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Re: by MahatmaGhandi: 10:25am On Apr 24, 2020
Generally speaking I will say the choice is yours. She made her decision, it is time to make yours but bear in mind that we will pay for our actions and inactions.

My advice is for you to leave, it might hurt you like no other thing for days, weeks, months and may be a few years but if you stay it will hurt you for life and might destroy you. Man up and leave, you have better days ahead, it is a good thing you are not married to her yet and she has no kids for you, it could have been worse, I thank God for your life.
Re: by rman: 10:33am On Apr 24, 2020
Twoclans:
It's a double cheating,even the guy she is cheating with has a fiance.

@OP this one you are saying anger issues dont go and kill somebodys child.

Wake her up look her in the eyes and tell her the relationship is over,tell her to go to her neighbor.Regardless of your decision it does not mean the next girl you date won't cheat on you.

I know a guy who has been cheated on by every girl he dated .Somehow I got to talk with two different girls he dated and they both said the same thing .Same reason they were all cheating
I will appreciate if you can tell what their reason for cheating on this guy was.
Re: by Seandisputed(m): 11:35am On Apr 24, 2020
ChoCho54:
So he is a mumu cos his meal ticket cheated on him and he cried to you?
Careful with the way you shade the Nigga bruv
Re: by Babaibejii: 11:40am On Apr 24, 2020
Mugu, the babe don wash am again. She used herself as example, and the neighbor too put himself in the example and they left her kitchen door open. Smh. Sorry Bro. You with a Pro!
Re: by myles16(m): 12:00pm On Apr 24, 2020
Skyscrapper11:
oga Myles we need to yarn make i use your partern take tackle some of my issues too
The only way it was possible was because i know her too well, to get username na beans...Plus she's not sharp to use a very strong password, so i easily guessed her password, because it was her name she used
Re: by ChoCho54(f): 12:05pm On Apr 24, 2020
Seandisputed:
Careful with the way you shade the Nigga bruv
Oh puleeeese!
Re: by myles16(m): 12:10pm On Apr 24, 2020
[quote author=Skyscrapper11 post=88788667][/quote]Not full time hacking o, just little hacking, username was so easy but i guessed the password
Re: by myles16(m): 12:25pm On Apr 24, 2020
ChoCho54:
The guy is criminally minded. I'm sure he also hacked her bank account and saw it was good, reason why he's forming love
Aunty Kilode!! Criminally Minded bi ti bawo? Ema kobami o... Because he loves her doesn't mean the guy is after her money plus the guy never mentioned her being rich, they're both working now
Re: by ChoCho54(f): 12:29pm On Apr 24, 2020
myles16:
Aunty Kilode!! Criminally Minded bi ti bawo? Ema kobami o... Because he loves her doesn't mean the guy is after her money plus the guy never mentioned her being rich, they're both working now
Which Kain love? A man is only in love with you when it's convenient for him to do so. If that babe was a liability, dude won't even bother bringing matter here gba bee

Have you seen his username? He's a toyboy grin
Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 12:37pm On Apr 24, 2020
ChoCho54:
Which Kain love? A man is only in love with you when it's convenient for him to do so. If that babe was a liability, dude won't even bother bringing matter here gba bee

Have you seen his username? He's a toyboy grin
I love her because I respect her. She is decent and beautiful too, we have been friends for almost 4 years before we started this relationship. I know her to be decent that was why I trusted her but with the whole changes now that came with her freedom I'll be more careful. I don't love for money, I work for money.
Re: by myles16(m): 12:37pm On Apr 24, 2020
ChoCho54:
Which Kain love? A man is only in love with you when it's convenient for him to do so. If that babe was a liability, dude won't even bother bringing matter here gba bee

Have you seen his username? He's a toyboy grin
hehehehe!!! toyboy?? He said they've been dating for 2 years, oye ki Love yen ti strong na, He never said she was a liability. He trusted till it was yesterday which he was just randomly going through her whatsApp. Eyin Obinrin efi style buru gan
Re: by torqque7(m): 12:43pm On Apr 24, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I was planning on closing the thread but I promised to update so I'll.
I met her a virgin, she gave me the honor of.... She's super shy but can talk dirty. She explained that it was a compound discussion about a girl who got pregnant and left with the guys baby. Then using her as an example in the discussion it continued on WhatsApp. The talk too plenty I no fit write all. She assured me she respect her body and can't allow any guy touches her. Thanks for the whole contribution because it really calmed me down to talk to her. I'll keep it cool but time shall tell.
Lol see bro you and I share alot in common and I also disvirgined my ex but trust me these hoes aint loyal and they can lie for africa..I just no get energy to talk plenty but trust me when I say she has serious skeletons in her cupboards so be smart and stay woke..funny thing is these girls know how to spin the story around and make it look like they are the victims lol..

