I was actually praying hard and finally my twins were successfully delivered.
Glory be to God.
Thank God my wife is now Iya ibeji

ofemigeorge:


Mine was funny. She was just working like a workaholic on that day clearing and cleaning the house. I was home so i supported in the little way i could. So when it was 6:30pm she decided to go to the market to buy loads of food stuffs in our store.

So while dressing she felt uneasy, so she decided to first go to the market , come back and from home go for checkup. .....

We finished from the market and she decided to go straight to the hospital ....

While she took the stairs into the delivery ward for possible check up. I strolled out to relax and wait for her to call me that we should be heading home. How wrong i was.

The next thing shes calling to go get the bags ready that the DELIVERY IS GOING TO BE TODAY!!!

I WAS SHOCKED.

Caught unaware. I felt like telling the nurse can this be so kind of mistake. Check very well it cant be today.


So i hurried home. The atmosphere of my apartment changed. I was scared of lossing my wife. I was not prepared for what am about to face.

Finally i entered the favour room. The scream was lie someone being tortured..

I was doing like a football coach. "Come on baby you can do it. Dont go off on me . Common you can do"

The next thing she stopped looked at me and said. ...."PLEASE STOP TALKING"

I shock. i became useless there. just begging the nurse in a quiet tone. Please do something.

Then it happened after a big push. POP!! she was born.

It was more than winning the world cup. I hugged and carried any nurse in my path. Rolling on the floor like a mad man. My girl.

Rolling on the floor? Really?

I just spoke to my fiancé and asked him if he can follow me to the theatre during childbirth by God’s grace, Oga laughed real hard and said “yes”.....me I know he will faint cos he is emotional .Ordinary menstrual cramp use to affect him, see him asking me what I want and what he can send to me to relief me .Till then sha
Meanwhile, I wish other pregnant women safe delivery and those believing God for their children to have theirs. Children are lovely, they are precious and are priceless.

nikkflexible:
My hubby wasn't around when I delivered of my two children. Reason being that I had to travel home to deliver because I don't have a mother in law anymore and my mom still in service couldn't take permission to come stay over where we reside. The best option was to go meet her at 8months for both pregnancies and I had our family doctor and hospital take over while my hubby stays back cos of work and joins us for their naming ceremonies..
Hopefully he gets to witness my third labor when the time comes

3rd,4th and 5th

Prudent5217:
I was right beside my wife when she gave birth to our son. Wasn’t funny at all really felt for her. The nurses chased me out before the baby came out. Stubborn me I still sneak in later . She had a cut and needed stitching when the doctors noticed that I was watching them stitch her. See me see chasing. “Oga you are not supposed to be here” I cannot come and miss anything. My woman still wonders till today what gave me the liver to stick around.

It's right for you to stick around cos some wicked nurses can exchange ur baby without you guys knowing.

Sorry

Liposure:
i wood like 2 be godfather of your child

Lolzzz. Thanks.

Sorry

Alooone:

it was when i gave birth that my neighbours later came...but i pulled out my son's head by myself.

u are indeed a strong woman, I can't try it o

I remembered vividly, my hubby was kneeling under the rain that very night and was praying for his testimony....3years down memory lane....

Without having a wife I experienced what child delivery was at age 13 . So our housemaid she got pregnant before she came into the house my grandma partially blind and great grandmother completely blind�
So there was light and about 2AM my grandma woke me up to an unexpected condition of an angry pregnant woman �.
Oops they said it’s time loud moanings or should I say cries .

But there was a nurse 16 streets ahead.

They said I’m the only man but do I look like a man?
God knows�
So she started the things I saw in movies hands to the waist only me assisting her then we started walks .

She almost gave up and it was almost like young me backing an almost delivered lady from something I can’t tell . So we finally got there and they told me to run home it’s midnight to go carry some supplies .
When I came back maybe in 8 minutes all I heard was baby cries .
Those moments acts scary to my brain till now and I’m happy I helped �

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hello wifey, I don't know if you're here seeing this, I don't know if you're a nairalander buh I'm gonna be with you till the end baby! I'd make sure I finish what I started hahahahaha, lols


Buh seems good wifeys dey here afterall, Una just dey blow my mind today.

Likes for NL Wifeys!!! Shares for NL hubbies!!!

cutewifey:
I could remember vividly when my water broke with my first pregnancy around past 12am. I woke hubby up and showed him what I saw, he jumped up from the bed and asked me if I'm sure baby is about to come, as a JJC that I am too I told him I think so even though I still feel fine that he should go back to sleep.

After some hours, I started having backache with stomach tightening, I went into the restroom to per and I saw show, I had to wake him up again, I told him I think baby is about to come, immediately hubby's body system changed, he started purging going into the restroom to poo. It was around past 3am, he was confused on what to do next, he ask me if I can hold on till around 5am when we can vet bike to the hospital.

I tried to hold on but around past 4am I couldn't take it any longer, we had to go out and look for a means of getting to the hospital, thank God we were able to get a bike, and I delivered around past 6am. All through the labour he was panicky, the nurses sent him out of the room twice when he was hearing my shouts while in the room.

