[quote author=Anonime1105 post=88217506][/quote] Tears could not make me say anything meaningful, you are trully a strong man, may God almighty gives you the strenght the capability and ability to take care of your baby, the lord is and will surely be your strenght, AMEN

There’s always light at the end of the tunnel.

There’s always hope even when there seem to be none.

Grace of God will continue to see us through as long as we have the fear of God in us.

We shall make it through.

It is well.

Tankunland:

You are very intelligent. I can tell from how very intelligibly your story was written. I've met PhD graduates that are far less articulate than you.

You will be successful. It is inevitable.
Don't forget to keep improving yourself. It's also not too late to gain a degree, if you wish. Can be done online with Open University, while you keep hustling.

May God keep blessing your hustles Bro.
See you at the very top.

Tankunland:
if only you wouldn't abuse me and read were I said I was gonna do a paternity test on the kid when I get some money. Yes I made mistakes not because I was gullible as you said but because yes I loved her and she sacrificed a lot for me but it's fine I guess I learnt in the hard way. Goodnight

Your story is good material for a novel.
It will make an interesting read.
I'm already thinking about it

Mr Greg fall my hand sha ..


If only we can be selfless in all our dealings.

I'm so happy you came out of this. It would make you stronger and Wiser. Lessons for everyone to learn too.

SexytorresE:
Truth is “ she never loved u, all she saw was u becoming a star in the nearest future and got disappointment and started acting up Cos she no longer sees the hope in u anymore becoming a star and all that, then she changed towards u. Don’t love for pity or favor . Sad story though , lik a movie but I have trust issues believing stories I was reading from first temptation and I gave up at the 2nd temptation cos I can’t come and go and kee myself for an epistles lik I’m reading for exams when I’m suppose to be resting with reading now that school isn’t on section

*Session not section*

Wow wow wow

Your story is so captivating to the extent of making to comment on nairaland. I hardly do this.

My contribution goes thus:

The shola girl doesnt necessarily alter your life path negetively. You were doing great at some point while with her.

Its sad her journey ended that way

Going by your story, I noticed everything novedived ( lose of Job, Keke Marwa etc) immediately you moved in to the new house and started stuggling ever since till now.

Please try to leave that house immediately if you haven't, PRAY TO GOD for direction and thank God in six month time.

God bless us all

All I would say is;

Shola was a terrible woman and I hope she is in hell at the moment .

Secondly, it appears OP hasn't learnt his lessons yet. He's still defending her even after all she put him through, I'm sure if Shola was alive you'd probably still be under her spell right now.

Better go and do a DNA test for that boy, Shola's mother is probably playing you both and you don't know it yet.

Vavevivo:
Op thanks for sharing. Your story has given me hope. I contemplated on ending my life today because everything seems to have fallen apart.
My wife will put to birth this month and I have not registered her in any hospital because no money. I sold my laptop two weeks ago just to get us food for the lockdown and my rent will expire on the 17th next month. I’m just hoping for a miracle

Don't even consider it!
Reach out to family and friends.

Very touching and inspiring story, thanks for sharing. God bless your new hustle.

Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

pls change my life too I need to complete my training

Wow wow wow

Your story is so captivating to the extent of making to comment on nairaland. I hardly do this.

My contribution goes thus:

The shola girl doesnt necessarily alter your life path negetively. You were doing great at some point while with her.

Its sad her journey ended that way

Going by your story, I noticed everything novedived ( lose of Job, Keke Marwa etc) immediately you moved in to the new house and started stuggling ever since till now.

Please try to leave that house immediately if you haven't, PRAY TO GOD for direction and thank God in six month time.

God bless us all

Tankunland:
Today the 8 of April makes it exactly 1 year that one of my bank accounts had over a million naira and it was that same amount that changed my life forever.

yes it changed my life so badly that it nearly made me commit suicide but thanks to these beautiful forum that came to my aid at just the last seconds of ending it all.

Now what you are about to read is my life story of how everything changed for bad in the space of just under a year and how
(1) i lost my job,
(2) my loving girlfriend dumped me,
(2) how I overcame some deep temptations
(4) how I overcame deep depression and nearly killed my self
(5) and how that my ex died and in her death I knew I had a son.

