emmaodet:


Hmmmmmm
If a woman dey fire on full cylinders, abeg i no go fit marry am even though i like the crazy sex.
There is a difference between playing/fooling around with ladies at tender age and Marriage. Big difference.
In marriage, you want someone -

Reliable
Discipline
With self-control
Not too addicted
Confident on

And these qualities can't be guaranteed from a woman with high sexual prowess.

We want a woman that will travel to another state or countries for weeks and have the rest of mind she won't misbehave or a nympho who can't just do without sex for a week.
A woman that can't just go for a 3-weeks NYSC camp without been banged because kole mu ara duro (can't hold her body or herself)
When it comes to marriage, Reasonable men (note that i mean - REASONABLE)/will bring out another Checklist entirely to screen the women for a potential good wife.
Thanks

sassysure:
I can say that sometimes the men don't actually know what to do.
If u know better than your man and want to enjoy intimacy with him, guide him a little and watch his reaction.
Don't rub it in his face.
Men usually have over inflated ego and bedroom activities are one of those areas they want to control or feel they are in control.

If he is receptive, next time, u can incorporate another thing. And be receptive if he is trying that out even if it means faking it so he will be encouraged.

Also bear in mind that many men are very psychological.
Seeing u frowning face when making love can deflate the tyre( true), so instead of dying in silence, study your man and know how best to approach the situation.

This is for babe way sabi.
Don't miss A good man because he can't give it to u as u want when u can subtly teach him while pretending he is the one teaching u.

If your man belong to the group that ask u what u want him to do, by all means live your fantasy

funmisticqueen2:
you are the desperate simp here. My sweet in the middle has never been tainted by your kind. And it will continue that way.

Goodbye

funmisticqueen2:
nice to hear.

How do you feel about the topic

emmaodet:


Well, if a woman thinks her hubby/bf is not performing to her expectations, she can educate or discuss it with him if she thinks he his type that won't take offence or maybe leave the relationship and get the type that she wants.
But in most cases, we can't get everything we want in life.
We gain some and lose some

Most guys that are good in bed are not good providers.
So the ball is in your cot - do you want average sex and reasonable relationship/family or you are ready to sacrifice that for your sexual satisfaction?
Most times, you can have all what you want in one body, even we guys don't get that in women, contentment is key in life.
Up to you

Justbehave:
Wanted to help you experience the sweetness of a good dick but since you are bent on managing the one that doesn't make you cum,go ahead. But don't cheat in him after marriage. Bye.

Kingarthur21:
lol...I never advice ladies to fake an orgasm,we both must derive pleasure...but if a lady shows her sexual prowess trust me she will most likely lose,those who advice ladies to inhibit their sexual prowess aren't fools. If I reincarnate as a lady,I will inhibit mine.

Whenever I straffed a girl and she displayed more sexual prowess than myself or equal to mine many questions run through my mind. "If I wasn't this perfect is this how she will chase other better D?"
Not just that,vagina is clearly an asset you shouldn't give out freely. In my Simp days I spent a lot to thrust,she comes over,I spend,take her out,she comes back home,time to thrust and she gives excuses. The chasing pu$$¥ was thrilling,men thrive on challenges. I did more before I saw her pants. After seeing her pants I stayed longer before dumping her-at least she got from me some cash,commitment (short lived though)....


Imagine if she displayed sexual prowess,after that banging I would have just payed her transport fare and delete her number as those basic who®€$.

Am I caging ladies or telling them to be aloof?am I stealing their rights of sexual liberty? No ,I am talking from a male perspective .

Most ladies underestimate the power of sexual timidity-they see it as oppression. I have never seen a man who when asked what attracted him to the woman of his dreams or what made him wed his wife mention her sexual prowess as the reason.

People who love women advice them not to show their sexual prowess at the dating stage..its a basic advice and not misogyny/sexism.


I didnt mean to derail funmi, its just my piece of advice...this ain't trolling. I am not forming holy holy...


Panso pist,Om ar09,Ub unja,emma odet,Capslo cked.

crackkhaus:

How about telling your sisters who fake orgasms that the quickest way to get it is to mount him, bounce as much as they want, as long as they want, while controlling the depth and precision, then y'all can get your orgasms?

I mean, it's YOUR orgasm...you should work for it.

You can't expect a man who is providing, caring, giving you attention and affection...and on top of all this, you still want him to make it his duty to provide an orgasm for you. Have you no humanity?

What then are you good for in the relationship?

funmisticqueen2:
I have the full package already. You're too late bro.

Justbehave:
Oh yeah. Please don't except you also fake your orgasm.

funmisticqueen2:
Profound wisdom.

Your wife is lucky

How are things this lockdown period? Hope she is taking care of you?

Ariza:

I don't lie to myself, that one is certain.

Joystark:


Lol.
Dude you've killed me.

