I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

Use your mind

It shouldn't be what naira landers tell you.

Do you want to go or not?

topcatking:
Use your mind

It shouldn't be what naira landers tell you.

Do you want to go or not?

She actually want to go.

In matters of love there is actually no defined procedure to take as most importantly its about the individuals involved.

It's not how long but how well. See that Jos case, they dated for 12 years, but he had planned to commit evil 10yrs ago.

My dear, if you want to go, go but let him know you are going to inform your folks where you are and sometimes use his phone to reach them too.

Nairaland is now consultation arena..lolx

Beirut01:


I actually want to go.

Then perform your due diligence on the guy, if you are satisfied with the result, go.

It's that simple.

And if in 9 months, there are further developments, invite naira landers to rejoice with you.


You have my blessings.

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

If you feel like you wish to Quarantine with him, why not Follow your heart but take your brain along.
Just meeting does not change a thing. If the quarantiner (him) is a nice person then you should honor his request and be the quarantinee ASAP.

I have seen relationships lead to marriage within a short period of courtship and I've seen hard to get girls remain in a relationship with the ring - a situation in which many times might be fueled by a counter play of hard to get by the male. I have seen a lot.

Give yourself the opportunity to learn lessons. What is the worst that can happen? You've been there before. Stay Quarantined!

I have spoken.

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

Hahahahaha. The big question is; have you slept with him yet?

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

it would a perfect time and place for him to unleash the demon in him

just know what you are doing
Lobatan!

Of course you can spend the 3weeks with him, I see nothing wrong here.

How can you expect any G here to be responsible for cóckblocking a fellow G?

Have fun...

Go. Since it is not my pussy that'll suffer am

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

Two or three dats... Habaa. Pls go n pay homage

Nope, stay there for one year.

Three weeks is too much to go and spread your tentacles in a man's house. What will you be doing all those times you'll be there?

What will you be doing? I can't just imagine. You both will definitely get tired of each other after sometime. You'll be doing the same mundane things daily till you both get bored. He will get lots of easy access to your body without caution, and you can't even complain because you went for it, cook meals you could never cook whilst at your apartment, wash his clothes, and that's if he doesn't even have a "Washing machine" or gives his clothes out for dry-cleaning, clean his house to show him you're a "wife material" one thousand yards.

I'm not even sure the relationship has even been defined yet. It's better you quarantine yourself in your apartment, you won't die.

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation atin my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

You trust people easily. Be very careful

Do you know his family or any of his family members?

What's his health status like?

Do you think he just wanna play you?

Do you think when he sees another girl more prettier than you, he would dump you off?

Are you safe in his apartment?


Sister, let me tell you the truth: On the first page, love is always sweet; one doesn't think straight, just the love. As pages go one, the real character comes.


Why I have written the above is that we don't want someone to come and tell us "she has been raped and dumped by a guy she thought that loved her"


I bet you, the day you would open your legs for him will be the day he stops respecting you. He takes you as other girls, harlot, side chick...etc.

If he wants you and loves you, tell him to come and see your parent.

What do you intend to go and do there for 3 weeks? Have sex all day, wash and clean, cook and play.
Have you defined the relationship yet? If you're not into marriage then it's totally cool.

He doesn’t talk much but you enjoy his company so much you wanna spend weeks

A lady looking to stay at such a guys place for that for long without much gossip or conversation means ....

She’s deficient and looking for lots of vitamin ‘D’

U were told to go home not your boy friend's apartment.

You have our blessings!
May the peace of the Lord be with you..

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

dont waste your time trying to figure out the kind of person he is.
rush to his house and spend one year with him, while your are it walk around naked and wear all his cloths, apply this same concerpt to every man you just met.

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Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

You said you have been told to go on vacation "at your work place"


So only your office is going on vacation.

Don't even bother going to his house. It is always good to meet at a place; a very convenient place.


Remember there is disease everywhere. Stay protected.

