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Dicktion:
[b]Bottom line Shola was a snake

OP should understand she was married to some one else after the first breakup.

She carried spiritual magun enter him life.

Bro, your story is very touching.
Three events in the story really got my attention.
1. When you escaped that Yahoo business
2. When you escaped becoming homo
3. When you escaped committing suicide.
(Show that there is a supernatural being controlling your thought pattern. He does not want you to perish, because you came out from Him. If you did not have His portion in you, you would have done one or all of the three)

You may not understand that deeply inside you, you have the fear of God, though devil enticed and manipulated you to sinned against your creator. You have a portion of God in you. You are an elect seed of God. All you need now is that reconciliation with your creator by accepting Jesus Christ. You have the portion of Him already.

Take this seriously.
He loves you.
He is thinking good about you, to give you an expected end.

1x2x3:
Let's talk in the morning. Check my profile you will see my number, I'm will to do the calling if you are in such mess. I won't share my story here so some people won't pick offense.

You can leave your number.

Sebi this is ur number on ur siggy??

1) APRIL is a month you will never forget
2) Shola is a name you will never forget too

OlawaleBammie:
Sebi this is ur number on ur siggy??

yes whatsapp me. I will call you in the morning.

Hmmmn. Touching story.

[quote author=SKhanmi post=88212368]I understand where you are coming from but imagine where you'll be if you had only focused on yourself and not take on the responsibilities of others even if it seems cruel. Loyalty is for men. Invest more in your male buddies. Most will always have your back during hard times. And never ever try to go between a baby mama & her dude, She'll leave you for him EVERY TIME. Glad you're alive though, never stop trying.[/quote
That above is what some of us foreigners experience here in south Africa.. U care for a young girl who already has a kid n at the end of the day.. They will also go back to their useless baby daddy who will still mess em up...

Nothing special about this your story. Though its interesting, but you are lucky that the time span was just within a short period of two years. Mine lasted for almost twelve years before the turn around. You are so lucky because you always anticipate consequences of alternatives provided by those who you expected to bail you out From your predicament- like: been a ritualist, homosexual, drug addiction and finally suicide. Don’t forget the saying that no event no history. I passed through almost the same experience except that I never contemplated dating a baby mama or contemplated suicide.
Keep keeping up, it’s all part of your success story.

Tankunland:
It was a Thursday in the month of September and i had walked and trekked all over IKEJA from 12pm till 5pm knocking on the door of every single hotel I could find asking them if they needed a new staff because I had been jobless for close to 6 months after loosing my job in the hotel where I worked.


I so needed a job because I was dead broke, hopeless, tired and on the verge of losing my mind when I got home tired and hungry by 7pm from my job hunting with just 50 naira left in my pocket when my neighbor came to knock on my door to tell me it was my turn to load our prepaid meter and I needed to get it done ASAP as it was gonna finish anytime soon.


I sighed in helplessness, I looked up the Sky looking for the savior in desperation and told her mu neighbor that I would get it done, When I got into my bedroom I collapse on my bed and called both the only 2 friends I had to send me 1k to load my apartment's electricity but both of them gave me the same answer GUY ME SEF BROKE PASS YOU and as I was contemplating my next course of action my neighbor MAMA CHINEDU came to knock again on my door but this time she yelled and called my name Mr Michael ( not my real name) you are the only one that stays at home and finishes this light please go get it done soon as I was making dinner for my husband because it won't be funny if this light gets to go off and as I laid helplessly on my bed I had her grumpling and walking away and right there and then I said yes it's enough, I can't take it again, no more, I was weak, i was defeated, i was empty and no will to fight again as the fight of the last 6 months had taking every single bit of strength from me and i went into my bathroom to take a bottle of sniper I had bought a week prior to that day and when I got back to my bedroom i cried, I prayed for the acceptance of my soul in heaven and called on my mom to come wait for me at the gate of heaven and on the verge of downing it all with my heart pounding so fast and my hands shaking uncontrollably a spirit just told me to bury my head in shame and beg publicly on Nairaland and live to fight another day and guy's with tears in my eyes and my bruised pride and ego I wrote an epistle on a DAVIDO and CHIOMA's thread even with my social media account as prove that I was real I begged on this forum that day and some people called me a scammer, some called me a liar but some encouraged me and told me not to give up and some beautiful soul send me all together 9k but one advice that changed a lot of things was a guy that told me young man instead of looking for a job while not create a job for yourself that's me learning a skill so I would sell to people and right there I decided to learn how to fix CCTV camera.