Just deciding to write about these has gotten me in a melancholy mood as I have been in a morose state for the past few days thinking about how my life changed but I know someone might learn from it. Now I had to use a new moniker for this as my former moniker has many things pointing directly to me as I don't want anyone I know to know it's me but I would surely be reading the comments with my real account and these could be lengthy but bear with me

akaahs:
Wooowah, ur resilient to those temptations is something encouraging and ur write ups even as secondary school leaver is a top notch.
I really felt inspired by ur story and all the lesson learned.
But what's the cause of Sholas death?

If NOT for the poor state of education in Nigeria an SSCE holder is not uneducated.
Matter of fact by the time most of us leave secondary school, our spoken and written communication is pretty much set.

It's very much harder to change these in your yrs in higher institution than it is to have formed it back in sec. School.

edgeconsul:
Wow wow wow

Your story is so captivating to the extent of making to comment on nairaland. I hardly do this.

My contribution goes thus:

The shola girl doesnt necessarily alter your life path negetively. You were doing great at some point while with her.

Its sad her journey ended that way

Going by your story, I noticed everything novedived ( lose of Job, Keke Marwa etc) immediately you moved in to the new house and started stuggling ever since till now.

Please try to leave that house immediately if you haven't, PRAY TO GOD for direction and thank God in six month time.

God bless us all

Ohh spare me that nonsense please

Don't blame the poor house, typical of you Africans. The dude made terrible choices, hence his downfall.

Tankunland:
yeah I already did thanks. I gave out lot of informations and I wouldn't want it leading back to me

you might have as well not made it that obvious he got the name right.

anyway I hope you know to stay completely anonymous

twas a really nice post but don't let nice comments/advice here fool you, you gave out too many info (especially about other people you know) and the internet doesn't forget.

Same thing happened to me when I moved into a new 2 bedroom flat in June 2018, everything crumbled last year. I had to run away from that house last month. My story is almost similar to his, but I trust God to see me through.

edgeconsul:
Wow wow wow

Your story is so captivating to the extent of making to comment on nairaland. I hardly do this.

My contribution goes thus:

The shola girl doesnt necessarily alter your life path negetively. You were doing great at some point while with her.

Its sad her journey ended that way

Going by your story, I noticed everything novedived ( lose of Job, Keke Marwa etc) immediately you moved in to the new house and started stuggling ever since till now.

Please try to leave that house immediately if you haven't, PRAY TO GOD for direction and thank God in six month time.

God bless us all

Super story.

Why would I date a single mother deleted my baby, returned to her baby daddy, had another baby with him "again" and then return back to my home for me to feed 3 mouths that aren't even mine.

Even the most foolish man on earth, wouldn't do that.


On that note, this is a fools story.

reading your story at 1:03 am cause I couldn't sleep. Your story has touched me to the point I can't but shed tears. I am connecting with your story, because am going through stuff at the moment and I know how it feels to be abandoned by family and friends. Am married with 2 kid but it hasn't been easy since hubby lost his job. Being owed salaries for months now with no assistance from family. Just yesterday I was telling my husband, 'I fell like dying so I can rest'. But I Guess he thinks am joking. If only he knows how long and careful I have been thinking about taking my own life.its not easy wen you fall from a place of comfort to a place where you can bearly even feed your kids much more your self. And when no one seem to come through for you, it isn't just easy. I only have my faith in God. Your story has inspired me tonight to still remain strong, thank God you shared it. You've given me hope, may God bless you

Patience is a virtue.

I am not sure but I guess Shola was used by yahoo boys. Ladies please i beg you, gone are the days when you leave a struggling guy for a rich guy, not all that glitters is gold...these are perilous times.

Hi friend, your present pain is not up to 15% of what I have seen in life. I sent u a mail but reply
Better still call me on 0908 5 321 474
I married a school cert holder, when she had Bsc that was when her income grew up to times 5 of mine that was when her people saw me as useless man
she started having man friend, yet I endured because am a pastor, my friend pastor was dating her, I told my friend to stay away, he said he won't. See me today happy am roofing my house just today when people are sitting at home

Finally I was ejected by her people, this was 6years ago.
Call me or flash me and u will throw away that SNIPER
U WILL BOUNCE BACK

when story don enter many episode like this, just know its fake

Martinez39s:
Have you heard of the redpill? Will you take the redpill?

