Unik3030:
u didn't have sex b4 marriage,meaning d guy waited to own it rightfully n now u are complaining again....u are a confusionist

She wants to eat her cake and have it

Women are evil, even if my wife changes her mind today it's too late to turn back I'll keep firing on before marriage they will give us impression that they like s3x pay pride price they start complaining that it should not be everyday

Naija women and their wahala. Try this rubbish with me and I'll divorce your ass. Rubbish

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Did you not sign the contract to give him sex, why are you women like this? Once a day is too much just within two years of marriage? Don't you know that the law of marginal utility will set in with time and demand will reduce. Now sometime, I don't ask for sex from my wife in two weeks, but at the beginning of our marriage it was war. Do you know that despite not asking her every week, whenever I want sex it is still story and I keep wondering what exactly you people want?
Now you are complaining and some girls out there are wishing they have what you have. If you are careless and the guy go to taste food outside, you have yourself to blame.
Listen at age below 40men'sexual appetite are high that time women sexual drive is low. However, after age 40 when men sexual drive is diminishing, that is when women sexual drive start to increase, that explains why you see some women in their forties pursuing boys of twenties. Be guided, hold your home.

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You better yield. In 10 years he will hardly have the time or energy for you.

Julietsim:


U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Trying to catch up the lost numbers..

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Iron lady, I hail...

bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

It's not the norm even when a majority do it?

MrBrownJay1:
you cant have your cake and eat it too... this man does not cheat and instead likes to get his groove on with his wife. you should be happy and find ways to reward him for his fidelity (as we all know many men out there cheat). actually, you should be undressed and ready to "receive" as soon as he comes home, as a thank you gesture for being a good man.... unless you would prefer he goes out sexually frustrated because his wife cant cope with sex daily?

SOLUTION: why dont you instead try to make this sex enjoyable for the both of you? open up to him, tell him what you like, tell him what you fantasize about, let him do the things that YOU like too.

U no dey hear word, the woman say the viggy dey always pain am...shoo

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

lucky you

Macphenson:
The solution is simple, just get a hot and sexy maid in the house, he won't bother you again.

Bad guy...

dirtydiva:
The question differ from what the wife is complaining, she never refuse him sex but coming for it all day is not healthy. I can't be releasing my semen all in the name of sex, I will grow lean and thin because something is getting off from me and secondly there will be no new taste to her honey well

I actually questioned u based on the comment that u will draw a time table for him on sex weekly m he dare not cheat

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

I'm not married yet but the truth is that your husband is my kind of person. We don't cheat and will never ever cheat. So please try and love your man real good cos hardly you find our kind. As for loving sex, yes we do cos we don't cheat. Any man that wants you like that and doesn't cheat, that man is for keep. He loves you and even the ground you stepped on.

Please hold him tight before some women who truly knows his value snatch him up fiaaam!!! Just like that

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

Na why e marry you? Lol! Just kidding! Anyways just be outspoken no fear! You can't keep hiding how u feel about this forever! If he can't control himself let him go do it elsewhere! There should be a time table for couples to do sex stuffs! Everyday shiooo! Na Kolagbo agent e be?

Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

OP please follow this lady's advice.

James289:


gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

He has a high libido, maybe
should married nymphomaniac. The point is sexual orientations were not discovered cause of abstinence during courtship.

And probably not discussed, hence the incompatibility in marriage. Now there is need for frank discussion and compromise from both parties.

Some woman are someway praying for such men and here someone is complaining. What a word.

Julietsim:


We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

This is exactly the issue here... U had to let the guy starve for it for so long, now like someone who got out of prison he's lion hungry for that PUSsey. My advice; give him as requested before one calaba girl show him the rubber waist or "draw coconut" on top of him, then u will know konjee na bastard.

God abeg no give me woman wey go tire for my swordsmanship... When e no dey interesting again naim dem dey coomplain oo

That is interesting and expected knowing that your marriage is very young and he finds you attractive... the word is " EXPLORE" enjoy he's your husband there are so many things you could do together and enjoy other than the intercourse. This is the time to be open to each other sexually. A healthy sexual relationship is PARAMOUNT in marriage......

Chai. I can feel your pain. Isn't that turning into rape?



My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise[/quote]

Women what do u really want in life bikonu?? If he likes it much they will complain, if he doesn't like it they will still complain..... Mmchteeeeew!!! Rubbish!!!

Lizboh:



Its not about low self esteem..my husband is my best friend and am also his. We get well together. We've been together for 25yrs now and our fist child is 20yrs now. So its not moimoi. Giving in to his demands is tactical for me, I've developed strategies I use in dealing.

Please share the strategies you developed with us as an experience...

You don't know who will be benefiting from this...


Pls it's very important

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

Your husband is a sex addict, his desire for sex is nolonger due to sexual urge, its now a matter of HABIT. Ur husband nids to discipline himself.
But the problem is dat u think giving sex is wat will make him not to cheat, I seriously doubt dat. In most cases, men don't cheat because they lack sex, they cheat because they lack self discipline nd want to have a taste of other women.
Kip talking to him abt it, always let ur displeasure be made known to him, nd wen he give u the normal response 'wud u prefer I get it outside' tell him 'wud u prefer I get injury' if he cares abt u he shud consider hw u feel. Then suggest how many times u want it in a week
Lastly in every marriage, quarrel is inevitable. U shudn't be afraid of a little quarrel if u rily want to make a change especially wen ur fighting for wat is right. U nid to be courageous nd take a decision.

Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot

I am married but I must say, your husband has the potential to cheat on you. You are an object of attraction and not a sex object.

Forget his words, you are his queen and he should treat you as an object of attraction. Never give your body to him like a sex object. He must respect you, he must earn it. Deny him sex, engage in other things like movies, board games, video games etc.. but also try to make him understand that it is his, it ain't running away but you cannot do it everyday..

Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

My husband love sex more than more and I am ready to give it to him anywhere anytime.

Do not play with that precious thing which you have else onions will enter your eyes.
Do not push him out because when he is gone, it will be very difficult to get him back.

That time you will start doing fasting and prayer.

Use ur mouth if the Jerusalem is painful

Ndukwe007:
Chai. I can feel your pain. Isn't that turning into rape?



My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

I like ur husband, my main man!!!
Remember U're married to that pweek 4life

Son of a bitchhh, is a black beefy man the only available option for me? You are sicckkk in the brain.

tydi:


How your uncouthly mouth stinks, when you pour venom. FYI same uglyyy beefy man would put you under his duvet and bangs the shit outta you, after you might have served him his favorite dish whenever he's back from the hustle, failure to do so he would sharply replace you with whom can do better.

Men also lose their good looks. Besides, very many women are still attractive in their 30s,40s,50s, etc. A man that lost interest in his does that because of greed/lack of self descipline.

TheRedpillguy:

To be attractive. You need to have something to be attracted too. As it turns out you Women loose that soon as you hit 30.you hv to hide behind fake hairs and make up now. The next thing that is left, fun and attitude. You don't have. Nigerian woman are just Shitty ppl

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Chai, you wicked........

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

You are 1000% percent accurate.

Some women sha.

My husband wants sex everyday. How often should it have been. Once a year?

Wetin Chioma no go see for Adeleke family?

I had thought she would say twice a day or three times a day. We would have said well its becoming a problem.
But everyday ?

Let her just take to your advice so that she would be relieved of the Wahala.

Nonsense and Nonsensical.