't advice my brother to ask a lady out for the second time after she said NO the first time.


Well said.. At least there should be a blink of light in a lady reaction rather than an outright NO..affection should be given freely.. Most one that comes in a strenous way don't even last..

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by EzzyCarter: 7:59am On Mar 23, 2020
justnock:

Funny enough, I have never asked a lady out before. I have been with 9 ladies but I don't know how to really ask a lady out.
My style is different. I'll never let you friend zone me but I won't be your boyfriend, too. We will just happen, naturally.

Now that's a sharp guy! cheesy
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by 2sexycom(m): 8:16am On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " wink.....my status says it all
CRAP talk. A lady who wants you will agree to date you once you ask, no time wasting.
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Guynexttdoor: 8:44am On Mar 23, 2020
Wait in this corona period u dey ask girl out...my friend use petroleum jelly till further notice.
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Sierusvirus(m): 9:00am On Mar 23, 2020
The moment you start asking a girl out, it’s the beginning of degrading yourself as a guy.

A guy should be the one to say NO to girls and not the reverse.

Are you asking out a girl that wants you more than you do to her?
Are you asking out a girl that has nothing to add to your life?

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by EmyLeo(m): 9:19am On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:

If there's any chance of me saying yes, I wouldn't say a plain NO.. it's okay to get confused about what you want for a while, that doesn't mean the guy's feelings should be toiled with, asking for some time would be better than saying a NO. I wouldn't advice my brother to ask a lady out for the second time after she said NO the first time.

You guys (with the OP) are saying the same the thing from this write up.

And hope you know you can ask for more time and still end up saying NO
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by luvyaself95(m): 9:53am On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " wink.....my status says it all

Miss mumu what real deal about you
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by otes35: 10:36am On Mar 23, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
Any lady that attempts to form hard to get will be wasting precious time, cos I dont have time to spare, not even a nano seconds
you might not have time buh trust me someone else does smiley
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by luvyaself95(m): 10:43am On Mar 23, 2020
NextD18:
If you want something, you'll really chase it more than once.


You need to read slowly to understand me because we are almost saying the same thing.

We have our different priorities and what we want to chase. It could be money, pussay, peace, happiness, respect and other things.

If you really want any of them and want to chase it, chase it more than once, don't relax because your first chase didn't work out. That's my point.

Talking about women don't chase them more than once have been there before i relate.
First lesson there are these two girls I ask them out both rejected me and say we can be friends.
Second lesson A girl in my area have been giving me greenlight, i decided to approach her, but she ghost me trying hard to get that moment i delete her chapter in my life now her greenlight is brighter than bulb but who cares i like my ego alot because it favour me, but for money and other things my ego can bow and tolerate
Third lesson Well out of my 3 exes 2 ask me out while the other one have been giving me greenlight before ask her out once and she accepted.

Buttom line

Nobody can't deal with try hard to get girls as for me am far out of that nonsense league.
later these girls regret being hard to get i use to hear them saying it.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Millenniumlady(f): 10:49am On Mar 23, 2020
2sexycom:
CRAP talk. A lady who wants you will agree to date you once you ask, no time wasting.
If i want someone he'll have to ask me out six times before I'll give in
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by 2sexycom(m): 11:18am On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
If i want someone he'll have to ask me out six times before I'll give in
no wise man will waste his time chasing a kid.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by rex444(m): 12:17pm On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:


I love Casio, and they are very much available. Please send me a message on whatsapp (check my siggy).
sent U a Whatsapp
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Came4amod: 12:17pm On Mar 23, 2020
NextD18:
If you want something, you'll really chase it more than once.


You need to read slowly to understand me because we are almost saying the same thing.

We have our different priorities and what we want to chase. It could be money, pussay, peace, happiness, respect and other things.

If you really want any of them and want to chase it, chase it more than once, don't relax because your first chase didn't work out. That's my point.

The guy no dey hear English
Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by ichidodo: 12:45pm On Mar 23, 2020
shortgun:

I don't agree that all Pussies are the same.
As someone who sampled many Pussies grin; I put it to you that Pussies are different.
The all pussy are the same statement is a scam by females to tie u down to one pussy.


When you say some pussies are better than others then you have created for yourself a mindset of scarcity thus therefore you set out to screw the "ultimate pussie", the "holy Grail" of pussie...you lose yourself in the process... you become desperate..clingy..simpish.. Obsessed... just to be on the good side of that pussie you thought was milk and honey. We have screwed pussies..the good..the bad..the ugly...And we will tell you that those pussies you thought was good was actually the mood their owners were in that made it possible...For example if you were having transactional sex,there is a good chance that pussie would be nothing to write home about....but if that same pussie was from someone looking for validation? OMG the sex would be heavenly...So check yourself before you hurt yourself.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Toseenlove: 12:56pm On Mar 23, 2020
missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

Nice.....I like your comment. Simple as Abc.....

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Toseenlove: 12:58pm On Mar 23, 2020
2sexycom:
No wise man will waste his time chasing a kid.

Lol you mean a kid like Petythiefprincess begi begi......That small girl na International Audio Begger....

Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Toseenlove: 1:07pm On Mar 23, 2020
Millenniumlady:
If i want someone he'll have to ask me out six times before I'll give in

I've never asked a lady out twice. Highest Is she won't accept my proposal Immediately. Before I even approach sef, She would have signaled me with all kind of lights lol. The next thing will be "I will think about It" You know the rest. Mind you I'm talking about matured cute ladies.

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Re: Never Ask A Lady Out Twice ! by Toseenlove: 1:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
proclinician:
Some ladies said no in 2018 when i was serious and said yes in 2020 when i wanted just a one off. They saw level has changed. Their loss

That's ladies for you.....Sometimes I normally pity them because time Is not always on their side, Reason why they love to explore a lot.....

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