Mine even went to write on fb that I hacked her account and saw things and videos that she was asking one mode on a chat group about and i accused her of been the girl in the video bla bla bla and even said i insulted her family and painted me a villain lol and ofcourse there alot of simps as her friends and who are kissing her ass and where all raining insults on me without knowing the real story and shouting its his loss bla bla..lol I just laugh and walka pass I no get time or energy to even write anything for her wall or respond to anything she says or the stupid simps and captain save a hoe stumbling on each other to get her attention..

Bro get another girl asap who you can trust o so you wont get too hurt when you and this cheat breakup.
Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 12:49pm On Apr 24, 2020
torqque7:
Lol see bro you and I share alot in common and I also disvirgined my ex but trust me these hoes aint loyal and they can lie for africa..I just no get energy to talk plenty but trust me when I say she has serious skeletons in her cupboards so be smart and stay woke..funny thing is these girls know how to spin the story around and make it look like they are the victims lol..

Mine even went to write on fb that I hacked her account and saw things and videos that she was asking one mode on a chat group about and i accused her of been the girl in the video bla bla bla and even said i insulted her family and painted me a villain lol and ofcourse there alot of simps as her friends and who are kissing her ass and where all raining insults on me without knowing the real story and shouting its his loss bla bla..lol I just laugh and walka pass I no get time or energy to even write anything for her wall or respond to anything she says or the stupid simps and captain save a hoe stumbling on each other to get her attention..

Bro get another girl asap who you can trust o so you wont get too hurt when you and this cheat breakup.
Thanks bro. Working on that but I'll stay far from relationship, I have female friends I can flirt with but any serious thing, not yet, I have my career in front of me to chase. I am working on my feelings already. Thanks a lot.
Re: by Sofistcatdmoron: 12:50pm On Apr 24, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I have been in this relationship for almost 3 years now... I never knew I could love a lady this much because I am the kind of guy that doesn't give a sh*t. Things started changing when we started working at different places. She have a neighbour that claims he loves her and wants to marry her. I warned her about the guy and she assured me nothing will ever happen.
Few weeks ago she confessed to me that she dated him late last year just to push him away by frustrating him. She started with she must confessed she cheated on me, i almost stopped breathing and asked sex? She said no she dated the guy. I was shocked because the way she demonstrated her love to me makes me believe nothing can ever go wrong from her side. I forgave her after she explained the whole incident claiming there was no kiss or sex.
She visited me today and slept off, I decided to read her chat with this man. Guess what? They actually kissed because he said he can't focus after the day he kissed her. Scrolling down I got the biggest shock of my life. She asked... What if she was pregnant.
What do I need? I must confess I have anger issues and wants answers almost immediately (I don't get violent but I might yell and refuse talking for long if not clarified) she's sleeping now peacefully and I am at the verge of exploding. How can I demand answers calmly. Please experienced folks calm me down.
They are having raw sex with no protections ,thats y she was teasing him if he got her pregnant

