Mstick:
He did. Him and the mother of his kids are not together anymore. From what he has written he has no idea about his kids daily activities, what does that mean?!
Cheating breaks home, ask the people that forgive their spouses if they TRULY forgive and FORGET.

gargoylern:
I visit Canada and the US from time to time, but on this my last trip I could not but observe just how extremely lonely Nigerian girls are there. Why did they immigrate in the first place? What did they expect what waiting for them on the other side? A man gift wrapped in iced sugar?
They all have Youtube channels now, or Instagram channels and release video or vlogs every other day. I guess it is the easiest way to stop themselves from going crazy over the dreary loneliness.
But the problem doesn't even stop there. Normally, I would have been interested sef. But many of them are actually not so good-looking or resourceful. Too bad!
If you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada, make sure you consider it hard and deep. You could end up being just as lonely and dejected. Am not kidding when I say this. If you aren't there, you have no idea how tough it can get.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

egopersonified:
ok, I am thinking, can't they become lesbians?

gargoylern:
Keep your questions coming. Am ready to open their nyash today. Let any of them come here and deny

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would loved to be there also

lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

Jaubdu:
I have a wonderful friend ( share some sexual intimacy with over short visit to Zambia), we met in 2014, African American, didn't want to marry African long distance relationship not her thing so we become good friend. Fast forward to 2020 she is still single. She has a degree, masters. A job, cars and a house.We sometime engaged in deep conversation here is what she said about men in USA" 1:3% of black men are in jail.2: 4% of black men are gay 3: 45% of black men don't want commitment 4: 45% of black men are married. White men are not her thing. She was 30 when we met now she is 36. In term of marriage, men has an advantage in foreign countries. Sad reality

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

Ghostmode2two:


OP link me up with any girl who is lonely in Canada, I am ready to build solid and lasting relationship with her please

StrikeBack:

Me in Nigeria.

You in UK??

Goldenstick:
Seeking an honest mature, open minded, kind hearted, understanding, independent and sexually adventurous woman to talk to, play with, emotionally care for, and no time for games really wish to meet a soul and play mate
Victor from Ogun State, 1.78 in height am slim and very much understanding.
Prefer busty and dark in complexion lady.
Text, call or hi me on WhatsApp: 09017224883

gargoylern:

A couple of reasons. They don't know how to approach, since they have never approached a man all their life. Na una Naija guys dey rush them na, lol.
Two, the white guys don't really find them attractive. Some asian men do though. Some Nigerian men also do. But because most Nigerian guys are not stable (i..e they are still working survival jobs), they are not ready to marry.
Trust me , these Nigerian girls are in serious dilemma.

Again, if you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada. Think twice about it. Be sure that's what you really want.

Aboguede:


Oga give me the site here sunshineway_13@yahoo.com

Am in europe and tired of agbo and EDO girls with their little brain

WUdec:


Every diaspora thread always gets derailed at some point becos of all the desperate guys wanting to leave Nigeria so bad, they'd turn the thread to a FOREIGN VISA HELPDESK.

For the record in case most Nigerians back home don't know, every country has an official website.
The official website has all the information you need about moving to your desired country.

Secondly, there are international forums with a lot of immigrants giving you all the information you need to know about migrating to your destination or living there.

The OP has posted a topic worthy of intellectual discussion...instead every 4 lines, "sir, how can I ." or "Ma....how do I....."

The ass licking part is the part that gets to me the most. You can ask a question in the most subtle manner without seeming too desperate. Most Naija guys in diaspora detest that and they will tell you if you ask

Went to the embassy once out in VI and saw how a foreigner was talking down to Nigerians like they were scum and this was supposed to be the receptionist. A Nigerian receptionist who did not even speak the embassy's foreign language yet she got hired

Stop licking foreign ass. You are human and no white, blue, yellow or green man in a foreign soil is different from you. Just be yourself at all times.

Ass licking is the another reason why foreign countries look down on us. Becos we forever depict that slave mentality. Only the wise will learn, the stupid will only talk out their noses.

