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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by queenbetsy(f): 1:14pm On Apr 13, 2020
Igbalaoluwa:

Is it an health issue? Please let every loved one know about it. And cast your burden on Lord Jesus Christ. He gives you ad comfort

Nobody cares about anything. It'll have to stay that way.

BTW, what will u do if you find out your days are numbered?? Cry? Brood? Flex?

What exactly??
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by valirex: 1:15pm On Apr 13, 2020
Babythicksme17:
God go punish most guys here when they are ready to settle down,they won't find love in Jesus name for deceiving girls.Awon Yoruba and igbo demons oshi grin

And if you have deceived a guy ever b4 you too won't find love, abi na? So let's laugh grin
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by kayvine: 1:16pm On Apr 13, 2020
na wa o. its good most guys are baring their minds. if women tell you their secrets, na u go run...lol

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by cr7lomo: 1:20pm On Apr 13, 2020
Budline1:


Thank you OG but this girl respects me very much, she's not forming it, she's just a really calm person, her dad is like that too.. she's not that old but very wise. We've been together for 2 years yet she hasn't done a single thing to make me upset. She never judged me but always encourage me, always wanting me to be happy.

She is very calm, she's not demanding, she only asks for help when she's very broke which I give to her immediately. She goes out of her way to come cook and clean, she's not a slay queen but she's classy, she's very contented with what she has. She tells me everything about her, never hides her phone from me, she tells me about those wooing her. Isn't that one close to perfection?

She calls even when I don't call her. She apologize even if I'm the one that has done wrong. She's very supportive even when I'm going through a hard time. I've been trying so hard to find flaws about her but she's been proving me wrong.


grin grin...u never jam... Girls like that don't last...how come she never marry... Now start making excuses for her... When she go start , u go think say na im clone from china u de with

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Belafonte(m): 1:23pm On Apr 13, 2020
SweetCunt97:
LOVE ain't weakness if u loving the right person.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Holyfield1(m): 1:24pm On Apr 13, 2020
foleskay:
Abeg what's d most affordable data to use on mtn or airtel pls, within d range of 500.reply with code pls
*737*19#

Very affordable, MTN
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Asuito7(m): 1:26pm On Apr 13, 2020
MansoryMX:


Smiles. These are kids and not all of their bullshit story is true, some are telling you their fantasy and what they plan to achieve when eventually they find an innocent girl.
what do you mean by kids? If a person is promiscuous which is a bad trait and decides to tell it here do you call him a kid? So kids are the ones inserting their bona inside a woman inner body anyhow or kids are the ones promising false marriage yet there are still underage for such?

Failing to acknowledge that what we are reading here are coming from adults and not kids will be a very big, bad,and a false step in avoiding people exhibiting what we are reading here because we will be leaving in SELF DENIAL(blind)

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by hardon1(m): 1:27pm On Apr 13, 2020
kayvine:
na wa o. its good most guys are baring their minds. if women tell you their secrets, na u go run...lol

my thought though. in my opinion, no matter how smart men are, they can never outplay women, women tend to ignore our excesses and we think we are smart. the heart of a woman is extremely deep. dem just dey pity us as we dey confess, if we hear most women confession, you will commit suicide.

by the times she confesses that all the while when you were cheating and thinking she didn't know, she has been using menses to cook food for you; you will hate yourself.

if you are cheating on a woman and you think she doesn't know, you are just deceiving yourself. she is imply overlooking it or doing her own backyard runs as well. if you want to live long as a man. LOVE AND RESPECT WOMEN

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Oyerinde16(m): 1:28pm On Apr 13, 2020
Corona bleeped me up big time... I had planned to travel to a far away state and was never coming back before total lockdown... Now I am stuck, waiting for corona to die down so I can be freeeeee... Abuja here I come...

Though I leave her will a house with a year rent remaining, all my gadget and accessories, I will give her like 250k to bolster her biz...

Will be starting afresh... But money de....

