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For the Males, moving on after their (love) advances gets turned down is quite easy.

But coming to the females, they seem to act weird especially when they truly like the guy

From blocking him online and unblocking. Stalking him, trying to know the new lady he talks to, crying all day, checking when he's online and acting cold etc

So my question is, why is it hard for them to move on

So s guys share your experiences if you've ever rejected a lady's advances

Gracias

The lady had refused to forgive my turning her down till date after 5 years... and she's married

let me think which one to tell

It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

WeJCKs:
For the Males, moving on after their(love) advances gets turned down is quite easy.


But coming to the females, they seem to act weird especially when they truly like the guy

From blocking him online and unblocking
Stalking him, trying to know the new lady he talks to, crying all day, checking when he's online and acting cold etc

so my question is, why is it hard for them to move on

So s guys share your experiences if you've ever rejected a lady's advances

Gracias

so all the tread of lamentations by boys,men in romance section is meant to prove what?

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

Falling head over heels isn't a choice my dear. It just rarely happens. But when it does, you can't help it...


And I've got this feeling I'm that guy

This stuff just happened to me recently, she blocked me from calling her and also from WhatsApp. Now the question is did I do a bad thing by not taking advantage of her?

NCarthur:
This stuff just happened to me recently, she blocked me from calling her and also from WhatsApp. Now the question is did I do a bad thing by not taking advantage of her?

Lol. Leave her alone na. Why do you want to call her? Let her deal with it by herself.



If a girl tells me no. That’s cool. But she shouldn’t call me to be forming concern. Cos na from there she go dey try mould you enter maga zone. If you say “no” and we’re not old friends, sorry. We’re back to acquaintances. Don’t be familiar.

God no go shame us o.

Just imagine being employed by a 'One man firm' with good reputation; earning good salary with awesome bonuses.

One morning, you got fired and someone got an appointment to fill your position.

Will you accept that rejection easily?

Lol through some close logistical observation I've come to realize that 90% of Nigerian women can't handle a simple "NO". them think say na beans to get liver...lubbish.

Because women are the weaker vessels

I don't know how I do it but it works most times

EzzyCarter:
Falling head over heels isn't a choice my dear. It just rarely happens. But when it does, you can't help it...


And I've got this feeling I'm that guy

U had better get up from ur fall

Stacyomolola:
U had better get up from ur fall

Haha . I'm trying to @ bolded but babe, kindly show some love and gv me the keys kiss to ur heart

It really hurts.
The hurt is indescribable.
She wonders what went wrong.
She assumes he found someone better.
If she perceives the new girl to be better, she hates herself for not been the better one.
If the assumption isn’t as good as her, she curses the day she said yes to the lowlife who doesn’t know how to value the good he had in her!
All these and many more, still assumptions oh!
But, with each assumption, she hurts deeper.
If she really loved him...

And yet we keep seeing multiple threads of guys whining and crying of being jilted, some even asking stupid questions like "what should I do" after the lady must have broken up with them and also reject them, and yet you're asking this question, who is more emotional here?

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

why would you cry over rejection you see what guys are facing abi but never cry.

Biglittlelois:
And yet we keep seeing multiple threads of guys whining and crying of being jilted, some even asking stupid questions like "what should I do" after the lady must have broken up, and yet you're asking this question, who is more emotional here?

breakup is different from rejection.

Goodmarlian:
breakup is different from rejection.

I think I will modify my previous post and put rejection too, since there are also theads from guys cos of rejection.

Goodmarlian:
why would you cry over rejection you see what guys are facing abi but never cry.

What kind of rejection are u talking about
Rejection I meant was about my fiance saying he's no longer interested NOT the rejection about me asking a guy out and getting rejected (which I would never do)

In other words I was talking about breakup not rejection

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Some men are worse than women when it comes to rejection

I no get time for women at all...

That was before, Now, if I see any funny character in you I don japa.

**Free Space for Quarantining

Because we are always more committed to a relationship...we love with our heart.
Unlike guys that love with their head

Honestly, I don't know what is their problem.
I once rejected an older ladies advances and she went around telling everyone I had only one testicle

This rejection shit is what we dudes go through all the time.
Most ladies would even pluck out their eyeball and swallow it, than shooting at a guy at all