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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by SirNuell1(m): 1:29pm On Apr 11, 2020
EDDYBABA01:
Guys good morning do you know the best way to meet this lonely girls, just like the OP said. You can tumble on them on Instagram or YouTube just got one now. Just said hi and she replied immediately haha grin omo no be small thing o

Like seriously?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by partnerinbiz3: 2:47pm On Apr 11, 2020
ornicus:


People, men and women change when they enter obodo oyibo. I have a story of where they arranged a marriage for the US based babe, and the guy an alfa, comot for closet when he entered the US. Plenty of women also change because the dynamic in the west is different. No one will push you to remain in a marriage. No one will tell you to take infidelity etc. I have an uncle who they arranged one nice chick for. The chick was just biding her time till she entered us. Unfortunately for her the uncle is also very sharp. They came back home and he did the divorce there. Blindsided her with it. No alimony, no support etc.

Everybody for obodo oyibo just dey fear because the risks especially for men, are much higher.

was the divorce concluded here?
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by hAlexandro(m): 4:35pm On Apr 11, 2020
AkeNathan:


I need me some.

Where can I find these ladies?

I'm in health sector
go thru PR save yourselve the stress and embarrassment

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 4:40pm On Apr 11, 2020
The poverty is surreal.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by omoyankee3(m): 5:37pm On Apr 11, 2020
Minxie:


Feminism doesn't mean women don't need men or that women don't want men. It means that a woman's existence doesn't depend on a man. In other words, as a feminist I can be married with kids. However, my existence isn't dictated by what a man thinks is best for me. So a feminist isn't a nun, feminist acknowledge the needs of women and men. The traditional approach only acknowledges the needs of men and dictates to women what they ought to want to need. So maybe those people you've mentioned want men but maybe they can't find a man who they like. so rather than giving up their success and careers to submit to a man, they choose to embrace their success and wait for the right guy. if he comes, great. if he doesnt, oh well. that is the feminist attitude.

Feminism contradicts the very purpose of a woman and that's why they are a confused set of people.

If you believe in the bible, you'll agree that eve was created as a helpmate for adam...that's her PRIMARY purpose. What feminists fail to understand is that the traditional approach is the natural one....a man and his wife are one, and their needs/goals are one. When the wife helps the man achieve his goals, hers too is being accomplished (Michelle Obama, Priscilla Chan etc)

Homemaking has been around for thousands of years, but careers are modern constructs, and fairly recent in human history. Little wonder it's hard for women to find lasting fulfilment solely in their careers.

Feminists are the best type of employees though; they work longer hours, with so much dedication, and for so many years, just to make their employers wealthier (the ideology is an agender by govts n corporations but that's another story). The feminist ultimately ends up working for THE man.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Varys: 5:41pm On Apr 11, 2020
prince049:

??huh?? just like that..

Yes Sir!
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Clefayomide: 6:17pm On Apr 11, 2020
lefulefu:
divorce settlements and govt will give ur house and property to ur divorced wife is probably d reason

Does the divorce settlement still applies if there's a prenup agreement?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Bostin(m): 6:36pm On Apr 11, 2020
Sleeklord:

I know I would be insulted both here and in the comfort of some people's living rooms for what I'm about to do and I know this is the wrong place and time and period because of the covid-19.But i don't care about my reputation because of what is bothering me.Please ladies and gentlemen I need help financially even if it's a loan to pay back at a later time.Please help me I was ashamed of asking for anything here and was looking at my dignity but the problems facing me have even made me to consider ending my life making me see myself as useless.I was looking for a job before this lockdown happened.Im typing with the freebasics website now.Ive sold virtually everything to sustain myself and my family before this pandemic occured.Pls I beg you please help me with anything even if it's a loan I promise to pay back cause I how times are hard.I really need help.Im just tired of this life.Im finished cry cry.
Bro I wish I can help you but I need helps myself . Please don't give up on hope as God still love you that is why you're still alive and healthy , just look at the number of people buried everyday in the Covid-19 troubled Countries both rich and poor. We shall all overcome it ..Shalom

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 7:04pm On Apr 11, 2020
Bostin:
Bro I wish I can help you but I need helps myself . Please don't give up on hope as God still love you that is why you're still alive and healthy , just look at the number of people buried everyday in the Covid-19 troubled Countries both rich and poor. We shall all overcome it ..Shalom
God bless you bro.Its just the situation of life.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by obiem(m): 7:20pm On Apr 11, 2020
BusterG:
The Canadian System in itself is self derogatory.
Quite a number of people who travel there had too much expectations. Even when the welfare is top notch and the government supports immigrants from left, right and centre. At a point as a grassroots African you’ll wonder “ why am I here’ .

