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Timileyin1234:
But do u know this hiv we are talking about self, we can contact it through other means aside sex

Who was talking about hiv?

CHoccolaTE:
Who was talking about hiv?

is it not part of stds. U put if condom bust and I said we can treat others with liquid dettol except hiv

Timileyin1234:
is it not part of stds. U put if condom bust and I said we can treat others with liquid dettol except hiv

Oh ok.

edoairways:
Most men say this to women but do they forgive cheating wife? Can they stand a cheating wife at all?

Yes, some of them. To err is human, to forgive is divine. The ones that are divine among them forgive

But, contrary to Mummy Ajimobi's points on side chicks, some are leeches and don't go away o. I'm privy to a sacrilege o, she's been the side chick of a rich dude for a decade and counting. Some no dey gree go away o.

Ishilove:
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It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Why go to the extreme. If you'd read her story clearly, she said one or two times she caught her husband cheating....Her husband was not all over the place philandering. Now, whether you accept it or not, agree to it or not, there is a likelihood that an average black man (mostly) will cheat on his wife. There are so many factors that makes that possible including the history that you alluded to. Now, YES, i agree with you, a serial cheat should be avoided and discarded quickly, however, a man that mistakenly falls into temptation and errs,...well, if you'd followed Hillary and Bill Clinton's lewinsky saga, one lady (cant rem her name now) that abused and insulted Hillary and accused her of forgiving Bill instead of divorcing him cos of her own political ambition and insinuating that they have an arrangement and not a marriage, guess what, some years later, her own husband cheated on her and it was worse, shebi Bill just got BJ, this one was having full blown bunga-bunga, over a long time. Guess what she did... absolutely nothing. Now to your second point about men vs women, it is now changing. Men do not have that absolutely blameless toga anymore. Now, if you're dating a guy and he asks if you're a virgin cos he wants to only marry a virgin, you will immediately throw it back at him and ask him if he is a virgin himself and what right he has to demand a virgin if he is not one himself, right? 30 Years ago, you wouldn't have had the boldness and confidence to say that because virginity is only required of the female folk not and never the men, but that has changed. Now, even virgin women are demanding virgin men now. So, @Ishilove, our dominance is fast eroding.

Parisian:
The wife of Jezz Besos, (the richest man in the world) divorced his ass recently. Do you know how much she got in alimony? About 30 or 40 billion dollars. Even if Ajimobi had stolen all of Oyo state's budget in 20 years, he'd be no where near Besos in wealth. Yet his wife divorced his cheating ass. So who are you to say otherwise?

And i hope you also know Adele, the “Hello from the other side” crooner, filed for divorce and she must now pay her ex husband £140m from her net worth, which is about £190m based on the marriage contract they both signed.

CHoccolaTE:
I might not leave a cheating spouse but God know say I go frustrate him life.
I will sabotage any form of happiness or success in his life and pretend to be a loving wife so that he will not suspect me and he will not be able to protect himself from my revenge.

haa. Sabotage happiness and success ke. even after repentance? trust me u too won't be happy in d long run. indirectly ure doing urself na coz u ll most likely suffer part of his unsuccessful life. Who does that.

better u divorce him for good than becoming his devil.

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Can you swear that only one leg you have encountered in your life? The bolded is a lie from the pit of hell. A wife is the only one to run mad and die if she did not confess.

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

As a razor, you are worse than pencil.

Dedetwo:
Can you swear that only one leg you have encountered in your life? The bolded is a lie from the pit of hell. A wife is the only one to run mad and die if she did not confess.

Before anyone swears any yeye swearing, kindly note that cultures differ so if the woman runs runs mad in your culture, ours simply brings destruction into her family.

Dedetwo:
As a razor, you are worse than pencil.

Is that all

Ladyhippolyta88:
You have said it all that is why I am not moved when I hear some people celebrating 20,30,40 and 50 years of marriage .There is nothing special in some of their relationships they are just managing each others bagages nothing to emulate.They just put on a show for society.

that is their goal, please leave them, in most cases, these women become the wife of a great and successful men. they are proud of the Madam recognition gotten from their husband influence.

please, what is ur marriage goal

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

she stayed with ajimobi bcs he is rich

danilmo:
haa. Sabotage happiness and success ke. even after repentance? trust me u too won't be happy in d long run. indirectly ure doing urself na coz u ll most likely suffer part of his unsuccessful life. Who does that.

better u divorce him for good than becoming his devil.

Hahaha
I won't suffer any thing because I love revenge and I am an expert in executing it.

I won't divorce him because I don't want my kids to be stigmatized for coming from a broken home

edoairways:
Bible doesn't permit it. Jesus and apostle Paul spoke against it

Your verse first before I bombard you.

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Are U Urhobo? When I was working in a glass-making industry, my married Urhobo friends in de company left their wives n children in delta state n were fvckin every rat n rabbit in the Ngwa area of Abia state where our company is situated. Was very disgustin to me.I would tell them that their wives would be doin same over there at delta but they would say if she does n dnt confess, she would die. And if they know n cover her, they would die too. An ancient covenant, curse n practise there.So no fvckin for madam till they travel home n they rarely go home. The one very close to me, the wife would beg n beg for him to come home so she can get some fvck, my friend would give her conditions. There was once she told her to take her money n slaughter goat n prepare delicacies. Madam did. Once she had to travel down to where we stay after beggin for oga to come home but he refused. She offered to come to Abia state n he consented. It was cheaper for him cos travelling bills would be on madam. And when madam came, I was taken aback. Very beautiful, kind and homely lady. And my friend was fvckin the ugliest and irresponsible, wayward girls at our base.Their ancestors codedly caged their ladies, allowing the men to live wayward lives.

Reichel99:
Ok ma, all I know is I won't accept a cheat back.

You are sweet you don’t deserve a cheat. Where you at?

CHoccolaTE:
Hahaha
I won't suffer any thing because I love revenge and I am an expert in executing it.

I won't divorce him because I don't want my kids to be stigmatized for coming from a broken home

indirectly if ure Ajimobis wife, he wouldn't have became a Gov. and u too wouldn't ave became a First Lady..

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

your dad is an old pencil

SharonLoveth:
You are a sad strange little man, and you have my pity.

what will be the gain to me of your pity

amrash214:
your dad is an old pencil

Is that all

leaculpa:
I thought she was an enlightened person. A mixed Lebanese woman with rich parents saying all these.
Women that openly preach this nonsense have suffered much emotional abuse from their husbands & have accepted being a doormat as a coping mechanism. Sad. You deserve better.

If what she's saying is nonsense,then what would u have her do ??
Oya give us ur "sensefilled" advice on this issue...

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

Are you from Nsugbe? If you are, I will tell you how it started.
Some parts of nsukka also have that tradition.

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

Including your brother(s)(if you have any) and your future horseband.

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

sorry to bother are you from Abia State

dre11:
https://punchng.com/why-i-forgave-my-husband-when-he-cheated-twice-ajimobis-wife/

This woman is really stupid,just imagine the last paragraph!,the Ajimobi of a man self appears to be an avid Toto chaser if not his wife will not have the confidence to make the statement in the last paragraph.

SharonLoveth:
The Man Still Cheating And He'll Continue Cheating.. Men Are Nothing But Pencil, Excluding My Dad

Your dad that has young boys on contract arranging teenager's kpekus for him codedly.

Ishilove:
This is deep-



It is still no excuse for the dogs among men to break their marriage vows by dipping their wayward preeks into every hole that drips moisture. And for you single ladies, stay away from people's husbands. Don't be unfortunate.

It is sad that we are living in a patriarchal society where the odds are deliberately stacked against women. What is sauce for the goose is poison for the gander. Where I come from, a cheating man can commit adultery and get away with it, but a cheating woman will endanger the lives of her husband and children if she commits same adultery and does not confess. The husband and kids may fall sick and die, or his business may suffer severe set backs if he keeps making love to her and eating her food in her unconfessed state of adultery. I don't know if it is programmed on the day of the traditional wedding or of it is an ancestral covenant with unknown deities.

Whatever it is, it just makes me mad! It is so unfair. There should be equal punishment for adulterers

you must be an idoma because what you narrated just sounds like aleku,I knew about when I stayed in otukpa,but I also heard the women there have discovered the antidote for the dreaded Oracle and still engaged in extramarital affairs.

Deepthoughts:
Your dad that has young boys on contract arranging teenager's kpekus for him codedly.

Hehehhehehe... You own me something

You're wonderful dear... Now take this eat

Eziokwugbaoto:
Including your brother(s)(if you have any) and your future horseband.

Is that all

SharonLoveth:
Hehehhehehe... You own me something

You're wonderful dear... Now take this eat

were you told I'm a Chinese?, don't be ashamed go check your dad n thank me later.

Deepthoughts:
were you told I'm a Chinese?, don't be ashamed go check your dad n thank me later.

Is that Chinese food.. Mba you mumu no be small you're just moribund of everything..

Come bring your brain, I need to examine it