lafiagi007:

You are funny sha.
Ok, how about this; the man slapped the boy because he negligently wasted the man's 8M+ and no plans to repay?.
So it'd the child's right to negligently waste his father's money Abi? Okooo

nairalandbeast1:


All the slap your father gave u and the rest of Nigerians of what good was it

If a child is not performing well academically then u should think of other alternatives

That is why u have guidance and counselling in schools

Not everyone has to go to school


But what do i know u are the expert

Iyiataata92:

You're trying to be right

But you're wrong

Realtalk20:
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Useless idiotic orphan

Bastard bastardless bastard

Try so hard to appear cool but came out looking like a ghetto bastard

You useless bastard born by a bastard and dwelling in bastardry

Unintelligent bastard

Dirty bastard

Angelfrost:


Assault on a minor with intent to grievously and facially harm him.

Whoever uploaded that video has effectively brought real crisis to that home!!!

We are now encouraging and compelling parents to spare the rod... I wish you all good luck.

stanliwise:
When the argument gets technical the less intelligent ones gets angry.

nairalandbeast1:
Now that is a country that works people have rights

You don't have the right to hit anyone

People have to learn

You can't go about slapping a young man because you re his father

That is child abuse

obicoolnino:
The boy definately had a poor foundation in his academics but there's still room for improvement. Beating the kid won't open his brain but it's sad to see all the money spent on him go to waste.

Gilbertase:
cool. Do you. Train yours that way. We turned out great cos we had parents who knew when they needed to be tough and when they needed to be mild. When you have your child, or if you already have one, raise him/her with this your fantastic model. The majority here as you have so read, choose not to do it your way sha. As always, the end justifies the means. Cheers

Digmygold:


Are you African?

donbachi:
How dis take become mata of interest...d boy fail and d father did d needful..i remember wen i carry 19th,but promoted.my father dealt with me like i stole from him..after dat event,i come dey carry 1st 1st 1st..i know some people will not like dis.

nairalandbeast1:
Now that is a country that works people have rights

You don't have the right to hit anyone

People have to learn

You can't go about slapping a young man because you re his father

That is child abuse

nairalandbeast1:



100%

nsiba:
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Better be angry now and shape the future than be preaching nonsense and thinks he is intelligent

stanliwise:
Your son ain’t your property .... you are just his biological father and have a duty to train him! Why? Because you brought him to the society. But that doesn’t give you the authority over his life. The society is placed above you on what and what happens to your son.

nairalandbeast1:


Why will u justifying slapping a young man because he failed

Why not sit him down and talk to him

Do you think if he has issues he will tell you

He Will rather tell his friends and get bad advice

That is what happens...

I am just being very logical

He got slapped because he failed

Tomorrow his girlfriend does something to him and he thinks the only way to resolve it is to slap her

Years of being abused does affect everyone one way or the other

Digmygold:


Then you must know that hitting your child to bring back his lost senses is norm.

Tintinnoty:
THE Zambia Police Service has summoned George Bester, a man seen in a video making rounds on social media slapping his son, for allegedly producing poor school results.

In the said video, Bester is seen slapping the boy, while complaining about the money he has spent on the boy for school books and tuition fees.

A voice of a woman, believed to be his wife, is heard pleading with Bester to stop beating the boy.

According to a call-out dated April 10, 2020, Bester was required to report to the Child Protection Unit offices at the Ministry of Community Development near Levy Junction yesterday, April 21, for purposes of inquiries.

Police, however, assured him that he would not be detained more than was necessary.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QglFY1V86yk

https://diggers.news/local/2020/04/21/police-summon-bester-over-slapping-incident/

nairalandbeast1:
Now that is a country that works people have rights

You don't have the right to hit anyone

People have to learn

You can't go about slapping a young man because you re his father

That is child abuse

Gilbertase:
let the society have him. That man has done no wrong. Pple get whooped for far less. Give your child all the freedom to do whatever, since he/she somehow is an ADULT who you have to walk on eggshells around. Cheers

Iyiataata92:

We're done talking bro. You can't convince me and I can't convince you.
Let's raise our kids the way we feel it's right and pray that God help them to meet expectations.
I pray we both have kids we will be proud of

Eniolakiite:
Interesting

There are other ways of disciplining a child honestly. There is restriction, pausing certain things but this beating seems like abuse honestly. But Africans are used to it so we don’t see it as abuse.

nairalandbeast1:


Our patents used to hit women is that a norm ?

Hitting a child is wrong and It just makes u scared

Fear is not respect It is a form of intimidation

U want your kid to be able to come to you when there is trouble

So don't chase them or make them scared of u

stanliwise:
a bleak future

Kingpele:
the man married a lousy wife, my mum have never told my dad to stop beating us when we are young even though sometimes I could her telling him in their room that the beating was much, it takes both parents to instil discipline in a child but the man seems to be doing the parenting alone... It is heart breaking to spend your hard earned money on ode.. There is nothing more painful than that... The man was even moderate, the boy is very lucky, try that with my dad, he will use belt, cane and anything else his hand can reach to deal with you... And Zambia police is forming America as if they can give the man his money, damn.... God please make my kids intelligent lemme no go spend money on ode.. If u are against the man may u have such a child, he got A in music oh damn it, he should be enrolled in music school, may be he might become wiskid of Zambia