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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by covenant2(m): 1:48am On Apr 28, 2020
Gbam

Well, it's a good thing that your husband finds you sexually attractive and doesn't hide his feelings.

If he wants sex everyday and you can't handle it, there are other freaky things you can do to spice up the relationship. Encourage him to kiss and handle you more instead of the main sex and with time, he'll get used to it. You can also tell him when you're too tired to have sex or you're uninterested. No big deal...

But make no mistake, a man with a high sex drive will demand for it most times, so you need to also get used to it. It's part of your marital rites. [/quote]
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:49am On Apr 28, 2020
You like Islam because you cannot control your third leg. Instead of you to advise that the man should seek medical help and develop self control, you are talking shittt.
Basher8583:


Are you married?.
If not go and get married and deny your husband sex. But do not come back here to lament on the repercussions.

This is why I like Islam which allows Muslim men to be married to multiple women. It takes care of all these complaints

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Antichristus: 1:54am On Apr 28, 2020
bdchange:

what do you mean by saying she is lucky? is the man supposed to start having sex with other ladies apart from his wife..because people do it does not mean it is the norm.

What are you talking about. If he doesn't get it at home, he would get it elsewhere freely and willingly. This is the 21st century. Norms, values and ethics are relative not absolutes. They can be teleological rather than deontological.
In fact, some good husbands have been snatched because their wives were acting Holy Mary Mother of God.

 grin grin grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chukasson(m): 1:54am On Apr 28, 2020
first time to comment
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ABJ4Real(m): 1:55am On Apr 28, 2020
Born to screw
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chukasson(m): 1:55am On Apr 28, 2020
Antichristus:


What are you talking about. If he doesn't get it at home, he would get it elsewhere freely and willingly. This is the 21st century. Norms, values and ethics are relative not absolutes. They can be teleological rather than deontological. grin grin grin
True talk
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 1:56am On Apr 28, 2020
Unik3030:
so if d man decide to have sex with another woman,will heaven fall?

She have to count herself lucky cos the guy is only doing it with her,some guys will not complain they will just go out n satisfy themselves low-key n d wife won't know

And until bring STD come give her for house sef.

Can you.just imaging. After they have used their own hands push the man go meet Ashewo, dem go they find Fake Prophets upandan for town.

Useless type of wives.

My husband wants sex everyday.
I hope the man can change it to Once a Year for her.
May be as a Christmas present.

So that she can start another thread. With the Heading.

MY GOOD HUSBAND HAS CHANGED- Now visits Ashawo joints.

Nonsense and Unbelievable grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Antichristus: 1:57am On Apr 28, 2020
chukasson:

True talk

Thank you o jare. In fact, some good husbands have been snatched because their wives were acting Holy Mary Mother of God. Some respondents above wre absolutely right. You dont give him, he goes out. Worst still, buy sex. Now, that's very risky because potentially STIs and STDs are out there. He would get it and give it to the woman. So, OP you better keep enjoying it. After a while his energg will dissipate, his manhood would become less active as he grow older because old age catches up with everyone including in that department. I also guess both of you abstained during your courtship otherwise you would have known he had high sex drive. Good luck.


Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:58am On Apr 28, 2020
Shut the Bleep up and get lost, go and change your ways too and learn self descipline, stop encouraging bullshiiiitttt all in the name of superstition/bloodline, nonscence.
djon78:




Better go and change your ways.
Little chat here shows how uncouth your attitude is. Using gutter language and insults is not the kind of things you expect from a real true lady.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:00am On Apr 28, 2020
Adekaka12345:




see question.... allow him everytime
Annoying Thread grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by cruzydal(m): 2:01am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
If you don’t give him someone else will give him outside
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Cousin9999: 2:03am On Apr 28, 2020
Sit down and have an honest, friendly conversation about it. Explain that it's a bit much, and try to reach a compromise.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Abiajiga(m): 2:05am On Apr 28, 2020
Bola146:
You must learn to like it ni o grin please.
u are a true African woman[color=#006600][/color]
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by dasparrow: 2:06am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You are married to a sex addict.
You are married to a hypersexual man. Hypersexual men are men who were sexually abused in childhood.

You are so screwed. And you live in a terribly misogynistic and dysfunctional society like Nigeria where you have no rights as a woman and are treated like property once you get married. Is that not why you people have bride price cultural practices where the man pays money to the bride's family before he can marry her?

I guess all you can do now is pray because you married someone you are not sexually compatible with. What a sad situation to be in.

Oh well!
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Abiajiga(m): 2:10am On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat
mumu. Use your head
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Abiajiga(m): 2:11am On Apr 28, 2020
dasparrow:


You are married to a sex addict.
You are married to a hypersexual man. Hypersexual men are men who were sexually abused in childhood.

You are so screwed. And you live in a terribly misogynistic and dysfunctional society like Nigeria where you have no rights as a woman and are treated like property once you get married. Is that not why you people have bride price cultural practices where the man pays money to the bride's family before he can marry her?

I guess all you can do now is pray because you married someone you are not sexually compatible with. What a sad situation to be in.

Oh well!
mumu

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:14am On Apr 28, 2020
James289:


gbam. some women ehh am disappointed, they think marriage is all about sex... Service oga my foot. Such men can even sleep with anything even if the wife gives him daily... He is so dangerous even to his children. I bet his jobless that's why it's always sex that is on his mind, Nonsense

Its certain you are not married with this your statement.