grin
Re: by torqque7(m): 1:07pm On Apr 24, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
Thanks bro. Working on that but I'll stay far from relationship, I have female friends I can flirt with but any serious thing, not yet, I have my career in front of me to chase. I am working on my feelings already. Thanks a lot.
Alot of guys will not understand and say one is simping but its NOT always the case cos the truth is men are very emotional too and can fall inlove but we MUST make our hearts strong to survive this wicked females o lol..funny enough I be player and Bleep around but still breaking up with this girl I still feel the pain and love her even tho I have other girls o but I know I have to be strong and forget about her and id advice you try to do same..she isnt worth it .
Re: by Jola58: 1:08pm On Apr 24, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
Thanks for your view. I can't give you the details of everything that happened. But like I clearly stated all I needed was to be calm. Let's say I never let go of things. The whole matter will be dragged until I am satisfied that I can trust her. I don't trust blindly but I work with facts. I never said we're back to normal.. That might take a very long time depending on what I sense. I won't be quick to judge because she have said her version but time shall tell. We still have our future in our hands and lots of choices to make. She have complained about me exploding over everything and that's why she finds it difficult to tell me things but from your talk I calmed myself down and acted more mature. If only you know the state she's into now you won't conclude. I might be slow to make decisions but I won't make a mistake when I stand and no turning back. Thanks again for your view.
I can see the power of love... continue dreaming
Re: by Mairice125: 1:14pm On Apr 24, 2020
Sharap there .......Na woman may no like you na you no fit satify .But the problem be say 'the girl make like you ,u no like am ,but the one may you like no go like you.
YungMillionaire:
Strong men wey do pass all these things wey u mention sef still the gal cheat. If you think you can satisfy a woman, they you are a first class fool.
Re: by ChoCho54(f): 1:29pm On Apr 24, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
I love her because I respect her. She is decent and beautiful too, we have been friends for almost 4 years before we started this relationship. I know her to be decent that was why I trusted her but with the whole changes now that came with her freedom I'll be more careful. I don't love for money, I work for money.
Stooory!

If she was a liability, you won't cry to us toyboy!
Re: by Skyscrapper11(m): 1:42pm On Apr 24, 2020
myles16:
Send me your WhatsApp number make I chat with you bro.abeg or message me +23408117640931


Not full time hacking o, just little hacking, username was so easy but i guessed the password
Re: by slimanyd: 2:16pm On Apr 24, 2020
Twoclans:
It's a double cheating,even the guy she is cheating with has a fiance.

@OP this one you are saying anger issues dont go and kill somebodys child.

Wake her up look her in the eyes and tell her the relationship is over,tell her to go to her neighbor.Regardless of your decision it does not mean the next girl you date won't cheat on you.

I know a guy who has been cheated on by every girl he dated .Somehow I got to talk with two different girls he dated and they both said the same thing .Same reason they were all cheating
And what was there reason madam. Can u please highlight them . Thanks
Re: by Twoclans(f): 2:18pm On Apr 24, 2020
slimanyd:
And what was there reason madam. Can u please highlight them . Thanks
I have highlighted it in the thread .please go back and check.
Re: by pellummy(m): 8:01pm On Apr 24, 2020
ATTemi:
Don’t fall 4 that trick!
Lols cheesy
Re: by Onego(f): 5:54pm On Apr 27, 2020
Benevento:
what is wrong with this aunty.

Can you swear that you don't have a side guy servicing you.
no my dear, I have what is know as
Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 8:31pm On Apr 28, 2020
ProfDview1:
Post more na.. U can't just post one page na
I feel so terrible en. It's not helping me but I still go on reading the evidence to justify her actions but the more I come to realisation, the more pains I feel. I ended everything today and her cry was so painful for me to bear. I won't wish this for my enemy but to people out there ruining what was once perfect I wish you what you wish others. How will you keep destroying someone else's relationship for your selfish gain? I hope to find peace soon.

Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 8:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
I hope they can both enjoy whatever the outcome have become....

Re: by CsRockefeller(m): 12:20am On Apr 29, 2020
How did you get these chats?

I thought she left to her base?
Re: by CsRockefeller(m): 12:26am On Apr 29, 2020
So she did have sex with him?

I wasnt wrong, it was too clear not to see.

Ha! Women, greed has always been their undoing since d days of Eve, always wanting to have d best of 2 worlds.

Bro, be strong. Its painful, I understand but I pray u find a woman who will.love and be faithful.to u till death.
Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 1:17am On Apr 29, 2020
CsRockefeller:
How did you get these chats?

I thought she left to her base?
We live in the same neighbourhood. She left it at my place
Re: by CsRockefeller(m): 1:20am On Apr 29, 2020
ToyBoyAaron:
We live in the same neighbourhood. She left it at my place
Wait o, all these time both of you stay close?
Re: by ToyBoyAaron(op): 1:21am On Apr 29, 2020
CsRockefeller:
Wait o, all these time both of you stay close?
We work apart. She stays where she works and Mr lover man is her neighbour.
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