jaxxy:


Don't decieve urself she's very happy in her home right now. Marriage is not dating. U work out the storms, not bail out.

Her marriage is not destroyed nor broken cos she made a choice to see if it can survive and it did. Forgiveness for the right reasons and conditions is not weakness it is strength.

tossedbae:
everything does not revolve around sex/procreation my dear

Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!

EVILFOREST:

CORRECT.
especially for those WORDS, you clearly made BOLD.
RUN away from LIABILITY, except she has affinity for hard work and propensity for self development with background COMMON SENSE

THUNDER4real:
MARRY A LADY THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HER......Good advice so far....

BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

THUNDER4real:
MARRY A LADY THAT LOVES YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HER......Good advice so far....

Nuel4:
bro, I'm planning to do Masters in either Canada or Australia once the world gets back to normal. Please do you know the amount I need to save?
Lastly do you think I have a chance of getting residency once I'm through with my studies?

GeneralPula:


Lol..

But you gotta be careful oo.. Arab men don’t joke with their women oo.. Ive has few cases of these Arab molesting black men that are trying to vibezz with their women..

Bbbwings:
If you're looking for homebased Nigerian guy, dm me.
This country tire me..

If you want meet them, try they follow your FRIENDS dey go Airport.
Make Sure you join them each time dem dey go there.
Abeg, AVOID AGOFURE, PEACE and BOB IZUA PARKS

jubrilELsudan:
THE ISSUE WITH NIGERIAN GIRLS IS THEIR MENTALITY OF THINKING WHICH THEY POSSESS AND THEY CARRY THAT SAME MENTALITY ABROAD.


A TYPICAL EVERYDAY NIGERIAN FEMALE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN TO MANKIND. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS DOING A MAN A GREAT FAVOUR JUST BY TALKING WITH HIM. SHE IS RAISED TO BELIEVE SHE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL CREATURE TO WALK THE FACE OF THIS PLANET.



JUST OBSERVE NIGERIAN GIRLS THE WAY THEY BEHAVE THERE IN NIGERIA. THEY HAVE THE WORST OF ATTITUDES. THEY DEMAND A MAN MUST SPEND MONEY ON THEM. ALL THEY WANT FROM A MAN IS JUST MONEY. THEY HAVE NO REAL LOVE TO GIVE A MAN. THEY HAVE NO SENSE OF HUMOUR AND CAN'T EVEN SUSTAIN AND KEEP A CONVERSATION GOING IF IT DOESN'T INVOLVE MONEY. THEY ARE HIGHLY UNROMANTIC. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON EARTH AND HAVE THE MOST PERFECT BODY AND THE BEST OF THE BEST TIGHT WARM KUKUNASE. THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE DOING A MAN A HUGE FAVOUR JUST BY DATING HIM, THAT IS WHY IT'S ONLY FROM A NIGERIAN WOMAN'S MOUTH YOU WILL HEAR A WOMAN SAY TO A MAN THAT SHE DID HIM A FAVOUR BY CHOOSING HIM OVER OTHER GUYS.






NOW WHY WILL A FOREIGN MAN OR A NIGERIAN MAN LIVING ABROAD IN A COUNTRY WHERE THEIR WOMEN ARE CIVILISED AND POLITE AND PLEASANT AND FUN TO BE WITH AND REALLY BEAUTIFUL SETTLE FOR SUCH A NIGERIAN WOMAN?

Ghostmode2two:


Even a rented apartment?

EVILFOREST:

When I found her she was already more than 4 times wealthier than me and also younger than me by 9 years.
She was 22 then. I earned $800 USD monthly in Nigeria while she earned almost $5000 USD monthly because of her double JOB in the US.

Despite this she was visiting me quarterly until I joined her. She also got to know about other Ladies around but she fastened her seatbelt and loved me more.
She placed my Parents on salary without my notice.
She was just WONDERFUL.
She keeps telling me that she saw wisdom and intelligence in me.
That Wealth wasn't her problem.
I am telling you the Gospel TRUTH, my WIFE is not NORMAL.
She is just wonderful. I hate seeing her CRY...

Shamzo4u:


That doesn't still mean they should be lonely, one can literally move in with a partner in love without a marriage..... E. G C. Ronaldo

EVILFOREST:

Even JESUS personally forgave the ADULTEROUS WOMAN and averted Jungle justice.
You know how you LADIES dress these days.
Everything vital about the LADIES seem to be left outside now, and not every man can be on hold.
Definitely some will nosedive.
DIVORCE is worse than BABY MAMA because the KIDS already know there was a marriage ab initio.
U LADIES should wake up.
We are losing AFRICAN MEN to FILIPINOS and Italians/ mexiacans in the US and you think I am happy

Veryfoolishboy:
Please I need a Nigerian lady in Canada

I am handsome and hard working

contematawa:
Good morning sir, since you have been staying in Canada, please what is the chance of me getting work with a tourist visa in Canada and how can I get work permit. Thanks sir.

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

Smile4mee01:
Depends on what you want to study?

Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!

Samadhii:

Please sir, like how much would it cost to migrate to Canada and look for job. I graduated with Biochemistry. I don't mind odd jobs tho

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

madridsta007:


Finally, someone said it.

AfroKnight:
And once you mention prenups, they are no longer interested in the relationship. Why? If they have no ulterior motives, why do they guilt trip guys who want prenups?

Anyway, more and more guys are settling for being baby daddies. No divorce settlement, no alimony. Just child support which any decent father would be glad to pay.

EVILFOREST:

YES oooo, BRO.
Are you not surprised that the BRITISH PRIME MINISTER only has a partner and not WIFE.
He is not married.
He knows that the moment he MARRIES, he will sink like the Titanic.
CR7 is not also married. They all know.

joelag:
I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

gargoylern:

$15 per hour is the minumum wage. That's what moooooost people earn, Nigerians inclusive. On the average, it gets to about $2k per month. But the bills are also expensive. Phone is about $45 per month, rent varies depending on where you live, it is usually about $500 anyways. I think some girls I know are paying $800. Those working better jobs are able to pay higher rent.

But trust me, most will give up all that money if only they can get a guy. Most of them are staring down a tunnel into their future and that future has no kids and no man even things continue the way it is. The chances are very high that the average Nigerian girl immigrant will end up unmarried. Not that it is important that they get married o, but the problem is that they all WANT it.

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept