bukatyne:


I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?

Pheals:
save the man profile pics and copy his number down ; and delete it...then save it with another number using his profile pics ... re open d no. with another WhatsApp. android can now use two WhatsApp acct hope u knows that and there are ways to trace call easily or record other people call .. sure u should knw that

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

andyanders:
Your wife 4 sure is into the man deeply. She saved the no as 3,deletes her chats after and they talk on phone.

Na waooo. Op, your wife is cheating on you. When you are married to a wrong woman, you die young. Your wife cannot accept to your face that she is cheating, even if you caught her pants down with the man. If u delete his number, she will still connect with him. Any force on her to extract truth from her, would get her closer to him. Too bad. I've to be blunt with you on this. If the said man is rich and has been funding part of her life style codedly, you can be killed. The life of every married man is in the hands of that woman. You can be killed if she emmotionally gets deeply attached to such relationship, before she realises her mistake, you are deep down 6ft.

Stephenomozzy:


Have you dated an introvert before? (I am dating one). Not very often will she loudly express that she's needing things to be spiced up, she'll just leave few clues here and there and believes you should pick the clue and work things out while she "does her own part". It becomes easier when you know your woman.

I'm in no way inferring that a boring partner should be cheated on Sis. And who knows op may just be paranoid.

But other than just speaking point-blank that OP's wife is cheating (that's a recipe to ruin their marriage), I've offered one way OP can try to make things better and read the situation in a more optimistic angle.

Dolphineyes:



Not entirely foolproof. There's going to be a notification on her phone stating, "Whatsapp web is active." And what about proximity?

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Coronavirus1:
If you continued checking your wife phone you will soon die of high blood pressure in your young age
.My advice stop checking her phone and have trust in your wife
Not every of her chat you will have to see.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

saintruky:


Let me add to this...
@Nelso2, b4 u delete d man contact from her phone as adviced, I suggest u fist save n send his profile pix to ur phone, use his WhatsApp name as urs.. likewise his dp to urs.. then block his contact in ur wife's phone...
But I'll advise u use an entirely different number to avoid confrontation from ur wife if she eventually find out... Use dual WhatsApp..
Silent her notification in ur phone, so u can be on same bed chatting wit her without her knowledge...


Thank me later

andriods:


Bro one cold beer for touch u this nite if not for this ur username

Ariza:
WhatsApp not Wassup or is there any new application named as such?



BTW, you need no oracle to tell you that your wife's attention is somewhere else and soon enough she will be sweating under someone's else.

bukatyne:


I don't understand.

If the husband is boring, is the wife not supposed to spice up things or show the husband what she wants?

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

proclinician:


When u get married to a cheating wife just ignore all cues so that when she gets HIV from her escapades and dash you, just be willing to watch urself go down low with smiles.

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Nelso2:

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

Ogilinsaka:


Hmmm, only you is caughting everybody? Continue caughting them ooo