Jamersirwin1971:


So have you decided to move on ??

pocohantas:
I am more concerned about the ladies that wants you lots. Most Naija guys are at best, basic in looks, morals, intellect, poise and financial stability.

Why should anyone want to be accepted by that?

They will grow and realize it wasn’t worth all the troubles. You know that moment you look at your university crush and wonder what you were thinking? Yea!

raphloren:
I once rejected a lady who visited me unannounced, offered to cook for me n spend d weekend. I told her to go home since I didn't invite her n moreover, am not ready for serious relationship until I want to marry. Though the reason is that she's not my type. She was embarrassed. She pleaded to sleep that night n left very early in the morning. She even came with a big bottle of action bitters. Since then she's been spreading false lies about me, threatening me on Facebook, SMS despite marrying a guy based in US. Av reported her to her big sister who is also my friend and av made it clear I might seek legal action against her if she doesn't stop.

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

pocohantas:


A man is not allowed to basic in my books. Have money and have sense- in addition to whatever good you think you are.

Rgade:

You know Poco, naija women aren't any better than you described our men.
Y'all wish we we're better, we wish y'all were better too.
Naija men and women are products of the same society.
I don't know what society that shaped your preferences that Naija men aren't good enough for you

Obi411:


Lol @wicked creature.

Fofo2014:
98% of men have never fallen in love. Even when they say they love you, they are only looking for emotional satisfaction.
Women love with their hearts

pocohantas:


He wasn’t? Na im you type all that epistle?
I feel like catching and flogging you.

Anonymous8083:
I'm a female, I had the same issue of going out with a colleague from work. Honestly, I knew better than to accept his request to go out but I guess I was sorta desperate at the time. Funny part is, it never worked out. He stopped calling after the third date, I felt so down like there was something wrong with me. Rejection can be terrible. Things got awkward at the office, he had to tell people he never asked me out which in his defense he never did. Lol, thinking about it now, I feel so stupid. Anyways, we still work together and we're cool now but he has it in his head that he can still get to date me if he wants.
It's sooo annoying.

Dextre:



Bros why u dey worry yourself over what she said na, nor b us dem go still go Shiloh go pray for.. You don go Shiloh see person dey pray for Ghanian abi south African man b4?. Rest my brother,everybody's got a taste,she has hers

Stacyomolola:
It's the kind of girls u have seen or had experiences with

If I so truly much love u
Latest a week cry what more
God forbid I stalk a guy
The kind of post I would be making on my wts status
He would even feel I never loved him from onset
Loving a guy so deeply these days is rare (been long I tried such)

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Women these days don't wait to be rejected. They know you will reject them from your actions and they start waiting for you to say it. Some will even tell you they have developed cold feets and start asking for a break.
These days if a guy says it's over, just tell him thank you and move on. Who relationship help

Curious07:
It really hurts.
The hurt is indescribable.
She wonders what went wrong.
She assumes he found someone better.
If she perceives the new girl to be better, she hates herself for not been the better one.
If the assumption isn’t as good as her, she curses the day she said yes to the lowlife who doesn’t know how to value the good he had in her!
All these and many more, still assumptions oh!
But, with each assumption, she hurts deeper.
If she really loved him...

Anonymous8083:
Lol, yeah, tell me about it

luwiizy:
Lol through some close logistical observation I've come to realize that 90% of Nigerian women can't handle a simple "NO". them think say na beans to get liver...lubbish.

NCarthur:
This stuff just happened to me recently, she blocked me from calling her and also from WhatsApp. Now the question is did I do a bad thing by not taking advantage of her?

James4bright:


But you know it's really weird how you girls mindset kinda works. You'd gladly get attracted to a man who barely fancies you but would never get attracted to someone who has been on your door front begging to be loved back.

AreaFada2:

Eiya. I was actually interested in her sister who sometimes visited her at our workpiece.
Though I never told any of them. But I guess the girl after me sensed it. I knew she would do everything to block me from dating her sister so I let it go.

Her sister was smiley, friendly and didn't have this assuming and oversabi, arrogant, gossiping attitude.

The girl actually interested in me after I put her down seriously. I caught her red-handed gossiping with a manager about me. And what he was reporting to the manager was wrong. I rubbished both of them right there. I wouldn't lick anyone's backside.

Another day she overheard me telling a female colleague how how girls more easily fall for fuckboys and get used and dumped. Later they blame the good guys for their poor choices in men.

Unknown to me, a fuckboy just dumped this girl after me lately.

Another manager she was sucking up to was gay. She didn't know but we knew. We used to laugh at her. She was clearly interested in that guy. When she found out that the guy was gay, she began saying things behind his back. She became cool towards him.

I guess a combination of these events made her develop interest in me so suddenly.

She began complimenting my dress sense, bringing lunch for both of us suddenly, discussing her future dreams, etc. I had to politely tell her to stop bringing lunch for me. When it didn't work she began making insinuations of how some people are blind to women who love them, blah blah. It all became too annoying.

To me she was simply a calculating fake arse opportunist.

AfroKnight:


Lol. Leave her alone na. Why do you want to call her? Let her deal with it by herself.



If a girl tells me no. That’s cool. But she shouldn’t call me to be forming concern. Cos na from there she go dey try mould you enter maga zone. If you say “no” and we’re not old friends, sorry. We’re back to acquaintances. Don’t be familiar.

God no go shame us o.

crackkhaus:
Rejection is always hard to accept by people who have an overestimated sense of themselves, it happens in any gender but is more intense among women due to the belief that every man wants them.