Now I'm about to get into the story fully

I still get sniper should in case u will be interested

ODB2:
OP should understand she was married to some one else after the first breakup.

She carried spiritual magun enter him life.

That magun strong sha 1.3 Milla sa lo in less than 21 days

Tankunland:
would she lie on her dying bed Sir? Anyways when there is enough funds hopefully I would go do a paternity test but facially goodness this kid looks like me

Oga listen and listen carefully, I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist and a specialist in DNA molecular testing.
I once got a call from a man who called me to seek specialist advice on DNA testing.

The first question he asked me was 'Is it possible for my son to look like my neighbour yet my biological son?
I was thrown off balance by the funny question, but I lectured him that the only 'proof of paternity' is through DNA testing.
He responded that he has done the DNA testing before, the test confirmed that the boy carries his DNA, yet he looks like his next door neighbour.

I told him to come around for a confirmation, he came with the boy and we repeated the test, he even showed the picture of the man on his phone, yes there was a relative level of resemblance between the little boy and the guy in the pictures but our test confirmed again that he was the father of the boy and not the neighbour he suspected.

Looks can be deceptive bro.
DNA is the only true test of paternity not looks.

Please where can I learn how to install and maintain solar and invester in ikeja

It's easy to love, it's easy to fall in love, it's easy to fall deep in love especially with someone your heart so much adored!! And if the love fails what do you do? Don't blame or murder yourself!

you see the truth we never knew is that there's no perfect love in this world, the only perfect love is from God.

You love someone so much and you think you can do anything for that person, you think you can't do anything without him/her, it's all farce, it's the deceitfulness of the heart.

And God is ready to try every heart.

When it comes to marriage, I've come to see that love is not enough in marriage, understanding is highly needful. When there's no money you'll see how love will pale out and you'll be wondering if you have marry the wrong person or not, but if there's understanding both of you will put heads together to work things out!!

Love with your heart but let your head control your heart not your emotions.

So touching and lots of lessons to learn.

Dicktion:
But that magun strong sha 1.3 Milla sa lo in less than 21 days

The worst thing about this whole thing is that Shola was ready to have another man raise his child.

That woman would have caused generational problems.

The wahala she caused in her short life was too much.

She had no problem cheating on her husband and having OP to accept it in the name of love.

OP needs to understand the implications of sleeping with another man's wife and also come to terms that if her marriage was not such a disaster, Shola would have raised her son with another man as his father.

Women. Fear them.

Mother at fifteen some girls dey bleep o

Nothing special about this your story. Though its interesting, but you are lucky that the time span was just within a short period of two years. Mine lasted for almost twelve years before the turn around. You are so lucky because you always anticipate consequences of alternatives provided by those who you expected to bail you out From your predicament- like: been a ritualist, homosexuality, drug addiction and finally contemplating suicide. Don’t forget the saying that no event no history. I passed through almost the same experience except that I never contemplated dating a baby mama or contemplated suicide.
Keep keeping up, it’s all part of your success story.

Tankunland:
if only you wouldn't abuse me and read were I said I was gonna do a paternity test on the kid when I get some money. Yes I made mistakes not because I was gullible as you said but because yes I loved her and she sacrificed a lot for me but it's fine I guess I learnt in the hard way. Goodnight

Without trying to criticize, what you had for her was lust. What is lust? Going after what is will destroy you knowingly. With true love, you would have avoided getting so involved with her.

