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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by AjilejaEkun: 8:23am On Apr 28, 2020

What is wrong with him, is that the only thing he is interested in, what about other forms of intimacy if that is what he craves, but everyday sex? I don't agree that is normal.

If you have been married for two years as stated, does it mean the everyday sex started since then? If yes, are you just getting irritated by it, or you have been persevering just to keep your marriage or reward him as someone said earlier because he's a good man?

The truth is sometimes sex could be tiring, even for men too...But communicating with him is key, if he really loves you he will adjust by focusing on other forms of intimacy that the both of you will naturally find your strength in. 6

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Neerich1512(m): 8:28am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Welcome to Africa means what? A wife married to an uglyyy beefy Nigerian man is expected to be faithful and still find such a man attractive, yet men cannot stick to their wife. Is it a curse or something? Because I don't believe that it means Africn men have a higher libido, or special libido

as if white men do not play away match...

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ubcandid(m): 8:29am On Apr 28, 2020

Lizboh:

I don't think I should reply you, I will only tell you that everything is not joke. Go to comedy section if you want to play around. This section is for matured mind

neither am I here to exchange banters. I just stated the obvious, you're exaggerating. For 20 years your husband's hormones are still raging at the frequency equivalent to what the OP is complaining of? Come on. I ask again, did you get married at 16 yrs?

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Ellagarcio: 8:29am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Reality my dear, that other women are silent about this does not mean they are not experiencing it. It is normal for healthy man to be hungry for sex daily. All you need to do is to learn how to distract him some times. If you are having pains in your vagina just sit him down and explain to him.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Ellagarcio: 8:31am On Apr 28, 2020

AjilejaEkun:
What is wrong with him, is that the only thing he is interested in, what about other forms of intimacy if that is what he craves, but everyday sex? I don't agree that is normal.

If you have been married for two years as stated, does it mean the everyday sex started since then? If yes, are you just getting irritated by it, or you have been persevering just to keep your marriage or reward him as someone said earlier because he's a good man?

The truth is sometimes sex could be tiring, even for men too...But communicating with him is key, if he really loves you he will adjust by focusing on other forms of intimacy that the both of you will naturally find your strength in. 6

please what are the other forms?

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by 1kinggy(m): 8:32am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Both of you need to work things. Let him know when you're sore. Ọgá needs to be considerate too, no be as person dey hungry person dey chop.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Reazest: 8:34am On Apr 28, 2020

A man asking for sex everyday is a he-goat, irresponsible, and fool. A man should have self control in everything he does. That man lack discipline.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bolosiye: 8:34am On Apr 28, 2020

Take am tire am; how do you do dis? Load your motal full of chilli pepper or to be milled just watch better leaf and put it there, then invite him over to do de pound. Trust me he won't enjoy de experince ,and this will tone down his sex drive i bet you. ... grin

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Philinho(m): 8:35am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Stop using one persons comment to generalized all Nigerian MEN/HUSBANDS .Not good

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by kalufelix(m): 8:35am On Apr 28, 2020

Vulcan24:

it's a fake story abeg

The topic is fake too..

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by talkwithfobi: 8:37am On Apr 28, 2020

Your marraige is two years . such is normal, for a faithful man. The sexual life will naturally adjust after a while.

Enjoy your man and have a lovely home

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lugianostar(m): 8:38am On Apr 28, 2020

You ought to be grateful he is not a cheating type and besides finds you sexually attractive. Spice it up with some other activities like cooking, discussion, watching tv series and other indoor games to relinquish his appealing sexual urge. But if you are tired of these act of his then advice to get a second wife and be relief of your marital duty.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Philinho(m): 8:39am On Apr 28, 2020

Julietsim:

U don't understand. Having sex everyday can be tiring. It also affect the Virgina. U think it is easy for women? It is not. I sometimes have pain because it is too much. We didn't have sex until we were married. I never knew he was like this.

Please sit him down and tell him to know your pain.Atlesst twice a week should be OK for him. Cos when you put to bed he may hardly control himself. And with this attitude, How can he be enrusted with a Maid in your absent? Too much of everything is bad oo

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Emmanuelhector(m): 8:40am On Apr 28, 2020

Rozz:
somebody is complaining and the men are telling her on how to cope with it and continue to endure till she passed out abi ? Go and report him to his parents or his pastor.mchew

As if you know how the pastor is dealing with his wife.. or you thinks the mother can't be suffering same fate? .. Women and their thinking self

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by fairy88: 8:40am On Apr 28, 2020

Unik3030:
so if d man decide to have sex with another woman,will heaven fall?

