membranus:


Okay oo. Even such women's mentor in feminism, Chinamanda, has a husband to tender to and familiarise with daily to ward off loneliness.

Ask Linda Ikeji how she is feeling, even with her high achievements. She will tell you E no easy, my sister.

Feminism doesn't mean women don't need men or that women don't want men. It means that a woman's existence doesn't depend on a man. In other words, as a feminist I can be married with kids. However, my existence isn't dictated by what a man thinks is best for me. So a feminist isn't a nun, feminist acknowledge the needs of women and men. The traditional approach only acknowledges the needs of men and dictates to women what they ought to want to need. So maybe those people you've mentioned want men but maybe they can't find a man who they like. so rather than giving up their success and careers to submit to a man, they choose to embrace their success and wait for the right guy. if he comes, great. if he doesnt, oh well. that is the feminist attitude.

dawnomike:
Well, i kind of disagree with that...

Have you been there?

EVILFOREST:

What you said, is the REALITY, even in the US.
U travel down to your community and pick a Lady of your choice, only for her to be turned into a DRAGON few minutes after arrival in the US, all because of FREEDOM.
Most NIGERIAN LADIES who suddenly become Emergency NURSES by virtue of assistance from their diaspora based Husbands suddenly develop EGO.... and can decimate their husbands, rendering them homeless.

IF U get a GOOD WIFE abroad, just keep going for special thanksgiving.
My Brothers and Uncles have suffered in their Hands.
We no Longer recommend NIGERIAN LADIES to my people in diaspora.
MEN should go out and choose their heart throbs themselves, from any continent of their choice.

It's very disheartening that a Man will travel several hours back to AFRICA to get a wife, only for him to Land a terrible package..

BEST ADVICE FOR THE CONFUSED MEN.
Please, Ensure you MARRY the LADY that Loves you more than you Love her.
This is where the ADVANTAGE lies.

oil dey your head man... Thumb up

Bostin:
I once lives in the UK for couple of years before back in Naija, so I know much about this type of ladies.
If anyone is here that want marriage, you can DM me and let see how it goes . I'm a single Dad of one , now in naija.

Sounds fair enough, I have an older friend who’s single and looking but you got a kid. She’d probably say no lol

MrColdsweat:
Once I meet a Nigerian babe, I pretend my English is bad, that I come from Vanuatu or Zambia.

If it's not Latina, I'm not doing.

Hahaahhahahahahahha my chest oooooo

Most funny comments on the thread.

generationz:



Ahn Ahn, only one Kardashian sister (Chloe) was married before Kim and she didn't get spousal support.

The Kardashians are self made millionaires (and a billionaire) through their mom and Kim's influence.
Not all women's wealth is linked to men in their lives.


In Janet Jackson case, being a wife to an Arabian man who values subservient/stay at home wives made her loose money from tours etc. He didn't sign the contract blindly. He knew what he stood to lose and left all the Arabian women for an older American entertainer.


Same way Mariah carry sued James Parker for canceling their wedding and wasting her time. She got $5M.

On Janet Jackson, She was a submissive wife during the prenup contract but life becomes unbearable immediately (few weeks) after the prenupital agreement. Reason am well. You cope with something for 5 years, but couldn't tolerate it again since you will receive money if you divorce him after 5 years. Why not divorce him the second or third year when she isn't entitled to anything. Why wait for 5 years when you are entitled to his wealth before seeking divorce. Why get pregnant the 4th year, and divorce the fifth year for more divorce settlement money. Sister reason am very well.

Kardashian sister also gain from divorce settlements. That is a fact

naijacann:


$3.5k a month is a very poor salary here in Canada. Which city does the person live? If Toronto, then that's equivalent to earning 120k naira per month in Abuja. A one bedroom apartment here inToronto goes for 1500$ per month cheapest. Some areas goes for 1900$ a month. Does she drive? She spends like 200$ per month for auto insurance. Phone, internet and other utilities gulps like 500$ per month. Reserve about $300 for feeding per month. Plz how much money is left? By the way, 1cnd$=280 naira as at today.

How I wish those willing to travel are seeing
this. It's not easy any where,be it in Nigeria or Canada.

potent5:

But prenuptial agreement can sort this out if the woman is for real and the man wants it.

