sassysure:
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Bear hugs

It is sad to lose a love one. One that you think about and wishes u well. God bless the soul and spirit of my Aunty , Mrs Kate Okpujie. She died in a mysterious way. I call her my second Mummy. Anytime I think about her, I always burst into tears. She died at the First week of April 2020. The tin pain me reach bone. I feel stabbed in the heart. Those that killed her will die in 2 years time. I prophesy with the bitterness of my heart.

stanliwise:
In this context use childlike not childish

Noted! Thanks

my older bro who was a sickler, died in my presence in 1999 and there in front of him i sang a song.. (when shall i see u again).... anytime i hear that song i cry. Lucky i miss u

Jolayemi Olubukola Michael, my first love. Died Oct 1st 2017, I can't help the Tears anytime I remember him. Rest in peace Dearie, like you do address me. Though married now, but I can never forget him

Sirmuel1:


I'm so sorry for your loss. Nigeria has killed many dreams indeed.

Thanks bro.

crackland:

Bear hugs

Thanks.
I'm gonna delete that post as seeing it is rattles me.

sassysure:

Thanks.
I'm gonna delete that post as seeing it is rattles me.

Okay then, lemme edit..

Forced myself to write...

Lost my Dad in 2015 when I was 13, it's not been easy; had to work harder..... Dad, your presence was a blessing.

Can't type...

Now his twin brother died this month...

Treasuredvessel:
Sorry for your loss,but there's no point tagging feminism to being unmarried,many feminists are married and people who are not feminist are unmarried too.

Maybe I didn’t term it well but I have my reasons for tagging her as such. I really don’t want to name it here cos I don’t want to remember her death, it breaks my heart.

crackland:

Okay then, lemme edit..

Reallv:
Hmmm.....my love,my wife,the only woman i've ever cherish.Monsurat onaolapo owolabi.Died last year Since then my life has change to the worse.

Pls sir can you please stay strong and pull through this.
It's very difficult but please try.

This thread ehh, I can’t stop the tears. To the ones we have lost, May your souls Rest In Peace.

bukiah:
Huuummmm! My younger sister and her husband. within the space of six months, we lost the both of them. It was very disheartening. I loved her so very much. I cried everyday since 2017. But after her third year remembrance, I accepted my fate and always look forward to making her children happy. Oluwadamilola Oyinkansola rest on in the bossom of our Lord and savior Jesus Christ till the resurrection morning. I loved you and you knew it even on your sick bed. I still believed you were going to make it. It is well.

So touching, may God help you so that you can feel the gap for the children.

Yes my uncle, my dad's youngest brother
Died 2006 at the age of 27 immediately after graduation, was a first class graduate of futo from electrical electronics department futo
Rest in peace Engr chigbogu Emmanuel Anozie

Larcardii:
Amen o God will keep our mothers nothing will happen to dem

amen o.. Sleep tight ma'am.

sassysure:

OK so I'm just reading this thread cause as a way of honouring my late sister i stayed out of logging in all through yesterday.
Yes yesterday was my sister's memorial, she was shot dead on her way to work.
I don't cry anymore not because I'm over it but my brother said I should channel my emotions and strength to my other siblings alive and other people alive, even her family she left behind!
Yeah right
I've just drawn strength from God that is why.
I've lost so many dear ones of different ages that if I dwell on it I may be a walking wreck.
I even sometimes ask God to help me understand why cause I feel (as a human) many of their deaths were very very preventable, save a few that died from terminal illnesses (even by faith which I believe they could have been victorious over, in my human thinking).
But oh well I give God glory and thanks in everything and I can never question God's goodness, and His perfect will.
God is so good, loving and kind

RIP dear sis,
they don't know wassup

That's why I don't like lil Wayne's song bye bye till now. That song makes me remember my late elder brother and I cry whenever I hear that song.. Olasunkanmi sun re o. Death is wicked.

vaxx:
it is good to cry but at the right place and at the right time .... my grandma of 102 and my first cousin of 28 years old . their death are part of my bad memory till date .


i am even sad now . just by remembering them alone send me to sadness mood.

Sorry

Nnamebuka:

I'm taken aback by your display of emotions, lols.
Given your history of being forthright and sometimes mean on family related matters here where you holds sway one would think you don't have a heart literally.

Maybe the thread reminds you of your own loss too. Take heart if it is. At the end, we're all humans sha.

Mean as you usually come across to me, I do appreciate your maturity, forthright-ness and unalloyed principle. A man should stand his ground.

Lol, yes it reminds me of a loss...just don't feel like sharing it here.

@not having a heart,

Well thanks for appreciating my forthrightness.

May God comfort all those lost their loved ones.

1) my mom
Painful part was that I didn't really know her cos my pop took me away from her from birth,I looked at her corpse and tears rolled down my cheeks

2) my pop
This man knew death was coming but he didn't know when even though he died at 87 he had already sort out my possible financial needs.