Woow!!!!...ave never been so patient in reading a long epistle as this on social media,,,but I read one today..your story was so real,,attention catching,,emotional and inspiring...didn't want the story to even come to an end..I must say that I really learnt a lot from this...Please my little admonition to u is that u should give writing of books a trial,,,and u will do fabulously well..��

Tankunland:
It was around early July of 2019 and by this time I knew I and baby was on the verge of a break up because she started disrespecting me so much. She just wasn't seeing any effort I was putting in again. now no one even knows this and not even her from May till June and early July I did bus conductor in Lagos. Thank God none of my former classmates from secondary school saw me.


Anyway back to my story and the second temptation I had. There used to be a customer in my hotel then, let's call him Mr Greg. Mr Greg worked in the apapa seaport. He stayed in the most expensive room in the hotel which was 20k and he had been our customer I think since February of 2018 till I left by April of 2019 and his company paid directly to the hotels account. This Mr Greg was such a quite man and he liked me a lot. He trusted I alone, only I got his meal from Amala junction or those fridde Rice from Cinema.


He gave me his ATM to withdraw money for him and only I entered his room. I thought he liked me because of maybe the way I spoke good English or how we discussed politics or football or the Bible but never women and guess what Mr Greg never invited a woman into his hotel room but each Friday he had a new guy that came back with him till he goes back to work on Monday.

This should tell you who Mr Greg was and I never judged him, I never saw him less a man or less human or looked at him in that condescenting manner because who was I to judge anyone. Yes I loved my shola but I wasn't particularly a saint when it came to women as well as I was good looking and tall and had many girl's at my Beck and call.


Now back to Mr Greg, there was a day he got back from work when I was still working in the hotel and he called the intercom and told me to come to his room and when i got there I met him with just his towels round his waist and he told me he had a hard and a strenuous day and needs me to massage his body for him, yes it was weird but because he was one of the biggest customers we had I had to oblige him and when I was massaging him I could hear him moaning silently and I told him I had to go but he turned around and faced me and he had a big hard on and he told me he would get me a job that would pay me over a 150k a month even with just my secondary School certificate if only I agree to be his lover. I was angry and full of rage but I told him I would keep this between us but he most never call me Into his room ever again.


So I already knew who Mr Greg was and what he wanted with me, so when I became so broke with my shola putting lot of pressure on me I called Mr Greg that early morning of July and told him I needed his help financially so he said when he closes from work he would drive over to my bus stop and pick me up so we go talk and true to his words by 8pm I think he called me to come outside and I told baby and my kids I was going out to bring a nice meal for them and and Mr Greg drove all the way to that Mega chicken before agidigbi and he bought me some nice meals I haven't had in a while and bought a take away back for my beautiful family at home and he drove to a dark and lonely spot around Guinness and asked me what I needed money for and I began telling him I wanted to learn how to fix CCTV and learn how to drive a car and as well give babe some money to learn how to make cake and he asked me how much I needed and I said 80 to 100k and he smiled mischivously.


Now all this while I thought Mr Greg was such a gentleman. Whenever I bought food or anything for him he always left his change with me, he was a man of few words but that smile was so devilish and mischievous. Anyway back to the story Mr Greg smiled and got his wallet out guys and brought out some newly minted Dollar note and right there he removed 300 dollars and he showed me and said this is just beginning of what he would do for me if only I agree to do something for him now and I asked him what does he want me to do and he said if he nuts in my mouth after I give him a Mouth Action.


Now guys you can imagine how helpless I was, I already told shola I was coming home with some money and this was what I had to do for it. I shade a some tears in the car and asked Mr Greg if he couldn't help me without me doing that and he said I'm lucky he likes me if not he would have told me to eat his ass as those guy's I see that he comes with into the hotel with him even do more difficult things than a Mouth Action and as he was saying this he was smiling mischievously and telling me he doesn't give guys second chance but because he loves me and loves my long legs and has fantasies how I would cry when he slides his dick in my ass.


