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When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NihiIist(m): 8:42am On Jan 13
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by SeverusSnape(m): 8:45am On Jan 13
I've been there, I know how it feels.

Sometimes, I will just text her out of anger "please don't come again, I'm going out, Thanks". She will start calling, time for me to do my own Shakara.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Thegeneralqueen(f): 8:51am On Jan 13
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NewDelhi(m): 8:53am On Jan 13
Girls like this I don't waste time in deleting their number. ....Even if I see am for street or anywhere I go just bone like say I don't even know her.... No time for bullshìt. I see it as an act of disrespect, if you couldn't make it any longer you could have just picked my call and tell me. Deciding not to pick my call or switching off your phone doesn't make sense at all. ....

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Educonomist: 9:03am On Jan 13
smileyBros,, as u arrange ur room, clean everywhere so, shey u no happy??........

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MrOreo(m): 9:20am On Jan 13
grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by SavageResponse: 9:49am On Jan 13
NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you, because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just incase. The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't. You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone. Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

E be like say the thing really pain you no be small grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizzPhoney(f): 10:06am On Jan 13
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Look on the bright side bro!!! You cleaned your house grin grin

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NihiIist(m): 10:19am On Jan 13
SavageResponse:


E be like say the thing really pain you no be small grin
grin it even got to a stage I slept off on my couch thinking I could use that opportunity to take a quick nap and she might just show up later. I woke up past 5 I just enter kitchen chop food I had prepared down for her jare. I gave up already. Or she thinks she's doing me lol

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NihiIist(m): 10:21am On Jan 13
MizzPhoney:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Look on the bright side bro!!! You cleaned your house grin grin
You ladies are actually used to this thing.. she's not the first to do it to me. It doesn't just make sense at all.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizCharlotte(m): 10:27am On Jan 13
That's why guys should forget about these girls and focus more on money . When you have money and they know, na dem go dey disturb you say they wan visit you, sleep at your place etc. If you say you r not around or they can't come, them go even dey vex for you say so you are denying /avoiding them abi. I used to pursue one girl like that. She gave me all sorts of attitude and barely picks my calls. The moment she saw me driving out one day (it wasn't even my car grin) , she gazed without saying anything. That night I got a strange call, it was her. She was like ehn so I forgot about her since all this days abi I couldn't even call her bla bla bla. After our lengthy discussion, she called again asking if she could come to my house the next day . Lol for my mind I was like nawa for women o. Money answereth all things.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizzPhoney(f): 10:37am On Jan 13
NihiIist:

You ladies are actually used to this thing.. she's not the first to do it to me. It doesn't just make sense at all.

Sorry na, no vex.... Sometimes we really wish to come but something will just come and spoil plans we might not be able to tell you exactly what happened. Either way if we get you for mind, we gat you. If not, then we don't.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by vincentjk(m): 11:02am On Jan 13
Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later

He swept and mopped his room

Cleaned the spider webs

Washed his toilet

Prepared her a nice meal

Applied air fresher

And finally took alomo then you want him to change the venue to an eatery/cinema??

He actually wants the action film to happen inside his room, not watching it in a cinema cheesy

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by BusolaDakolo: 11:12am On Jan 13
Invite at least 4 girls, anyone that comes first is the winner. You go on flight mode immediately. The others are on their own.
I'll rather disappoint than be disappointed. I'm not wicked at all. I just want to avoid situation like this below.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Greatzeus(m): 11:48am On Jan 13
Thegeneralqueen:
Change the venue for the meeting next time maybe an eatery or shopping mall or cinema i think she'll come.......Thank me later
Yes if they just met,but if they have been dating for a while,i dont see visiting him as a big deal

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by pcguru1(m): 12:00pm On Jan 13
NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you, because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just incase. The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't. You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone. Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

I don't think I am comfortable with the thought of a nihilist complaining , it seems wrong to me.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Liposure(m): 12:13pm On Jan 13
Dat tin dey pain. Especially when prick don resurect. Na u go come dey contain ur konji.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Holywizard(m): 12:27pm On Jan 13
It happened to me yesterday.
Guess what...I deleted her number that same yesterday

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Edyice: 12:40pm On Jan 13
MizzPhoney:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Look on the bright side bro!!! You cleaned your house grin grin


Correct

But wait ooh , his plan was to wound another man's daughter...

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by We4all: 12:51pm On Jan 13
NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you, because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just incase. The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't. You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone. Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

Next time, invite her to come visit you in Dubai, not your 'face me I face you room' without a bed. undecided undecided undecided

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Papadoh(m): 1:04pm On Jan 13
MizzPhoney:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH Look on the bright side bro!!! You cleaned your house grin grin
Omg this comment almost made me drop my phone, you are hereby banned from this thread, you gats to leave. Oya go go go go go go go.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NihiIist(m): 1:10pm On Jan 13
We4all:


Next time, invite her to come visit you in Dubai, not your 'face me I face you room' without a bed. undecided undecided undecided
Grow up kid, no wonder a 2 year old child is beefing you.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by peterincredible: 1:12pm On Jan 13
this same thing happened to me last year feb then i was a corper serving during the election period i told her to come the first time she agreed then she stood me up she no come hmmm i saw here during cds the following thursday asked her why dat it is disrespectfull and i dont lyk it she appologised and we rescheduled the following week i called her that morning on the day she was suppose to come she said she will start preparing then i started cleaning my room told my roomate to disappear or i will break his head he laughed and went to the next room, so i started cooking usually i dont add much salt and use only one maggi when i cook cause i have mild high blood pressure bcause of her i cooked and put the normal salt and just make the jollof ricr look good and tasty and and even spray perfume for the room thinking say na beta person i invite come ooo then boom time was 5pm this girl neva come or even called hmm so i called her then she told me she was ill i just laff cut the call then immediately i deleted her no, i saw her the next day during all this political waker when copers dey do during election period na i politician called all corpers in that local govt to a hotel for some sharing of money oo na so i see this same girl that said was ill talking to some of my guys i just went to dem greet my guys, greet her smiling then left, guess what? her concience start judging her she came to me to start a conversation we talked for a while then i left her giving her a boring reason to go she neva saw my call since that day and anytime i see her i will just greet from afar and go without chatting her up hmm then she called me a month time telling me i dont call her anymore infact that got me angry but i maintained and then later she sent me text on watsapp immediately the text entered my phone i blocked her then she new we not on the same page again since then wherever she sees me she will complain peter wetin i do you i will just laff and tell her nothing jare then give her a boring reason to excuse myself and since that time she has been the one trying to spark a conversation but guy i am very hot headed and will neva ever tollerate a disrespectfull woman even if am broke and my wife or gf tries to be bitchy bcause of one boring reason i will just let her know am the man and am ready to walk away any fucking time when u let them know that and u always smile it will leave them confuse neva eva chase a women even when she threatings to leave she might be testing u to know ure strenght and most of it all a girl can never love a man she takes for granted or disrespects so when a girl act that way always smile when u see her to keep her confuse then cut her offff u hear me cut her offff and as for the gurl she always be the one to come to me but i gave her a very long space even the day i we where both passing out she called me i looked at her then smile a bit turn and left she was expecting me to come to her to talk but i didnt that shows strength neva let a girl disrepect u when she does just leave her most time it she will be the one chasing as i read ure post i just laff cause i remembered what i did to her i can see the look on her face anytime i gave her a quick answer and excuse myself she looks rejected i neva even taught i was that wicked the dating world is very beautifulll but only the men who dont give a Bleep and show strenght wins i just cant stop laughing sha thanks for remembering me about that wierd girl

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by NewDelhi(m): 1:14pm On Jan 13
Holywizard:
It happened to me yesterday.
Guess what...I deleted her number that same yesterday
That's also what I do bro.... I delete their number and cut them off immediately. I no get time for nonsense. This is one reason ashawo/oloso better, she knows what she's coming for and it's a deal so theres almost no chance she will disappoint. Someo of these girls you for don even spend enough money ontop her was wey u fit use Bleep like 20 ashawo yet Dem go dey misbehave.

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Auntyesther(f): 1:15pm On Jan 13
SeverusSnape:
I've been there, I know how it feels.

Sometimes, I will just text her out of anger "please don't come again, I'm going out, Thanks". She will start calling, time for me to do my own Shakara.
and i ll say awwn! fenks boo i even wantu sleep sef and thereafter go and visit my fwend

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:10pm On Jan 13
vincentjk:


He swept and mopped his room

Cleaned the spider webs

Washed his toilet

Prepared her a nice meal

Applied air fresher

And finally took alomo then you want him to change the venue to an eatery/cinema??

He actually wants the action film to happen inside his room, not watching it in a cinema cheesy
So it's because of a lady he cleaned his room sad

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by vincentjk(m): 2:28pm On Jan 13
Thegeneralqueen:
So it's because of a lady he cleaned his room sad

You eat rice prepared with crayfish often but when you've a visitor, in a bid to impress them you buy fish and meat to make the rice appear more delicious and enticing.

I lie? smiley

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by MizzPhoney(f): 2:41pm On Jan 13
Papadoh:
Omg this comment almost made me drop my phone, you are hereby banned from this thread, you gats to leave. Oya go go go go go go go.

Sorry na! I won't do it again. LOL

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by chigozie007(m): 2:41pm On Jan 13
Tell him.
Educonomist:
Bros,, as u arrange ur room, clean everywhere so, shey u no happy??........

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:46pm On Jan 13
vincentjk:


You eat rice prepared with crayfish often but when you've a visitor, in a bid to impress them you buy fish and meat to make the rice appear more delicious and enticing.

I lie? smiley
Which visitor I don't treat visitors more than i treat myself sad and I'm not someone that cooks always he rather takes me to an eatery

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Re: When She Promises To Come Over But Refuses To Show Up by Kingjags: 2:52pm On Jan 13
O boy, the one wey pain me back in the days nah when this girl dn promise me say she they come, wey me I dn go carry Tramadol use( that was actually my first and the last time) Omo nah so the girl talk say her mama wan send her message and she no fit meet up. Omo nah only die I no die that day

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