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Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 10:50pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
I need candid advise pls no insults. I got married 2years ago, of recent i noticed my wife has been spending so much time online. Not that its unusual to me because i know shes kind of addicted to her phone. But suspicion made me pick the phone on several occasions but it was paasworded. Finally i was able to discover the password after many trials and to my surprise she has been chatting steadily, morning and night with this guy. Not only that the guy calls her sweet names and she responds. Even to the extent of telling her he wished they were married. Her response showed she was receptive to the idea. Then she asked him why he did not make a move since and he blamed his financial status. In summary i hve seen enough, though i hve neva confronted her. My plan is to inform my people b4 calling the marriage off. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Pubichairs(m): 10:55pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
U still call the hoe ur wife?? Ur happiness matters, seek for divorce asap before u die of High Bp u no tell us how many kids u get, u be infidel?? 25 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 10:57pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Don't call off the wedding....if you guys doesn't have a child yet, just pray for God to give you one soon and by that time, she will be looking at her phone and there will be no chance to use it because of the child's care. though you can confront her so as to scare her and possibly make her change but if she doesn't feel remorseful and probably doesn't want to change, please show her the exit door 10 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Oluromantic: 10:57pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
That's what happens when you marry small girls as wife. Maturity is a scarce virtue among women. Unfortunately, it's almost the best virtue they can have. If she married the guy, she'll do the same thing she's doing to you. Many people don't understand the "I do" vow. It's a very costly vow. You should have screenshot the chats and send it to your phone, then start trailing her quietly till you get a strong evidence. Sending her away on the basis of going thru her phone will sound foolish to people's ears. 60 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Nobody: 10:58pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
She is cheating but might not yet be official( by this I mean they have not done the do yet ) This lockdown I have had messages from past ex to married ex, people who I don’t chat with, even girls who haven’t replied me in years chats me up now. Send her this as a message. FIRST RULE OF QUARANTINE “DONT CATCH FEELINGS EVERYONE IS JUST BORED” 13 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by rawpadgin(m): 10:58pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
olabrinks:this one will eventually cheat on her husband... Potential suitors beware 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by apholaryn: 10:59pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
blovesther:u don chop at all today? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by dayleke: 11:00pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Sorry bro..... It is finished. 3 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by donbachi(m): 11:00pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
When soup don sour na throway dem dey throway am..but,if u complain.some people go say,make u add small palmoil,some go say,make u add small maggi and put am back for fire,sey d taste go come back small...dont talk to ur people..a cheating wife is the elder sister to misfortune. 40 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by mignone(f): 11:00pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Pls hold on with calling ur ppl; try to salvage ur marriage as a nuclear family first. You, d man are d head of ur home and should be able to handle most issues. - She could be immature - what was ur courtship like/ow did u meet her? Hope she didn't agree to marry u as a last resort? - Also, what is ur marriage like? Is it working? Are u friends? Are u both satisfied to an extent? - normally, d early years of marriage isn't so funny, it's d commitment of both parties dt determines ow it eventually turns out. ... trying to talk some sense into her cld make her retrace her steps. I wish u all the best. 7 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Kobicove(m): 11:03pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
History555: You should not take such a drastic decision without at least giving her an opportunity to defend herself 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by olabrinks(f): 11:08pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
You want to call off the marriage because of some flirtatious messages? Though, not justifying but how many women leave their husbands because of cheating? I’ve realised that a lot of men are seriously emotionally weaker than women, and they really do not know how to use wisdom to handle situations. Go and complain to your people na, they will tell you to manage your wife and that is just the truth. There’s nothing better outside that you are looking for. Marriage comes with ups and down, and unless your life is at risk, you’re suicidal or something very significant has happened, you better stay in one place. Why not sit your wife down and talk. Why not try to patch the underlying issues in your marriage ? Do you think marriage is child’s play, something you can just leave anytime you like? Na wa oh 22 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Kamani8: 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
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Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
apholaryn:not at all..... you want give me? |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by cezarman(m): 11:09pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
blovesther: Just Imagine! 16 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Kamani8: 11:10pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
History555: Sorry to hear this op. Just pray for her to stop. Go on your knees and pray. Also work on how you look. Be sexy and try to satisfy her in bed. Also don't look at her phone so u don't see what u dont want to see. Try also to stop those behaviour that could make her look outside. Again pray for her, she will stop. Prayer is the key 7 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Kobicove: My dear, you and i know that humans will neva admit to being caught in the act especially for something they are doing secretly. |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
olabrinks:that is one problem with our men. they think they have every reason to cheat while the woman is to bear regardless of what it is or what comes out of the cheating 6 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by olabrinks(f): 11:11pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
blovesther:I just gave birth a month ago, I’m still very much on my phone. Having a child doesn’t stop a woman from adultery, that’s not the issue here. Their underlying issues need to be resolved. 13 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Nobody: 11:12pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
[i][/i] History555:That is pretty immature . My plan is to inform my people b4 calling the marriage off. especially the bolded.Women want a man that have their time,yet they expect the man to provide for them,apart from that men are also drawn to the ex and crush despite the fact they are married they still want to talk to them and wish they had them.Today let say i saw my ex dad on a zoom meeting it just make sense to want to say something,to let her know i still keep track of her and still care.Man propose God dispose.. Be thankful you have her, work more on your interpersonal relationships.My study of the average Nigerian married couples life is quite boring,the man major itinerary is to asked is wife for his food then gbos gbas...the woman itinerary is to asked for monthly dues and nag about amaka recieving 300k monthly from her husband. So things becomes mechanical and when a little spark comes in both partners want to jump out of their boring lives.Marriage is mutual, joke with her about her suppose boyfriend and let her have a feeling you dont give a damn then you see her seat up. 7 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 11:12pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Kamani8: Pls what will i achieve by prayers. 4 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:12pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Kamani8:lolzzz because this is what they would have advised if it were the other way round 7 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:13pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
History555:for God to change her mind ......lol 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Kamani8: 11:13pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
blovesther: Lol Not just that. Op should work on his looks. Look sexy so your wife won't have a reason to cheat 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 11:15pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Zornes123: From the chats the guy was a classmate in the university and he resides in the east. But you know cheating starts in the mind b4 it acts out in praticals. I don't want to get to that stage so callin it off will enable her to join the guy. 15 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Belafonte(m): 11:16pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
blovesther: Are you saying married women with children do not cheat? Why are you women so unrepentantly deceptive? 30 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:17pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
olabrinks:what he saw was just a chart between them blaming themselves for not waiting/marrying each other and is not enough to just call off the wedding. just that hiding it is where she got it wrong. me, I communicate such chats with my husband and we just laugh/gossip over it and that is all 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by DaudaTheSexyGuy(m): 11:17pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
When chatting with a married woman you have intentions of banging later there are somethings you should not put in writing |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 11:17pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
olabrinks: My dear cheating starts in the heart before the practical begins to manifest 5 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Lamanii22(f): 11:18pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
Pubichairs: Cmon don't be cruel, she is still is wife so far they are still married... |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by History555: 11:19pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
olabrinks: Marriage is not a child play agreed. But it is a child play to the cheater 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 11:20pm On Apr 18, 2020 |
History555:your marriage is still too young. please don't give devil a chance just sort it out with her and things will be okay. if you invite your family, who never can tell you may still forgive her after much plea but, what do you think your family will be referring to her with? 4 Likes 1 Share |
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