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This is how you bring problems into yourself, why bringing in a lady into your house and having her pregnant when you have not done the needful, is that how you will be pregnating whoever you come across with till you settle down?

You need to prepare your mind to either accept or reject her cos she will surely come back when she's tired. And it a left for you to accept or reject her and accept responsibilities for your actions. Remember,not everyone who gives birth is a mother. She prefers to keep the child with you and run around than be tied down by the baby. Just take care of your child and forget her.

They failed to understood the old man proverb.

This is too hard to digest.

robosky02:
Annie again?



By the way she gave birth no mean say you go marry her




Her chapter has closed ...look for a wife and settle down.

Hello robosky02!
Pls am not angel Annie ...
Anyways nice to read from you

Ahmed0336:
I believe you don't know her as much as her father does.
For her dad to make such comment about his daughter was already a red flag but you forged ahead. You have few options
1. Bring her back and manage her like that.
2. Forget her and look for another lady to marry.

Your priorities now should be your kid. Take him to your parents while you sort yourself.

Best of luck

he is now a single father. The child is his responsibility, not his parents. Simple.

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

you got a child for free. That's beautiful... So many of us want a child for free so we can't put up with ladies and their craziness. You are a lucky man. Bless up!!! Go enjoy ur life.

Very soon you will see post talking about how men are sensible because they marry who gives them.peace.Most of them have no standard. They v sex with any type of girl and marry who is available or pregnant at the time and they can start cheating with who they love .

yahaya2014:
Exactly...She actually told me her ugly past and promise to change. But it is was unfortunate she never did

Serves u right, u chased away ur then girlfriend who had probably stood by u because u saw a teenager who came to write waec ( for ur mind u don see fresh blood). Ur ex girlfriend will laughing at u now and getting her back will be almost impossible especially because of the boy, Nobody want baggage.

emmanuelalbert3:
This is too hard to digest.

Only wicked women will do that.

bluefilm:
For a lecturer, your grammar really shows how low our level of our educational system in this country has gotten to.

It's really appalling, I must say.

A lot members of this graveyard have legitimately protested against what they denote as an inexcusably and dreadfully poor writeup, emanating from a supposed lecturer. I am worried because, as a member of that profession, that fellow didn't represent us well. In any case, there is no denying the fact that, a good primary six pupil will write an even more articulate and fascinating report -- that is way better than the ridiculous and incoherent account our beloved lecturer produced -- even if s/he is under intense and unbearable pressure. Unfortunately, the OP's disjointed and inarticulate piece shows a blot in a system where merit and excellence have been banished and mediocrity, elevated as the abiding principle.

If the OP is indeed a lecturer, he is nothing short of an intellectual pygmy, apparently engendered by our merit-stifling culture of political patronage. Don't put all the blame on him, spare some for our political class, that has no regard for law and due process and promotes impunity.

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

You should thank you God she left!

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Father didn't agree and you went ahead to marry her. Love is blind but marriage will open your eyes.

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Just 2 months? U see the way your head turn u? Because the babe is hot, set and get Bobby.

IMASTEX:
Na watin dey sweet dem dey cloud their sense of thinking. Girl's father openly made such remarks about his daughter and they didn't run with their legs touching their heads. A man had told me similar encounter abt one of his wives. The father-in-law never accepted the bride price. He specifically told him to go with the daughter. And pay the bride price after 3 years of marriage. Guess what, the woman is the greatest mistake he made. He still surfers from the consequences till date from the children.

the girl father ehn

Bro take it easy the child wey go spoil go spoil just be looking at her if she's responsible she will remember and protect her child's future

The shit is unexplainable

drmikeadams:
. Y men dey always ignore red flags till d flag turns reddish red?

[quote author=goodoo post=88698648]They failed to understood the old man proverb.[/quote ] the old man will just been Wondering the mumuritized mumu level of the guy

X0012:
The shit is unexplainable

be like na to open another thread so that husbands wey ignore red flags go come tell us y dem ignore am

mrblessed:
A lot members of this graveyard have legitimately protested against what they denote as an inexcusably and dreadfully poor writeup, emanating from a supposed lecturer. I am worried because, as a member of that profession, that fellow didn't represent us well. In any case, there is no denying the fact that, a good primary six pupil will write an even more articulate and fascinating report -- that is way better than the ridiculous and incoherent account our beloved lecturer produced -- even if s/he is under intense and unbearable pressure. Unfortunately, the OP's disjointed and inarticulate piece shows a blot in a system where merit and excellence have been banished and mediocrity, elevated as the abiding principle.