One of the suicide tickets you’ll ever buy is to Pearson Intll’ especially when you’re coming from Africa. At first you will be presented with quite a number of opportunities but in reality It’s a 50/50 game.

I will open a thread and entertain free-minded opinion about immigrating to Canada.

I swear real suicide tickets oh! Looking forward to the thread. As an immigrant that's been here for almost two years, it's about your mindset and then expectations. Balancing both is where the task lies....
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by calculator123(m): 7:59pm On Apr 11, 2020
Nwachi22:
Interesting thread. I’ve been considering relocating to either US or Canada to further my education and acquire more job experience. Now I’m beginning to have a second thought.
Please don't. Ensure you have a relationship tending towards marriage
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 8:09pm On Apr 11, 2020
zichien:
Nigerian men also need to learn how to treat their wives better as well. I can assure you that a Naija man married to a white lady will not sit down and wait for his wive to go to work, come, go grocery shopping, come back make meals, clean house etc. He will chip in and help out at home, and will pamper his oyibo/foreign wife... but when he's married to naija lady thats not the case. He balances and acts like a God in his home.
U have a Point though.
Most OYIBO LADIES have Jobs here.
Sometimes it may take you 2weeks to see your wife in the US because of WORK. And they contribute immensely to the Family.
There's Nothing like In-Law in the US.
U stay married only to your partner.
No one trespasses.


But, MOST of our Ladies based in Nigeria are Jobless, not their Fault though, But some are not economically sound upstairs.
Yet they expect so much from you.
U sponsor your entire wedding yourself as a man.
You pay bills in Nigeria.
You settle In Laws.
You train your Brother In-Laws and Sister In Laws
You still get insulted by a Jobless Lady.
Some also take your MONEY to sow seeds to Fake pastors without your Notice.
Yet you leave the US to visit Nigeria and MARRY her.
She relocates and Chases you out of the HOUSE.
HaBa....!!!!
Between these 2 LADIES who will you PamPer...
WHITE LADIES cherish NIGERIAN MEN a lot here

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Minxie(f): 9:11pm On Apr 11, 2020
omoyankee3:


Feminism contradicts the very purpose of a woman and that's why they are a confused set of people.

If you believe in the bible, you'll agree that eve was created as a helpmate for adam...that's her PRIMARY purpose. What feminists fail to understand is that the traditional approach is the natural one....a man and his wife are one, and their needs/goals are one. When the wife helps the man achieve his goals, hers too is being accomplished (Michelle Obama, Priscilla Chan etc)

Homemaking has been around for thousands of years, but careers are modern constructs, and fairly recent in human history. Little wonder it's hard for women to find lasting fulfilment solely in their careers.

Feminists are the best type of employees though; they work longer hours, with so much dedication, and for so many years, just to make their employers wealthier (the ideology is an agender by govts n corporations but that's another story). The feminist ultimately ends up working for THE man.

1. the Bible says a lot of things. Check it out and you'll be surprised that half of the things that you do and say on a daily basis goes against everything written in the Bible smiley

2. what if a person does not believe in the Bible or any other form of scripture?

3. careers are not modern constructions. what would you call trading? a hobby?

4. homemaking... do you honestly think while Betty and Tom were being chased by wild animals and fought for survival with a rock and a stick, that Betty had the time to decorate their cave on rock furniture and hunting trophies? no my dear. Betty and Tom were surviving together, hunting together, raising kids together etc. Because that's how they survived and evolved into what we are today.

5. some women, just like some men, dont find lasting fulfillment in careers only. Why do you see men also looking for wives? because they seek fulfillment. Looking for fulfillment in a relationship is not something restricted to women.

6. the only reason a majority of men are in top positions is because they had the privilege. So naturally you will find women working for them. But as women get more empowered, they take top positions and then men work for them. Do yourself a favor and google those successful women to find out how many men they employ.

7. if a woman decides to do something for her husband, she does it because she wants to and not because she was forced or somehow manipulated into thinking that she has to. That's the feminist way.

8. traditional approach is not the natural one, it is an approach. not the only approach. just look at animals, they have different ways. sometimes the females are dominant and sometimes the males are dominant. There's not only one "natural" approach.

