otes35:
you might not have time buh trust me someone else does

Shifi1:
chase money ,, forget pussy
when the money show ,pussy go yakpa
na pussy go dey chase u.

iLegendd:


Don't chase money, don't chase p*ssy. Some years ago, when I bought my first guitar, I wrote something on it and it's, "I'm not chaser, but a chooser."

I would've loved to explain why I don't want smart people to chase things, but position themselves where those things will chase them and they'll choose.

Jeboy:
So other peoples family dont mean anything to you except your family...too many teens talking about relationship.

missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

badmus306:

Nice picture there

missimelda01:

Those ones are not okay, if they can't take NO... They are many other words that can be used to pass the same message

missimelda01:
If I manage to tell you a plain NO, it means I am not attracted to you.. it's not going to change after you ask the second time.

mrblessed:
It is as if there is a consensus in this graveyard to be purposefully vague, to not admit a self-evident fact, and to readily weaponised gender when being defeated in an argument. And it runs along both genders, male and female. Sometimes, truth is placed on moratorium, making it possible for things to be viewed with cracked gender lens.

I had a good laugh reading the Op's gender-inspired submission that is nothing short of a senseless attack on men. And it is also a gross generalisation. Wooing a woman more than once is not a depiction of weakness or a reflection of one's financial standings. However, ladies are complex beings: it is not every of them that will give an affirmative reply even when they are interested. Sometimes they are confused, seizing up the endurance quotient of the "wooer," or in a relationship trying to sort things out before giving a reply. Call it self-fish? If a man feels he has a strong connection to a lady and insists on getting her, how is it a sign of weakness? Remember, men are enticed by the appearance of a woman first, before examining her character which is priceless. It is the same for women, but they rarely have the power to discard bad-mannered dudes whom they naively think they can change.

I think the message to malefolk should be that they realise and examine their standings in any relationship they are in, especially if it takes the bimbo donkey time to make up her mind.

Dybala11:

Other words like??
Anyway, as for me sha o, I'm pretty sure that I don't have the effrontery to make a second attempt at wooing a lady. Once her answer is NO, I won't sweat it, cos that's enough damage to my fragile ego and self esteem. I always wonder how some guys endure been insulted by ladies cos of their wish to date the said ladies, shame will never let me show face again if it's me.

missimelda01:

Rejection doesn't have to come with insults you know.. but I get you.

Dybala11:

Unfortunately, trading insults and making ridiculous comments against suitors as become a stock in trade of many ladies, I definitely won't allow a thin- legged daughter of eve to use me shine jor.

missimelda01:

Kee yourself
Dem still dey rush us.

JERRY1925:


Do u know some girls with self esteem still give celebrate though time?

Omar09:


This is the harsh truth boys and men at large don't wanna hear. You would see a boy/man beat his chest saying that there's no girl in this world he will approach and she will say no, and you will think they're joking until you see or hear them beg such women for their attention just to brag to their fellow boys/men.

I call it nonsense! I know there are women who would refuse my advances, and there are ones who will kill just to have my "hi".

missimelda01:

Those ones are not okay, if they can't take NO... They are many other words that can be used to pass the same message

justnock:

Funny enough, I have never asked a lady out before. I have been with 9 ladies but I don't know how to really ask a lady out.
My style is different. I'll never let you friend zone me but I won't be your boyfriend, too. We will just happen, naturally.

Chukapage:
lmaooo bro you're ruthless ,sooooooooo TRUE ,some will go and begging for smile chai !! SIMPS are a slap to the male gender!

born2begreat:
I don’t think anything is wrong with a man asking a girl out twice. We all know that girls like forming hard to get when it comes to giving attention or saying yes. I understand sometimes the case might be different. I worked in the same company in 2008/09 with a lady i like so much. She gave me an excuse to giving her time and boom she was already in a relationship. I asked her out like 2 times and her response was No. This is 2020 and we are both still single and i know deeply in my heart that if i ask her out now she will surely say yes without anything. But i know i can’t love her like when i needed her in the past. And dating such lady would just be like because we both already run out of choices. I like her as a person but i will never go for her the third time.

justnock:

Funny enough, I have never asked a lady out before. I have been with 9 ladies but I don't know how to really ask a lady out.
My style is different. I'll never let you friend zone me but I won't be your boyfriend, too. We will just happen, naturally.

Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her.....I precisely can't go out with someone that ask me out once unless you ask me for like six and above before I'll agree that's f you're really worth my time......cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " .....my status says it all

Davash222:

We're saying same thing... No sane guy would love pussssy that much to the extent of chasing it more than once.

Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her.....I precisely can't go out with someone that ask me out once unless you ask me for like six and above before I'll agree that's f you're really worth my time......cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " .....my status says it all

Amumaigwe:


@Bolded:
That adage refers to the man's mother not his wife o.

proclinician:
Some ladies said no in 2018 when i was serious and said yes in 2020 when i wanted just a one off. They saw level has changed. Their loss

missimelda01:


I'm with you on this
I can help you beat her very well

Chukapage:
ruthless billing

Chukapage:
lol you're in your early 20s nah so your SMV(sexual market value) is.at its peak in the next 6years observe wether Dem go still dey rush you or you now go dey rush them

Millenniumlady:
Ladies don't value guys that asked them out once if you feel she's worth it low down your ego and go after her.....I precisely can't go out with someone that ask me out once unless you ask me for like six and above before I'll agree that's f you're really worth my time......cause at the tale end a man is never complete without a woman.......As the saying goes "behind every successful man there is a woman " .....my status says it all

Dybala11:

You mean that it's there rush hour now, hers is on the way.