True but in reality there's still a risk. The courts already have a precedent set where they can remove the effect of a prenuptial agreement. The OP is right from my experience here.

Swiitdoll:

Haha you want them to be used for visa lol.

There's nothing there na. They're both using themselves. The lady will get marriage, warmth and babies if she wants and the guy gets his visa. Is there anything wrong with this arrangement?

lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

Is it why Mikel is not married?

Dude doesn't want any stories that touch.

tydi:


My next move bro..

I'm in search of an Arab woman here in UAE to give me those Arabian cuties and we discus about her oil well she inherited.

bukatyne2:


What would you advice if a wife cheated on her husband?

Same thing. Work it out if it can. Factors and situations differ. If it can't be worked out fine. Atleast u/both parties tried.

Akpaamunsi:


Oga. Na Australia the ugliest and most rejected Nigerian girls full o.

You call people all these I'll like to see your pics.

People always see a reflection of themselves in other people.

Gerrard59:


They are a lot on Twitter these days.

I actually empathise with them.

How can you go to a small very cold town in Saskatchewan because of the job and money, where you don’t have Nigerians and expect to see one magically to form a friendship with? You don’t see anyone or see few who are not willing to tolerate your arrogance and then become feminists and YouTube and Twitter Nigerian-men bashers. As if that’s a solution to your issues.

So then shall we fry beans with petrol and a little topping of covid19?

Naija, we are always one-sided. Women do pay settlement too. If the Naija woman makes more money, she will pay settlement.

BestAccessories:


You are better off with gf and baby mamas there than getting married.

Half of your networth would be gone by the time she decide to leave you or when you wanna move on.

Example: Jeff Bezos paid MacKenzie Bezos $35 billion in 2019 to get a divorce (Source - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_most_expensive_divorces)

Below are amount paid to their wives to get divorced

1. Alec Wildenstein and Jocelyn Wildenstein, 1999 $3.8 billion
2. Rupert Murdoch and Anna Torv, 1999 $1.7 billion
3. Bernie Ecclestone and Slavica Radi, 2009 $1.2 billion
4. Steve and Elaine Wynn, 2010 $1 billion
5. Harold Hamm and Sue Ann Arnall, 2012 $975 million
6. Adnan Khashoggi and Soraya Khashoggi, 1980 $874 million
7. Dmitry Rybolovlev and Elena Rybolovlev, 2014 $604 million
8. Craig McCaw and Wendy McCaw, 1997 $460 million
9. Mel Gibson and Robyn Moore, 2006 $425 million
10. Bob Johnson and Sheila Crump Johnson, 2002 $400 million

(Source - https://www.pulse.ng/bi/finance/the-10-most-expensive-divorce-settlements-in-history-total-over-dollar11-billion/g65zsmq)

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

She probably had this discussion with you because she trusted you and didn't think you would use what she probably told you in confidence to create a thread on Nairaland. Think about it!

Swiitdoll:

Lies. My boss is a Nigerian woman married to a half polish and half English man with three kids going strong fifteen years. So many Nigerian women are married to men of other races and doing well. Divorce isn’t limited to a race or ethnicity. Many marriages regardless of race fail. Your hatred is showing gtfo

I can give you a very long list of single Nigerian women in US cities looking desperately for husband's. So don't pick an isolated case and generalise. These Nigerian women if they had stayed back in Nigeria or even come back have a better chance in Nigeria than the US

Swiitdoll:

Going back home to pick a man is very risky. You’d never know his true intentions, many ladies have been used to get a visa and dumped, then he goes back home to bring the one he really likes and was with. They should find a man that got his own legal staying documents or marry interracial

Exactly why I said they should date/marry themselves there. The guys sef dey find wife. Na only woman own them see. Let Christmas reach now and all the guys will land Naija. However, if they can’t see guys there, nothing wrong in getting a responsible man here. Guys take that risk all the time, I don’t see any reason why ladies can’t do it. We win some, we lose some.

Samuels90:
Send a telegram link group for me plz, need informations.thanks

they revoked the link. Chat with the admin to add you @raasputin

joelag:
I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.

Why you take her dey play?