I'm enjoying your contents bro. can you kindly initiate me into this club?

like I'm really interested... like if there are other articles or anything you can introduce me to?

Is there any social media account for this? Do you guys or people like you have a club or group?

believe me, I'm effing interested

abeg broooo

You're a brave man... love is not a weakness

Ishilove:
Shola, you had two hands and legs but you put all your bukata on a young, struggling man. Your ojukokoro led to your untimely death at the age of 20.

All these young ladies of nowadays ehn

So the lady died at 20 years?? Did he state that??

LabDNA:


Oga listen and listen carefully, I'm a Medical Laboratory Scientist and a specialist in DNA molecular testing.
I once got a call from a man who called me to seek specialist advice on DNA testing.

The first question he asked me was 'Is it possible for my son to look like my neighbour yet my biological son?
I was thrown off balance by the funny question, but I lectured him that the only 'proof of paternity' is through DNA testing.
He responded that he has done the DNA testing before, the test confirmed that the boy carries his DNA, yet he looks like his next door neighbour.

I told him to come around for a confirmation, he came with the boy and we repeated the test, he even showed the picture of the man on his phone, yes there was a relative level of resemblance between the little boy and the guy in the pictures but our test confirmed again that he was the father of the boy and not the neighbour he suspected.

Looks can be deceptive bro.
DNA is the only true test of paternity not looks.

Bro how much is the DNA now? I heard it’s now less expensive.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Hey, i know youd have received so many mentions but your story is really inspring, i mean its better than Tyler perry's Acrimony, Lol. About your bussiness, If you want to get a higher targeted Audience on Twitter you can actually pay some folks they call "Twitter influcers" to help you grow your audience and give you more business. They just take chicken change like 5k or so to grow your business. This is just a friendly suggestion. Goodluck!

This is a very good story. Please we await the rest of the story.

unscripted:
if you let me , I can turn your story to a awesome screen play .. I can send you a short script so you know am really good at screen plays .. This is definitely a block buster ..

lol don't know anything about screenplay oo. But I would give you a call tomorrow if you can drop me your number now

Why you make me cry.

Tankunland:
When Shola's mom called me her first question was do i know who the father of Samuel is and I replied and said yes of course it's her grand daughters dad and she said to me I'm the real father of Samuel and that her late daughter reiterated it 2 days before she died guys I went crazy again.


Why me, why me, why me was the question I was asking my self. Why is all this thing's happening to me was the question that just kept repeating itself in my head.


I went to see my boy and the connection was instant ooo just carrying him again after 6 months send shivers down my spine and now I'm just waiting for his Grandma to tell the other guy that Samuel is mine.


I have already started sending my kid small small money again for his up keep Lol even tho not much because I don't even have much now but i would do everything within my power to give this Young kid the best of life that me and his late mother my queen his mother planned for him even when I never knew he was mine.


Wow I'm done. My hands ache. Just wanna say thank you to Seun Osewa for this beautiful forum, thank you to Joe Abah for retweeting that tweet even tho it hasn't yield devident yet but thanks and thank you to those beautiful souls that saved my life with that 9k I know you remember me and I say God bless you.


and to those on the verge of suicide I tell you that you can overcome and it's not the end of the world for you and Whatever you are passing through has an end ok and I need you to realize people somewhere is passing through the same or even harder situation than you. Don't give up, don't stop praying even tho I lost my faith a lil but don't lose yours because only the almighty can do all things.


To my young sister's reading this please be contented with what your man gives to you. The course of sholas death was so painful when I heard but please my dear sister dont date a Yahoo boy for any reason or even go out with one.


I tell you Yahoo doesn't work again and what they do now is Yahoo plus and some of this guy's are heartless and don't care about anyone than just to make that fetish money amd they would use you and any other girl they find to keep that money coming.


To my Young King's reading this don't have a girlfriend in your 20s please. Use that time to develop your self. Work hard to make yourself better as getting a girlfriend would really slow you dowm from attaining that top you want to go.

And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.



I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

Ishilove:

You are a very foolish boy.

I no cuss you. Na your name be dat

hey baybe I dreamt of you

All i can say is Thank u ubunja and martinez.. i have been following this dudes writeup for years now.. These dudes have been like john d baptist preaching and trying to save green n naive guys from manipulations scheme yet guys bash them.. if everyone forsake u guys i wud forever be on ya side.