ehix89:
Don't settle for less brother, you're no lesser human.

I wish it's that easy.

TheWalkingMind:
Which Uni bro?

Any affordable one

Calicoe:
If I were a girl, I'd rather go to Canada and be lonely than remain in this shit hole reading heartbreaking headlines

Not when u have a good job here. Nigeria is a shithole country I agree but the same Nigeria made u to be strong and distinct from others.

No matter what we say about Nigeria,we still have our good sides and that is why we are regarded as hardworking. For me,insecurity and unemployment is our major problem,and apart from these two I just mentioned,we are a great people.

If they are lonely then they should acquire cucumber n they will thank me later.

EVILFOREST:

YES oooo, BRO.
Are you not surprised that the BRITISH PRIME MINISTER only has a partner and not WIFE.
He is not married.
He knows that the moment he MARRIES, he will sink like the Titanic.
CR7 is not also married. They all know.

British PM has been married twice

Powerintoxicate:
I can give you a very long list of single Nigerian women in US cities looking desperately for husband's. So don't pick an isolated case and generalise. These Nigerian women if they had stayed back in Nigeria or even come back have a better chance in Nigeria than the US

Patricia bright a Nigerian woman is married to an English man, Adanma is married to David an English man and those are black British elites that we know, when they had a meet and greet a while ago there were many Nigerian ladies/black british Nigerian ladies married to white men and have kids and still going strong who attended. You just so hateful, lmao come back to Nigeria. So the Nigerian guy will use them for visa then dump them and bring his girlfriend from back home. It’s 2020 ladies are more awake and see the scams loool!

tossedbae:
Only introvert like me will have it interesting there, I would loved to be there also

I found out that a beautiful girl who is an introvert and can cook is a lovely gem. I see that you are beautiful. Do you enjoy cooking?

Prettiepearlz:

She probably had this discussion with you because she trusted you and didn't think you would use what she probably told you in confidence to create a thread on Nairaland. Think about it!

fc.uk off

noziz:



' Asians and Indians' like they are not connected. Are Indians not Asians?

Um...I hate to break it to you but, geographically, yeah India is in Asia. RACIALLY speaking, the word "Asians" is especially reserved for Chinko looking people from China, Vietnam, Japan, Nepal etc. Indians...are just Indians. Makes sense to you? I don't expect it to since this description is actually racist!

MAKE Uh na come CHOP ooo, as we CELEBRATE this THREAD without INSULTING PEOPLE on Platform
NIGERIA go better, but eee dey our HAND.
na people make their country the way eee bi.
Make we remember our Ladies for prayer too.

Swiitdoll:

Sounds fair enough, I have an older friend who’s single and looking but you got a kid. She’d probably say no lol

That's so fast to contact your friend and get her responds on my post within a minute of posting . I can understand. I'm 39 father of a 4years old daughter living with her mum .note we never married .

I think they are too busy working/schooling. So, no time to change hairstyle every week, or spend 3 hrs on makeup or spending Saturdays at SPA. Thank God for braids helping them. We have a lot of free time here in Naija. Some ladies in Naija attend parties every weekend. Nobody does that outside Nigeria except some unserious ones in the UK that we use to see their fight videos on facebook.
Also, I think it's time for them to be exploring other races too.

Mstick:
He cheated on her, she has every DAMN RIGHT to leave the marriage. Because he took her to Canada doesn't give him the right to hurt her.

Where did he post that he cheated on her? Nairalanders are good at forging lies without caring about the damages it will cause

Mizwisdom:



There's nothing there na. They're both using themselves. The lady will get marriage, warmth and babies if she wants and the guy gets his visa. Is there anything wrong with this arrangement?

Yes, because the men usually dump them after getting a permanent stay for a white lady or bring his girlfriend from back home. It’s so common that the home office has moved it from 5 years to 10 years just so the women can figure it out easily if it’s indeed a visa scam marriage lol

Prettiepearlz:

She probably had this discussion with you because she trusted you and didn't think you would use what she probably told you in confidence to create a thread on Nairaland. Think about it!

This is a faceless forum.

OP has to enlighten people using a real issue..Especially those hustling to enter Canada.

U really don't need to bring the emotional blackmailing.

Na today this thread open so?

joelag:
I get one Ghanaian lady for Canada that never mind getting married to a Nigerian man, she is ready to visit Nigeria if need be.

Note: Her waist no be here ooh. Kind lady though.

Bro marry her immediately, if she get Younger sister let me know.

jokeharry3@gmail.com

Swiitdoll:

It’s easier for a man to go back home and marry, I’d never advise any woman abroad to go back home and marry. Marry here or risk getting used, which happens 95% of the time. Some of those men even get here and dump her and marry a white lady lmao.

If I were a lady based on the diaspora, I will gladly hook up with a Naija guy. What I will never do is hook up with a guy that wants to escape Naija because of poverty. I will direct that one to WHO.

If he has a good job and reputation, we are good to go. Lots of Naija guys are already doing well here, they just want thats security for their kids- hence the relocation.

Will the marriage to the white woman last? How many aged mixed couples have you seen? Women that can tend to the whims and caprices of the Naija man are not so many.

ednut1:
they revoked the link. Chat with the admin to add you @raasputin

Pardon me bothering you, d handle is on twitter?

Bostin:
That's so fast to contact your friend and get her responds on my post within a minute of posting . I can understand. I'm 39 father of a 4years old daughter living with her mum .note we never married .

