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| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by smat101(m): 3:48pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee:Actually you all need Men  |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by maak400: 4:03pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks:sent you a mail |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Nobody: 4:34pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks be very careful with the pm they are sending,let your experience with the fuckboys not become a cycle 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Chazzyboy: 5:06pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks:I'm here for you |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by rex444(m): 6:32pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
don't be sad my dear, that one person for you will come someday .....tarry |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Shugavee(f): 6:35pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
smat101:NOPE WE DONT. It’s a need when we can’t live without men but we can n do fine |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Nobody: 6:38pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee:lol you are sending audio love. 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Nobody: 6:39pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee:women cant survive without men so stop decieving yourself. |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Shugavee(f): 6:43pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
24kmagic:for the fact u modified ur comment n added don’t quote me , I think I will !!! U hv ur own method n opinion about her post n I hv mine ,, it’s here for people to voice their views and I did , I didn’t insult anyone or forced anyone to agree with me !! NO ONE NEED ANOTHER HUMAN BEING TO BE HAPPY, the fact she’s not in a relationship doesn’t mean she should be depressed when she can look at the brighter side,, I am not you ,, I don’t solve problems by creating more problems. It’s simple as ABC , u can only create happiness by ur own self , I hv been single n got single friends, n I don’t make them feel low n down cause they got no one , I don’t make them feel less lovable or hv issues because they single. U are a guy I understand your points as a guy, it’s my opinion n she’s a grown ass woman so can choose who to agree n not agree with .. what’s the unnecessary tagging for !! Why do u need women to say they need you people,, what does it do for you ? PLEASE LEAVE MY COMMENT AS IT IS ,, THATS HOW I SEE THINGS ITS NOT COMPUSORY TO AGREE TO IT. |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Alfather: 7:33pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Sexytincoll:Jealousy |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Kennedyiheme02: 7:38pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee:nobody ever chooses to be depressed... depression comes as a result of a thought or problem in someones live.. it's not a switch..... you people always say happiness is free... it actually isnt... to be happy something actually has to make you happy... your job, family, a promotion... you just cant be happy when nothing you expect has happened.... we're humans, happyness actually has to be earned... Your freind here isn't happy because she hasnt found that man.... you just cant tell her to be happy... she can't be... even if she tries she can't... unless she finds that man 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by rolly44: 7:45pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
@op, am avalable, since we ar in thesame shoe.depression is real o, in search of a woman i attended dis big church and they said all d singles should stand up and i findout that more than half of d people in d church were singles including myself, i look beside me is one fine girl she was stil single, "o since u ar single and i am single lets couplet" we get talking for some weeks wat dis lady told me made me give up on women, after all revrend fathers no dey marry" she called my name and ask"ar u lacking women or na money u no get?" she was rigth, d delay was lack of cash to takecare of a family,so i said"i need somebody we can manage and build family together with" and she said"so u no see around u, ur negbourhood, ur village and ur street?" i was like"dis lady was looking 4 cashman" , why this? In nigeria alot of ladies need already made guys, and u think such guy wil be single, d country is hard and ladies dont want to build with a en, all they want is come and eat, reay made food. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Shugavee(f): 8:16pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme02:nice u didn’t mention a man as the only thing that can make a lady happy,, she can focus on those other things u mentioned. That’s the point ,, happiness is free for me tho . |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Kennedyiheme02: 8:28pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee:not its not free... something has to make you happy.. its basic knowledge.. a child in creche knows this... i wonder why ita difficult for you to understand... still that pride playing out... Nature has programmed women to desire marriage... its the ultimate thing that brings happiness to women... all other things aren't paramount... like cars, houses, money... Linda ikeji also claimed happiness was free.. she preached you can do without a man, self love, I'm rich i dont need a man.... listen she's 40 now, the other day we saw her catching bouquet at her kid sister's wedding... 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Shugavee(f): 8:37pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Kennedyiheme02:okay |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by 24kmagic: 8:56pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee: Yen yen yen yen. You talk too much. Even after telling you not to bother replying me. I pity your children |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Shugavee(f): 9:19pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
24kmagic:u can never tell me what to do or not do !! U are not that powerful!! Pity urself for not minding ur damn business,, mr pity !! Keep pitying rubbish pity !! Get lost |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by okesuku: 9:41pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Please stop this kinda reasoning. Women do not need men to be happy..and vice versa. Neither can your job or any material thing make you happy. They can only give you pleasure. There is a big difference between pleasure and happiness. Pleasure is just the stoking of our carnal and materialistic desires.it always has a limit..we keep wanting more of these pleasures to fill our human desires..they truly don't lead to happiness. Its like using the external to quench the internal thirst..it dosent work. Happiness is a derivative of deeper dispositions such as gratitude, inner fulfilment, inner peace. Nobody can make one happy if one are not a happy person. They will only pleasure one for a while but cannot give inner fulfilment. Kennedyiheme02: |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by okesuku: 9:51pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
I am not a relationship expert but my advice to the OP is simple.. Do not go about looking for men. What's more important is adding value to yourself. Find what defines you and keep building it while staying open minded in the process.. You are more likely to meet men who can add value to your life while you are building your own value. And as you build yourself , its easier to notice men who are building themselves. Places like seminars and conferences are great platforms to meet great potentials. Don't get into bed quickly. Get to discuss and discern before emotionally or sexually commmiting yourself to a man. And I guess above all...Its not by your power nor by your might..if you are a christian then pray the Holy Spirit guide you..that's my opinion... 1 Like |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Kennedyiheme02: 10:02pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