Yea, I feel you sweetheart, let me talk to them
Yeah, How come they call it goodbye?
How come the good die?
See I just get high and think of the good times
That I had with my pops, he was a good guy
How come the good die? As i protect my mother
‘Cause I’m her oldest son, and there are different worlds
And we in the coldest one, which one did granny go to?
And why do death come? As my baby ask where do babies come from
I tell her where, I tell her why
And I tell her I love her until I tell her bye
And whenever I shall ever die, I hope you celebrate it
I hope you never hate it, and they say heaven’s gated
But I think I know the code, and let’s get your life right
By the end of the road, that’s why I drive alone down memory lane
So if I crash I hope ya’ll remember Wayne, goodbye... Lil Wayne's bye bye. Crazy song.

Praylove:


Op you just reopened my scars, why did you have to bring this up... I can't stop the tears...

Sorry dear if I made u cry.
Just couldn't help feeling sad yesterday.

Exactly 5 years after(10.06.19) @11.53am,I lost my mother

annayawchee:
To my mom who left me in shock I'm yet to recover from, your boy still miss you, your boy is scrambling to find his feet in a world so cold and cruel, it wasn't how we planned the ending, your departure turned a boy to a man overnight, our dreams were shattered oma, do you know the migraine still lingers, the vacuum your death cause remains unfilled, the wolves you shielded us away from are trying relentlessly to tear your wards apart.

Nnem do you know I hate June now?

Adieus.

10/06/2014

Saddest day ever.

I lost a very dear friend early this year and my elder sister this evening

abusumaya:
Exactly 5 years after(10.06.19) @11.53am,I lost my mother

it's well

zigirl56:
I lost a very dear friend early this year and my elder sister this evening

This evening!! Like today?

kulrunsman79:
YES

ABBA KYARI

SyrusdeHansome:
Have u ever lost someone so dear to u that causes tears to roll down ur eyes each time u remember him or her?

Mine was David.
David was my classmate in JS 1. The most handsome, and one of those brilliant students in my class. David was loved by everyone in the class because of his childish nd joyous attitude. Though initially those attitude created enmity among the two of us our frndship started the day he saved me from being flogged by our nasty maths teacher who gave me a maths problem that I couldn't solve. Since that day we became great frnds nd we were always seen sitting next to each other in class nd working together during compound work. Our frndship was so serious that some teachers thought we were siblings. David was brilliant, selfless, handsome nd childish nd I loved him like a brother. In summary, David died the same week our exams was about starting. He was hit by a reckless lorry driver on his way to his dad's provisions shop. He died on the spot nd rumour has it that b4 he gave up the ghost he muttered the following words, "my dream of becoming a doctor has ended". And since then av always wanted to become a doctor 4 David but the Nigerian factor destroyed that dream. Till today I still remember my brilliant nd selfless frnd whose bright future was cut short by a drunk driver.

Pls I'm sorry 4 the long post nd some of the errors you'll notice. David died exactly on the 25th of April, that's why I brought up this topic. Pls share ur own.

Take heart bro.

Damopumping1:

My immediate elder sister dead on d 4th of Jan 2018. her death caused a trauma 2 all d siblings heart. A hard working, Pretty, loved, Jovial, friendly, accommodating & most especially God fearing lady died, so painful! What almost caused a psychology problem was dat she died within 2days of no record of illness b4, but due 2 d nonchalant, greediness, selfish & wickedness altitude of her husband. I lived wit dem in a 3bedroom flat, we were so closed. she loved me unconditionally & I reciprocated d love. Maybe coz we fought a lot wen we were young wit our parents but got closed wit mutual understanding wen we grew up. I was with my Sister on d 1st of Jan 2018, we both had d agreement 2 go 2 our home town 2 rest 4 like a week after d stress of DEC/Jan hard work. I left her on d 2nd of Jan 2 our hometown with d expectation dat she was also coming home but unfortunately I received d call of her husband immediately I got hom dat ngt dat my sister was admitted in2 a hospital, I immediately took my leave dat same day back 2 d hospital she was. in a nut shell, my sister died d 3rd day she was admitted. Confusion set in, I can't realised my sister was gone until a week after her departure. I couldn't find her b4 I realized it was true I lost my sister. hmmm! I crys almost everyday I remember her & pray 4 her. She left behind 2kids (females). My parents haven't regain their strength ever since. I love my sister, I love her kids.
I'm happy I could share diz story wit my fellow nairalanders. I can feel d lost of sum pressure within me. I shall right a story abt my sister in d near future. Hmm! my sister left a letter behind 4 me & I av it in my domain. Thks 4 reading my long story.

Glad to see u pour out ur hrt through the thread. May God comfort u nd ur parent.