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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by divinelypruned(f): 1:18pm On Apr 26, 2020
No matter what your excuse may be, I will always blame you.
A married woman is been pursued by an ex, who has made an attempt to rape you before and you did not tell your husband, you even allowed him into your home.
Abeg this Ego woman carry loads of wahala, she does not think, always falling into one rape or the other and will still not learn.
I wonder how the husband will fill, knowing that his wife allowed her psycho ex into your home to rape her.

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by divinelypruned(f): 1:22pm On Apr 26, 2020
neloyah:
Praise should try to understand that she was overpowered by Kingsley... And let him leave him locked up, because with Kingsley out of prison, I really do not see an end to it. That guy is unrepentant...


Thanks for the update tho..

My dear it doesn't work that way oo, she allowed a man who has been making attempt on her many times into her home, why did she not pursue him but expected the guard to do it for her. She even kept such delicate issue away from the husband, with her silly excuse. The man has every right to be angry.
I guess she is pregnant, next wahala don set, Praise go deny oo...

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by neloyah: 1:59pm On Apr 26, 2020
divinelypruned:


My dear it doesn't work that way oo, she allowed a man who has been making attempt on her many times into her home, why did she not pursue him but expected the guard to do it for her. She even kept such delicate issue away from the husband, with her silly excuse. The man has every right to be angry.
I guess she is pregnant, next wahala don set, Praise go deny oo...



I agree with you on him having the right to be angry, but considering kingsley's use of violence on his dear wife, he's supposed to transfer his agression to Kingsley and not his wife. It will only drift them further apart. I think the only mistake she made was not informing praise about the previous advances. Kingsley forced his way into her home. Should she really be blamed for that?
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by goldwaters(f): 3:11pm On Apr 26, 2020
Ego really messed up this time. She had more than enough time to tell her husband about kingsley’s advances but she kept quiet. That’s why the Kingsley guy had the effrontery to do what he did.
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by divinelypruned(f): 3:24pm On Apr 26, 2020
neloyah:




I agree with you on him having the right to be angry, but considering kingsley's use of violence on his dear wife, he's supposed to transfer his agression to Kingsley and not his wife. It will only drift them further apart. I think the only mistake she made was not informing praise about the previous advances. Kingsley forced his way into her home. Should she really be blamed for that?

He didn't forced his way, she allowed him in, remember she said that he followed her in and she told him to go, but didn't push him, she even expected the guard to send him out, without her saying anything, he still entered her home with her and she was just telling him to go away.
No sane woman will allow a psycho close to her talk more of entering her house when she's alone.
So she is at fault.

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 3:26pm On Apr 26, 2020
neloyah:
Praise should try to understand that she was overpowered by Kingsley... And let him leave him locked up, because with Kingsley out of prison, I really do not see an end to it. That guy is unrepentant...


Thanks for the update tho..

*winks*

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 3:27pm On Apr 26, 2020
divinelypruned:
No matter what your excuse may be, I will always blame you.
A married woman is been pursued by an ex, who has made an attempt to rape you before and you did not tell your husband, you even allowed him into your home.
Abeg this Ego woman carry loads of wahala, she does not think, always falling into one rape or the other and will still not learn.
I wonder how the husband will fill, knowing that his wife allowed her psycho ex into your home to rape her.

I like the way you described her... she seriously carries loads of wahala indeed *winks*
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 3:39pm On Apr 26, 2020
#My two percent

If NWAKAEGO was rain...
Most women have a drop of her in their character, mannerism, way of life... selah


Can we really blame her 100%?
I know she has made mistakes time and time again.
But, no one is perfect. Me, mine and I is included.


If I was in her shoes, I would have told my husband sincceeeeee...
But when I thought about the situation again, will I be able to tell my husband everything, from A to Z?
Serious food for thought.


QUESTIONS
What should Praise really do concerning Kingsley?
Leave him in Jail? Sue him and make sure he spends a decade or so in Prison?
Forgive him and let him go back to his wife and family?
And with his lawyer present, make sure Kingsley signs a form of agreement to stay away from his wife?
Praise is completely lost ooooo....
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by jummy604: 3:57pm On Apr 26, 2020
This one na real gbege o the emotional stress praise is going through now.
The nerve of that bastard,the thought of it disgusts me.
You like someone and the next thing is to force her to do your wish.



Shewrites, you too much abeg
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 6:34pm On Apr 26, 2020
jummy604:
This one na real gbege o the emotional stress praise is going through now.
The nerve of that bastard,the thought of it disgusts me.
You like someone and the next thing is to force her to do your wish.



