danilmo:



hmm.. see many comment from ladies above. Most of them aren't different from unrealistic tales of a motivational speaker. They talk too much..

@op. listen to what those Men above told u. U want a Man, listen to how to get a Man of ur dream from a Man.


Lemme drop this reality, how u present urself and ur personality , what u talk and discuss about matters o..


Wen I think of Sex, I have ladies I think of in my dm, I'm serious o.

but as per my future marital life, i dnt joke wit that, nd I'm at d same time seeking love from a brilliant ,homely ,young and decent virgin lady which I even know ll most likely deny me sex(I don't really mind, what I want from her is future).

once she accept my date plea eh, I don turn new leaf for her b that, sign out of market. I won't like to stain her personality,

So we men judge women base on what we perceive.

u see that Bleep/bleep boys ehn is in all men and at d same time ,that same responsible man is also in us, we give to u base on what we think is obtainable from u.

very helpful thanks

Renaa:


Sending a e-hug to you right now.

I'd like you to replace that thought. So what if you don't have a man yet. All the Bleep boys clearly don't deserve you. Don't change who you are for any reason. It may not seem like it right now but something good or should I say someone good is being prepared behind the scenes just for you. So keep being you, and please try to come out of that depression..... You're never alone.

thanks u ladies hv been helpful

Renaa:


Sending a e-hug to you right now.

I'd like you to replace that thought. So what if you don't have a man yet. All the Bleep boys clearly don't deserve you. Don't change who you are for any reason. It may not seem like it right now but something good or should I say someone good is being prepared behind the scenes just for you. So keep being you, and please try to come out of that depression..... You're never alone.

Nice, great mindset. I particularly love the bolder line, I assume she is everything she stayed above, though she needs others to appraise her and not her thoughts, someone's lips and not the words of her own mouth!
You sound deep!

lefulefu:
and when they make such statement and the men start avioding them they start crying.many ladies who are single are single through their own fault cos many want to marry dangote or a guy with big house and big car.they not intersted in the young men who are around them.over choosing here and dere.there are guys everywhere so no lady can lay of being single cos she cant get any man.many men are begging for the attention of ladies.

I wanted to call you out for thinking all women want to marry rich men. Trust me, we know that fantasy isn't an attainable reality, so our clothes are cut according to our coat already.

If you think women not being interested in the young men around them is the basis for singleness, then I have to tell you that you're wrong. Men in their immediate environment are the reason why women aren't interested in them. I'll give you my mini experience?

Why should I agree to remeet and go on a proper date with a guy in my immediate environment who invited me to his place just to have sex with me the very first time I agreed to meet him? That singular action has lowered him in my eyes. Interest for him will never spike.

Truth is most men chase women into building standards for men because of how they were treated in their teens and early 20s through sexual promises and fails. Even some men too built their criteria for wives this way.

As I am now, if we don't have up to three dates in public places, I won't come to visit your house. And even when I do, we ain't doing shit in your house. That's the standard I built after dealing with chewing gum boys. Now imagine a genuinely interested man being scrapped out because of this?

Dont even bother yourself looking forward to a relationship else you keep getting what you don't deserve from Bleep boys.I can't even remember the last time i was in a relationship.For the few ones I've been in my life were for the wrong reasons. I get too much attention everyday and I don't take any serious because they either come for the breast or nyash which is not what I want. It's very hard to recognize real this days because of too many Bleep boys around.Focus on whatever you are doing and in no distant time you will find that true person who will dig with you in every.Dont sound desperate, dress to kill and pamper yourself more.Life is good. Stay safe

who are you?

Liliantalks:
this is a faceless platform n I am going to be very explicit about my issues , I hv done church prayers n fasting , I hv done it ,,, I hv even gone to a priest , bath in river n all ,, I hv done it , nothing!! Went back to God kept praying n praying !! Things hasn’t changed, looks like I am getting a break through but no I ain’t !!
Question is how many of that stuff will I get myself into ? In the quest of getting a man ? People will keep bringing suggestions but how many I go go ?

That’s not it .. I think I am created to be alone !!

Seems ur above 30yrs of age

kurupt1:
Seems ur above 30yrs of age

late 20s

You can not leave God out of your present situation. God is still faithful and still joining his children in holy matrimony. I have seen women in their late 50's getting married and having children. Nothing is too big for God to do. Be patience and focus on other things.
Let us talk some more on my blog www.hightaughts.com

danilmo:



hmm.. see many comment from ladies above. Most of them aren't different from unrealistic tales of a motivational speaker. They talk too much..

@op. listen to what those Men above told u. U want a Man, listen to how to get a Man of ur dream from a Man.


Lemme drop this reality, how u present urself and ur personality , what u talk and discuss about matters o..