You had better let your bragging end on Nairaland because if you dont and you marry with this kind of notion, you will be a good Maga in the hands of Fake Prophets las las.

Everyday sex is not too much for a loving wife if your man is such.
But if you say na your Nairaland Ego you use enter marriage, then I am hoping to read plenty of your threads with different Captions on Nairaland Soon After Your Marriage.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Mycommand: 2:14am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by benjazy: 2:17am On Apr 28, 2020
Give him the Bible to study he will fear you
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by bameyi(m): 2:22am On Apr 28, 2020
You all got the question wrong. The question is how you handle a man with high sex drive. Only about 10% got it right. Woman some one had said it before. You lucky he finds you sexually attractive. I know if some married the man ain't cheating on his wife he's not just some one that lays the pipe everyday. Not his thing. Does that means his cheating outside no!
Have a conversation with him. Introduce other forms of intimacy to the family bedroom. Him finding you attractive means he's in love with you. Done men marry b cause of social pressure on them not because of the volume of ass the can get.
This man love you channel his energy elsewhere without hurting his feeling and keeping him entertained.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:24am On Apr 28, 2020
dasparrow:


You are married to a sex addict.
You are married to a hypersexual man. Hypersexual men are men who were sexually abused in childhood.

You are so screwed. And you live in a terribly misogynistic and dysfunctional society like Nigeria where you have no rights as a woman and are treated like property once you get married. Is that not why you people have bride price cultural practices where the man pays money to the bride's family before he can marry her?

I guess all you can do now is pray because you married someone you are not sexually compatible with. What a sad situation to be in.

Oh well!


Some of you guys can exaggerate for Africa.

See Grammar untop daily sex. grin

Hypersexual Man, Undivocular mantripoly, a man full of pionistical quily. grin (sorry I just helped you add some more grammar you can't find in any dictionary to it)

Is it a man that asks for Everyday sex you described here?
Or a man that asks for sex three times a day.grin

Pls don't make me laugh.


Your type is the type that sees nothing bad in having a side chic so you can sleep with your wife once a month or once in two months.

The way you guys give advice ehn. I just bow for una.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by slimshady1000: 2:33am On Apr 28, 2020
Let him enjoy the kpekus...
Humans and their insatiable tendencies...
One seconds man: complaints
Everyday man: una go still complain...
Smh


Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by repogirl(f): 2:33am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired

Did you know he had a high libido before marriage?

Discuss with him. Tell him you can't keep up and why. Maybe set a calendar for how many times in a week you can do it.

Finally, spice it up and make it enjoyable for the both of you. That's the best I can think of.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by kally90(f): 2:35am On Apr 28, 2020
Unik3030:
u didn't have sex b4 marriage,meaning d guy waited to own it rightfully n now u are complaining again....u are a confusionist
It's because you haven't experienced it that's why you are talking like this. My owm was not during marriage but friendship, I spoke to him but he did not listen and he will even like to have it twice a day and I couldn't cope I just took race before it is too late because we are planning to marry. It was not funny at all. But I think, you should have heart to heart talk with you husband and tell him about what your feeling are concerning this issue and he will understand and also you should be able to say no and stand on your ground when you are out of it.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by zedegit: 2:39am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
You like Islam because you cannot control your third leg. Instead of you to advise that the man should seek medical help and develop self control, you are talking shittt.

Medical help for what?

They are not compatible. There are also women who want it every day. Nymphs.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Dexter23401: 2:42am On Apr 28, 2020
Na wa, he no gree do na wahala, now he dey do am well na still wahala, watin man go do nau
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by vektor: 2:42am On Apr 28, 2020
Unik3030:
i feel you
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bottompot: 2:45am On Apr 28, 2020
Madam eh, I'm not married sha but I think this would help:
Marriage is about understanding. You know the type of person your husband is. So find a way to present the issue to him, in a non confrontational manner. Remember your manner of approach will matter a lot if you will achieve your purpose. There is a way you will say it, then he will take to mean that you're denying him sex, and other problems will result.
So it is something both of you will dialogue about so as to achieve a win-win situation. You have to pray for God's wisdom in dealing with the situation. As you do so, you shall achieve positive result. Amen. If you need more info or counselling inbox me via 08170381042
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Iluvmycontr3: 2:47am On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
My husband and I have been married for almost 2 years now. He is a very good man . He is not a cheating type. The only thing is he likes sex so much that he always wants to have it everyday. I am tired. This lockdown has even increase the issue.

Please how can one cope? Is there any married lady that has experienced this. How did you handle it?

You may be tempted to rush things or do it as though you haven't seen or done it before, but since your wife is going to remain with you till the end of time, why the rush?
Meanwhile, he's yours, so better you let him know your mind/how you feel.

Wish you all the best.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:50am On Apr 28, 2020
You signed up for it. Get to work lady grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by holyfather(m): 2:52am On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Then keep off my mentions, I never told you to quote me. Everything you've said so far is arrant nonscence. I don't believe in superstition.
All your comments are all nonsense and please go learn how to spell NONSENSE before you type another nonscence here.
Stupid girl.

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