Shewrites, you too much abeg

*hugs*
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by Fannycfo: 6:36pm On Apr 26, 2020
embarassedPlease, Praise should get 4 macho men to pin Kingsley on the wall and give him 24 strokes on his balls grin... I hate nonsense. undecided. Ego dear,So sorry Nne..
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by BlizzydoDo(f): 7:03pm On Apr 26, 2020
Ego's fault is 100% ahbeg, if I was Praise, I wouldn't forgive her. What manner of secretiveness is this one kwanu *annoying*
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by neloyah: 7:14pm On Apr 26, 2020
SheWrites:
#My two percent

If NWAKAEGO was rain...
Most women have a drop of her in their character, mannerism, way of life... selah


Can we really blame her 100%?
I know she has made mistakes time and time again.
But, no one is perfect. Me, mine and I is included.


If I was in her shoes, I would have told my husband sincceeeeee...
But when I thought about the situation again, will I be able to tell my husband everything, from A to Z?
Serious food for thought.


QUESTIONS
What should Praise really do concerning Kingsley?
Leave him in Jail? Sue him and make sure he spends a decade or so in Prison?
Forgive him and let him go back to his wife and family?
And with his lawyer present, make sure Kingsley signs a form of agreement to stay away from his wife?
Praise is completely lost ooooo....






You're right, ego has a fault but we shouldn't blame her 100% she sprained her ankle and was even dragged on that same ankle by Kingsley, you should have imagine the pain she had to go through to have spent 3 days in the hospital. How can we forget about the foolish perpetrator of rape just because nwakaego refused to fill her "extremely busy" husband on the details.. did praise not even look at her face all this while? Is it not when someone is curious about you that you'll fill them in on your life events. I just don't understand if I'm being paranoid or if it's wrong to throw the poor woman all the blame.




Now to the question, if praise really loves his wife. He should ask her for her opinion on this too. He didn't wear the shoe, the pain was only described to him. It's only right to sue, but it's not entirely his decision to make...
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by mhizv(f): 7:47pm On Apr 26, 2020
neloyah:




I agree with you on him having the right to be angry, but considering kingsley's use of violence on his dear wife, he's supposed to transfer his agression to Kingsley and not his wife. It will only drift them further apart. I think the only mistake she made was not informing praise about the previous advances. Kingsley forced his way into her home. Should she really be blamed for that?


It's very easy to say. A man can forgive n forget anything but definitely not seeing or the thought of another man been with his wife.


She should have informed him from the very beginning. Even after what he did while he was at the hospital.

Not blaming anyone bit you can't as well blame the husband for his actions. The right thing to do was to inform him one way or another or better still involve authorities,if she was worried about his health. From the the beginning she was just too lazy about the whole thing

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by mhizv(f): 7:50pm On Apr 26, 2020
SheWrites:
#My two percent

If NWAKAEGO was rain...
Most women have a drop of her in their character, mannerism, way of life... selah


Can we really blame her 100%?
I know she has made mistakes time and time again.
But, no one is perfect. Me, mine and I is included.


If I was in her shoes, I would have told my husband sincceeeeee...
But when I thought about the situation again, will I be able to tell my husband everything, from A to Z?
Serious food for thought.


QUESTIONS
What should Praise really do concerning Kingsley?
Leave him in Jail? Sue him and make sure he spends a decade or so in Prison?
Forgive him and let him go back to his wife and family?
And with his lawyer present, make sure Kingsley signs a form of agreement to stay away from his wife?
Praise is completely lost ooooo....



He's her husband. Definitely should have told him everything.


Well I prefer he rots in jail. Letting him go just like that,he could still come back. He needs to learn a bitter way.
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by teel123(f): 10:19pm On Apr 26, 2020
I guess Ego was scared of her pass. Nevertheless, she should be blamed for allowing Ike that nearly raped her in the hospital into her house. Praise should allow Ike spend 3 months in Kirikiri.
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by Nobody: 3:27pm On Apr 27, 2020
Kingsley should sign a form of agreement to stay away failure to do that will warrant prison no second chance.
Ego should have told her husband from the beginning, she created her own problem, hope she has learnt her lessons.
Thanks for the update
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by favch(f): 5:08pm On Apr 27, 2020
the deeds has been done. praise should rather get a restraining order against Kingsley then settle with his wife

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 5:42pm On Apr 27, 2020
Humbleness:
Kingsley should sign a form of agreement to stay away failure to do that will warrant prison no second chance.
Ego should have told her husband from the beginning, she created her own problem, hope she has learnt her lessons.
Thanks for the update

*winks*

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 5:44pm On Apr 27, 2020
Thanks everyone that commented... Praise will put your suggestions into consideration.

And of course, Ego learnt a very big lesson.

Next episode loading.