I kid you not guys this is so real and even remembering it now is making me so sad. Now I was got between the devil and the deep blue sea. I told him ok that I was ready to do it, I just needed help from somewhere and money so badly as i felt the pressure at home and as he removed his belt and took his seat backwards and removed his dick he said NOW SUCK IT BABY and gets your money I realised if I did it then I was hooked forever and I would always go back to him for more and right there I regained my senses and told him no more and he gave me 2k I think and dropped the food he bought and speed of and I deleted his number and since then I haven't heard or seen Mr Greg and let me just add I now respect married men and father's that work to provide for their family


I remember getting home that night and dropping the meal for my family and just went into the bathroom to cry with the shower on and after she ate she came into the bedroom and asked me where is the money I went to collect and I told her the conditions that was attached to the money was too much for me to do but she flared up we exchanged lot of words back and forth and that innocent kids were just looking at their parents and right then and there she said I'm too lazy and can't do what other men did to make money amd provide for their family and I can't provide for her and the kids and thank God she didn't give me that baby. Gosh I flared up and I'm so sorry I hit her, I slapped her and I just hope she knows I'm so sorry for that action. I told her how i provided for that kids and her from January of 2017 till May of 2019 , I paid her daughter's school fee, I told her I regreted taking her back, I regret even falling in love with her and how I foolishly got the apartment because of her and her bastard ( I still feel bad about saying those words to her) immediately i said those words and she cried so much and i went to apologise to her and begged her while also crying and while saying sorry to her she said these exact words to me ONE DAY I WOULD REALIZE THAT EVEN BASTARD HAVE FATHER'S AND I WOULD ALWAYS BE A PART OF HER BECAUSE THAT BASTARD IS MINE, I told her to explain that words but she said it's nothing, I begged her so much to tell me if Samuel was my son she said he wasn't but Samuel was growing up to look exactly like me, gentle like me, calm like me, generous like me and those words played in my head all through the night and after that episode i knew we were almost done as we were just clinging on straws and now to the last temptation and break up with my shola

But mega chicken at agidingbin was opened in 2019 na

if i could survive 2019 suicide, after loosing all i had within 1 month then am certainly living long. life is unpredictable the rich could be poor overnight.

Tankunland:
From then on I was just living a purposely life because there wasn't the will to live again. I was so lonely, there wasn't anyone to talk to or laugh with. No one chatted me up again, I would go some time's 2 days without a meal because there wasn't any food to eat, my soap got finished and I had to start to use Klin detergent to bath, yes I always looked good and smiled when I went outside because I still had lot of good clothes but deep down I was dying slowly and mightily lonely and depressed


I would go make block at Fagba railway and be paid 1500 but that 1500 is spend this way. 200 goes for my transport, 200 to eat morning food, I would buy Tramadol 100 to numb the pain from carrying 700 blocks per day, I would use 300 to eat afternoon meal and another 100 tramadol before you sleep to numb the pain growing on my hip again and another 200 naira food at night again, I was just frustrated and each night i wet my pillow with tears and prayed to die while sleeping anf each morning I woke up with a fake smile when I saw people.


I had to stop making block as I was getting addicted to Tramadol as that could finally mean the end of my life as addiction to tramadol without a job or money would surely lead me to crime and I went to start making bread in a bakery and we would be paid 600 per night after we have worked so hard during the night. All this stuff got me so frustrated and depressed and always angry and just wanting to end it all

You might asked don't I have Uncle's or Aunt yes I did but none came to my aid whenever I swallowed my pride to asked them for help and all they would say is why did I play football and not go to school and I went this way till that hot September 5 of 2019 after trekking so much and knocking on the gate of more than 10 hotels and got home to meet my neighbor needing me to go fix that light.