9. I have worked for many women and I know many men who have worked for women. It may sounds strange to you, but it is the real world.

10. i made this last point because I never leave a project 90% done. cool

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 9:57pm On Apr 11, 2020
Make I sell market here shaa, if I beg now they will tagged me a bigger lol grin we buy all kinds of gifts card and bitcoin. Slide in the dm
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Efemena001(m): 10:39pm On Apr 11, 2020
gnykelly:


follow your heart... our parts are different
Did you mean to say: "Paths"? (I was puzzled up already).
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Chuky7(m): 5:44am On Apr 12, 2020
best thread of the year
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Smile4mee01: 7:07am On Apr 12, 2020
The curse of the woman is emotional, relational. That is the way nature designed her. She was made for the man and when that is unattainable she moved to her children, after that maybe pets, that why we have so many pets here. Feminist are trying hard to reverse this. But its impossible. So they derive satisfaction from the strength of their relationships.

Just as it is for a woman, a man's curse is to labour all the days of his life. To succeed. To be economically balanced. And financially independent. A man derives satisafcation for his job/work/hustle

With the ratio of women to men increasing. And the prophesy of 7 to1. Not all women will be married. Some women will have to share thier man.

If you girls climb down from your high horse. You will get a man , consider sponsoring an already hard working man in 9ja. Dont look at the help u are doing for him, see it as you are investing in your future kids. And do the best you can to be gentle, kind and homely armed with the fact that he may still misbehave. This is a better option than running out of eggs and dying lonely.

Even here in Australia. I always desired to marry a 9ja babe....but with what I see here, I might end up with a lady from another nation.

I am so glad I am a man. Feel for my 9ja sisters.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by gnykelly(m): 7:19am On Apr 12, 2020
Efemena001:
Did you mean to say: "Paths"? (I was puzzled up already).

yes 'paths'
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 11:16am On Apr 12, 2020
MOnkeyBabe:
wrong. Haven't you seen a slay Queen and African village girl like me? I can be anything


I have met many but i say truth there are times i lost...but to be honest,what made me to scale thru with ladies was honesty....i was true to them about my intentions.Some would get offended but after they saw i maintained my stance and also i have some physical attributes with my manner approach,i ended up making love with most of them.Till today this method works for me every lady knows sex is part of d reason a guy approaches so why should guys pretend,do they think d can deceive d ladies.
GUYS I SAY DIS,GALS DONT HAVE LIGHT BRAIN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX,its not ur smooth talks that made them to open legs its just that on my mind d have decided to so play along our games.
I create threads to educate guys....back den in school was paid by sum of my hostel guys to teach dem cos d first tot i was using charms cos of d level of different gals i had then.Miss English,Miss Econs or beauties.
How can u slay me when am been straight with u without pretense?

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Smile4mee01: 12:47pm On Apr 12, 2020
Weydon I greet You. I always believed in you, I hope you break Solomons record someday.

Away from that, You have spoken well. The best way to get a woman is between her ears.

Rawhumper:



I have met many but i say truth there are times i lost...but to be honest,what made me to scale thru with ladies was honesty....i was true to them about my intentions.Some would get offended but after they saw i maintained my stance and also i have some physical attributes with my manner approach,i ended up making love with most of them.Till today this method works for me every lady knows sex is part of d reason a guy approaches so why should guys pretend,do they think d can deceive d ladies.
GUYS I SAY DIS,GALS DONT HAVE LIGHT BRAIN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX,its not ur smooth talks that made them to open legs its just that on my mind d have decided to so play along our games.
I create threads to educate guys....back den in school was paid by sum of my hostel guys to teach dem cos d first tot i was using charms cos of d level of different gals i had then.Miss English,Miss Econs or beauties.
How can u slay me when am been straight with u without pretense?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by dederocs(m): 12:58pm On Apr 12, 2020
Swiitdoll:

Going back home to pick a man is very risky. You’d never know his true intentions, many ladies have been used to get a visa and dumped, then he goes back home to bring the one he really likes and was with. They should find a man that got his own legal staying documents or marry interracial
not all guys are desperate, some are okay, just need a stable woman, that is respectful. i know a lot of guys that earn good money here, and are not desperate to go live abroad.

