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Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:00pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
If for any reason, Folorunsho Alakija, Mike Adenuga's wife, Femi Otedola or Dangote's wife asks you such to join her in the kitchen and not wanting any of their cooks involved.

Kindly give such answer. You will regret the day you were born by ur parents.You will be thrown out like a peice of thrash.

When millions of pretty naija girls are dreaming of just an oppotunity with such family.

All these poor people thinking.

Being polite is part of the attribute of a highly educated and exposed person.
You just proved that you're poor
That you don't know rich parents

Rich Parents always succumb to the wishes of their children..
Even if I say No
No matter how hard they try to stop their son from marrying me it won't work.

Secondly no rich parent in the entire universe will stop their son from marrying someone because of cooking skills
This is another point where I know you have never tasted rich Lifestyle.
Rich people don't even cook themselves so why will they expect you to cook??
When you will have plenty of professional chefs lined up for service.
Try again poor boy.. only poor people like you worry about marrying woman that cook.
Rich folks have professional chefs paid to cook the finest meals ever. NEXT!!
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 1:01pm On Apr 22, 2020
Guest911:
Why does everyone make it seem like the girl would suddenly die if she didn’t get to eat the food?
No one should be forced to do what they don’t want to do period.

The poor girl was not in the mood just for the first time oo and then boom she’s not a wife material

She’s a human being with dignity not a mere object
Who knows you? Even Funke Akindele that is so popular and loved regreted doing something she was happy doing.

If you resume in a big organisation for the first time and you have the previlege to meet the M.D, he asks you you to help him pickup something quite close to you. Just tell him a No that you are not happy doing it
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Guest911: 1:06pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You just proved that you're poor
That you don't know rich parents

Rich Parents always succumb to the wishes of their children..
Even if I say No
No matter how hard they try to stop their son from marrying me it won't work.

Secondly no rich parent in the entire universe will stop their son from marrying someone because of cooking skills
This is another point where I know you have never tasted rich Lifestyle.
Rich people don't even cook themselves so why will they expect you to cook??
When you will have plenty of professional chefs lined up for service.
Try again boy.. only poor people worry about marrying woman that cook.
Rich folks have professional chefs paid to cook the finest meals ever. NEXT!!
That nigga is just hungry, he wants everyone to bow to his family so he can feel good about himself. cry
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 1:08pm On Apr 22, 2020
The question was asked to know how polite the lady can be, she is not interested in your cooking skills. The question was to join her and not to do the cooking.

I doubt if you are well educated ,ever attended a high profile interview or ever had the opportunity to relate with any high profile person.

Everything around a high profile is majorly about courtesy.

https://www.bizjournals.com/bizjournals/how-to/marketing/2016/03/how-to-talk-to-wealthy-people-and-get-them-to-like.html
Kindly post a picture of you with one billionaire here.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:11pm On Apr 22, 2020
Guest911:
That nigga is just hungry, he wants everyone to bow to his family so he can feel good about himself. cry
Someone should show him the video of dj cuppy making eba.. grin grin
Dj cuppy can't cook Jack shit

Now imagine his mother telling him not to marry Dj cuppy Otedola because she can't cook?
Him go even slap him mama grin grin grin
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by 2dice01: 1:20pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
I will tell her blatantly
Ma don't worry, I will cook with you NEXT TIME I VISIT Okay?
But if you need a helping hand in dishing out food, I will help with that.."
Lmao grin

we both know you are joking except Shiloh program is where you wanna end your Husband searching career
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by gunners160(m): 1:25pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Someone should show him the video of dj cuppy making eba.. grin grin
Dj cuppy can't cook Jack shit