EVILFOREST:

YES oooo, BRO.
Are you not surprised that the BRITISH PRIME MINISTER only has a partner and not WIFE.
He is not married.
He knows that the moment he MARRIES, he will sink like the Titanic.
CR7 is not also married. They all know.

Even our own Mikel Obi is not married.

pocohantas:


Exactly why I said they should date/marry themselves there. The guys sef dey find wife. Na only woman own them see. Let Christmas reach now and all the guys will land Naija. However, if they can’t see guys there, nothing wrong in getting a responsible man here. Guys take that risk all the time, I don’t see any reason why ladies can’t do it. We win some, we lose some.

the drama just funny me. They will be alright

Busy thread

princetaiwo:
I live in Canada, I married my wife in Nigeria, now she as the custody of our 3 children,
She determines when and if I can see our children.
I pay her child support every month which is not a problem to me because I will still spend the money on my children if we are all still living together.
She takes all the child benefit(money) the government gives our children.
She almost destroyed me here.
I don't know my children day care.
The truth is that she caught me..........and I apologized but the freedom, independence and money make most of Nigerian women to brake their Home and later live a lonely life.
I NEVER slap or abuse my wife, that is what God use to save me.
If I may ask, do you think I will ever think of marrying a Nigerian woman here in Canada or come to Nigeria to pick a woman? NEVER

NOT ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT, THERE ARE LOT OF HOOD WOMEN, NO MATTER WHAT; THEY WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER THEIR ROOT AND HOW THINGS ARE DONE

Sorry, it's a sad experience! Happy to know you acknowledged that there are still good women around!

...hmmm let me shoot my shot....

Any abroad based, cute, employed, single, available and ready to mingle can contact me..+2349070689040.

sexylassie2:


simple question ubu.nja

How many Nigerian men have these wealth in Canada?

None.

My NL Stalker, you are here again.

How is life treating you and the lockdown.

To answer your question, we have to take a trip to canada together to go investigate and observed instead of staying behind computer, laptop or phone keypad arguing about it.

But you are too scared to live a life outside your keypad, so you can't really know the truth.

Enjoy your life behind the keypad.

Beside my discounted phone number in your profile isn't connecting, get a life sister.

GloShare:
I'm in canada, and I will tell you for real.

The only excitement a man may get is having sex with a woman or friends with benefits.

The moment you nut in her and she gets pregnant, or the moment you put a ring on it and marry her legally, she immediately has power over you.

Power intoxicates, and because African women have not tasted such power, it gets in their head.

There are a lot of good ones though.

In canada,
Children come first,
Seniors (old people) come second
Women come third
Animals come fourth.
Men come last.

Ahhh animals before men?

pocohantas:


Exactly why I said they should date/marry themselves there. The guys sef dey find wife. Na only woman own them see. Let Christmas reach now and all the guys will land Naija. However, if they can’t see guys there, nothing wrong in getting a responsible man here. Guys take that risk all the time, I don’t see any reason why ladies can’t do it. We win some, we lose some.

It’s easier for a man to go back home and marry, I’d never advise any woman abroad to go back home and marry. Marry here or risk getting used, which happens 95% of the time. Some of those men even get here and dump her and marry a white lady lmao.

I've a brother single and seriously searching for a lady from US/ Canada for a serious relationship.

GeneralPula:

Lol..

Life abroad is my biz nah by biz and yours is yours.. Basically everyone is living like an introvert... No one gives a Fff..

Your beauty might help you more tho...If that’s you on your profile!

I kinda like/prefer their social lifestyle abroad than here, nobody gets to snitch or criticise you for staying single or being baby mama etc, every one has a right to live any kinda fvcking life he or she wants except or criminal act

Mstick:
Decieve myself? How do you know she's very happy?! Do you live with them?

Do you think she still trusts her husband?!

How do you know their marriage isn't just down to business arrangements now after all her mother divorced her father cause of infidelity?

Like you said and I also did, SHE made the choice to stay, and the man we quoted his wife made a different choice.

When u see a happy wife u know. Beyonce isn't out to fake it for people. She won't overreact bt u will know smtn is up.

She doesn't compromise her happiness to the point of faking it. She will stop certain familarisation with him. I know she's happy and yes based on events I support her choice. I have been a fan since she was in Destinys child. Lol