mimimile93:
Runs girl or not, if you go to the right places you'll meet the right people.

Hahahaha... Pls where r these right places oo

Lol..money is essential, but it should not be your central focus. He might not have today, but surely he will have morrow, it's good to believe in the future of your partner.

Liliantalks:
yes everybody n what they seek in a partner ,, u hv to be nice and caring but u must hv money.

Very simple
Become a slut or prostitute and then when you have daughters, make sure they are prostitutes too.

Jochabed:
Lol..money is essential, but it should not be your central focus. He might not have today, but surely he will have morrow, it's good to believe in the future of your partner.

atleast we agreed on something

Lies

I understand you quite well but you don't seem to understand me. I never said you should have random sex with men, it's not even proper.

Yes, most parent groom their kids to be uptight and upright, truth is every parent should. There is a saying in Yoruba I quote " awon obi mii won bi mi da emi gan gan mo tun arami bi" meaning my parents thought me well and I thought myself too.

Our parents teaching is only to guide us, it's the basics and foundation that we need to build our character on. It is your character that defines you and if it fails you, you fall back on your foundation and build another.

Flirting at the right time, is not a bad thing as long as you are descplined, this is where our parents teaching comes to play. You should know this by now, no parent will teach you how to get a man but yet they expect you to bring a man. Reason is they are satisfied with all the teachings they have given you and are expectant of you. To whom much is given, much is expected. Only you can figure that out all by yourself my dear, not your siblings, not your friends, only you. When you discover yourself, people around you can only point out what they presume to be a mistake and which might not necessarily be.

Back to the matter, FLIRT! I meant you should socialize more with the opposite sex, you don't have to wait for a guy to start a conversation first, you can by asking a simple question and if he is interested in you the man in will come out. This single act would have made him noticed you if he hadn't earlier. Also you need to be attractive, dress clean and nice not necessarily like a LovePeddler, even if you do and truly you are not one, he will get to figure out that with time. You need to be interesting some little knowledge of sports, politics, current affairs, businesses/finance, just general knowledge of life. All I'm trying to say is this, flirt but don't be a LovePeddler or a bimbo. Respect men and demand to be respected back, if you don't pass your boundary men will always respect you no doubt about that. Just create a class of vibes for yourself and don't forget to always smile. Cheers

Liliantalks:
I agree with you ,, but some parents groom their kids to be uptight , it’s all about upbringing it’s normally not our fault.. my friends tried to influence me but i refused !! I wish I went out more , met more men and had more sex during my university days , I regret it a lot , cause now out of university u don’t know much time on ur hands .

Liliantalks:
nah ,, all these ashawo and run girls hv serious bfs, while decent girls r stack single

Coz most decents girls are pretenders

Liliantalks:
see! I do socialize , I do meet people, the twitter girl might be a church girl , but I ain’t , I mingle but irresponsible guys and broke guys r what we get ,, it’s sickening , I dress nice , i go out , even tho I am an introvert, I still try to put myself out there , but these guys see us who r looking for commitment as a ticket to free sex !!

Runs girls date guys for money n then they turn out to be their husbands , that’s the best trick to me ,, we r too expectant of commitment and love n that it makes us vulnerable,, this I believe is our problem.

Church girls still get toasters n meet men but many wanna use them in other to hv some tight Pusey . All many hv said is from their perspective, but this perspective is from our side .
We r the once’s acting like we don’t care about money and all n they use us !! Me I care o !! I hv started caring , what will happen will happen

thanks for the response, I am glad u read through,


From your submission it appears this social media such as instagram is affecting dating game in not so good a way.

Again, you may need changing your circle or upgrading it.

Sista that thing that is always making you encounter irresponsible guys have got to be checked. You just have to find out what it is and address it yourself.

Step out of your comfort zone to where responsible well to do families hangout.

Sista make sure you have a good agenda/intentions. If it is to dig gold (sorry).

Be honest with yourself which of these men are you attracted to a boy with bling bling, T-shirt, baggy jeans smoking and oozing booze,

OR a man with corporate suit and tie.