Men are always afraid when their wives are in labour, share your experience too lets have fun reading.

Women gossip dey sweet well well, Let me sit and relax while I go through these juicy comments of strong women! (Sips wine)

Ahem, let me shake small table before I sit down ........

Talking about Labour and childbearing, this is the only point where Women are known to be stronger than Men

Argue with your ancestors!!!

Chai my own Labour began 10pm on Monday night till 4am on Tuesday when I saw show. Truth is I didn't even pack my bag. My mother-in-law helped me a great deal.
#firsttimemom#

Labour room dramas dey sweet.

My best was a Muslim patient in second stage of labour (pushing phase) who told me to pray for her.
It was a mad house that day, both of us were praying.....few moments later, I realized that I can't hear myself cos her voice will reach a CRESCENDO when the contractions rips through her.
So I joined her and we were both screaming and shouting la ilaha illalahu while pushing.
If I want her to take a deep breath and relax a bit, i will exclaim thank you Lord repeatedly and we will both respond Aminnnnn. . 25minutes later the baby came out and my prayer warrior rested.
When she saw me later, we laughed uncontrollably.
It wasn't funny in the heat of the action as anything can go wrong. We needed all the helps we can get.

LarryBee1k:

Is it your cry? If you want to cry for Nigeria, go ahead. No body is holding you.

Shey u want to cry, continue to cry o

LarryBee1k:

Is it your karamo? Your exaggerate?

Lol

nikkflexible:
My hubby wasn't around when I delivered of my two children. Reason being that I had to travel home to deliver because I don't have a mother in law anymore and my mom still in service couldn't take permission to come stay over where we reside. The best option was to go meet her at 8months for both pregnancies and I had our family doctor and hospital take over while my hubby stays back cos of work and joins us for their naming ceremonies..
Hopefully he gets to witness my third labor when the time comes

I only witnessed my third baby's birth.

My wife was in school and writing exams around her EDD for the 1st one. My sister and a lecturer cousin were in the same school too. My wife also had her female 1st cousin as room mate. The plan was to call me and to travel 4hrs to her as soon as she felt a sign. The sign came around 8 pm and that exact time, I was seriously in distress and stranded with a dead fuel pump coming back from my village. So going to her was not even an option. I only got home 2am tired and passed out without the car, she gave birth 3am. I took off around 5am fixed the car around 8am, came back home and picked my mum and started the 4hr journey and arrived 12noon just after my wife wrote her last paper. So she went from labour room to exam hall and then started a 4hr journey back home.

The second was also and unfortunate miss. I was away across country on work, took my annual leave, booked a flight 1week before her EDD just so i can be there. I had packed my bags and ready for my 10am flight but she gave birth 2am some 8hrs b4 my flight. So i only made it to take them home. Coincidentally, my ex girlfriend was the Snr Nurse on duty that delivered my child (not funny). My wife is still angry because she expected her to give a VIP treatment but the girl was just dodging her and would show up when she was summoned by others.

I witnessed the third which was the record baby that came at 4.3kg. The shout from my wife was just sending shivers through my spine. Women dey try, I swear.

They are 8, 6 and almost 2.

That was really one moment I can't forget. Oh boy! Fear catch me o. I was just shaking and praying hard. Everything went well and Michelle is 2 years old, she's my joy, my everything. God bless our women.

slydog:

Lol, I can relate, my wife is over 36 weeks now, I'm in a hurry to see my first child but at the same time scared of all this lockdown covid-19 wahala

Mate you're close to the finish line lol. This coronavirus thing is really scary for expecting parents honestly. We had miscarriage a few months ago so I'm just being extra careful.. Take it easy bro, fingers crossed we'll be congratulating you in a few weeks

Still single God please shower me your blessings and your grace for I may come and testify.... and heal me from this heartbreak

Uhmmmm men are really different in nature I had my first son via c.s due to placenta previa but to God be the glory I had my second son via normal delivery but then with the pains all I could hear my husband say way
See how lazy u re.shouting anyhow just because u want to give birth.I just prayed in mind that the next time he will come bk to the world God should make him a woman and give him him 22 children amen.

SweetCunt97:
Rolling on the floor? Really?

.....and crying for joy.

fear don dey catch me oo.. partially witnessed one while young and it wasn't easy


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Till today I really wonder where the courage to video her during labor came from...

Before the EDD she had requested that she needs it to be recorded so as to appreciate the value of child birth. Mind you, she had this big foreign book for expectant mothers full of descriptive pics to prepare you. I read all in it.

A day or two earlier, she had told me of a little blood stain she noticed which her gynecologist said it's a good sign. She didn't have breaking of waters. After delivery, the Doctor told us she and the baby were lucky because the placenta was already old and expired.

On the D-day, the hospital nurse told us it was just 3cm in the absence of the Doc. Immediately, the Doctor rushed in and checked, he said it was 7cm. Within 20 minutes she put to bed. But it wasn't without oxytocin and episiotomy. It's 8yrs now ànd the whole episode is still fresh and unforgettable. Even though, we've gone our separate ways, I still respect her for that Herculean role.
Women are really strong.