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by ursamajor: 2:31pm On Apr 12, 2020
adewumiopeyemi:
am about doing my IELTLS exam in April to meet my brothers and mum in Canada now exam suspended till further notice am so sad
Do you have any IELTS material? kindly send.
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MOnkeyBabe(f): 2:47pm On Apr 12, 2020
Rawhumper:



I have met many but i say truth there are times i lost...but to be honest,what made me to scale thru with ladies was honesty....i was true to them about my intentions.Some would get offended but after they saw i maintained my stance and also i have some physical attributes with my manner approach,i ended up making love with most of them.Till today this method works for me every lady knows sex is part of d reason a guy approaches so why should guys pretend,do they think d can deceive d ladies.
GUYS I SAY DIS,GALS DONT HAVE LIGHT BRAIN WHEN IT COMES TO SEX,its not ur smooth talks that made them to open legs its just that on my mind d have decided to so play along our games.
I create threads to educate guys....back den in school was paid by sum of my hostel guys to teach dem cos d first tot i was using charms cos of d level of different gals i had then.Miss English,Miss Econs or beauties.
How can u slay me when am been straight with u without pretense?
lol them never USe Pata take Beat you
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 4:19pm On Apr 12, 2020
Well I don't go for wild girls,that's the reason....in Abuja I have got friends dat recommended me to bleep wild girls that met and are insatiable I declined,even d guy said he knew I wud decline cos I look like those that want the cool ones,I like crazy girls but not d type u talking about after all am not d club type,I do my things on code.
I have been asked to b a gigolo I declined here in Abj,as it is dear I find my type of gals not d other way round once a gal I don't know chats me up online I become alert and would never visit such unless I made d move first.....so don't worry and enjoy ur Easter

























author=MOnkeyBabe post=88364034] lol them never USe Pata take Beat you[/quote]
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 4:23pm On Apr 12, 2020
dederocs:

not all guys are desperate, some are okay, just need a stable woman, that is respectful. i know a lot of guys that earn good money here, and are not desperate to go live abroad.
That’s great. I’m sure they’d easily find a lovely woman that has all the above qualities in Nigeria as well grin

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:56pm On Apr 12, 2020
Rawhumper:
Well I don't go for wild girls,that's the reason....in Abuja I have got friends dat recommended me to bleep wild girls that met and are insatiable I declined,even d guy said he knew I wud decline cos I look like those that want the cool ones,I like crazy girls but not d type u talking about after all am not d club type,I do my things on code.
I have been asked to b a gigolo I declined here in Abj,as it is dear I find my type of gals not d other way round once a gal I don't know chats me up online I become alert and would never visit such unless I made d move first.....so don't worry and enjoy ur Easter

























author=MOnkeyBabe post=88364034] lol them never USe Pata take Beat you
so you won't date the girl if She made the move. Hmmn. Your GOvt hard o
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by dederocs(m): 6:01pm On Apr 12, 2020
Swiitdoll:

That’s great. I’m sure they’d easily find a lovely woman that has all the above qualities in Nigeria as well grin
of course, lots of fishes in the ocean,its more about getting lucky sometimes.
nice moniker cheesy
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Rawhumper(m): 6:02pm On Apr 12, 2020
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It depends, on two different I hv slept with two gals I met in a party.D made d first move by dancing towards my path,from there I got hooked up after d dance.
While d other was a waitress i met dat served us I just til her she was sexy but didn't go further,lera,she sent another guy waiter to drop a note 4me,I made luv 2 her later.Still its been more than 10yrs I hv been to party now.
It gives me more satisfaction if I make d move and succeed to bed d gal.I prefer a gal make me notice her then if I want I make d move.
Few wks ago,a gal I met on d street one cool evening sat in front of her house in a way I was seeing btw her legs though she wore jeans.
After I made d move she started calling me baby even was d 1st 2send me Easter greetings 2day.I like her cos she is my speck and I made d move not her.
So I dnt tink my govt is hard,its jux understanding�












quote author=MOnkeyBabe post=88368241] so you won't date the girl if She made the move. Hmmn. Your GOvt hard o[/quote]

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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 12, 2020
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Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Kaycee625(m): 5:49am On Apr 13, 2020
Just curious, i live in china, we can become friends on instagram
Minxie:

suzhou science and technology town... just outside suzhou city.
why?
Re: Chai! Nigerian Girls In Canada Are So Lonely! by Minxie(f): 6:13am On Apr 13, 2020
Kaycee625:
Just curious, i live in china, we can become friends on instagram

I don't have Instagram... where in China do you live?

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