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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by LabDNA: 11:53pm On Apr 08, 2020
ifko:
how much is d DNA test in case peeps can support him

He should budget N125k to N160K. The reagents are getting expensive with the current fall of the Naira.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 11:53pm On Apr 08, 2020
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by elijahtemitope: 11:54pm On Apr 08, 2020
Rawhumper:

So sorry bro,ur Story Looks real but u know we dont know scammers from The real Thing.
I hv a beautiful Lady i met her last year she is with a five yr daughter both Are really fair and gorgeous.She told me the father of her daughter is already married but she didnt know about it till after her marriage.
But after Reading ur Story i am havin a change Of mind... i dnt give her much.She Loves me,tho am goodlooking (not really photogenic) dont sorry myself about women as i can get 16yr old gals to date me as well without giving them much at my age now.She once told me many men Are pestering her for marriage but for many months has stuck to me....the truth is i hv others but i love her More.When we walk even in darkness pple turn to look at her cos of her Beauty.I intend been serious with her but i Hope she wont come up with sumtin one day....
She doesnt demand,most times am d one begging her to collect what i hv for her.



Same as what am going through now, a crush with 3 months pregnancy, but the guy left her, am now doing Mr Nice guy, with this story, i want to reduce my niceness to avoid story that touch

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by solz007(m): 11:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
Thanks For Sharing Bro. We're Inspired
May Shola's Soul Rest With The Lord... Amen!
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ghettochild(m): 11:55pm On Apr 08, 2020
Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

The difference between our mothers and the Sholas of this generation.....
Na where e dey shine dem dey like...
OP inasmuch as this is a real life occurrence.. I just Want to advice others like u.. When u make ur first big money... U start to want to do big things...
Anyways u learnt ur lessons n I hope many others who read ur story will learn too
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Biglogo(m): 11:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
With little brushing I'm sure you will make a good writer not a footballer as were aspiring to be,.... What a sad way to end for shola cry . God has plans for you, it will manifest at the right time.
Thanks for dropping this here

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kaziblake(f): 11:56pm On Apr 08, 2020
This is so touching
God bless and uplift you Sir
RIP Shola

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kaziblake(f): 11:57pm On Apr 08, 2020
elijahtemitope:




Same as what am going through now, a crush with 3 months pregnancy, but the guy left her, am now doing Mr Nice guy, with this story, i want to reduce my niceness to avoid story that touch
Do not Please I beg you.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 11:57pm On Apr 08, 2020
LabDNA:


Oga listen and listen carefully, I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist and a specialist in DNA molecular testing.
I once got a call from a man who called me to seek specialist advice on DNA testing.

The first question he asked me was 'Is it possible for my son to look like my neighbour yet my biological son?
I was thrown off balance by the funny question, but I lectured him that the only 'proof of paternity' is through DNA testing.
He responded that he has done the DNA testing before, the test confirmed that the boy carries his DNA, yet he looks like his next door neighbour.

I told him to come around for a confirmation, he came with the boy and we repeated the test, he even showed the picture of the man on his phone, yes there was a relative level of resemblance between the little boy and the guy in the pictures but our test confirmed again that he was the father of the boy and not the neighbour he suspected.

Looks can be deceptive bro.
DNA is the only true test of paternity not looks.


Hold on there cowboy...


www.nairaland.com/attachments/11323141_chip_jpegb4b58c270916a50c51018812145e56b2

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by kaziblake(f): 11:58pm On Apr 08, 2020
Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS
God be with you always

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ayandee: 11:58pm On Apr 08, 2020
xrayj:

God bless u!
Dude is too gullible & pliable!
How on earth will any reasonable man accept such a woman back into his life?
He loved her unconditionally but the truth is she never loved him. When a woman truly loves a man, she wouldnt put him under pressure for money just after losing his job. She would rather seek for ways to support him.
She had big hopes of marrying a successful footballer hence her support during those times. The attraction waned when it didnt work out as planned.

Inspiring and sad story. RIP to Shola.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by rali123(f): 11:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
Really touching, I cried all through(stories like this are not meant for someone like me). Glad you are picking up gradually back.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by wiseone28: 11:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS
send me make i take play 20 odds grin

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Norabay(f): 11:59pm On Apr 08, 2020
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by olanshi: 12:00am On Apr 09, 2020

Deep!

So deep!!

So so deep!!!
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Lawsaite: 12:00am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
Nairaland you guys are so kind. You guys are my family, my father and mother God I can't believe this.

Someone called me and just prayed with me, someone called and just send me motivational videos, someone send me10k my God for lockdown. God bless you all. I just was missing her and that's why I wrote this thread but you guys have so supported me and encourage me like that day.

Please if you know you are hungry and 1k would be enough for you please send me your account number and I would send 1k to 2 people right now to eat and send some to my kid also. God bless you all and goodnight
He didn't even tell me his name. God of heaven. God bless you NIGERIANS

Thanks and God replenish you
I'm in the middle of my own life crisis.. I pray I make it out alive... imagine not eating for two days and your parents are alive..
God deh

A kind human here also sent me 1500 this morning.. whoever you are I pray that the God that's been keeping us alive replenishes and blesses you for... I am not ungrateful. Thank you

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by okooloyun1(m): 12:01am On Apr 09, 2020
This is so touching...
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ejilaj(m): 12:01am On Apr 09, 2020
At this point in my life, this story was all I needed to hear.. I was moved, and above all, inspired by your story..
May God elevate you bro.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ndubuisipaul1: 12:02am On Apr 09, 2020
This story captivated me like a movie
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by andyanders: 12:02am On Apr 09, 2020
LabDNA:


Oga listen and listen carefully, I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist and a specialist in DNA molecular testing.
I once got a call from a man who called me to seek specialist advice on DNA testing.

