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Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him now that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him now that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Trailblazer93:
Hmm, even if you give her money not will not stop her from fucking som1 dat is not given her nada... When I dy skul e dis babe wey I dy Bleep steady and I no dy give her shishi, she get guy wey dy gv her everything yet babe dy cum crash for my place. Na she dy mostly call me sef (maybe cuz I hottt sha . So my guy no be wetin you gv her naim go mak her stay. I no say mak no dy greedy oo but mak sure say the babe no dy finger ur brain

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him now that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Margy:
Give him 20k or even 15k. He will not die!

Babe... irrespective you need to save!... don't be like Melinda of the movie Acrimony

bamidelee:
It's her money, why are you abusing her? You can't do it as well stop been an hypocrite

luluosas:
Lend? You will be making the gravest mistake of your life.
Go and marry and stop sleeping around in the name of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Fornication is a deadly sin. Repent now, Jesus Christ loves you.

As for the money, in case you don't know how to invest, kindly lend me the money with 5% interest per annum. You won't believe how much you will made from the money without extra sweat.
Think about it.
God bless you

Making a grave mistake by helping someone in need??

Well-done @the second bold...... You're an unserious person, to think he even used Jesus Christ in his post

grandstar:
If I was dating you, I would dump you. You're not doing him a favor giving him money. It's what expected of you.

You should consider it a privilege for you to help him out when he's down. You don't need to come here to ask. He's ticked all the right boxes already so what do you want?

My senior brother told me he was a pauper when he married his Turkish wife. He said Nigerian girls were always sizing him. They are now comfortable.

My younger brother as well. They are okay now, living in a middle class part of London.

Many Nigerian guys have a fetish for white girls and it's this kind of behavior that causes it. They don't see a relationship as one sided where the man is the one always dropping money. They don't even ask for money!

Obviously if you're married and things are tough for him, your assistance to him will be limited. You're both one my friend. If he's down, you're down and vice versa. Investing in your marriage and husband is the best investment you can ever make.

luluosas:
Lend? You will be making the gravest mistake of your life.
Go and marry and stop sleeping around in the name of boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Fornication is a deadly sin. Repent now, Jesus Christ loves you.

As for the money, in case you don't know how to invest, kindly lend me the money with 5% interest per annum. You won't believe how much you will made from the money without extra sweat.
Think about it.
God bless you

Millenniumlady:
Better don't try ruin your life cause if you borrow him now that you guys are dating you'll borrow him when you guys are married.....That's if he didn't ask you to borrow him to pay your bride price the best thing you can do for him now is to use get some food stuff for him but don't try the mistake of giving him money cause he might use that money to invite a girl over....set awong borrowers

Candoit:
First of all, hope you're parents and siblings are not in need themselves. Charity begins at home they say

Next, I think you have created an impression to him that you are financially rich enough to borrow and even dash him. So, he seeks you as first choice when he has brothers or friends. Don't get me wrong, its not bad but it's not good either.

I would advise you correct that impression gradually. As for the 40k he needs now, it's not compulsory u give him the full money. You can give him 30.

Both parties should not turn the other to ATM machine in any relationship

KanuSE:
30k? That's a month salary for some u know.

Op should be checking to see if bf has exhausted all options b4 coming to her, if not, she needs to put a break on the freebies... IMO

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Margy:
If it's chicken change.. then give him
I wonder how much you call chicken change!

If not..do not give him. Don't give him large money and expect him to pay back.. it's impossible.

Modified
Infact give him half of the chicken change so you don't be like Melinda of the movie Acrimony... you need to save... save for the rainy day!!

HeavenlyCherub:
Where is his family? Where are his friends? Why do men want to burden their women. Women have problems too. Advice for you- only give money you don’t intend to get back. It’s scary you have dated for so long and he can’t sustain himself.. what if you got pregnant and needed him to man up... is this the man you want to get married to? Please shine your eye and read my story

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?

Candoit:
True. Exactly my point. Let him try asking his friends, colleagues or siblings before turning to her.

30k is much abi? Should we make it 15k?.

bamidelee:
It's her money, why are you abusing her? You can't do it as well stop been an hypocrite

Lexusgs430:
If you want to, make him sign an undertaking.......

Trayceey:
Fellow nairalanders,

I have a pressing issue on ground and I need your contribution. My boyfriend has been working for about 5 years now. We've been dating for a while now and he has been so nice and caring. The best ever.

In my past experience in relationships, I have been quite generous but the guys turned out to be ingrates so I vowed never to give any boy my penny again.

When I met my man, he melted my hardened heart with the love he showered on me. On one occasion, I have borrowed him money and he paid me back. Now he's asking me to borrow him another money. Because of this lockdown, he has gone so broke and he opened up to me. Initially, I did not believe him but when I noticed he has run out of food stuffs and the provisions he normally stock his house with, I believed him. I have more than enough money. The money he's asking for is like chicken change to me. But I don't want him to get used to borrowing from me and I have vowed never to give a guy my money again except if he's my husband.

Please I need advice. Fellow ladies like me, what do you think? Should I borrow him?