Now imagine his mother telling him not to marry Dj cuppy Otedola because she can't cook?
Him go even slap him mama grin grin grin
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What is this one even saying? you write as if you know her in person. Ogbeni calm down jor. Who told you every lady is lazy just like you? Even if DJ Cuppy can't cook, is that now a yardstick for to be totally impolite and lazy? Wetin I dey talk self, people will always give excuses for their flaws. Ask a poor man why you are poor? , he will reply ," Because my father was poor"
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by gunners160(m):
2dice01:
Lmao grin

we both know you are joking except Shiloh program is where you wanna end your Husband searching career
Guy, who told you she is joking? That is who she really is in person
At first I had to keep mute but I came to find out that she is one of those ladies who has this damn pride and entitlement feelings
U need to c how she respond back to people 's comment
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:30pm On Apr 22, 2020
gunners160:
Wetin I dey talk self
Glad you even know that you've been talking nonsense..
Go and marry mama put since your mother still decided who you should marry or not marry just based on her cooking skills..
Small pikin
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 1:34pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Someone should show him the video of dj cuppy making eba.. grin grin
Dj cuppy can't cook Jack shit

Now imagine his mother telling him not to marry Dj cuppy Otedola because she can't cook?
Him go even slap him mama grin grin grin
See this one ooo..

You want compare urself with Otedola's daughter.

She has a lot to offer the guy's family.

Surely, there is business connection the family will surely offer in such relationship which therefore attracts waivers.

What can you offer?

Mention the name of ur dad here and include his group of companies and portfolios.

What impact can ur family name make when mentioned?

Has family featured on any important page?

You better humble urself for greater doors to open for you in life.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by 2dice01: 1:36pm On Apr 22, 2020
gunners160:
Guy, who told you she is joking? That is who she really his in person
At first I had to keep mute but I came to find out that she is one of those ladies who has this damn pride and entitlement feelings
U need to c how she respond back to people 's comment
Hahaha so you want to take everything peoplse says online serious cause they act Macho or shows Dont give a fúck attitude

One thing about life i like is it will Humble you as time goes on

lets hear from the Girl's mouth
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:40pm On Apr 22, 2020
Theobserver835:
Thank you for this,it shows that you are learned and the true definition of a real African woman.
And it also shows that their are still sensible, matured and objective people here still.
That's my girl,go baby go baby.
Thanks luv
These Nigerian men have the most backward mentality ever.. SMH
They are still sucking mummy's breast
That's how they allow their mother to control their wife and their marriage.
Always defending their mother even when she is wrong. Men like that will make your marriage miserable.
Mama's boys pretending to be Real Men.
They should marry their mothers then
Bunch of motherfvckers grin grin
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by gunners160(m): 1:44pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Glad you even know that you've been talking nonsense..
Go and marry mama put since your mother still decided who you should marry or not marry just based on her cooking skills..
Small pikin
Like seriously? Egbami. Who told you this issue is about cutlery skills or being a chef? You only see things your way but fail to see it the other way. Even if the lady can't cook, going to that kitchen matters a lot. In fact a good mother in law will appreciate it and will work on how to make her better
Not going there shows non acceptance of the family, not going there hows disrespect for a kind gesture, not going there means breaking my mother's heart and not going there means you want start dragging ownership right for something that is not yet ur own
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 1:44pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Glad you even know that you've been talking nonsense..
Go and marry mama put since your mother still decided who you should marry or not marry just based on her cooking skills..
Small pikin
Baby girl you ve said all that need to be said here on this issue.
The reason why @gunners160 and holy dollars are this pained is what I don't understand however how hard I tried to.
Why the both took it personal is what beat my imagination.
It seems they have family issues involving their wife and mum to settle maybe.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 1:44pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Thanks luv
These Nigerian men have the most backward mentality ever.. SMH
They are still sucking mummy's breast
That's how they allow their mother to control their wife and their marriage.
Always defending their mother even when she is wrong. Men like that will make your marriage miserable.
Mama's boys pretending to be Real Men.
They should marry their mothers then
Bunch of motherfvckers grin grin
See this one ooo..

You want compare urself with Otedola's daughter.

She has a lot to offer the guy's family.

Surely, there is business connection the family will surely offer in such relationship which therefore attracts waivers.

What can you offer?

Mention the name of ur dad here and include his group of companies and portfolios.

What impact can ur family name make when mentioned?

Has ur family featured on any important page?

You better humble urself for greater doors to open for you in life.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:50pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
What can you offer?