Just make sure the reality u are trying to create for yourself is a healthy one not the one that will ruin you.

U just have to put in the hard work. If your target is to be wife of politician, CEO, musician, yahooboy(man) work towards it if it they will bring you happiness. Pursue your happyness

Jochabed:
Lol..money is essential, but it should not be your central focus. He might not have today, but surely he will have morrow, it's good to believe in the future of your partner.

that is her problem she focus too much on money, making her too worry too much and probably nag.

The thing is that d ladies who r in church all the time don't do relationships to d extent of having sex bf marriage. N most guys want to test run bf paying bride price n doing d whole wedding expenses. But d runs girls! Ah d guy go test run then she go hold d guy by keeping d sweet apple from him till he marries her. Guy go do d thing sharp sharp, even if he doesn't ve enough she il add money to make sure d marriage is done.

Okay people hear my experience

A good girl that i wish to marry came visiting for the first time, we both assume she's a virgin (at least one of us knows the truth), she won't sleep over we both know. As a guy nah, i made everything ready before she comes. she did nothing in my house because she doesn't want to start acting wife for me not to think i have her already. She left.

A runz girl i connected with came my house for the first time the other day, we already agreed she's sleeping over, we worked all night, when she woke in the morning she first washed the dishes we both used at night, she wanted to do something else (that's just the woman in her calling her to morning duties) i said no come and be going and she requested her money and left.

Guess who sticks to my mind days later?
i leave the rest to your imagination.

The runs girls wasn't the ideal for me but the question is who makes you happy at the end. and you know what this girls can fvck.

Just pick whats good for you and move on.

foshe36:
Okay people hear my experience

A good girl that i wish to marry came visiting for the first time, we both assume she's a virgin (at least one of us knows the truth), she won't sleep over we both know. As a guy nah, i made everything ready before she comes. she did nothing in my house because she doesn't want to start acting wife for me not to think i have her already. She left.

A runz girl i connected with came my house for the first time the other day, we already agreed she's sleeping over, we worked all night, when she woke in the morning she first washed the dishes we both used at night, she wanted to do something else (that's just the woman in her calling her to morning duties) i said no come and be going and she requested her money and left.

Guess who sticks to my mind days later?
i leave the rest to your imagination.

The runs girls wasn't the ideal for me but the question is who makes you happy at the end. and you know what this girls can fvck.

Just pick whats good for you and move on.

really , u expect a girl to cm to ur house for the first time n start doing dishes ?
My friend into runs won’t even try that nonsense.

emonis88:
The thing is that d ladies who r in church all the time don't do relationships to d extent of having sex bf marriage. N most guys want to test run bf paying bride price n doing d whole wedding expenses. But d runs girls! Ah d guy go test run then she go hold d guy by keeping d sweet apple from him till he marries her. Guy go do d thing sharp sharp, even if he doesn't ve enough she il add money to make sure d marriage is done.

bottom line , is being good in bed right ? Noted

olumide4christ:


LOL..it doesn't really matter you know. The truth will always be the truth, it endures the test of time.
Good day.

LOL whatever fam

VeeVeeMyLuv:
that is her problem she focus too much on money, making her too worry too much and probably nag.

hmmm I hear you

yyba:
99.9% correct, I know a lot of runs girls that got married and they are leaving peacefully with their husbands.

living or leaving

Liliantalks:
hmmm I hear you

Lol I am not saying focusing on money is not good,

But what I am saying is that when it is too much, it does no good, u end up missing the entire picture.

I have seen when it (focusing on money, like you pointed out) helped many ladies spouses.

Some just took a simple advice from their wives to move to another city and their lives improved dramatically

VeeVeeMyLuv:

Lol I am not saying focusing on money is not good,

But what I am saying is that when it is too much, it does no good, u end up missing the entire picture.

I have seen when it (focusing on money, like you pointed out) helped many ladies spouses.