Wen I think of Sex, I have ladies I think of in my dm, I'm serious o.

but as per my future marital life, i dnt joke wit that, nd I'm at d same time seeking love from a brilliant ,homely ,young and decent virgin lady which I even know ll most likely deny me sex(I don't really mind, what I want from her is future).

once she accept my date plea eh, I don turn new leaf for her b that, sign out of market. I won't like to stain her personality,

So we men judge women base on what we perceive.

u see that Bleep/bleep boys ehn is in all men and at d same time ,that same responsible man is also in us, we give to u base on what we think is obtainable from u.

advice them and you are a misogynist . they will rather take advice from motivational speakers saying "be yourself,who loves you will take you for you are" or "those guys that leave you don't deserve you, a guy who deserves you will marry you" bla bla bla. Such comments make people feel there is no need for improvement.
I have sang this severally, the checklist for marriage and dating is different.
There are girls for showing off to the world,those ones you love their company and will like people to see you with her. Na to send money and airtime be that na or once a while take them go dominos pizza,buy one 50k human hair for her,but you dey collect sex..they may see those 10k or 20k (in naira) you send them as something and feel you love them not knowing you may pay a prostitute more than that for a night. Or they may feel the daily calling and texting means he wants a future with you but unbeknownst to them if ladies send us half of all the messages and text we send to them we will become suspicious and report them to the police as stalkers.


Girls have to be wise o, fuuuuck.boys nowadays don't even ask for sex early ,they act very normal,its hard to detect them,its not written on their forehead...na them they carry Bible,drag their trousers up to their waist and don't drink or smoke. Most of them look very responsible.
A player who will block your number after sex within a couple of months is better than the fuuuckk boys of today that will tie your down for 3 to 4 years.

Now a days fuuuuck boys have become so deceptive that they don't enjoy only free sex from you but free money,cooking and cleaning,infact some of them even commit to you for years and take you to his family and make you "lord of the rings" . Then on the last minute they talk of their parents not liking your tribe,or a pastor seeing bad omen or a lady he doesn't love who his parents are forcing him to marry or a "friend" he accidentally got pregnant that he must marry.

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

Lets link up if you dont mind. We may find things in common. You will never know! I am lonely ASF

Kingarthur21:
advice them and you are a misogynist . they will rather take advice from motivational speakers saying "be yourself,who loves you will take you for you are" or "those guys that leave you don't deserve you, a guy who deserves you will marry you" bla bla bla. Such comments make people feel there is no need for improvement.
I have sang this severally, the checklist for marriage and dating is different.
There are girls for showing off to the world,those ones you love their company and will like people to see you with her. Na to send money and airtime be that na or once a while take them go dominos pizza,buy one 50k human hair for her,but you dey collect sex..they may see those 10k or 20k (in naira) you send them as something and feel you love them not knowing you may pay a prostitute more than that for a night. Or they may feel the daily calling and texting means he wants a future with you but unbeknownst to them if ladies send us half of all the messages and text we send to them we will become suspicious and report them to the police as stalkers.


Girls have to be wise o, fuuuuck.boys nowadays don't even ask for sex early ,they act very normal,its hard to detect them,its not written on their forehead...na them they carry Bible,drag their trousers up to their waist and don't drink or smoke. Most of them look very responsible.
A player who will block your number after sex within a couple of months is better than the fuuuckk boys of today that will tie your down for 3 to 4 years.

Now a days fuuuuck boys have become so deceptive that they don't enjoy only free sex from you but free money,cooking and cleaning,infact some of them even commit to you for years and take you to his family and make you "lord of the rings" . Then on the last minute they talk of their parents not liking your tribe,or a pastor seeing bad omen or a lady he doesn't love who his parents are forcing him to marry or a "friend" he accidentally got pregnant that he must marry.

I know u were trying to make sense ,, but u also gave women a reason not to stress over men, cause many r assholes n u can never know the fake from real

Liliantalks:
I know u were trying to make sense ,, but u also gave women a reason not to stress over men, cause many r assholes n u can never know the fake from real

exactly sis...
Out of 100% of men I will only allow 20% date my sister,guys could be scum at times(I am speaking from experience).

Liliantalks:
this is a faceless platform n I am going to be very explicit about my issues , I hv done church prayers n fasting , I hv done it ,,, I hv even gone to a priest , bath in river n all ,, I hv done it , nothing!! Went back to God kept praying n praying !! Things hasn’t changed, looks like I am getting a break through but no I ain’t !!
Question is how many of that stuff will I get myself into ? In the quest of getting a man ? People will keep bringing suggestions but how many I go go ?
That’s not it .. I think I am created to be alone !!

Dis is where u spoiled ur whole life but I will help you get out of it. One thing is missing in ur life because dis is now a spiritual matter. Charity not d type u go to motherless homes to give or church nah nah. Just within ur area u will see full grown men doing nothing. Ask dem questions and give arms to those u feel like. Den go home and relax. Believe me, all d said characters u have will be exposed.