If the OP is indeed a lecturer, he is nothing short of an intellectual pygmy, apparently engendered by our merit-stifling culture of political patronage. Don't put all the blame on him, spare some for our political class, that has no regard for law and due process and promotes impunity.

Mrblessed why na?

You have just succeeded in raping the OP in the arse and shattering to pieces the last remnants of the claim he might have towards the noble profession of lecturing.

All I have to say to you now is Diarisgod o!

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Gal 6:7- you reap what you sow.
premarital sex is not good. cohabitation is even worse. deal with your problem.

Oga your story to long.

You cannot make a hoe a housewife

what u did is against our code of conduct in teaching profession, u ruin the poor girl's life

Oga op, you're the cause of your problem

The father warned you earlier on that she's not to be married, but you forged ahead claiming to know her more than her father abi?

Secondly, your family members never liked her, but those strong veins in your head no gree you hear word.

Now it haff burst, you're seeking for advice

Onyeoma, Carry your cross joor!!

I swear you get am

drmikeadams:
be like na to open another thread so that husbands wey ignore red flags go come tell us y dem ignore am

you saw a cheap wayward girl and u started sleeping with her thinkn you've seen a gift pussy.

That girl is never ready for such commitment atal, from d look shes a young girl of less than 20 yrs if I guess rt. Just forget her and focus on your work nd son. And ensure she has limited access to the child to prevent her being a bad influence on him. Na olosho you marry. Thank your star she dnt infect yoy with HIV.

yahaya2014:
Nairalanders,

Here is my story.

I met this girl while teaching in a secondary school. She came to write Waec in the school. That was how we met and started seeing each other. She was so in love with me, that she had to chase away the lady I was dating then because of her frequent presence in my house. She virtually spent nights in my place.

Two months after the relationship, she got pregnant as at that time I got a job with a bank for six month. We resolved to keep the pregnancy.

After three months, the bank terminated the job. I came back home. Remember during this period, my family never liked her.

But due to the pregnancy, my Dad had to accept her and went to meet the father. Only for the father to say the daughter isn't someone to marry. But if we insist. No problem.

During the period of her pregnancy, there are challenges and suffering. There was a night she almost died in my house because she was feeling bad that I am leaving her to my place of work (the bank job). We rushed her to the hospital and resuscitated her.

To cut the long story short. I got a federal job as a lecturer. Brought her and child over to my place against the decision of my family, because my conscience couldn't let me abandon her.

One year of her staying, she started acting and committing all sort of things like stealing and nagging. She went home two times on trivial issues.

The last one was surprising to me as we were fine. She was working in one private school because I promise to get her what to do.
The day I gave her my phone, our problem started. She started acting and saying that she wants to leave. That she is not happy.
I now told her to keep my son for me and she didn't object because I had no intention of taking him along.

She will answering calls from guys. She will ran out if her fone is ringing.

I now concluded to give her money to go after series of begging her to stay because of the child. I called her parents and brothers. But she was adamant. She left and never went home but went straight to another place.

She is there sleeping with men and all.
But I have cut her off from myself and the child.

Hope my decision is not wrong?

Bros, I don't have any advice to give you. But, why not celebrate your deliverance?

Ur decision is right, rights, righted, rightable, enjoy ur self

nwaimoroseyaho:
Pls take your father with you and meet her parents. Tell them the girl is no longer with you for the records. Make it official and talk to your family about the welfare of the child.
The problem with you men is that you first focus on sex before getting to know the person well.
Don't marry her unless you want to be running after her all the days of your life.

All what u have said have been taken care of. Actually, the Father called and was pleading with me. That's who the daughter is. I shld take heart. That I did tried.

LadySarah:
Hmm.
Your case is as a result of unbridled sexual desire. A lecturer should be a model not the reverse. You didn't remember what her father said when the p was busy.

Take care of your child men have been doing it to women a long time ago. Child Abandonment didn't start today.

he couldn't let go of the big soft ass.

you did the right thing my friend , nor be all toto be toto