I just couldn't take it anymore and I was just within seconds of downing that sniper when I shamefully begged here and this where few reasons why I spiraled into deep depression.
(1) My girlfriend left me
(2) a boy that was already sleeping in my arms and chest was taking from me.
(3) used to do giveaway to those that were broke every single Tuesday on my WhatsApp and now my WhatsApp was like a ghost land.
(4) remember eating 2 bags of Rice in the year 2018 alone and now I couldn't even afford a proper meal again.
(5) my soap was 2k that lasted less than 2 weeks and my cream 4k and now I used Klin detergent to bath.
(6) I gave those almajires in my bus stop 200 per day i kid you not and now I didn't even have 1 naira on me again.
(7) how I single handedly buried Mom but now I couldn't even afford 200 to go look for a job unless i trek

From ur story.. I think you grew up around ajegunle, olodo apapa, isolo or Cele ijesha area

My fingers are so heavy to type what's in my heart....may God comfort you and renew your days ahead. Amen!

Hmmmm...best story ever.

CrazyOptimist:
Moral of the story
SAY NO TO PRE-MARITAL SEX.

He would have fared better without Shola in his life. God knows if his misfortunes were transfered from her sef.

Face your career and remain focus. Forget about SEX for now, you will get it non stop in the future when you are settled and married.

I dont care if you believe or not, but Sex is more spiritual than physical. I've read a story somewhere of how yahoo boys sleeps with girls and transfer demons into them, and any boy that sleeps with that girl will have his virtues tapped from him.

These girls are just tools for carrying the demons for the yahoo boys. And these kain girls plenty outside yanfun yanfun.

this your reply just weak me, as if the story is not enough. The emotional experience I've had reading these this evening is one that would last a long time. I am gentle!

Tankunland:
are you perfect Sir? Have you ever made a mistake sir ? Have you ever forgive who hurt you before? Have you done things you never thought you were capable of doing before? Answer this questions Sir and tune down on the abuse. Yes I made mistakes I agree but Shola was and is the Love of my life and she made mistakes because she was just a girl but I forgive her and have forgotten and pray she finds rest. Goodnight again sir and sweet dreams

May God take you to a place of financial prosperity. There’s a lot of lessons to learn from your story. I pray God grant her eternal rest. If I understand you well, her death has spiritual undertones right. Did yahoo plus guy use charms on her?

LabDNA:
Oga listen and listen carefully, I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist and a specialist in DNA molecular testing.
I once got a call from a man who called me to seek specialist advice on DNA testing.

The first question he asked me was 'Is it possible for my son to look like my neighbour yet my biological son?
I was thrown off balance by the funny question, but I lectured him that the only 'proof of paternity' is through DNA testing.
He responded that he has done the DNA testing before, the test confirmed that the boy carries his DNA yet looks like his next door neighbour.

I told him to come around for a confirmation, he came with the boy and we repeated the test, he even showed the picture of the man on his phone, yes there was a relative level of resemblance between the little boy and the guy in the pics but our test confirmed again that he was the father of the boy and not the neighbour he suspected.

Looks can be deceptive bro.
DNA is the only true test of paternity not looks bro.

how much is d DNA test in case peeps can support him

ODB2:
The worst thing about this whole thing is that Shola was ready to have another man raise his child.

That woman would have caused generational problems.

The wahala she caused in her short life was too much.

She had no problem cheating on her husband and having OP to accept it in the name of love.

OP needs to understand the implications of sleeping with another man's wife and also come to terms that if her marriage was not such a disaster, Shola would have raised her son with another man as his father.

Women. Fear them.

Shola was a very long snake bro. I Don tell again you o

This is inspiring and educative. Supposed to be written nd published. Distrubuted to bookshop, churches, mosques, schools and market places.

1x2x3:
yes whatsapp me. I will call you in the morning.

Tanks bro, i just hi you.