leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

Dont accept it jare. By the time you walk out of 5 marriages, u will realise men are polygamous by nature.

thelinguist:


Hope you know she is not porr.. In fact her parents hold better bar...

Oga!
Ajimobi was in the oil and gas mainstream for 26yrs!
A senator for 4yrs and then
a governor for 8yrs in NIGERIA!!!
Her papa money na back pocket money!!!

edoairways:

Most men say this to women but do they forgive cheating wife? Can they stand a cheating wife at all?

women cheat out of love,which is dangerous but men cheat just for fun and nothing attached to it ,

WORD OF WISDOM FROM A WISE WOMAN.
This is what can keep a woman in a man's house for better for worse for a long year's of prosperity.
Fail to Forgive. Failure to succeed in marriage

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

And yet you allow pencils to climb you abi? Make sure you marry your dad or the joke is on you!

He may have given you std

One key and useful information I got from her interview and I would like women to understand is that leaving your spouse for cheating is not good enough and not the best decision for the family,... Except it gets violent then you can leave.

Also remember that you need to watch what you say in the heat of arguing with your partner and know when to stop when you have crossed the line, intelligence is brought to play in such matters

Remember she caught him twice, it means the over 100 or 200 times he was cheating that she was not aware of.

She is a very wise woman who knows the true definition on how to keep a good marriage last forever

Mstick:
The older generation of women have no reasonable advice to give. Everything must and will be circled around men.

*Go to school if not no man will marry you.
*Do this oh if not no man will marry you.
*Do that oh if not no man will marry you.

And yet the men you're being prepared for are left to be "men", it's crazy!

So many women in Nigeria today are suffering from low self-esteem because they've nothing going on in their lives except men this men that.

One was telling me the other day, it's ok if your husband cheat it's going to be very painful but he's a man. I asked her so what if a woman cheats, no oh it not allowed. So it's better for women to feel the betrayal and pain but it isn't ok for men? Still they wonder why the rate of divorce is higher than the previous years.

Said it all.

medolab90:
Nigerian women take shit Alot.

If it was the other way around would he still take her back?? I guess no

Our women should start waking up.

Go and wake them up Mr Women Advocate. Mtchewwwww!!

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

So you didn't see where she said she was born out of wedlock. If you lived with your stepmom or step dad, you will know the effects of divorce on children.

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

Some men are better than Ur so called Dad in millions way

Try to know him and see

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Not if he was a senator, governor, and APC National Secretary

If cheating is only all about sex, then why cheating? I guess that's a mystery on it own.
If I eventually get married and I cheat on my wife.
Please don't forgive me in advance wife.

As a growing adult you must have explore a little and I think that's enough.

Mrs Ajumobi could be a cheat too I think, to always forgive a reoccurring cheating husband.

The truth is men will always cheat.

Just a few men with high level of discipline that won't cheat on their spouse in a life time. Even when they don't want to, the temptation keeps coming. A world where we have so many ladies of different beauties, etc.

I just laugh when I hear ladies say 'if he loves me, he won't cheat on me'. Madam relax, him cheating on you or not has nothing to do with love.

You can only pray to God to give Him wisdom not to fall in to such temptation..

And if you want your marriage to last, be willing to forgive. Divorce should only be on the ground of domestic violence.
Truth is divorce always have negative impact on the children.

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

Florence Ajimobi, the wife of a Governor and financial big shot with affluence says she accepted her husband back...you that we don't know your address and we are not sure can boast of up to N20k in her account is ranting!

Inside life

If you people like, discuss man and woman matter till next century you will never get the formular for a long lasting relationship from these sheepish debates online.

The secret to a successful marital relationship is to love and expect nothing in return!

Take your spouse as your child, then most things will sort itself out.

Nuel4:
a cheating husband is not in any way comparable to a cheating wife. Worst case scenario he father a bastard outside whom the wife cannot in any way on earth be deceived to accept and cater for as her home but a cheating wife will bring another man's child to the husband and he will spend his resources on taking care of a child who is not his.
A cheating wife automatically makes the husband to start doubting if the children he's killing himself to provide for are truly his but a cheating husband does not have such effect on his wife

Great point. I have never looked at it from this angle before.

Ishilove, what can you say about this?

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

Only if you know this woman ruled Oyo state for good 8yrs

I can be stupid enough to forgive a cheating husband, but he would be the most stupid man on earth to believe he is indeed FORGIVEN.


It is better to a widower, than a divorcee.

Xisnin:

What makes Beyonce a powerful woman?

Most marriages in the entertainment industry don't last.
Why don't you cite those cases, why the exception?

Beyonce is multi millionaire with one of the most recognizable brands on the planet. What a questtion?

I don't cite these examples you speak of because these women largely do not qualify as powerful.

There are endless examples of indisputably powerful women staying with cheating men. Take Hilary Clinton as another.

pocohantas:
I can be stupid enough to forgive a cheating husband, but he would be the most stupid man on earth to believe he is indeed FORGIVEN.


It is better to a widower, than a divorcee.

Is cheating really so unforgivable?

I knew that man will be cutting corners. Mr constituted authority.

BluntTheApostle:


Men take shit too.

A man can't even express his pains. We have pains too, but society expects us to tolerate the excesses of women.

FIRST INSTANCE: A husband and wife are arguing, society expects the man to keep quiet first or not even argue in the first instance. Argue small with your wife, and you will find someone saying, "Oga, na man you be now."

In other words, a man must bottle his pains simply because argument is for women alone.

SECOND INSTANCE: A husband and wife are arguing, the man loses it and hits her. Society crucifies him. They call him names: "beast, coward, shameless"

THIRD INSTANCE: A husband and wife are arguing, woman loses it and hits the man. Society calls the man a sissy. Praises the woman for being strong, and refusing to be the typical African wife who is oppressed and bullied.

However way you look at the instances, no matter the argument, no matter who the aggressor was, the man always got the blame.

You can't compare a man's slap to a woman's slap. If I slap you, you will shake it off, but if you slap me, I may lose a few teeth in the process.

I hope married women and men will learn from this.

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

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Reichel99:
Never said it was by force.

The hair looks good on you tho that’s all I know!how are you doing Rachel?

Decryptor:


Florence Ajimobi, the wife of a Governor and financial big shot with affluence says she accepted her husband back...you that we don't know your address and we are not sure can boast of up to N20k in her account is ranting!

Inside life

Ok boy.

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

How did you deduce suffering from what she said? All I can see is a happy couple who have weathered the storms of their lives decently.

BluntTheApostle:


Great point. I have never looked at it from this angle before.

Ishilove, what can you say about this?

Whatever angle we choose to look at it from, adultery is very wrong morally and spiritually.

Well done ma, u are quite liberal...at least we now know Ajimobi cheated on u twice.Don't u think disclosing that dark side of his excellency is rather unwise?