Gone for good.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by bronx07: 1:29pm On Apr 13, 2020
I know my gf has a side piece .... But she doesn't know I know

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by davien(m): 1:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
To say the truth I don't mind that guys are this heartless, it tells you a lot. Firstly that the gentleman approach only works in the movies but is taken for granted in real life.

I have experienced and seen what being committed in a relationship for a guy does, it doesn't pay, most Nigerian women are broken - that's just the truth, either they lie to get you, keep exes and side guys hovering around them or are overly entitled.
As a man, you give them money, dish out great sex, support them, bring them into a world they normally wouldn't dream of having and then they turn around and ask you "what have you even done for me that no other guy hasn't done?".

And then when they leave gold to meet scum, they stick around it.. Only to be beaten and hurt, when they receive sense they start looking for the gold, by then you're heartless to her and she'd start saying "all men are scum".

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by foleskay(m): 1:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
Holyfield1:
*737*19#

Very affordable, MTN
Thnks very much
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Farki: 1:30pm On Apr 13, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
why do we have few ladies telling us their secrets. Does it mean they dont have secrets or they re just liars and hypocrites

I bet my government issued rice it is the second option.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by akpota(m): 1:33pm On Apr 13, 2020
Budline1:



Hmmn, this one seems to be different. She dey tolerate me wella. Very obedient and never raised a voice at me. Her type is very rare honestly.
then go with her bro.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Drizzy5001(m): 1:35pm On Apr 13, 2020
Dating two ladies at the same time, and I pray I don't get caught grin grin it's really fun.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Honeydenz(f): 1:35pm On Apr 13, 2020
He thinks am loyal in Nigeria while he's frolicking with different gals overseas.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by valirex: 1:37pm On Apr 13, 2020
Omar09:


Hi Paxie, I just wanna let you know you're being stůpid again and that you really have to start taking your drugs. This is from someone that cares.

Kiss kiss.

Your lover, broke boy.

Damn this is legendary

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by sylvez(m): 1:38pm On Apr 13, 2020
Organicist95:


But why na? Is she that bad?

She’s cool, a very nice person, industrious, beautiful, independent and well educated....

But she once made a statement that made me change my mind.

We had an argument and she was like:

“I want a man that can tell me sit down there and i’ll sit, a man that can control me, a man that can be hard on me, not a man that is weak”

Just because I always respect her choices and I don’t insist on anything she doesn’t want to do, since we are not yet married.

And I know very well that I am not that kinda man and I am not going to be !!!

I love her but I can’t marry her.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by immanuelmustafa(m): 1:38pm On Apr 13, 2020
Bellotelli:
Am in love with her elder sister
This one is strong o
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Apr 13, 2020
another thing is, it is actually easier for a woman to cheat and not get caught compared to men

i will explain.

you can shoot your shot at a woman and she will instantly tell you she is in a relationship or married and still let you know she is interested. most guys wouldn't mind (in fact that is what we like sex without commitment) and the guys automatically know they shouldn't get attached and wouldn't call at odd times in fact the lady would be doing most of the calling and the man may not suspect a thing.

If a guy says same thing (that is, he is married or has a GF) to a lady he just wants sex with. It is likely she will japa so most guys resort to lies and hiding their status to get the cookie, the lady oblivious to this fact gets attached and calls at odd times thereby making the man sneaky, in turn both women start suspecting something is fishy.

reason it looks like only men cheat, women cheat with reckless abandon
hardon1:


my thought though. in my opinion, no matter how smart men are, they can never outplay women, women tend to ignore our excesses and we think we are smart. the heart of a woman is extremely deep. dem just dey pity us as we dey confess, if we hear most women confession, you will commit suicide.

by the times she confesses that all the while when you were cheating and thinking she didn't know, she has been using menses to cook food for you; you will hate yourself.

if you are cheating on a woman and you think she doesn't know, you are just deceiving yourself. she is imply overlooking it or doing her own backyard runs as well. if you want to live long as a man. LOVE AND RESPECT WOMEN

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by shestrong(f): 1:40pm On Apr 13, 2020
decatalyst:


I was stunned to the marrow... I had to forward the link to someone to read too.

