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Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Isoduwa(m): 1:53pm On Apr 21, 2020

kikero:
If I spoke proper English for him, I would have not spared him.(I might have even gotten very rude, because I am so angry, especially as I have in the course of my job had to deliver pregnant teenagers deceived by the likes of him)

Best to use pidgin so that I can laugh while still scolding him properly.

Anyway, experience is the best teacher. Plus, he should not dump that child he got pregnant. He made make his bed, he lies in it.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Chirowman(m): 1:57pm On Apr 21, 2020

inside life

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by luminouz(m): 1:58pm On Apr 21, 2020

There can't be men like u OP.

I REFUSE TO BELIEVE THERE EXISTS A MAN LIKE YOU undecided

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Modsfav: 2:00pm On Apr 21, 2020

Her dad told u earlier, u could have collected your child and allow her to go ever since

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by BGSM: 2:04pm On Apr 21, 2020

You are the cause of your problem because you misguided her right from incesion. Your immorality took advantage of her. You don't know the meaning of relationship and marriage. If you know, you ll watch your steps. Your case look complicated, dine with it yourself.

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Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Kelvinprinzyy(m): 2:04pm On Apr 21, 2020

Welcome to single fatherhood.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by AsawanaDgreat: 2:04pm On Apr 21, 2020

So she is now a sharing formula. AKA keziah

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Nobody: 2:06pm On Apr 21, 2020*

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid.[s] Take him to your parents while you sort yourself[/s].

Best of luck

Why take the child home to the poor old parents who have finished raising their kids and are growing old in peace bikonu? Why can’t he parent his child? What is he sorting out? Life? How?
This is pure entitlement mentality (to quote someone tongue

)
Seriously though, men should do away with the mentality of offloading their kids to other relatives once faced with the prospect of single parenthood. It is cowardly, weak, entitled and unloving to think that way. Be that rock for your child or children, as the case may be. Baby papa them to pieces. And protect them from their prospective stepmom’s jealousy and whatnot (oh yes I know how you can’t live without a wife/cook/bedwarmer, and so would rush into another marriage in a jiffy, and would never choose the right woman to marry, because men lipsrsealed

)
Do this well, and you will get a well raised, well adjusted, loved and loving child in return, who will be there for you, always. For not damaging them by chucking them away to your relatives (other people) while still alive, just like their mother did. It will be hard, but a great, many women and a relatively really few, and special African men do it, and have done it. Be special, raise your child (imagine!)

Dear poster, the preaching above is for you. I hope you “listen” to it.
Cheers.

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Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by oodua1stson: 2:06pm On Apr 21, 2020

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort yourself.

Best of luck

your 1st option is not even an option. No make me vex for you oo

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by bishopmc(m): 2:07pm On Apr 21, 2020

Please I need help o, #500
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Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by agabonus: 2:08pm On Apr 21, 2020

Mr lecturer,are sure the baby is biologicaly your son?Run for your life because she has a higher libido and can even lust for any male domestic animal in your absense. If you are the type that hates regrate,you must abstain from hasty decisions as regards your first love.

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Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by mrnweke103(m): 2:11pm On Apr 21, 2020

Take the child to your mother in the village and focus on your job, you're Very luck she left you on time..you should be a happy man, you have a child.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by qtx(m): 2:12pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

How old are you sef? You just see a young girl, she may be pretty and young and you feel u just found a wife?
Na so dem de marry? Do you think marriage is just like that? You went into a casual marriage and you moved apart casually too. She wasn't a girl to put at home for a wife yet. She may not even have had any thought about marriage because she still wants to rock but you are of age and are ready to settle down. She wasn't your match. And from the way you are sounding it's like you haven't even learned from your mistake. And you are asking If your decision is not wrong. Oga, brace up and move on with your life. The way you describe the girl she was just a mistake you made.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by nwaimoroseyaho: 2:13pm On Apr 21, 2020

Pls take your father with you and meet her parents. Tell them the girl is no longer with you for the records. Make it official and talk to your family about the welfare of the child.
The problem with you men is that you first focus on sex before getting to know the person well.
Don't marry her unless you want to be running after her all the days of your life.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by AkupeMBANO(f): 2:14pm On Apr 21, 2020

scoundrel:
The creative writers are back. I guess member participation went down, hence someone getting contracted to cook up a new story.

You are brilliant. nonsense Nairaland cooked up write ups.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Do this:

1) Get a job or start a business
2) Exercise and start fucking her(face Bleep her)
3) You don’t need her but want her...let her Go
4) Find your purpose, women follow men with purpose
5) Be a MAN( You are the leader) you control her and give the instructions.

Most Importantly 1 is necessary.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by condralbedez: 2:22pm On Apr 21, 2020

How are you sure the child is yours huh

Anyways watin I know self!

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by robosky02(m): 2:22pm On Apr 21, 2020

ahnie:
Let me ring the elders......

Annie again?

By the way she gave birth no mean say you go marry her

Her chapter has closed ...look for a wife and settle down.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by DriggityDre: 2:22pm On Apr 21, 2020

scoundrel:
The creative writers are back. I guess member participation went down, hence someone getting contracted to cook up a new story.

I thought the same. There seems to be a rise in stories concerning family and relationship problems. New day, new tale.... but I kept the thought to myself.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Chuksyno(m): 2:24pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Exactly...She actually told me her ugly past and promise to change. But it is was unfortunate she never did

How on earth do you expect her to change. You were so in a hurry making her pregnant instead prioritizing her education while studying her behaviour.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by bluefilm: 2:27pm On Apr 21, 2020

For a lecturer, your grammar really shows how low our level of our educational system in this country has gotten to.

It's really appalling, I must say. sad

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by alizma: 2:33pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Her father knows her more than anyone else. I when I was single I had similar experience, the lady's father spoke to me with proverb. He said my son, someone who is putting on white cloth has no business playing with another who is carrying red oil. He said if I continued, I was going to get stained soon.
One fuuny thing is that such girls usually appear to be madly in love and very difficult to resist.
Brother, finally you have just been freed, go and enjoy your life.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 21, 2020

At two months, you're practically still strangers and should've been studying each other, not fkn.

Well, you're now a single father. Good luck.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by darkCoal: 2:42pm On Apr 21, 2020

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort yourself.

Best of luck

Better take the child for paternity test, you might be feeding another man's child.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Donpaper: 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2020

Do, guys, what's your best advice? Withdrawal method or using condoms?

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by bnovative(m): 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2020

One sided story.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Kobicove(m): 2:44pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a...

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

I hope you're not a lecturer in English Language cos your grammar is wack! undecided

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by sluk(m): 2:47pm On Apr 21, 2020

Hoes ain't loyal, move on but don't forget to work on your written English.

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by shineeye1: 2:47pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

She ran away from other men and landed in your house, even pushing away the one you had all along been with. You forgot this was a professional runner and got bewitched by her sorcery. Not even the curious testimony of her own father could cast off the spell over you. You believed you were the Richard Lander and that she had finally landed her final bus stop in your house. But now, the bubble has burst. The gamer is hot on her chosen race and is landing several other destinations as her errant spirit leads. Hear this, it is time for you to pick up the bits and pieces of your life left and forget completely about the wild goose. But it is doubtful if she left you with your ears...

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Cowbell521: 2:49pm On Apr 21, 2020

I just hate this gender....ah...... evil

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by Mizwisdom(f): 2:54pm On Apr 21, 2020

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Are you married?

Re: She Ran And Left Me With Our 1-Year-Old Child by AntiWailer: 2:54pm On Apr 21, 2020

Hmm the father even warned.

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