SweetCunt97:
@GreaterGod124, The man is married. Only God in heaven will punish all these married men deceiving and impregnation single ladies.

when many single ladies are greedy -- always looking for ready-made.

Why I don't feel for these kind of Babes is that when perfect gentle men like us come up, they will treat us with disdain, toss us about like a Ludo dice, at the end, they will be dieing as if they are living for a worthless fellow.

In a nutshell, the reason she is even pissing for this guy will mavel you. Many a time, women brain "be like dah of a foul"

SweetCunt97:
No time. Atleast she go get two wonderful kids to call her own.

why don't you get pregnant for me so you will have lovely kids?


you think she wants another kid?

Homeboiy:
Fake story

Just like a nollywood movie

U bought a small apartment

Mtcheew

Yes buying a house in Lagos is a big deal to you shey or you have never seen such

Just ignore instead of u leaving a comment I don't need to use my worth to brag for any reason...it can only be God

SweetCunt97:
How? You pack ur bag in your room and as it is, he should even have any right to step into her room sef. Anyway sha me get mind.

i guess you believe they only have sex in the car, abi?

GreaterGod124:


I've threatened him with that already that I may leave the country cos of his unserousness but he said when am leaving, once his child is 8years he will collect her from me...if I try to pick up a fight with him, he will say he wants to collect his child and I can't give out my baby because shes the only partner I've got for now.

Why would you want to leave your life in Nigeria and run off to Canada and uncertainty?

Fake story.

You already made up your mind na, it doesn't look like you need advice

2013 you were serving

2020, your business has expanded so much that you now have an apartment in your name in Magodo? Same Magodo we all know?

Omo, I need to know the kind of business you do. Can we talk?

Acidosis:

2013 you were serving

2020, your business has expanded so much that you now have an apartment in your name in Magodo? Same Magodo we all know?

Omo, I need to know the kind of business you do. Can we talk?

No we can't. I don't smuggle hard drugs, I supply pharmaceutical packaging materials...

Tajbol4splend:
You already made up your mind na, it doesn't look like you need advice

Well I need...maybe theres there's something am not doing right...I love him so much and at the edge of losing him...at first, I tot sex and care will bring me closer to me but no its not

GreaterGod124:


Well I need...maybe theres there's something am not doing right...I love him so much and at the edge of losing him...at first, I tot sex and care will bring me closer to me but no its not

He doesn't love you, a man who really loves you shouldn't put you through this ordeal, continue with your plan

GreaterGod124:


No we can't. I don't smuggle hard drugs, I supply pharmaceutical packaging materials...

Good to know you're succeeding in your trade. Kudos to you ma'am.

MrBrownJay1:


i guess you believe they only have sex in the car, abi?

No naw. Can't she say No? It's obvious the guy is married. He probably was going through a rough patch with his wife when he met the op

llakes4real:


when many single ladies are greedy -- always looking for ready-made.

How? Not everything is about ready made and this Op is independent. Abeg don't bring that nonsense argument here abeg

GreaterGod124:


I've threatened him with that already that I may leave the country cos of his unserousness but he said when am leaving, once his child is 8years he will collect her from me...if I try to pick up a fight with him, he will say he wants to collect his child and I can't give out my baby because shes the only partner I've got for now.

Can you imagine! Baby that he told u to abort and even neglected you. Why give out such info? He has no right to take the baby from you actually. You too soft though.. You deserve better.

Lostz:
why don't you get pregnant for me so you will have lovely kids?


you think she wants another kid?

If you tall fair and handsome and can cough out 60k or more monthly, lemme know.

Nigerians sha...
She said she needs matured advice( frm dose who hv experience) and some inexperienced monikers are here forming motivational speaker ...

Las las we go dey alright..

To d OP,
Life itself is a risk....so even if u follow someone's advice, things can still not go as planned.....In d nutshell, do what u feel its right and b prepared to face anything at anytym..

SweetCunt97:
No naw. Can't she say No? It's obvious the guy is married. He probably was going through a rough patch with his wife when he met the op

nah... a married man would have made much more fuss about her getting rid of the baby.

MrBrownJay1:


nah... a married man would have made much more fuss about her getting rid of the baby.

She decided on her own not to get rid of it. She come lose contact with d guy but only for d mofo to show up days to her delivery. The guy was busy counting calender na. He probably wanted to show when she already had d baby but God catch am so he gats pay d hospital bills and all... Lol

SweetCunt97:
She decided on her own not to get rid of it. She come lose contact with d guy but only for d mofo to show up days to her delivery. The guy was busy counting calender na. He probably wanted to show when she already had d baby but God catch am so he gats pay d hospital bills and all... Lol

read the below from OP.... she UNWILLINGLY kept the baby that he asked her (and she tried) to abort.

GreaterGod124:
So 2years ago, he called me and we settled again and I got preggy which he said I should abort that he wasn't ready for that but the dmfirst knew I aborted for him, I bled for about 2 months then, honestly then i thought it was over for me but God still kept me alive. So i kept the baby and he decided not to see me for about 7 months.

a married man would have probably dropped her for good if/when he knew she kept the baby...

Sometimes I wonder why some ladies are foolishly dating themselves thinking they are dating someone.