As for me April 19 2019 I can't forget that day ...her water broke in the morning she was taken to the hospital my mom called me to come over to the hospital I left a movie location as the d.o.p on getting there it was night she hasn't given birth....nah that day i know say women women deh try ...I sat beside a Muslim man who was busy calling jesus to safe his wife for delivery wetin I know I just mind my business I walked inside the labour demanding why the delay saw my wife in pains I didnt know when I started screaming at the doctors ...her family members where calling me how far...I couldn't pick the call...at about 5:45am I left the hospital telling them am going to bring flask and baby things yelling at the doctors that she better done born before I come or elsh I will sue them...you won't know how it feels as a man until it gets to ur turn...in got home picked the baby things I was leaving the house when my mom called that she has giving birth...no joy is as big as hearing ur wife just gave birth I rush to the hospital forgetting the baby things on getting there the dr gave my bundle of joy...full of hair I said my beautiful baby gal...he corrected he said it a boy o...he took all my hair ....I love that day ..sorry for my eng

wao, have being reading comments ooo
God bless mothers
May God see me tru too when my time comes
safe delivery to pregnant women
to all waiting mothers, God will hear ur cry

men in the house, pls appreciate ur wife
love them more daily
hummmmm, keeping side chick when someone is caring ur seed about is not good enof

ladies in the house, pls let do things the right way
u can't afford to go tru all this pain for a man that will not appreciate u or take responsibility of ur baby ... pls pray well before marriage and avoid dating married !men

I call u blessed

cutewifey:
I could remember vividly when my water broke with my first pregnancy around past 12am. I woke hubby up and showed him what I saw, he jumped up from the bed and asked me if I'm sure baby is about to come, as a JJC that I am too I told him I think so even though I still feel fine that he should go back to sleep.

After some hours, I started having backache with stomach tightening, I went into the restroom to per and I saw show, I had to wake him up again, I told him I think baby is about to come, immediately hubby's body system changed, he started purging going into the restroom to poo. It was around past 3am, he was confused on what to do next, he ask me if I can hold on till around 5am when we can vet bike to the hospital.

I tried to hold on but around past 4am I couldn't take it any longer, we had to go out and look for a means of getting to the hospital, thank God we were able to get a bike, and I delivered around past 6am. All through the labour he was panicky, the nurses sent him out of the room twice when he was hearing my shouts while in the room.

Men are always afraid when their wives are in labour, share your experience too lets have fun reading.

I was not,I was with her the whole time till almost final push. I was even joking with her throughout the whole thing sef.

I thought she was exaggerating things.

Although, now I know better.

Stories like this are of joy!

My first child came around the time when the controversial topic of Tiwa Savage and her estranged hubby were everywhere. I was in the room with my wife and she was gisting me about the issue and pooh! the water broke...

when she told me the water had broken, I thought it was a joke, looked on the floor ; oh boy eh! it was for real! we were upstairs when this happened, quickly changed my clothes & wore a flip flop, while she wore an Abaya.

oya! Madam lets go downstairs to the car o, she started telling me she didn't wanna walk because of fear that the baby would pop out to the floor. Haaa! how would i carry two people from first floor to downstairs & to the car. It took all the motivational spirits in me to convinced her to walked the stairs down & to the car.

At the hospital, since it was in the US, I was allowed to be in the delivery room with her, gisting the came the moment we had been waiting for...They gave her epidural (like pain reliever) minutes later - the big boy showed up & the doctors gave me the scissors to cut the umbilical cord. All glory to God!

Afterwards madam start to dey chop everything like person wey never eat for a whole year; ummmh me to too follow chop like dat sha make I no lie.

cutewifey:
I could remember vividly when my water broke with my first pregnancy around past 12am. I woke hubby up and showed him what I saw, he jumped up from the bed and asked me if I'm sure baby is about to come, as a JJC that I am too I told him I think so even though I still feel fine that he should go back to sleep.

After some hours, I started having backache with stomach tightening, I went into the restroom to per and I saw show, I had to wake him up again, I told him I think baby is about to come, immediately hubby's body system changed, he started purging going into the restroom to poo. It was around past 3am, he was confused on what to do next, he ask me if I can hold on till around 5am when we can vet bike to the hospital.

I tried to hold on but around past 4am I couldn't take it any longer, we had to go out and look for a means of getting to the hospital, thank God we were able to get a bike, and I delivered around past 6am. All through the labour he was panicky, the nurses sent him out of the room twice when he was hearing my shouts while in the room.

Men are always afraid when their wives are in labour, share your experience too lets have fun reading.

My first experience
I went to the hospital to get checked immediately I got the sign of the baby about to come, I told the nurse to prepare me that I am read.

She fix me up on a very high bed, I was set, I told the nurse to come check that the baby is coming but the nurse was not fully prepared. She was telling me to wait, at that process my baby rushed out with forse the nurse catch the baby from a far distance.

I thank God my baby didn't fell off from her hands due to excess slippery substance.

My second delivery

I decided not to go to the hospital, I was fully prepared, so when it was time I do the delivery myself clean up myself and my baby, then call my hubby, family and next flat neighbors.