Adams011:




All three years I was an Undergraduate, she is too, I tried my best as an undergraduate to take care of her, I really tried my best with the little I got from my side hustle

SLAP44:


And she tried her best to use her body and her privacy to comfort you for 3 solid years too.

You owe that girl really big.

SLAP44:


And she tried her best to use her body and her privacy to comfort you for 3 solid years too.

You owe that girl really big.

Adams011:




Yes she did, she sent this just yesterday

Nice reply bro...
But next tym, be more firm....
Like: No we cant...i need space....alotta space..FULLSTOP
Btw that shuld b ur last reply to her...
GL

SLAP44:


And she tried her best to use her body and her privacy to comfort you for 3 solid years too.

You owe that girl really big.

Zabiboy:



Nice reply bro...
But next tym, be more firm....
Like: No we cant...i need space....alotta space..FULLSTOP
Btw that shuld b ur last reply to her...
GL

SLAP44:


I wonder how he expected the girl to just endure and stay without any assurances of marriage or commitment. If he dumps her when he makes money then it's the girl that will lose everything.

The is girl gave him her youth, her body, her companionship and her trust all that 3 years, and he is not taking care of her as he ought to since go he said he didn't have the means.

Men should understand that women are not their doormats.

Adams011:



Sure, I'm thinking of arranging some packages for her but my friends think it's not a good decision to still spend on her at the moment, I really love this babe, guy it's hard to move on without me spending for her now as my geniue babe.

Guy, you owe that wh0re nothing....
Yes....If the 5 foolish virgins in d bible could be punished severely for impatience, THEN WHO D FVCK IS SHE??
move on....enjoy urself....build your self worth more and more and leave her saying HAD I KNOW all her life

GL .....

Millenniumlady:
Better tell him

Zabiboy:



Guy, you owe that wh0re nothing....
Yes....If the 5 foolish virgins in d bible could be punished severely for impatience, THEN WHO D FVCK IS SHE??
move on....enjoy urself....build your self worth more and more and leave her saying HAD I KNOW all her life

GL .....

Zabiboy:



SMH!!
And what do we call females that use their bodies to get financial returns??
C'mon....if he was ur brother, would u advice him to go back to the girl??

Adams011:



Wow, please let's not tag her LovePeddler

Adams011:



Wow, please let's not tag her LovePeddler

Zabiboy:
@ Adams011.

I'll leave u with this note...
Its from ESTHER VILAR ( she's a WOMAN) ...the author of "The Manipulated Man"

Make sure u read every single word

GL bro

Millenniumlady:
Better tell him

Adams011:




Okay, I understand, but just when she left things started to change for me, I won a contract worth more than six figures but, I'm so sad she's not here to eat the fruits of her patience. I thought I shouldn't have included this before, but you just got me to pour the thing out.

SLAP44:
Hmmm

Have you been sleeping with this girl, like having intimacy with her over the years?

UniqueQueen12:
Adams011. Just know that some girls no get sense. Money money money. Be happy with the little. Everything is with time. God never forsakes those who are patience, tolerates and endures.

Quote me unnecessarily and see me at your doorstep right this minute

Adams011:




Lol true, but wish you knew the figures attached to that contract, it's like a starting point according to my pops

SLAP44:


And she tried her best to use her body and her privacy to comfort you for 3 solid years too.

You owe that girl really big.

Adams011:
Hello good people of Nairaland, I really need help from you guys, I've been in a 3years relationship I'm 25yrs and all of a sudden my hopes and dreams with this girl just got shattered. My girl got influenced by her new close friend, because that's juat what I suspect, her new friend is a type of girl that gets money from guys, men with money and cars, I don't know if she sleeps with them or not, when I noticed I advised my girl to please stay put of such a friend with just worldly benefits. The whole thing was like a shock to me when she came clean to tell me she's ending the relationship because I've not been getting enough money to take good care of her, this is the girl you can never think she'd come out boldly to say such thing, she told me if she doesn't show it before she's the type that loves money and loves her guy buying her gifts everytime, she told me I've not bn doing enough to make her stay, just of recent I had little issue with my brand and I've not been making enough money to feed and cater for my personal need not to talk of a girlfriend, this was a shocker to and really broke me, we endured a lot together even when some of my friends advised me to end the relationship with her because they started to suspect a foul play from her, this has really got me heartbroken and I'm afraid this should not lead me into depression, my friends have been there for me ever since, they call me everytime to make sure I get my mind off the memories with her. Now my question is why has some girls turned relationship into a poverty alleviation scheme?, Coz she told me if we don't end the relationship now she'd cheat on me, if she sees a guy she likes she'd definitely go for him and if I discover later on the relationship might end so badly.

UniqueQueen12:
Adams011. Just know that some girls no get sense. Money money money. Be happy with the little. Everything is with time. God never forsakes those who are patience, tolerates and endures.

Quote me unnecessarily and see me at your doorstep right this minute

Adams011:



Thanks, but I still really love her, I find it hard to move in even when I know at this moment I'm bucked up

Adams011:




It's not cooked up bro, my family's rich, but it's like a ritual with my folks you tend to get all necessary support after school, I'm a fresh graduate and preparing for my NYSC, my pop's got me that contract to start up and set things for myself as a man. The night she left was the night I wanted to tell her we won the job, she wasn't patient enough, I cried on the phone when I called to remind her to be patient enough for me. I snapped and showed her every details and the money attached

Millenniumlady:
My concern is how she allowed you play her up to this level is what i don't understand believe it or not the gender " female " means money and if you don't have it go make it...... i'm glad she have finally come back to her senses cause a lady dating a guy that's not giving her money this 21st century is very risky.....Op is the type of man that will allow his girlfriend endure until she commits suicide while he's out there spending the money on those who never worked for it