The first question he asked me was 'Is it possible for my son to look like my neighbour yet my biological son?
I was thrown off balance by the funny question, but I lectured him that the only 'proof of paternity' is through DNA testing.
He responded that he has done the DNA testing before, the test confirmed that the boy carries his DNA, yet he looks like his next door neighbour.

I told him to come around for a confirmation, he came with the boy and we repeated the test, he even showed the picture of the man on his phone, yes there was a relative level of resemblance between the little boy and the guy in the pictures but our test confirmed again that he was the father of...

Looks can be deceptive bro.
DNA is the on
exactly. Op need to do a DNA on him
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ayorinde1995: 12:03am On Apr 09, 2020
wow bro am touched,nice story though I think you need to find a way to write this as a book or sell to a good nollywood producer,it is better than those film script crap they show on african magic.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 12:03am On Apr 09, 2020
Norabay:
i can believe i just cried.

Whats with you chics and sad stories


Nah to hear am nah dey like but never to experience am

Here, let me play violin for you on top OP's sobby thread

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by emmysoftyou: 12:05am On Apr 09, 2020
seanwilliam:
Mehn, for the first time this year, I cry embarassed.. omo....I learn 15 lessons from this
1. Never have girl friend at tender age
2. Never have girlfriend while you are struggling
3. Dont be too generous
4. Dont live beyond your means
5. A man should be strong emotionally
6. Never date a single mother
7. Never accept a cheating girlfriend back
8. Have multiple source of income
9. Never close your mouth, you never can tell who would help you
10. Your condition is the not the worst
11.you yourself is the most important thing, family comes second
12. Dont invest in business you dont know the "ins" and " out"..
13.learn a skill no matter what
14. Dont trust people easily
15. Prayer works....
And lastly
16. Suicide is never the solution to one's problem

I really learn much ...God would make a way for all of us.. this really got my hearts
Your breakthrough is near Tankunland
nice one bro
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by LabDNA: 12:05am On Apr 09, 2020
ODB2:


Hold on there cowboy...


www.nairaland.com/attachments/11323141_chip_jpegb4b58c270916a50c51018812145e56b2

Take it from me, I've read that article and it has been discountenanced as trash. It couldn't even pass the simplest test of a scientific peer review process, no respectable journal on laboratory medicine, molecular science or genetic studies accepted to publish it, not even 'pirate journals' would touch it with a long pole.

It ended up as a laughable article on blogs.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Babisha10(m): 12:07am On Apr 09, 2020
Man ur story is an inspiration and same time mind blowing
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Nobody: 12:07am On Apr 09, 2020
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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ODB2: 12:12am On Apr 09, 2020
LabDNA:


Take it from me, I've read that article and it has been discountenanced as trash. It couldn't even pass the simplest test of a scientific peer review process, no respectable journal on laboratory medicine, molecular science or genetic studies accepted to publish it not even 'pirate journals' would touch with a long pole.

It ended up as a laughable article on blogs.

What are the chances that that simp that came to your lab had a son that looked exactly like his next door neighbor but had his DNA.

This is real. In the old days women or girls who lost their virginity where considered tainted and impure and carrying the genes of their sex mates.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ibuske: 12:13am On Apr 09, 2020
This is so touching and very deep..

You've had a very rough journey..but I assure you that, there is light at the end of every tunnel.

May God rest the dead, and give you the strength and capacity to take very good care of your son.

Between, you write so well.

God bless you for sharing ...Please do stay safe.

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by VillageHead: 12:14am On Apr 09, 2020
So touchy my dear!


Even as a youth you were able to swim through these challenges.


I'm so happy you made it alive.

I believe God is giving you a second chance to life.


Did I learn one or two things? YES!


May God bless and keep you and cause His grace to locate you!
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by ikennamadu1(m): 12:14am On Apr 09, 2020
Heaven please bless this dude wherever he is.... Give him more clients.... Heaven please multiply his bank account to the tune of 30million and above before December 31st.. That's my sincere prayer for him lord....

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Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by Ilerioluwa02: 12:15am On Apr 09, 2020
Really really touched by this.

Thanks @OP. You'll always be a blessing.

That part of your experience with babalawo @ ijebu really scares me though. Things are happening..
Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by omotowo2: 12:16am On Apr 09, 2020
Martinez39s:
You had better start using your brain. Go get a DNA test. What if she pinned the boy on you because she knows her baby daddy won't take care of him like you would after she is gone? What if it was her last-ditch effort to secure her son's future? Why would you trust the words of someone who said your "son" belongs to her baby daddy and had the boy live with the baby daddy as his son for a long time? You really need to start using your brain. Seems your ordeal wasn't harsh enough to activate your brain and make it override your emotions. You have to tune down your emotions, and start being logical.

You sounded too harsh all in the name of passing a message across.You said the truth though

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