After reading the comments by women here I have completely turned off the idea of marriage from my mind.

Imagine sex being seen as a chore, some are even just faking the whole thing just to keep the marriage.

And the men will still go out to get the sex their wives aren't giving them.

Why would I be deceiving myself with marriage now?

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Were you circumcised?

First give thanks to GOD that you have a loving husband that will only want to have sex with you and nobody outside there....don't mind this stupid people here ooooo.. Majority don't have have a family or married.
In a marriage nobody is perfect. Sit down with that good man just like you said and iron issues out with him ....believe me there are one million and one married ladies out there who want what you are complaining about .Am telling you the fact accept your man the way god has created him " to be crazy in love with you sexually ...

Incandescent:
Fake story

Its never a fake story. Its happening all around us.

Satisfy him well when next you do it . Make him so tired he will avoid it for a while continue in that order sex will some become occasionally . But don’t come back to complain to us .What do women really want

butterbread:


Don't mind them. If it was their boyfriend, they would be ready to do it 24/7 and also in the bush.

If it was boyfriend, she would have been asking us how to satisfy her man. Let her satisfy her husband and keep quiet.

Take it easy with her. Just drink cool water on top her matter brother She needs help, we should give advice that will help.

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

My dear, forget this talk. Sex may not be a big deal to u, but it may be a big deal to him.

In this case, I will suggest they divorce. Simple. One person shouldn't be another person's reaosn for frustration.

One of them need to compromise. And sincerely, people with high sex drive rarely compromise.

And all these tagging men and Naija men is rubbish. I av read stories here of men complaining of high sex drive from their lady and comments they gave were similar. Some men even told them they are lucky. That is what most men are looking for. So the issue of lucky is often used here. It has nothing to do with a Nigerian man. If I make a post now to say my gf is killing of sex every day, some guys will even tell me to come swap, that I'm so lucky, bla bla bla.

As for this couple, if the woman doesn't comply, the man will be frustrated. If the woman have to up her sex drive, she will be frustrated. So they will be frustrated. It is better they path ways nw. They are still early. He will surely find a woman who also wants to get it done regularly. And the woman will find a man who doesn't mind doing it once in a week.

When they tell people to marry someone they are sexually compatible with they will not take it serious. Incompatible sex drive is the leading cause of frustrated marriages world wide. Not just in Nigeria.

skedman:
The best solution is to always delay his food . He will fight for food rather than sex
He has something in his belly that why is libido is high

Sense nor go kee u

Lizboh:




Pls what will her mother protect her from and who will the mother fight ?.

I don't think sex can make the wall of a vagina dry

I tire for that her off-point talks...Ladies who run to their mothers, aren't mature for marriage in this kind issue...Her mother is a third party.

Couples don't need a third party.

Hang in there. He will soon run out of gas.Develop a coping strategy.learn to enjoy it, and when you do give it until he is tired. After a while he will run out of gas.. Believe me.

Leave her, she’ll soon join ‘all men cheat and men are scum’ gang. I think the perception in Africa that women don’t like sex and are not supposed to like sex cannot be unrelated to the high rate of female genital mutilation and religion.
For all we know, OP must have been a victim of FGM and have been raised to see sex as a duty to create children. Even sounds like she never ever enjoyed sex with her husband and doesn’t even have a clue that women love sex naturally and love feeling sexy especially by men who really desire them.

djon78:



Me and you who is discouraging faithful men? With the way you talk on this issue can you even maintain a faithful man.
A woman that doesn't even know how to talk. You maintain a faithful man with a befitting character. Character is the beauty of a woman, not one that talks anyhow.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Allow him and infact give to him the day he forgets. He will soon be tired and u will have a space.

man must chop

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Are you married?.
If not go and get married and deny your husband sex. But do not come back here to lament on the repercussions.

This is why I like Islam which allows Muslim men to be married to multiple women. It takes care of all these complaints

SweetCunt97:
Buhhhhaaahhhaaahhaaaa. How was he able to hold off on sex until marriage? Wonders

The husband na virgin.
This na new adventures for am, e go soon tire nor be pissy.

What type of man would want sex EVERYDAY?

Don't worry the lockdown will soon be over and you will be relieved.

Results of Corona. Kindly marry a second wife for him. There is love in sharing.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Now this is funny Oga is trying to balance the equation of sexual activities you both skipped during dating/courtship....

Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.

Oya,come close....

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

I never Believed women can complain of too much of it... but why do some women cheat or most women cheat? much of it complain... less of it complain...
But to be candid, probably your husband is not ambitious or a trader who just sit and come home at night without facing Lagos traffic. put him under financial pressure that will make him double up his hustle and have lesser time for sex. If he doesn't have a car, and house of his own, suggest more more businesses for him that will take away his time. Honestly, if he face daily Lagos traffic plus being ambitious he can never have the craxy energy for such. Though, If you married him as a virgin the sexual urge may still be present in him.
you will come back here to share your testimony

Farki:
After reading the comments by women here I have completely turned off the idea of marriage from my mind.

Imagine sex being seen as a chore, some are even just faking the whole thing just to keep the marriage.

And the men will still go out to get the sex their wives aren't giving them.

Why would I be deceiving myself with marriage now?

Women

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Now let's turn the table the other way, what will be ur submission?

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

This advice may ultimately be their future. At op if you like be looking for ways to manipulate your hubby so as not to give him his right. Last last nairaland will need another story later for us, you may just be that story.

Hmmmm... All i know is too much of every is not too good...

Every day... that is kinda serious.... he should have a break nah....

Sex na really food for some men... God help us all..

Macphenson:
The solution is simple, just get a hot and sexy maid in the house, he won't bother you again.

Youre Evil bro... Lols

Farki:
After reading the comments by women here I have completely turned off the idea of marriage from my mind.

Imagine sex being seen as a chore, some are even just faking the whole thing just to keep the marriage.

And the men will still go out to get the sex their wives aren't giving them.

Why would I be deceiving myself with marriage now?

Don't mind those ladies. They are probably circumsized and don't enjoy it.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Women are complex. I was once having downtime due to some stuff I later overcame. Then, it became an issue and almost ruined the marriage. When I got back, I became a livid animal on bed gaa gaa n'ogwu. Madam chickened out- pain pain every time even with diferent lunes and pre-intimacy.
Now its either my thing is too big and gives her constant bruises or she's just too tired. I don stop to dey do side chic especially with this coro thing. In fact I tire walahi.

ubcandid:
You mean you're husband is still active on you for 20 yrs? Abeg take am easy. Na 16 yrs you marry.

Are u married?

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Give him sniper so u can marry one who doesn't like sex

Marriage is just a deceit between two people.
It gets boring after a few years.
Forget all that shit about marrying best friend or sex compatible partner.

One woman commented that in her Marriage of 25yrs she just lay on the bed like a log of wood or a corpse while her husband pounces on her.

Biko why are you still married, obviously you are bored!

How do i handle wife that want money everyday?