Misscongenialit:


Couldnt agree more, its not that they dont know they have become selfish about being satisfied themselves than to satisfy their wives. Rather than give her a good suck on her nipples while handling her clit they are going about looking for BJs. Even when they sex the woman its just dive in and out as if she doesn't deserve to be well handled lole a woman.

Its notnonly gatemen, Bleep boys and sugar boys are making a hell of money, eating the full pot of soup while oga is running up and down licking spoon that everybody has used to scoop

Joystark:


Lol.
Dude you've killed me.

RisenPhoenix:
Women and pretence are like 5 and 6. They only fake orgasms when they want to retain their customer or when they get tired and want the man to just stop. Most women cannot have orgasms solely through vaginal penetration.

Some men too fake orgasms.

Brazenbabe:


You mean their modest, virginal housewives may be paying sugar sons with ogas money to service her

That is to say that the Lord-of-the-Manor may not be Lord-of-the-Pussy?
Chai! What a wicked world.

crackkhaus:

I thought virgins already know all the styles going by that your thread?

Kingarthur21:
see guy,virgins are good for marriage,but if your sole is because she will tolerate your inadequacy in bed then sorry is your name.


You don't know how they have envisaged a great sex,watched porn for it,looked up to it but if that wedding night no sweet as she expected it then she will regret all her life for not tasting you...

I have encountered them in the past,the lady in question husband went for sabbatical. I asked her why she didnt marry a guy with a bigger D that can last longer she said she married as a virgin and didnt know his size or performance and she will advice any lady she knows to taste before marrying...


The man spoils her with money ,that is fair. Isn't it?

Brazenbabe:


You mean their modest, virginal housewives may be paying sugar sons with ogas money to service her?

That is to say that d Lord-of-the-Manor may not be Lord-of-the-Pussy?
Chai! What a wicked world.

funmisticqueen2:
it's a man's world afterall.

Looking on the bright side. At least he can afford to give her money to pay for a sugar boy.

Imagine if he was broke and useless in bed at the same time. Waste of XY chromosome.

crackkhaus:

How about telling your sisters who fake orgasms that the quickest way to get it is to mount him, bounce as much as they want, as long as they want, while controlling the depth and precision, then y'all can get your orgasms?

I mean, it's YOUR orgasm...you should work for it.

You can't expect a man who is providing, caring, giving you attention and affection...and on top of all this, you still want him to make it his duty to provide an orgasm for you. Have you no humanity?

What then are you good for in the relationship?

SeverusSnape:

Bros, I'm fine, Thank you.

Thanks for asking.

funmisticqueen2:
it's a man's world afterall.

Looking on the bright side. At least he can afford to give her money to pay for a sugar boy.

Imagine if he was broke and useless in bed at the same time. Waste of XY chromosome.

Misscongenialit:


let them continue to chase spoon and not eat theirpot of soup wella, wen dna test becomes cheap in naija many ppl eye go clear..

funmisticqueen2:
the secret is to do it in a way that won't be making them think that we are either getting it outside, or are ex-oloshos with colorful past sexual history. So hard to please, the fragile ego of man.

Justbehave:
Just like you will be paying sugar boys to Bleep you after marrying your simp of a boyfriend who can't even make you cum.

Brazenbabe:
How can they make a woman cum?
When they don't even know where the clitt* is.
They don't know the difference between a vaginal and a cl*toral orgasm
They said on the other thread that making a woman cum is impossible.
That's why they want virgins, who know nothing about sex. Lol
They don't even know that all you need for a woman to squirt are the pads of your middle fingers, rubbing gently on the cl*t hood of a very wet puzzy in a circular motion for 2 mins.
I wish they would learn how to pleasure their wives so that they can stop training their gatemans kids
Lots of wives lose interest in sex after marriage and turn to mast*rbation machines..
Some become actresses in bed
Sheet! These men have a lot to learn.

Ariza:
The transactional relationship mindset as usual!
'You don't expect a man who is providing,caring, giving you attention bla bla bla..... Who send him?
Shouldn't love making be something both partners should enjoy? Sorry I forgot Nigerians don't "make love" they "have sex" and "fvck"

In as much as I agree to women initiating love making and taking charge sometimes like you stated however you make it seem like these men are being forced into the Relationships at gunpoint. Damn! Moreover how many Nigerian guys will let his ego aside and have the woman ride him? Not when someone on this thread is already judging a lady by her sexual prowess. Lol. Y'all make me laugh a lot here. You type your dreams here but live contrary offline.

Kingarthur21:
see guy,virgins are good for marriage,but if your sole is because she will tolerate your inadequacy in bed then sorry is your name.


You don't know how they have envisaged a great sex,watched porn for it,looked up to it but if that wedding night no sweet as she expected it then she will regret all her life for not tasting you...

I have encountered them in the past,the lady in question husband went for sabbatical. I asked her why she didnt marry a guy with a bigger D that can last longer she said she married as a virgin and didnt know his size or performance and she will advice any lady she knows to taste before marrying...


The man spoils her with money ,that is fair. Isn't it?

funmisticqueen2:
stop being desperate.