I haven’t contacted her, we just discuss men and she does say she’d never consider a man with a kid. Lol you live with ur baby mama lolz who u fooling haha

When we tell women the equality movement is your worse enemy, they thinks its a lie.... in diaspora nigerian/ african men know these countries can take everything a man worked for just to please a woman..... nobody wants to even try finding out, so we maintain our lane...

i found a group of men on social media, white men, talking about how white men hate marriage.... the white me dont even marry anymore..

as a woman you want to work and build a career, building a career is actually gonna take alot of time... before you know it youre 35.... why the hell would i marry a 35 year old woman when i can get a 23 yr old?

wjames:
Most of these ladies really want a man they can trust but 85% of Naija guys are not trustworthy. Big shout out to the hardworking ladies out there(not the “useless” slay mamas that’ll sleep at home and expect their BF to bring pizza and money).

Thanks for bringing in another angle that they have refused to touch. Some of the men have ulterior motives too.

SenecaTheYonger:
From this thread, it seems to me that Nigerian girls have been pampered too much in Nigeria but took it for granted.

They aspire for equality only to land in a country with true equality. I'm sure they miss all the attention they get from men while in Nigeria.

Well, pick your poison i guess.

You know it's one thing to ask for this equality. It's another thing to realize there's overdose.
I'm not laffing dem o...

jaxxy:


Beyounce home isn't broken. because they cud work it out and both agreed to. Cheating doesn't automatically destroy a home. The modern day family has done well to improve many things from our older marriages bt they have failed to make it last.

Modern Marriages now don't last because both party don't know how to handle issues.

I think that marriage did not break especially because because Jay-Z had a prenuptial agreement with her, so it was not in her interest in any way to end the marriage

pocohantas:


If I were a lady based on the diaspora, I will gladly hook up with a Naija guy. What I will never do is hook up with a guy that wants to escape Naija because of poverty. I will direct that one to WHO.

If he has a good job and reputation, we are good to go. Lots of Naija guys are already doing well here, they just want thats security for their kids- hence the relocation.

Will the marriage to the white woman last? How many aged mixed couples have you seen? Women that can tend to the whims and caprices of the Naija man are not so many.

I maintain my stance. Nigerian women abroad who are looking for a partner should either get with Nigerian men abroad who have their own legal staying documents or marry interracial, to avoid stories that touch. Or he can apply for a visa himself and come join her, if he can. I’ve seen some older interracial couples, though not common but it’s probably because most people marry in their own race. I don’t ever see myself going home to find a man, of all the options, white men, Asian men, mixed race men, black men. I’d leave all those and go home lol never! Haha

RealMillennial:


You know it's one thing to ask for this equality. It's another thing to realize there's overdose.
I'm not laffing dem o...

U are something else...

Swiitdoll:

Patricia bright a Nigerian woman is married to an English man, Adanma is married to David an English man and those are black British elites that we know, when they had a meet and greet a while ago there were many Nigerian ladies/black british Nigerian ladies married to white men and have kids and still going strong who attended. You just so hateful, lmao come back to Nigeria. So the Nigerian guy will use them for visa then dump them and bring his girlfriend from back home. It’s 2020 ladies are more awake and see the scams loool!

you picking isolated cases. The best thing for Nigerian women in diaspora is to come back home disguise and get real true love.

Cry no more thus says the Lord.

gargoylern:

The positive thing is that they are able to earn well. I met one that was working in first bank back in Nigeria and earning about 120k a month. Now she earns a little over 3.5k canadian dollars on the average working customer service after a lot of overtime. She is always stressed out sha. 3.5k is about 980k.
It looks like she is on course to save a lot of money before mid-year, and plans to visit Nigeria by July. She didn't tell me explicitly, but clearly she's going back to see how she can revive a few friendships back home that may lead to marriage. She is soooooo lonely. She cried sef. Eyah!

Sanctification1:
To buttress your various points... currently, i have friend in CA about three girls are fighting on one guy that just entered from Nig . in the means of dragging him they used their to own to affect the guy and he was deploy back to Nig after one among them lay some serious accusations on him......To be candy, black girls over are somehow and boredom really killing them.

Jesu Khristi!

Ibechris2:



Not when u have a good job here. Nigeria is a shithole country I agree but the same Nigeria made u to be strong and distinct from others.

No matter what we say about Nigeria,we still have our good sides and that is why we are regarded as hardworking. For me,insecurity and unemployment is our major problem,and apart from these two I just mentioned,we are a great people.

At least we both agree on one thing *shit hole*

Cocao:


For that your one cousin heading to her 50s there are a thousand other women that have successfully either brought their partners over after they have moved or found other partners there to settle with. Should I also tell you the success stories I know?

Dear Lady, what are you waiting for? Move and make something better out of your life please!

I see where you are trying to go with this.

But let me tell you. Happiness is a personal thing. Happiness is like salvation. You do not generalize. I personally do not comment in relationship threads to avoid the bandwagon of generalization.

Forget what the world says. Forget what feminists say. Forget what misogynists say. Do what makes you happy. You owe yourself to be happy. You only live once. If being with a man who loves you makes you happy, go for it. There are many internally unhappy people online, posting things online, forming strong women.

Just do what makes YOU happy. You owe yourself that

Cocao:
This is very funny. So as a Nigerian woman looking to immigrate to Canada I should think twice because of men? Men? Hahahahah... You people won't really allow women to make their choices in peace. Ha!

You don't know what you have till you loose it, this men you are downgrading with this your statement will be the cause of tears in your eyes before you sleep every night while in diaspora if you don't plan well. Anyways, most of you females don't deserve pity and it gives me joy seeing some you over there.