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Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by cooooooks(m): 2:21am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Op should not listen to this crazy talk. We should stop normalizing nonsense, men and women alike. olabrinks: 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by cooooooks(m): 2:23am On Apr 19, 2020 |
I see the sarcasm now. Lool. Nice one. Seriously though, we should stop normalizing infidelity, men and women. Kamani8: |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Nobody: 2:52am On Apr 19, 2020 |
blovesther:a cheating husband is not in any way comparable to a cheating wife. Worst case scenario he fathers a bastard outside whom the wife cannot in any way on earth be deceived to accept and cater for as her own child but a cheating wife will bring another man's child to the husband and he will spend his resources on taking care of a child who is not his. A cheating wife automatically makes the husband to start doubting if the children he's killing himself to provide for are truly his but a cheating husband does not have such influence on his wife she just feels disrespected that's all 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by jesmond3945: 3:02am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555:not enough to call off marriage. has her behaviour changed since then? |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by jesmond3945: 3:04am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555:she is bored and looking for attention thats all. |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by jesmond3945: 3:06am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555:you would only act when she is about to practicalize. As for now just keep her under watch. 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by jesmond3945: 3:07am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555:dont conftront her yet. just watch and continue monitoring. |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by frozen70(f): 4:08am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555: What do you want to inform your people about her ❓ That she is a flirt or she has gotten a better man than you Look guy, something is missing in your marriage Seat her down and find out from her what the problem is It could be lack of communication It could be lack of respect, love and absence of peace It could be lack of attention or affection Women are like flowers, if you attend to them, they will blossom to your happiness I am not going to blame her yet until you talk with her If the sweet words she is hearing from that gist partner is what is glueing her to the guy, start yours Men are able to deceive women and get into them through their sweet mouth If you are hard on a woman, she must, I repeat, she must look for a guy that is soft to suppress your hardness And if you are unfortunate she gets sex satisfaction out side, then consider her gone because you have lost her to another man or men
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Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by femi4: 4:18am On Apr 19, 2020 |
blovesther:seconded |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Nobody: 4:23am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Kamani8:Pray for her to stop cheating, you say? Another one said, pray for her to have a child so she can stop cheating? Where are these people from bikonu? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by specialbobby(m): 4:31am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Budline1: Just do it first let see I am currently dealing with a woman like that if i give her full time attention then she will change |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by specialbobby(m): 4:33am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Budline1: Inbox me for more talk sha if you realy wanna know what's up |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Martinez39s(m): 4:42am On Apr 19, 2020 |
J111333:Don't mind them. Many are doomed to be hopelessly stupid. 6 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Martinez39s(m): 4:50am On Apr 19, 2020 |
GreatResearcher1, you need to read this topic, and see the kind of advice simps and women are giving the op. 8 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by CsRockefeller(m): 5:17am On Apr 19, 2020 |
frozen70: How old are you? I really want to know if I could excuse you from your comment because you just spoke like a 16 year old. Emotionally and psychologically, you are not fit to be in a relationship. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 6:06am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Nuel4:that is the defense men are putting up. in order not to take care of another man's child from a cheating wife....is it not better he doesn't know because what you don't Know will not kill you than what the men do to women by bringing another child in from their mistress? my brother what goes around comes around 4 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 6:08am On Apr 19, 2020 |
cooooooks:hmmmmm and please don't be polygamous especially if your tradition doesn't go against it for women. if you want your wife to be an angel, you should first create an heaven 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 6:14am On Apr 19, 2020 |
olabrinks:yea, marriage according to my husband is another institute where you learn different things. poster probably don't trust his wife and doesn't know what she is capable of doing, else this matter is very simple to deal with. worst come to worst, he can pick up the wife's phone to chat the guy man to man. I even do that at times to my husband if I sense fowl play from a lady |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 6:17am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Belafonte:lolzzz not all women dear......I believe this couple(poster) have communication and trust issue.....else this thing is very simple to deal with. Is not easy starting all over again so its better they sort it out and continue the marriage because the devil you know is better than the angel you do not know 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by blovesther(f): 6:18am On Apr 19, 2020 |
