I don't know where to address this issue from.... No Head, No Tail.

Because you were receiving some petty cash at your formal place of work, you forgot to use a CONDOM right?

See where it has gotten you to... "A confused state". Now you've lost focus because you choose to be stubborn.

And to think that her father even warned you..... My friend, you better carry your cross..... That's the only advise I give to stubborn people.


By the way Mr. Lecturer, your English is something else.

RTSC:
Girl wey you go fuvk with condom, throw way face, that is who you went and impregnate.?

Foolishness.

A lot of married men today got free fuckss during their bachelor life from different girls, but they were smart enough not to release their swimmers into every hole.

If not, most of them won't be married to the madams they are currently married to.

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort your toself.

Best of luck

Mizwisdom:




Go and see your mates getting "free fuckss" as you describe, they are in health section, complaining about one sexually transmitted disease or the other. If you think you don't pay for your actions on earth you must be very ignorant. That free seex you think you're getting will be your downfall.

Mizwisdom:




Go and see your mates getting "free fuckss" as you describe, they are in health section, complaining about one sexually transmitted disease or the other. If you think you don't pay for your actions on earth you must be very ignorant. That free seex you think you're getting will be your downfall.

lefulefu:
once a runzgirl always a runzgirl
ashawo can retire but never tired
u guys who argue that u can change a promiscious lady when u marry her this is what u will always get
continious heartbreaks and disapointments.

I don't know where to address this issue from.... No Head, No Tail.

Because you were receiving some petty cash at your formal place of work, you forgot to use a CONDOM right?

See where it has gotten you to... "A confused state". Now you've lost focus because you choose to be stubborn.

And to think that her father even warned you..... My friend, you better carry your cross..... That's the only advise I give to stubborn people.


By the way Mr. Lecturer, your English is something else.

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

saintvc:
ZIP UP

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Ikembasunda1:
I will equally advise you rush for DNA test Immediately to fight the fight once and know ur stand either a single father or single man.

lefulefu:
once a runzgirl always a runzgirl
ashawo can retire but never tired
u guys who argue that u can change a promiscious lady when u marry her this is what u will always get
continious heartbreaks and disapointments.

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort yourself.

Best of luck

Wendybrown:







Sincerely. The signs were there but the op chose to ignore them. For someone to write Waec continuously sleeping over at your place, e get as e b, that's total disregard for her parents and if she can disregard dem den who are u.

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort yourself.

Best of luck

fashionale:


So you are saying you didn't see the signs, even before her father told you. Still you went ahead because of your child. Now your child will still live now without her which is still the same if you hadn't married her... Pls don't come here to tell us again that you accepted her back after pleading.. Cut her off for real...
person wey her father told you she wasn't worthy to marry

yahaya2014:


She is 24, but her quest for worldly things is unimaginable. She drinks acohol, love the gud things of life and all.

Wendybrown:







Sincerely. The signs were there but the op chose to ignore them. For someone to write Waec continuously sleeping over at your place, e get as e b, that's total disregard for her parents and if she can disregard dem den who are u.