Hello Lilian can we be friends

Chudy2017:

Dis is where u spoiled ur whole life but I will help you get out of it. One thing is missing in ur life because dis is now a spiritual matter. Charity not d type u go to motherless homes to give or church nah nah. Just within ur area u will see full grown men doing nothing. Ask dem questions and give arms to those u feel like. Den go home and relax. Believe me, all d said characters u have will be exposed.

.thanks for ur advice!! I hv stopped caring about those things , I just stick to God in prayer n do as my spirit lead ! If I am to die single, I will , won’t be the end of the world .

if you think you are that good, why are you not getting a man of your own, may be you are not telling the truth or half truth, don't come here to present yourself as a victim, don't!

Liliantalks:
Dated a lot niggas hoping n praying he would be the one but sex sex sex is all they r after .

if you see a good man you will not appreciate him.

fcdgrand:
if you think you are that good, why are you not getting a man of your own, may be you are not telling the truth or half truth, don't come here to present yourself as a victim, don't!

I finally learnt ,, marriage isn’t a reward for good character! Everybody won’t get married or hv a man

Liliantalks:
I finally learnt ,, marriage isn’t a reward for good character! Everybody won’t get married or hv a man

Nay Sis! Your Perception of things is a reflection of you. Your reaction to things is an awareness of who you are.
I couldn't help but comment. I have seen too many a good people fall off the cliff, just because they teetered on the precipice of despair, desperation, and ultimately delusion; for too long.
Take charge of your life (you only need to know 'HOW'. The good thing about hitting rock bottom is that there could be only one way to go, UP!!!

Liliantalks:
I finally learnt ,, marriage isn’t a reward for good character! Everybody won’t get married or hv a man

So I have never commented on romance section since I have been on nairaland but I have to in this case.

The fact that you said you went to a priest for cleansing and others shows your issue is more of a spiritual problem and trust me I know what I'm saying.

I'll suggest you search for "Emmanuel TV" on YouTube and pray with it. And if you stay in Lagos, consider visiting the synagogue church of all nations after the lockdown is over.

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First describe yourself for us because Lot of men here need a good woman . For example I personally need a good woman for serious relationship / marriage. Are you slim or chubby , fair or black , which state do u live and what's your work or business. You can send me mail so we can meet in real Life

Liliantalks:
I finally learnt ,, marriage isn’t a reward for good character! Everybody won’t get married or hv a man

you learn nothing, listen women, life give you what you demand not what you want, i am a living tastimony because i demand for it, yes i refuse to be poor thats my prayer and God answer me, from grass to grace, you can still follow my example and God will hear you

When we always tell them men get alot of edge over them..they bliv we are joking. Guys in their 30's will still go for the young ones...But d moment a grl clock 29 or 30 na war o. Most Nigerian girls will remain single its not a curse but with their unrealistic African magic standard. There are lot of better guys out there but very few real girls. My sister your man will surely locate u..its all about time.

Well said.

I will be amazing to study the science between why older men often prefer younger women. I declined furthering my relationship with a lady in part because she was a older than I was.

Is it really fun being a woman these days cause it appears their happiness is dependent in their relationships. And relationship these days is tough and highly competitive.

freesoul12:
When we always tell them men get alot of edge over them..they bliv we are joking. Guys in their 30's will still go for the young ones...But d moment a grl clock 29 or 30 na war o. Most Nigerian girls will remain single its not a curse but with their unrealistic African magic standard. There are lot of better guys out there but very few real girls. My sister your man will surely locate u..its all about time.

Smile4mee01:
Well said.

I will be amazing to study the science between why. older men often prefer younger women. I declined furthering my relationship with a lady in part because she was a older than I was.

Is it really fun being a woman these days cause it appears their happiness is dependent in their relationships. And relationship these days is tough and highly competitive.

On point boss. Tough and highly competitive.

Ugly ladies should get maraid on time. from age 19 -22

Join a friendship or dating group. You can find all on the internet even Facebook

Shugavee:
so let her kill herself? Not everybody will get married especially women , the faster women realize that the better . Dick is everywhere , yes !! That’s why it’s easy for a woman to Bleep any guy for free even get money or nice outings , but relationships n marriage won’t get to everyone.

so in essence you're saying women control sex while men control relationship correct?

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

Maybe you've hurt one innocent guy b4...

xendra:
my dear, you cant be "every man's dream " some men like totally independent and some like dependent women, some don't even care if she can cook, some like big and some like slim women, some like humble looking and some like the rugged type, you cant be all that at once.

forget what you hear.

forget trying to be "every man's dream" that alone is limiting in ways you will not yet know

Liliatalks must be the DUMBBEST person on earth to think she's everyman's dream when the wants of men is as variant as the number of men on the planet.