Kamani8:Abi ooooo and also works in his words(by also calling the wife sexy names ) probably they aren't sexy enough. hahhahahah 2 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by ruggedtimi(m): 6:20am On Apr 19, 2020 |
blovesther:lol childcare won't change anything |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by PERVENCHE: 6:45am On Apr 19, 2020 |
DaudaTheSexyGuy: coded guy. Also, make sure she calls when she is free. don't ever call her at ungodly hours and when she calls, make sure you don't speak until she does. save a marriage. stop leaving loose ends |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by apholaryn: 6:47am On Apr 19, 2020 |
blovesther:I thought as much and ehn I wan give u ni so that the next advice u go give go dey on point |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by emmaodet: 6:56am On Apr 19, 2020 |
grossintel: Bro, why do we like putting the pressure of making the marriage work and romantic on the man, why? What happens to the woman making the relationship better so that they can bond more. Probably the man is thinking and hustling to bring home money to feed the young family, yet we need to pile more pressure on him to make the marriage romantic. Seems we give a lot of women soft landing or soft spanking when they go off the track a lot. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by ksbusari(m): 6:58am On Apr 19, 2020 |
olabrinks:It does mean u cheating abi? 1 Like |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by smarttm: 7:15am On Apr 19, 2020 |
History555: Pm me... |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by emmaodet: 7:18am On Apr 19, 2020 |
frozen70: And when has losing a woman to another man been unfortunate? Abi na even best thing to happen to a man. A cheating wife runs away from her hubby to an Ex or side bobo and you call the hubby unfortunate? Instead of him to go to church for Thanksgiving. So you actually think feeding, housing, clothing etc a woman in marriage is to the man advantage? That the woman is doing the man a favour for doing that? I think you overestimate you women's value in marriage. Let the side bobo carry the liability for 2 months now weda him eye no go clear and gets tired of an Unproductive Liability that has all the time in the world to look for what to do to support the home rather using such precious time to hook up and chat with a side bobo. I blame guys a lot. If we say make men no marry now so that the Unfortunate woman will be on the street now running up and down on how to survive and pay her bills, they will say we are crazy. If the job of the man is to make sure another man doesn't get my woman, then pls tell what is the work of the woman too? A consumer? Financial drainage? Liability? Sex object? Unproductive, unrepentant serial cheating liability? Spits* 20 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by wirinet(m): 7:20am On Apr 19, 2020 |
specialbobby:Gbam. You need solid proof before you can confront her or her family. She will deny and twist everything against you without solid undeniable proof. Get screenshots of all chats and save them on your own device. Install a spyware on her phone, so you can listen to conversations, see messages and chats and know her location. Don't mind all those ladies advicing you to talk to her, endure, pray or patronise her, they are birds of the same feather. You are still young, you can easily find a more loving and appreciative spouse. Life is short and you must not compromise your peace of mind. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by Dammylois(f): 7:30am On Apr 19, 2020 |
If it were a woman a larger percentage of you guys here would have advised that she 'fight' for her marriage. Men obviously can't take 1/10th of what they steadily dish out 3 Likes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by frozen70(f): 7:34am On Apr 19, 2020 |
emmaodet: You are over reacting Every man knows the value he places on his woman, like wise every woman knows the value she places in her man So it depends on the value Understand it from that angle No man or woman is doing favour for marrying the person they get married to It is the synergy that matters Love and value. It is found in both sexes |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by wirinet(m): 7:35am On Apr 19, 2020 |
blovesther:Which yeye communication issues, they did not have communication issues when she decided to marry him, abi? How come they had communication issues and he was able to communicate the proposal to befriend her, engage her and eventually marry her? We like to behave like oyimbo forgetting we are different. Did your mother have communication issues with your father? She just want to have her cake and eat it. From what the OP said, the old school sweetheart is not doing well financially, and that was the main reason she chose the OP. She married the OP because of financial security and not love. Now she wants to receive financial security from the husband and love from her old school sweetheart. It's annoying the way nairaland ladies talk as if women has nothing to offer in a relationship or marriage and expect only the guy to give everything - financial security, love, emotional security, sex, etc, while the woman watches telemondo or zeeworld, buys expensive cloths, do expensive make up and hair and occasionally open her legs for the guy to do all the work. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Cheating Wife. Advise Needed by frozen70(f): 7:43am On Apr 19, 2020 |
CsRockefeller: That's your thinking and we can't be reasoning the same way because my brain is with me and your brain is with you |
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