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Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 24, 2020 |
crackkhaus:amen,and don't cheat on your wife |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 10:58am On Apr 24, 2020 |
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Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by UncleJJ(m): 11:29am On Apr 24, 2020 |
Expensiverichyb: Deep breath! [i] Let's assume I give you a pencil then ask you to break it; you kindly oblige and do so, easily! Now, if I gave you two pencils, it would take twice the effort to break this time! So, each pencil contributes to the overall integrity; making them stronger together. [ii] In Western culture, a woman stays on her husband's left. This is because a long time ago, men kept their swords on the right and the woman on the left. So, if an enemy attacked; a man could hold easily pull out his sword with the right hand while holding the woman with the left hand. [iii] In Nigerian culture, a woman's place is at her husband's right. This shows she is the second in command. As her husband grows wealthy and powerful, so does her influence, role, and importance in the union. She would also need to increase her input! In each scenario, the reoccurring theme is "ROLES". Roles are important in government bureaucracies as well as marriage or courtship. Knowing what one's role is, and how specialization in that role will contribute to the group's overall prosperity and/or posterity is the reason why you nor I should neither attempt or desire to hold the heart and the sword at the same time. Like the pencils; if a woman were to play her role - holding the heart in view of specialization and a man to play his role the union would be stronger. In fact with each degree of improvement in specialization; the ebb and flow of life will find you to be an unprofitable venture. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 12:04pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
UncleJJ:I read and understood. But why do men expect the women to hold the heart and the sword at the same time? Is that not why it's getting difficult for most women to totally submitt because they're holding the heart and still work so hard to provide for the family (sword)? In my own opinion, it's better the both hold the sword and the heart. So that no one can have upper hand to cheat. 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 12:09pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
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Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by UncleJJ(m): 12:26pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Expensiverichyb: It is a heavy burden, to say the least. Yet, some women hold both, perhaps even more than men. So, what's your story, unrequited love? 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by astonished: 4:54pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
OP, I want to asked you, are you a virgin? pls, talk true |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 5:28pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
astonished:Whether I'm a virgin or not, is it something I am supposed to broadcast? 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 5:29pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
astonished:Whether I'm a virgin or not, is it something I am supposed to broadcast?and what does it have to do with the topic |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 5:39pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
thorpido:you men have made marriage unattractive to us. Different stories everyday,divorce on the rise, unlimited cheating spree from you men,i am not yet married but already tired 3 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 6:59pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:Story...you will still marry and you will even pray to God for it sef... 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 7:19pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:is marriage a do or die affair Why not stay single or become a nun or baby mama 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
crackkhaus:yes I will marry only to a man of God so that I can have peace,that will be my prayer point when the time comes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:46pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:Marriage is Godly and I will like to be married someday but only to a man that has the fear of God at heart,a man who will respect me to not cheat.I know there are very few men left with such qualities,but I will be lucky to hook one of the remaining few ones. 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:49pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
By their comments,you already know they are cheats and potential cheats 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 7:51pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:have some clay to mould him 3 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 7:54pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:Are you married?if yes,obviously you are cheating |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 7:59pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:no am not. And i dont plan to cheat. Doesn't mean i cannot be cheated on by my wife. Life for u 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 8:04pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:women hardly cheat if they are loved and properly taken care of by their husbands 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 8:06pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:are you 17 years by any chance 4 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 8:08pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:I am more than 17 years |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Kdon2: 8:41pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz: I have plenty real life encounters. |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 9:13pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:Shey it's the same thing we are saying like this? 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by crackkhaus: 9:15pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:It's like you're still sleeping. Without even thinking hard, I can identify at least three women off the top of my head who fall in this category - cheated despite the love and proper care from their husbands. Not I heard oo, I know them personally. ednut1: 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:26pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
crackkhaus:did you catch them red-handed cheating?dont say what you are not sure of,also you don't know what goes on in their marriage,you are just an outsider |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
crackkhaus:I know you are already cheating on your partner,please stop it's not good |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:29pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Kdon2:only if it involves you will it be real else it is just hearsay |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 10:35pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
crackkhaus:small pikin dey worry this one. As if she better pass Hillary Clinton, Beyonce, ex oyo first lady whose husband's all cheated and they no gree divorce. Small pikin who thinks life and marriage revolves around cheating lol 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:39pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:what makes you think I'm a small pikin?See the way you men are trying to justify cheating.I am better than those people you mentioned in my own way ,it all depends on what we want out of life as an individual 2 Likes |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 10:42pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:cheating is not written on the head and you cannot know who will cheat. So why expending energy on that. The women enduring it won't come out to tell u well i dont support cheating and dont cheat. But it doesn't mean ur babe or wife will not disrespect u or nag |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by Nobody: 10:45pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
ednut1:with your comments so far,you are a potential cheat except you become born again 1 Like |
Re: Married Women,how Did You Cope With Your Cheating Husbands by ednut1(m): 10:55pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Rozz:bye. Lemme stop wasting my time here |
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