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GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

joelag:
Did you see my last line?

madridsta007:
It is the Diaspora at large but the case of Canada is particularly striking as the weather, distance between cities, etc make socialising very difficult.

We must say the truth as it is. Nigerian girls, who are not used to approaching a man, struggle in the area of a relationship if based in the Diaspora.
1. They are not used to approaching a male.
2. They are not the first of the pick when a responsible Nigerian man-and there are few of this category- is looking to marry. The Nigerian female in the diaspora competes with the white girls, black British/Canadian/American girls who are citizens, other black African girls who are argurably more submissive and, if they are from the Southern part of Africa, we know how their physical structure are . Also, the Nigerian guy would prefer to travel to Nigeria and find a bride based in Nigeria. We know this happens.
3. The Nigerian lady makes a lot of money and because of their hard work, do super well in their career. This is actually commendable. However for most humans, this sadly comes with arrogance, the inability to cook, near-zero respect, and too many illogical requirements in a man
They become more sensible and rationale when they are 32, 33 years old and it becomes more difficult. I know some that actually move back to Nigeria to try get married.
In the end, they struggle. Hence you see them on YouTube, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, you see them as feminists, etc. Loneliness and depression sets in and, because of pride and the fake strong personae they have built, they dont talk.

I feel for them but they should know that there is always a way out to amend wrongs. First of all, kill pride. Kill it, it wont help you. When you come off as arrogant to a Nigerian man, African man, his spirit leaves the conversation. You can mock it, call him weak, call him "incapable of handling a strong woman", but it is you that will end up lonely and seeking companionship from YouTube. Next, study the place you want to relocate to. Most people just move without checking. Join and participate in a church, not necessarily student groups as this ends after 1-2 years. Learn how to cook ooo! Make sure you keep and maintain strong contacts in Nigeria. And if you need to take a career break to move to Nigeria to sort out relationship issues, do so. Dont let the good life of the West fool you and make you hit mid-thirties while single.
Make a move. That is the point.

gargoylern:
A couple of reasons. They don't know how to approach, since they have never approached a man all their life. Na una Naija guys dey rush them na, lol.
Two, the white guys don't really find them attractive. Some asian men do though. Some Nigerian men also do. But because most Nigerian guys are not stable (i..e they are still working survival jobs), they are not ready to marry.
Trust me , these Nigerian girls are in serious dilemma.

Again, if you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada. Think twice about it. Be sure that's what you really want.

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

sherylbakky:
Y encouraging homosexualism while trying to preserve their gene?

They are abandoning procreation and at the same time, they want continuity of their spring. How's that possible?

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

Cocao:
For that your one cousin heading to her 50s there are a thousand other women that have successfully either brought their partners over after they have moved or found other partners there to settle with. Should I also tell you the success stories I know?

Dear Lady, what are you waiting for? Move and make something better out of your life please!

Powerintoxicate:
don't fool yourself. No other race wants Nigerian women. Most times those marriages end in divorces. Nigerian women are not just attractive and only attractive to their fellow Nigerian men

azpekuliar:
Your ignorance stinks the high heavens! I advice that you stop polluting the thread with it. Or better still that lady should just stop engaging you so you can just go on to other matters you maybe better versed in.

Powerintoxicate:
don't fool yourself. No other race wants Nigerian women. Most times those marriages end in divorces. Nigerian women are not just attractive and only attractive to their fellow Nigerian men

BestAccessories:
Prenuptial agreement doesn't really sort this thing out, it only delay it from happening very quickly.

Read up about Janet Jackson last divorce from her billionaire husband.

The singer split from her billionaire husband after five years of marriage. The couple welcomed their son, Eissa Al Mana on Jan. 3, 2017, then separated a little more than a week later. Before that, Jackson announced they were trying to start a family and therefore canceled her world tour.

Jackson could get up to $200 million due to the terms of their prenup, according to Page Six. Her personal net worth is reported to be $150 million. Family sources also revealed that she would be entitled to $100 million if they were married for at least five years and according to the New York Post, she would also get another $100 million if they had a child.

Some ladies major business in America and Europe, is to get married to a rich guy, divorce his ass, split his wealth.

Many so called celebrities there do that to accumulate wealth.

Read up on the Kardashian sisters and how they make their initial millions.

Cheers

Sources - https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/things-we-know-about-janet-jacksons-divorce.html/


https://www.thedailybeast.com/inside-janet-jacksons-billion-dollar-divorce-singer-tired-of-being-the-obedient-muslim-wife

tydi:
Yeah I know. But their women can't take their eyes off a black niggro, you know how we do it in naija, come In as a wolf in sheep clothing(in terms of I wanna work for you (Albab) boss ) get to corner her(wife/daughter) one side then the rest would be history

Ghostmode2two:
OP link me up with any girl who is lonely in Canada, I am ready to build solid and lasting relationship with her please

ednut1:
visit the Canadian visa thread on nairaland or join a telegram group. They are migrating enmasse. I am those groups too. The opportunity is there so they should not take it What if they stay back and not still guy nko. Lose lose. Canada pali is important. This corona era govt ia playing them 800 canada dollars per child and 2000 per person. U say make dem stay nigeria dey earn 100k salary. Shior

sexylassie2:
you will forgive her because you will lose.

if you had nothing to lose, i am sure you wont forgive her.

I will consider it a mistake except she messes around again, then I will see it as a reality show.

The FUNNY THING is that my WIFE buys Landed properties in my name without my request.
When I visited Nigeria without her, She hurriedly changed our CAR using my Name.
She's exceptional.
U will not understand.
I know you are surprised that a LADY can be like this .

naijacann:
$3.5k a month is a very poor salary here in Canada. Which city does the person live? If Toronto, then that's equivalent to earning 120k naira per month in Abuja. A one bedroom apartment here inToronto goes for 1500$ per month cheapest. Some areas goes for 1900$ a month. Does she drive? She spends like 200$ per month for auto insurance. Phone, internet and other utilities gulps like 500$ per month. Reserve about $300 for feeding per month. Plz how much money is left? By the way, 1cnd$=280 naira as at today.

GreenKalada:
Hi please can you send me links to their channel? Or contacts Please I need a lady! You can reach me at enobong83@aol.com

pocohantas:
Why will they not be lonely, when Naija guys in diaspora are all coming back to marry homebased girls.

The guys are not faring any better; that is why they attend local churches and all sorts. The ladies are only finding it harder to adapt or come back home to pick a man.

The Nigerians in diaspora should marry themselves. Simple stuff.

odinga1of:
Same assertion those sex starved Canadian based Naija girls made.

I ain't talking about sex/babies

But the average JigeriNi girl likes sex that will leads to pregnancy.

I hope you ain't starting your YouTube channel soon?

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

gargoylern:
A couple of reasons. They don't know how to approach, since they have never approached a man all their life. Na una Naija guys dey rush them na, lol.
Two, the white guys don't really find them attractive. Some asian men do though. Some Nigerian men also do. But because most Nigerian guys are not stable (i..e they are still working survival jobs), they are not ready to marry.
Trust me , these Nigerian girls are in serious dilemma.

Again, if you are a Nigerian girl thinking of immigrating to Canada. Think twice about it. Be sure that's what you really want.

Mizwisdom:
Hey ladies in Canada, there are many guys here that are willing to date you, why complain of loneliness when multitudes of young men are here praying for someone to change their destinies?