Marriages can never last with most of the stuffs I have read so far. Scary to go into relationship!
True shit!
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 1:41pm On Apr 13, 2020
sylvez:


She’s cool, a very nice person, industrious, beautiful, independent and well educated....

But she once made a statement that made me change my mind.

We had an argument and she was like:

“I want a man that can tell me sit down there and i’ll sit, a man that can control me, a man that can be hard on me, not a man that is weak”

Just because I always respect her choices and I don’t insist on anything she doesn’t want to do, since we are not yet married.

And I know very well that I am not that kinda man and I am not going to be !!!

I love her but I can’t marry her.

Hmmm

Then marry me... lol

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Borngr8tz(m): 1:45pm On Apr 13, 2020
a rare gem don't be discouraged
prettyaura:
The secret is I went spiritual, I mean to a pastor to help me pray for him so he can pass his professional exams and secure a good job..prayers answered in a short while ..he is now an ex tho but did not know dat behind his smiles today is a woman that cried to God endlessly in a prayer room..I wouldn't regret i did that for him..

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by walexy06(m): 1:47pm On Apr 13, 2020
WTF... Why do I feel like she is going to read this one day..
Okay, here is it. She is V n I always complain it is not easy for me, den she will ask me how I am coping but only for me to say it is not easy but I m fine.
BTW, I have steady nak elsewhere.. You know I can't tell her that.

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Borngr8tz(m): 1:48pm On Apr 13, 2020
lolz mine little experience cost the relationship because she thought the secret won't be open laslas...
SweetCunt97:
Yimu, some things are simply best left unsaid.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Emmyloyalty: 1:49pm On Apr 13, 2020
queenbetsy:

Nobody cares about anything. It'll have to stay that way.

BTW, what will u do if you find out your days are numbered?? Cry? Brood? Flex?

What exactly??

No dear, you can't just say nobody cares when you have not opened up to anyone.
There is a solution to every problem but the first step is letting it out — share it with someone. Everybody is not the devil.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Farki: 1:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
Paxie55:
If you are using fake marriage or fake love to get some one to sleep with You, Then, it's established that you have low self esteem and you can't attract a girl cos you lack the confidence and personality.
Thereby, resorting to using lies to get her to sleep with you and that actually makes you a RAPIST.

So women who use push up bra, booty pads and makeup to attract guys are also rapists?

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Apr 13, 2020
Comments here. Nau wao.
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by sylvez(m): 1:52pm On Apr 13, 2020
Organicist95:


Hmmm

Then marry me... lol

Oya na!!!
are you ready??

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Apr 13, 2020
StacyO:


Lol
You're a guy,you guys know how you do your thing.
Thanks anyways.
you are 4.5/10... Don't be deceived
Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by kingjomezy(m): 1:54pm On Apr 13, 2020
Budline1:


Thank you OG but this girl respects me very much, she's not forming it, she's just a really calm person, her dad is like that too.. she's not that old but very wise. We've been together for 2 years yet she hasn't done a single thing to make me upset. She never judged me but always encourage me, always wanting me to be happy.

She is very calm, she's not demanding, she only asks for help when she's very broke which I give to her immediately. She goes out of her way to come cook and clean, she's not a slay queen but she's classy, she's very contented with what she has. She tells me everything about her, never hides her phone from me, she tells me about those wooing her. Isn't that one close to perfection?

She calls even when I don't call her. She apologize even if I'm the one that has done wrong. She's very supportive even when I'm going through a hard time. I've been trying so hard to find flaws about her but she's been proving me wrong.

Bro incase Una later Break up ...I ready to wife am abeg

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Re: What's That Secret You Are Hiding From The Person You Are Dating Right Now? by Farki: 1:55pm On Apr 13, 2020
ajokeade920:
The comments I see here is so disheartening..Las Las love na scam

I have been saying it since people thought I was joking. grin

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