Just venting

ajl:


The guy already admitted he messed up. He said his wife caught him with another woman. Often most power drunk Nigerian women will dump you because many of them are targeting the child benefits from government and child support from ex-husband. I ran into a uncle-family friend I knew in Nigeria in Toronto, his wife has sent him packing. I felt so sorry for him. I also have another relative/uncle in the US in similar situation. These are like crazy situation where the women seem to want to totally finish the man. I must admit it's often the men that initially did something wrong first. But this does not have to lead to divorce except if the woman has been looking forward to it. My spouse has caught me in such situations not just once but we are still together and typically I am an extremely controlled individual (no side relationships). I think there are couple of factors, we dated for about 10 years from her teenage years in Nija before we got married and she is catholic. And per career, I am someone she always look up to. Most Nigerian women will dump.you once they are in a position you have nothing to offer them or they won't be getting some benefit from the union.

Deoboss:


My friend lives in Canada, he said life can get quite boring & becomes a routine. He said the weather is not friendly at all.

Food is okay as lots of fish like Salmon etc. Canadians love Poutine a lot as it is eaten every where & cost of living is high especially housing as most Nigerians won’t believe this until they get to Canada.

Homes in Canada cost over C$1million to buy as funny as it might sound (via mortgage of-course).

Nigerian ladies over there know what’s up but just pretend that all is well when they come home for holidays as no much serious relationship there, a lot of Naija guys don’t send Naija babes at all which annoys them other than this he said Canada is a good country to live in if you are not the loud or lousy person

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

traihit:
Sometimes when I hear men lament over equality, feminism and the social system that's now trending in developed countries, I'd feel as if men are superhumans who have everything going well with them but seeing all the dilemmas here and abroad, I'm made to ask, who is responsible for the new social system, the men or the women?

jaxxy:


Beyounce home isn't broken. because they cud work it out and both agreed to. Cheating doesn't automatically destroy a home. The modern day family has done well to improve many things from our older marriages bt they have failed to make it last.

Modern Marriages now don't last because both party don't know how to handle issues.

Mstick:
Thank you for saying the truth, wickdness isn't gender based like majority of the commenters on this thread want it to appear.

I've seen Nigerian men that abandoned their wives and kids just because they travelled abroad.

Oh and they are Nigerian women that divorce their cheating husband in Nigeria no matter how wealthy he is.


If you want to marry, then you should change that mindset of yours and go for someone that shares the same ideology as you.

EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

EVILFOREST:

MY BROTHER the THING that saving me in diaspora today is the Lady that I married.
................ an exceptional Nigerian.

I realized she LOVED me wholeheartedly more than I Loved her then.
Meanwhile, in Nigeria, I had a lot of Ladies humming around me with the expectation of marriage but I was confused.
90% of them were leeches and slay Queens.
But when I realized how much this LADY loves me more than I cherish her, I married her immediately and developed undying LOVE for her.
She's a JEWEL.
She Falls Sick, I fall Sick.
While still in the US, She specifically told me that she would like us to rent an apartment where WHITES mainly resided.
I asked her why... and she said, she wanted a have a peaceful home and was not ready for HOME BREAKERS and GOSSIPERS.
MY BROTHER since we started living among the whites, it looks like we just packed in today.
No Troubles, Nobody has your Time.
Yet you get amazing wishes and gifts at birthdays.

Meeyankee:

My guy Dey to move of is naija any how I feel you man

BestAccessories:


I already did and even make a comment on the thread.

The guy messed up but he was bleeped up by both men and women.

Those other guys could have easily help him out without luring him to live of crime and he also truly loved the babe because when the opportunity to used her for Yahoo Plus arises he couldn't do it because he truly loved her.

What I usually tell any guy that care to listen, Never date a broke girl, a girl wouldn't date a broke guy, so why date a broke girl out of pity. If the only thing a girl offers in a relationship is sex and other things that can be outsourced like cleaning, cooking or washing, you are really short-changing yourself on the long run.

adexpa:
Generally, it is not advisable for women to focus on money too much n neglect marriage thinking she can always find marriage later..... Such ideology can work for men n not women. It is good for women to locate marriage and start pursuing money with her husband than doing it alone. What op is saying happens virtually everywhere including Nigeria here. It is always tough for women to find love after making money.

ajl:


It's not just Nigerian women, it's a black problem. Once they have a job some assume they can be independent. In reality they can but that's if they wrongly assume that the basis of a union between a man and a woman should be determined mainly by financial status.

That's what messed up African American families in the US. One of the past presidents deliberately came up with social service support that give benefits and housing to jobless black single mothers which encourage a lot of black single mothers to have children out of wedlock. That's how "baby-mamas" was invented. The whiteman know that once you messed up the black family unit, the entire black community is messed up. A white guy I ran into even told me about the American president that came up with the social benefit system for single mothers. Can't remember his name now.