Some just took a simple advice from their wives to move to another city and their lives improved dramatically

money is still essential! That I am not materialistic ideology is in the past . But I get ur point

But I have question for the runs girls that are married now"Are there happy? no be to marry be the thing oo...and for you Ladies that goes for fellowship here and there, they is always a reward for you guys #facts...karma is real dear

XhosaNostra:



How's that "sensitive" data? Crop out the personal info & post the rest.

chai...too soft.

Babythicksme17:
She stated the obvious.Bad girls always get responsible and caring bf/husband.

You can't guarantee that

The logic is simple, the runs girls know how to treat a man better, they understand what a man wants and they don't stress men unnecessarily. The ''good girls " don't understand how a man should be treated and they don't make any effort to learn. They believe God would simply direct a good man their way because they are good girls. They look out for perfection in everyman, so when a guy comes around, they will turn him down just for a small flaw in his life. The bad girls understand that nobody is perfect. A very senior friend told me his uncle got married to a prostitute , as in the man used to staff the lady at a brothel before he decided to marry her. There was war in their family when they found out the Lady was an olosho, but my friends' uncle stood his ground. To cut the long story short, my friend said the former prostitute is the best wife in his entire extended family today. The man who told me this story is a marriage counselor. The so called good girls should learn interpersonal and human relation skill instead of sitting down there believing they deserve the World for being a virgin.

Church girl will tell you to fast 100 days and nights before you ask for her hand in marriage and that during those days God will speak to you she and will be monitoring if you observe those days. That's what happened to me when I decide to court an mfm lady. I ran away

The irony of life!

Liliantalks:
small small girls kee ? We talking of women in general, woman wey quick spoil enter street meet better guys, look at Jemena for example opening her body everywhere, is happily married

Pele

Op, you didn’t talk about the runz girls that didn’t make it out alive either used for ritual or vomiting money somewhere.
Girls that we hear marry every Saturday, are they all runz girls or you carried out a statistical analysis to determine more runz girls marry more.

You are only making it seem that way because it’s surprising that runz girls end up with good men and you wonder where is karma but karma works in a different way not about them not getting married.
We had decent mates that even before we graduated from the university got married. Carry out a statistical analysis first before this general assumption

You better thank God that you are not in there shoes, do you know wht they do at the back? Do you know if it is charm they use in tying him down?


If you are looking at runs girl having caring boyfriend or husband, you may end up doing runs too, so stay on your lane and be yourself and dont be too hard to get when guys are wooing you, those runs girls have learn that something and that thing is, they dont play hard to get, they bring down there shoulder,, that why they get good guy amongst the guys.

So, you too dont play hard to get,, am not saying you should be sleeping around with guys.

Youngzedd:


Things are changing real fast.

Red Pill movement is in Nigeria and many are getting redpilled.

What I am saying is, a redpilled guy will NEVER settle for a woman who is damaged.

C'mon, red pillers have standard. Well, there will always be simps in the society but note that things are changing fast and simps are taking the red pill and their eyes are getting open to female nature.


The time of rewarding girls who are damaged all in the name of religion and don't judge me by my past is gone. In this era, if you do sh1t, you will remain in your papa's house and be getting pump and dump, because I and other red pillers don't settle for less.

I laugh at girls entering into runs because they don't know what's going on.

The time of rewarding 0loshos with marriage are over.

Don't be carried away with what they post online, it's audio. When a man discover so many dirty secrets, he won't treat you the same way.

Imagine going for a function and the people there already knacked your wife. They will be looking at you like an 1diot.

Women love live a life of illusion and this right here will distort the connection. It's one thing for women to live a life of illusion, but appalling for a man who is a logical being to also join in the illusion all in the name of love.

Right there sir, you just spoke word.

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Liliantalks:
What u guys think ?

This is true but not all the time....
Reason was even stated in the bible... Luke 18:9-14
Most girls u see out there are pretenders
God see ur heart
The runs girl u say knows how bad what they are doing and they ask for forgives but the others...they mocked them and still get the better half. Not all them too have bad marriages

My advice is to stick to your faith and do what is right and righteous in the sight of God.

Because those girls are generous. And have good character

Y not.. Decent girl can be boring because they lack experience, run girls av experience, fun and bold.. Men like fun and livey women