*hugs&kisses*

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by kimoyo: 9:58pm On Apr 27, 2020
I think Ego should be flogged and sent to MFM for deliverance grin. She should have told the praise the first time it happened at the hospital

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by Ann2012(f): 8:02am On Apr 28, 2020
Sebi I talk am before....
Ego tell Praise about it before Kingsley dents your image, now e don happen your eyes son clear na
It's not easy but I pray Praise forgives her and they move on but Kingsley should suffer small inside cell....anofia angry

Thanks for the update ma'am
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by Kechbeau: 8:38am On Apr 28, 2020
the lady is just annoying
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by okeyben10: 8:49am On Apr 28, 2020
I hate ds girl. I dont know y, i just know i do.
I started hating her after that guy and his friends took turns on her and she did nothing about it, instead when she c am na she go run.

Meanwhile when her colleague and neighbor raped her she refused to let go and was insisting on justice.

Always weak when she needs strength.

Anyway reading her diary. Will still do when she starts with "single mama and slaying"

Nonsense and nwakego

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by okeyben10: 8:53am On Apr 28, 2020
Her husband might just be another fool.

You caught someone raping your wife in your home and nigga's still breathing?

OK, you were stupid enough to miss d opportunity of shooting him d moment you caught him, and now you're saying because of "his wife pikin and aged parents"?

Da fuq?

Is foolishness now sexually transmitted?

Nonsense and Praise Etedafe

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by mhizv(f): 11:04am On Apr 28, 2020
okeyben10:
I hate ds girl. I dont know y, i just know i do.
I started hating her after that guy and his friends took turns on her and she did nothing about it, instead when she c am na she go run.

Meanwhile when her colleague and neighbor raped her she refused to let go and was insisting on justice.

Always weak when she needs strength.

Anyway reading her diary. Will still do when she starts with "single mama and slaying"

Nonsense and nwakego



I swear you nor vex reach me. She's too gullible when she needs to speak out she won't. It's when it's too late she starts wanting to make things right.

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 11:36am On Apr 28, 2020
Ann2012:
Sebi I talk am before....
Ego tell Praise about it before Kingsley dents your image, now e don happen your eyes son clear na
It's not easy but I pray Praise forgives her and they move on but Kingsley should suffer small inside cell....anofia angry

Thanks for the update ma'am

*winks*

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by oyinella(f): 11:38am On Apr 28, 2020
I'ld have told my husband the day I met Kingsley at the hospital, shebi na malaria Praise get, no be cardiac arrest. Praise should just get Kingsley to sign an agreement form not to get anywhere close to his wife, that's after staying in prison for 15years with hard labour. Rape is rape, no matter who is involved

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by PrudySara(f): 1:39pm On Apr 29, 2020
Praise has every right to be angry. Ego would have opened up to her husband when she noticed Kingsley's disturbance was getting out of hand. In the first place, why did she allow him enter her house. Why didn't she tell the security to chase him out. Ego is just gullible. Is she that small sef that any man can just do what they want?

Her coochie have really suffered, haaa!

Thanks for the update SheWrites!

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 7:17pm On Apr 29, 2020
PrudySara:
Praise has every right to be angry. Ego would have opened up to her husband when she noticed Kingsley's disturbance was getting out of hand. In the first place, why did she allow him enter her house. Why didn't she tell the security to chase him out. Ego is just gullible. Is she that small sef that any man can just do what they want?

Her coochie have really suffered, haaa!

Thanks for the update SheWrites!

*hugs*

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Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by Toeyean1507(f): 8:22pm On Apr 29, 2020
First of all, no one deserves to be raped irrespective of the situation.

That said, I will only blame Ego for keeping the whole thing as secret from her husband. I'm of the school of thought that the water wey ah go drink nor go pass me by. If she and Praise were meant to be even after sharing her past, I believe they'll. After all, Na everyone get 'past'.

It is important for everyone to go for defensive mechanism class bikonu to avoid cases of rape laidis. All she should have just done Is to squeeze the hell outta Kingsley balls. That, will definitely leave him ball-less. I hate rapists!
Re: Married And Slaying: Diary Of Mrs. Nwakaego Etadafe by SheWrites(f): 8:55pm On Apr 29, 2020
Toeyean1507:
First of all, no one deserves to be raped irrespective of the situation.

That said, I will only blame Ego for keeping the whole thing as secret from her husband. I'm of the school of thought that the water wey ah go drink nor go pass me by. If she and Praise were meant to be even after sharing her past, I believe they'll. After all, Na everyone get 'past'.

It is important for everyone to go for defensive mechanism class bikonu to avoid cases of rape laidis. All she should have just done Is to squeeze the hell outta Kingsley balls. That will definitely leave him ball-less. I hate rapists!

Give me a *high-five*
*hugs*

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