okesuku:oga leave English... cocaine makes some people hapoy, so does heroine... money makes everyone happy.... i know a guy in america that builds small planes he flies, that makes him happy... happyness is earned by an action... forget all this inner fulfilment you dey talk.... You wonna preach about innet fulfilment to a poor family with 5 kids, man earning 30k a month,.. living in face me i face you about inner fulfilment and thats enough to make him happy.. lol what a joke....dude the poor man needs money.. give him 10million Naira and see how happiness fills his face...Money is universal happiness... makes everyone happy.. Also marriage for women is universal happiness... most women who aren't married are not happy..... So you believe gratitute and inner fulfilment would make a man living in ajegunle, with rats disturbing him.. would make him happy.... you must have laughed at yourself when you wrote that 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Kennedyiheme02: 10:05pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
okesuku:this is why i dont like motivational speakers.. you jusy say things that arent even real... things people cant do in real life.... did she tell you she hasnt built herself... she needs a man.. tell her what to do to get a good man... forget all this story abeg 3 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by obatan(m): 10:07pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks:You just need to think less of that, everything has a way of working it way out, just feel relaxed, you will definitely be fine. |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Serveyouright(m): 10:42pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Shugavee: Guys should stop noticing this girl, she is the bitter type that will stay long in the market. Good luck. |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Renaa(f): 11:58pm On Mar 28, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Sending a e-hug to you right now. I'd like you to replace that thought. So what if you don't have a man yet. All the Bleep boys clearly don't deserve you. Don't change who you are for any reason. It may not seem like it right now but something good or should I say someone good is being prepared behind the scenes just for you. So keep being you, and please try to come out of that depression..... You're never alone. 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by danilmo: 1:07am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Liliantalks: hmm.. see many comment from ladies above. Most of them aren't different from unrealistic tales of a motivational speaker. They talk too much.. @op. listen to what those Men above told u. U want a Man, listen to how to get a Man of ur dream from a Man. Lemme drop this reality, how u present urself and ur personality , what u talk and discuss about matters o.. Wen I think of Sex, I have ladies I think of in my dm, I'm serious o. but as per my future marital life, i dnt joke wit that, nd I'm at d same time seeking love from a brilliant ,homely ,young and decent virgin lady which I even know ll most likely deny me sex(I don't really mind, what I want from her is future). once she accept my date plea eh, I don turn new leaf for her b that, sign out of market. I won't like to stain her personality, So we men judge women base on what we perceive. u see that Bleep/bleep boys ehn is in all men and at d same time ,that same responsible man is also in us, we give to u base on what we think is obtainable from u. 2 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by maeola(f): 1:30am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Ma'am, you're being hard on yourself. Maybe what you need is just be you and relax. Are you being pressurised? No one on this platform can tell you how to get a a 'good' man. There is no universal law on how a good relationship is formed or how it works for others. Being introverted is another thing to consider when thinking of a relationship. How hard are you willing to step outside your shell? Introverts are too protective of their personal space and sometimes unwilling to compromise. Compromising doesn't mean pretending to be someone else but at least trying things the other person may find fun. No one likes boring people. Someone mentioned earlier if you were boring. Please and please, self love is very important!!! Depression makes one feel worthless, don't allow it control you. I hope and pray your man finds you. Talk to God about this.  1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Jefersoun: 8:52am On Mar 29, 2020 |
"I am every man's dream woman" that is where the problem is. The problem of most women is pride. They don't know when to do the right thing. You see a woman offend a man but refuse to say or go to him to say sorry/or settle it. All they belief is that, there are lots of guys coming for them, so they don't need to put in any work to make their relationship work. Guess what, they end up getting the f-boys who don't care about their characters but all they need is their body. That thing you call little, can end your relationship. I have got more to say, but let me pause here. 3 Likes |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Kantebets(m): 8:55am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Liliantalks:you no serious |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by Obodo999(m): 9:09am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Liliantalks: Don't even consider been a single mother. It's callous and it's evil. 1 Like |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by dbestuncle: 10:40am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Don't loose hope, this things happen, even in the Bible these matter in various styles are seen David the psalmist said in psm 73 Surely God is good to Israel, to those who are pure in heart. 2 But as for me, my feet had almost slipped; I had nearly lost my foothold. 3 For I envied the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked. 4 They have no struggles; their bodies are healthy and strong.[a] 5 They are free from common human burdens; they are not plagued by human ills. 6 Therefore pride is their necklace; they clothe themselves with violence. 7 From their callous hearts comes iniquity[b]; their evil imaginations have no limits. 8 They scoff, and speak with malice; with arrogance they threaten oppression. 9 Their mouths lay claim to heaven, and their tongues take possession of the earth. 10 Therefore their people turn to them and drink up waters in abundance. Sometimes when u are in dire need of answers or way forward in a particular area of life such as Marital. U look around u and it becomes clear the Psalmist noticed that some people live in sin and seems to be happier. That some have better luck than others. True as it is. Just don't ever give up on God know that this kind of thing happens n only God can deliver us. Liliantalks: |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by rolly44: 11:07am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Dont give up on ur search because life can be funy, hustle for ur hapiness because @50year ur interest is dead and totally gone,then u can even find nice young guys coming to u 4 marriage, u wil be like why didnt u come when i was 28or30yr, remember d village people, they too can play a great role in figthing hapiness. Sister dont give up, most happy women today hustle to be, change ur tactise, hv u tried approaching a guy u scent is a nice guy, if u hv not then u ar a learner, go and read the book"things women do to get a man" |
| Re: If U Think U Need A Man U Will Never Get One by emmaodet: 1:22pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Shugavee: Fact!! 1 Like 1 Share |
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