What can a man's family benefit from your family name?

What impact can ur family name make when mentioned?

Has the name featured on any important page?

You better humble urself for greater doors to open for you in life.
Another small boy, now listen kid
What can women offer??
Kids that will take up your legacy( if you even have one)
Kids that will expand your generation and carry your surname..
Without kids you will die off
And your family will scatter ur wealth
Your lineage will end there.
So you see that Women offer more to the man in marriage.
Until men start giving birth to kids that will expand his lineage then a woman is the most important thing for a man.
Imagine a King not marrying a Wife
That means his linage will end there.
He will die and be replaced and forgotten.

Next time ask your mother what she has offered to your father..
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 1:56pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
Another small boy, now listen kid
What can women offer??
Kids that will take up your legacy( if you even have one)
Kids that will expand your generation and carry your surname..
Without kids you will die off
And your family will scatter ur wealth
Your lineage will end there.
So you see that Women offer more to the man in marriage.
Until men start giving birth to kids that will expand his lineage then a woman is the most important thing for a man.
Imagine a King not marrying a Wife
That means his linage will end there.
He will die and be replaced and forgotten.

Next time ask your mother what she has offered to your father..
Isn't this funny?

Everywoman has a biological feature to give birth to babies including the mad women on the streets which they do?

What can you offer asides the biological anatomy in you which even every dirty mad women along the street will do.They give birth to babies alive.

What can you offer in marriage different from sex and childbirth which every dirty insane woman or roadside prostitute can do?
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 1:58pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
See this one ooo..
grin
You want compare urself with Otedola's daughter.

She has a lot to offer the guy's family.

Surely, there is business connection the family will surely offer in such relationship which therefore attracts waivers.
You see how Hypocritical you are
So you will defend otedolas daughter
If your mom ask her to go to kitchen and she refused.
Because you want to secure business deals grin
You are a gold digger
Poverty has damaged your brain..wow!!
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You see how Hypocritical you are
So you will defend otedolas daughter
If your mom ask her to go to kitchen and she refused.
Because you want to secure business deals grin
You are a gold digger
Poverty has damaged your brain..wow!!

Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 2:05pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
Isn't this funny?

Everywoman has a biological feature to give birth to babies including the mad women on the streets which they do?

What can you offer asides the biological anatomy in you which even every dirty mad women along the street will do.They give birth to babies alive.

What can you offer in marriage different from sex and childbirth which every dirty insane woman or roadside prostitute can do?
You think pregnancy is nothing??
Every woman can do childbirth??
And there are millions of barren women looking for kids.
You see how dumb you sound??
You should be asking your mother that question since you have decided to insult her.
Her carrying you for 9 months is nothing
Here bringing you into this world to be able to type rubbish here is nothing.
Giving birth to you is nothing to offer to your father.
If you think bringing a living being into this world is nothing. Then you're useless to your mother and father.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 2:08pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You think pregnancy is nothing??
Every woman can do childbirth??
And there are millions of barren women looking for kids.
You see how dumb you sound??
You should be asking your mother that question since you have decided to insult her.
Her carrying you for 9 months is nothing
Here bringing you into this world to be able to type rubbish here is nothing.
Giving birth to you is nothing to offer to your father.
If you think bringing a living being into this world is nothing. Then you're useless to your mother and father.

Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 2:09pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You see how Hypocritical you are
So you will defend otedolas daughter
If your mom ask her to go to kitchen and she refused.
Because you want to secure business deals grin
You are a gold digger
Poverty has damaged your brain..wow!!
Baby girl slow down, don't push some people to their suicide.
You are on point, we have to know let them know that not everyone is a weakling and a slave when it comes to mother in laws.
That guy replying your every comments is so dumb and daft for comparing you to another people.
It shows he has inferiority complex issue.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by FeliciaOja(f): 2:12pm On Apr 22, 2020
Theobserver835:
Baby girl slow down, don't push some people to their suicide.
You are on point, we have to know let them know that not everyone is a weakling and a slave when it comes to mother in laws.
That guy replying your every comments is so dumb and daft for comparing you to another people.
It shows he has inferiority complex issue.
Thanks luv, I'm done replying dumb people
Feels like I'm losing my IQ debating with them..
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 2:19pm On Apr 22, 2020
[quote author=oludolars post=88729480][/quote]oludolars what is the meaning of this nonsense of you you digging into her past post from her achieve by screenshoting it.
Why are you this daft,is there any sense in what you just did,tell me.
Grow up and stop been a kid boy because that is what you make me believe by this childish act of yours.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 2:21pm On Apr 22, 2020
Theobserver835:
Baby girl slow down, don't push some people to their suicide.
You are on point, we have to know let them know that not everyone is a weakling and a slave when it comes to mother in laws.
That guy replying your every comments is so dumb and daft for comparing you to another people.
It shows he has inferiority complex issue.
Hope it is not because of what some people are going through at Festac now.

Is it cos of what ur sister experienced?

lol!
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
Hope it is not because of what some people are going through at Festac now.

Is it cos of what ur sister experienced?

lol!
I won't give you the most sought attention you crave for because it is very obvious and glaring even to the blind that is what you want.
Kiddo you and I very well know that you don't reach me anywhere in life.
In fact you can't attain half of what I have achieve in this life.
So just get the hell out of my mention and go cry over the sucker punch you receive from Felicia oja outside.
And pls crawl back to the hole you came out from after that been done you sewer rat.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by leonard002(m): 2:47pm On Apr 22, 2020
It's not courteous as it's her first time visiting, but seeing she's been called already, it would be rude to refuse
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 2:49pm On Apr 22, 2020
Theobserver835:
I won't give you the most sought attention you crave for because it is very obvious and glaring even to the blind that is what you want.
Kiddo you and I very well know that you don't reach me anywhere in life.
In fact you can't attain half of what I have achieve in this life.
So just get the hell out of my mention and go cry over the sucker punch you receive from Felicia oja outside.
And pls crawl back to the hole you came out from after that been done you sewer rat.
I want you to talk so i can open up about ur secret life.

Secondly, look at this one hidding behind online pillars. I have ur CV with me.

Kindly share ur linkedin profile here to show ur achievments. And i would do mine immediately and let people compare here.

That settles the gragra thing in you.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by iornenge81(m): 2:52pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You can't expect me to cook on MY FIRST VISIT..
Maybe on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.. haba


Am I a househelp, that on the first day of introduction you will be flexing mother in-law power.. Abeg the girlfriend was right.

First meetings with parents are meant for formal introduction.
Then after the first meeting
I get used to his mother and then we can now get along, crack jokes with each other before I step into your kitchen to cook with you.
My opinion
Its the best place to bond with your would be mother in law
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Apr 22, 2020
FeliciaOja:
You can't expect me to cook on MY FIRST VISIT..
Maybe on the 2nd or 3rd meeting.. haba


Am I a househelp, that on the first day of introduction you will be flexing mother in-law power.. Abeg the girlfriend was right.

First meetings with parents are meant for formal introduction.
Then after the first meeting
I get used to his mother and then we can now get along, crack jokes with each other before I step into your kitchen to cook with you.
My opinion
she is not stupid for inviting you to the kitchen.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2020
oludolars:
I want you to talk so i can open up about ur secret life.

Secondly, look at this one hidding behind online pillars. I have ur CV with me.

Kindly share ur linkedin profile here to show ur achievments. And i would do mine immediately and let people compare here.

That settles the gragra thing in you.
That your Dad toasted me and I politely refuse him.
Do you who I am,don't start what you can't finish kid boy.
Re: Who Is Right! His Girlfriend Or His Mum? by oludolars(m): 3:00pm On Apr 22, 2020
Theobserver835:
That your Dad toasted me and I politely refuse him.
Do you who I am,don't start what you can't finish kid boy.
You want me to share images and screen shots like i did about ur friend's lifestyle expecting to be somone's wife in her dreams?

Talking about who you are, let linkedin tell us about you not an immiginary achievement. Dont get decieved by delusion of grandeur
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