Remember Fornication is a sin.

It is now official that any girl who go on a vacation to his BF's / lover's place should have in mind that sex is mandatory.

I am still the only guy till date to allow a girl stay in my place for 2 weeks without touching her.

Post UME those days ehh. My female coursemate pleaded with me to allow her stay for 2 days that her room is filled already with post Umites.

Two days turned to 2 weeks. Very fair looking pretty lady with voluptuous physique with a very good height. My lodge mates just dey hail me say I don hammer .

I treated her as a sister, provided her with the best food,and encouraged her too.

She stayed two more weeks extra since her name came out on the first list. She started her registrations, payment of dues... I later found a good hostel closer to school for her, there she started living alone with her roommate.

Ever since then, I do see her, but she didn't use to see me. She came one day, as I saw her, I quickly locked my gate, told the guy opposite my room to tell her I have relocated.

I just like helping people without getting anything in return from them.


It is really good to be good. I just pray the guy does like me.

Sister, please go home, don't spend the 2 weeks in his place.

Pls ooo who will spend holidays in my house. I have netflix and 70gb of data.

Kylekent59:


You trust people easily. Be very careful

Do you know his family or any of his family members?

What's his health status like?

Do you think he just wanna play you?

Do you think when he sees another girl more pretty than you, he would dump you off?

Are you safe in his apartment?


Sister, let me tell you the truth: On the first page, love is always sweet; one doesn't think straight, just the love. As pages goes one, the real character comes.


Why I have written the above is that we don't want someone to come and tell us "she has been raped and dumped by a guy she thought that loved her"


I bet you, the day you would open your legs for him will be the day he stops respecting you. He takes you as other girls, harlot, side chick...etc.

If he wants you and loves you, tell him to come and see your parent.

Hmmm. I appreciate this. This forum is full or very sincere people, contrary to my opinion tho. Thank you so much

kings59:
Remember Fornication is a sin.

It is now official that any girl who go on a vacation to his BF's / lover's place should have in mind that sex is mandatory.

I am still the only guy till date to allow a girl stay in my place for 2 weeks without touching her.

Post UME those days ehh. My female coursemate pleaded with me to allow her stay for 2 days that her room is filled already with post Umites.

Two days turned to 2 weeks. Very fair looking pretty lady with voluptuous physique with a very good height. My lodge mates just dey hail me say I don hammer .

I treated her as a sister, provided her with the best food,and encouraged her too.

She stayed two more weeks extra since her name came out on the first list. She started her registrations, payment of dues... I later found a good hostel closer to school for her, there she started living alone with her roommate.

Ever since then, I do see her, but she didn't use to see me. She came one day, as I saw her, I quickly locked my gate, told the guy opposite my room to tell her I have relocated.

I just like helping people without getting anything in return from them.


It is really good to be good. I just pray the guy does like me.

Sister, please go home, don't spend the 2 weeks in his place.

Thank you so much. May God bless you

If you are ready for whatever outcome, why not?
I can only tell you to hope for the best but prepare for the worst..

All the girls in the nairaland are not education. Or they will ask stupid question. Fish brain without brain inside of education. Them isn't fit to typograph simple Englishes. I shame in you

HeliotJ:
All the girls in the nairaland are not education. Or they will ask stupid question. Fish brain without brain inside of education. Them isn't fit to typograph simple Englishes. I shame in you

yes ooo we shame in her

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

Go but first confirm that he does not plan to use you to do money ritual

Jeweltz:
I am just meeting this guy. We've gone out two or three dates. And I have slept in his apartment just once. One thing I like about him is he's cool, calm and doesn't really talk much. It is hard for me to figure him out sometimes.

So yesterday he told me to come over to his place and spenk my holidays since we've been told to go on vacation at my work place.

Is it right to yield to his request judging that we're only just meeting

A person you haven't known for long you wanna spend weeks in his house? Bad judgement I must say

Ashawo don too plenty for Naija