No serious full grown man that calls himself a boyfriend will tell you to abort his child unless you're either dating yourself or he is married to someone else.

In this case, your bobo has a wife or a fiancée and you're just a sexual object to him.

I suggest you forget him and focus on your life in Nigeria or in Canada.

MrBrownJay1:


read the below from OP.... she UNWILLINGLY kept the baby that he asked her (and she tried) to abort.



a married man would have probably dropped her for good if/when he knew she kept the baby...

Seems there's a comprehension issue here. The first pregnancy she aborted nearly killed her hence her decision to keep this one. She didn't try to abort this one. Na d first one she abort wey she bleed for 2 weeks.

Acidosis:



Good to know you're succeeding in your trade. Kudos to you ma'am.

7 years is enough for someone to succeed now. Pick d right business and see yourself boom

SweetCunt97:
Seems there's a comprehension issue here. The first pregnancy she aborted nearly killed her hence her decision to keep this one. She didn't try to abort this one. Na d first one she abort wey she bleed for 2 weeks.

yes... i believe she wrote that:" she tried to abort but after bleeding heavily, and the baby not being aborted, she decided to keep it. 7 months later baby daddy came back into the picture just in time for baby's birth..."

i doubt she was pregnant for big daddy twice....OP pls come and clarify that issue.

Good luck with that.

SweetCunt97:
How? Not everything is about ready made and this Op is independent. Abeg don't bring that nonsense argument here abeg

Okay o.

Your ordeal came from your lifestyle (introvert) and the guy took the advantage. Well, your story is not bad dear cus God has shown you kindness by blessing your hustle.
My advice;
Go through this thread and read the response of those that advised you to rethink about travelling out. My dear, the grass is not always green at the other side, do not see travelling out as escape option( what is it in the masters you want to do that is special when you are doing well in business already). Please, face your business and expand; probably add other things to grow big, think of becoming a big employer of labour, becoming big in business is not for man alone.
Be mature to sit the guy down and have real conversation with him to know where he belongs and if he is still not ready to do the right thing, be bold to cut all tides with him and face your life, a real man is coming your way, it is just one kid people with two kids get suitors. Pick up yourself n be courageous n face the reality of life. Do not run from your problem because this your problem I am seeing will making you big time, don't run to any Canada. Please, summon courage and open up to your parents after you must have had a reasonable conversation with him. You are 33, desist from babyish attitude of I don't want to disappoint my parents or my friends, no serious parents will abandon you in this mess, maybe you would have even find way out suppose you expose yourself to them long ago self. You are a glorious child, don't spoil the show.... Folorunsho Alakija does not have two heads

adexpa:
Your ordeal came from your lifestyle (introvert) and the guy took the advantage. Well, your story is not bad dear cus God has shown you kindness by blessing your hustle.
My advice;
Go through this thread and read the response of those that advised you to rethink about travelling out. My dear, the grass is not always green at the other side, do not see travelling out as escape option( what is it in the masters you want to do that is special when you are doing well in business already). Please, face your business and expand; probably add other things to grow big, think of becoming a big employer of labour, becoming big in business is not for man alone.
Be mature to sit the guy down and have real conversation with him to know where he belongs and if he is still not ready to do the right thing, be bold to cut all tides with him and face your life, a real man is coming your way, it is just one kid people with two kids get suitors. Pick up yourself n be courageous n face the reality of life. Do not run from your problem because this your problem I am seeing will making you big time, don't run to any Canada. Please, summon courage and open up to your parents after you must have had a reasonable conversation with him. You are 33, desist from babyish attitude of I don't want to disappoint my parents or my friends, no serious parents will abandon you in this mess, maybe you would have even find way out suppose you expose yourself to them long ago self. You are a glorious child, don't spoil the show.... Folorunsho Alakija does not have two heads

Wise words, but she is going there to study, remember?

Also, It's not easy wriggling out of the grasp of someone that holds the key to one's heart. She knows she's being exploited, but she can't help herself.

Creating physical distance would help, otherwise, the man would keep coming in the guise of wanting to see his child.

Ricchcream:
Wise words, but she is going there to study, remember?

Also, It's not easy wriggling out of the grasp of someone that holds the key to one's heart. She knows she's being exploited, but she can't help herself.

Creating physical distance would help, otherwise, the man would keep coming in the guise of wanting to see his child.

Sir, leave that study gimmick of a thing alone, I am in one of European countries running my masters currently, there is nothing special, we should not be deceived. I am giving that advice cus she already find a part ( she is doing business and she is doing well in it) n nobody will handle your thing like you will do.

For your second n third paragraph, that is why I said she should open up to parents n stop hiding what is not, they will guide n help her weakness.

She should be critical in her decision and not allow second mistake

Who dash you canada eh

Attention seeker

MrBrownJay1:


yes... i believe she wrote that:" she tried to abort but after bleeding heavily, and the baby not being aborted, she decided to keep it. 7 months later baby daddy came back into the picture just in time for baby's birth..."

i doubt she was pregnant for big daddy twice....OP pls come and clarify that issue.

I was pregnant for him first time in the year 2014 and when he asked me to abort, I willing did because I had no job then and I bled for 2 months then in 2014 but the second one which is this baby, I couldn't.