She have to count herself lucky cos the guy is only doing it with her,some guys will not complain they will just go out n satisfy themselves low-key n d wife won't know

Nooo heaven will not fall, fall ke!
And also yes the woman is lucky, very lucky,because it is written every man must cheat, it is the right thing they must do..
Ndi' eberibe'
If am the wife, I won't give into it if am not in the mood, and if he decides to go find d outside , me too will help myself outside too, who said woman are meant to feel the pain alone? Who said marriage is about the man alone? Rubbish!
People and their nonsense mentality..

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chuksme(m): 8:41am On Apr 28, 2020

soundmind4ree:

Am very sure you are more confused now after reading through all the comments. It's not everything you post on public domain!
It's even obvious that you have not spoken to your man about this. marriage is about tolerance, believe me, you should also have certain behavior that your husband is trying to cope with on daily basis.

This issue is about the both of you, and only you both can resolve is personally. As a matter of urgency, you and your husband needs to talk about this before it leads to something bigger and worse.

Please apply wisdom in dealing with this, because we don't want to hear later that "my husband doesn't like having sex with me as often as I want it, am I loosing him!

Nice advise, this is one of the best advice I have come across on this matter. Well-done

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Aboks(m): 8:41am On Apr 28, 2020

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Mrkarlz(m): 8:41am On Apr 28, 2020

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Reazest: 8:41am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

I will like to be ur friend.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bambambiglo: 8:42am On Apr 28, 2020

Davash222:
Advice him to get a second wife, so you can be relieved of your DUTY!!

Shebi you've gotten 1700 likes now you're happy

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:43am On Apr 28, 2020

Hahahahh.......same old lame lines, I thought you had something serious to say, numbskull. When you jumped on my mentions did you show manners you aren't from the very ghetto you are talking about? Stupidd SOG.

DeRay98:

This is how you know those broken, loveless ghetto girls.
They take every opportunity to spew trash at any one because that's all they got....
You need a psychological rehab to fit into society and think better without frustration

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Bambambiglo: 8:44am On Apr 28, 2020

LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh!

Stay there and be speaking English, na small pikin still dey worry you

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by wazirmichika1(m): 8:44am On Apr 28, 2020

Madam thank God many women are looking for such person just bear with him
Thanks for ur understand.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Reazest: 8:45am On Apr 28, 2020

Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.

A man who is demanding for sex everyday is not a man of honour.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Goalnaldo(m): 8:45am On Apr 28, 2020

Lizboh:

My sister, some of us are having the same experience. I've been married to my husband for the past 20yrs, and its sex sex everyday except on my period. We've had series of issues because of it but oga no gree change. Most times I start fights because I don't want to do but he will still come for it. What I've doing for more than 2yrs now is just to lay back and allow him do what he want without participating ( he no kuku dey mind again)..I also pretend to sleep when he is doing it. Most people here will not understand what you are going through, just learn to live with it. Thats my own advise

pretend to sleep cheesy

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:48am On Apr 28, 2020

Don't you think the studies was conducted on just a particular country? The piece is very lengthy, I only scanned through. Will reach later anyway. It can't be true, it's a false statistic.

Youngzedd:

Women cheat more than men. There are many research on this online.

Read this one >> https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/relationships-facts-stats-that-show-that-women-cheat-more-than-men/8ey0q67

Deserve it or not, DNA test is A MUST for me.

It now cost 60k, additional person is 40k.

The price is still going down.

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by gtboy1(m): 8:50am On Apr 28, 2020

This is the reason i encourage intending couples to knw their sexual capabilities by having sex occasionally before marriage. It saves a lot of things

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Reazest: 8:50am On Apr 28, 2020

fairy88:

Nooo heaven will not fall, fall ke!
And also yes the woman is lucky, very lucky,because it is written every man must cheat, it is the right thing they must do..
Ndi' eberibe'
If am the wife, I won't give into it if am not in the mood, and if he decides to go find d outside , me too will help myself outside too, who said woman are meant to feel the pain alone? Who said marriage is about the man alone? Rubbish!
People and their nonsense mentality..

Hello fairy? Where have you been?

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by SirKomA(m): 8:52am On Apr 28, 2020

domino4211:

That you have a lower libido doesn't mean people who have a higher one doesn't make them fuckboys...
And you don't know a person's sex drive when you're married.
You know it when you two have sex,which can be known even before marriage.

Do you sex your wife every hour of the day during this lockdown simply because you have a high libido?

The lady said she never knew Her Man had a high sex drive cos they never had sex until they both got married. So if they had had sex before getting married, she would have known him better and put things into consideration before getting married to him. That's why I said negative effects of marriage before sex with all due respect.

Soft!

Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Lizboh(f): 8:52am On Apr 28, 2020

ubcandid:

neither am I here to exchange banters. I just stated the obvious. you're exaggerating. For 20 years your husband's hormones are still raging at the frequency equivalent to what the OP is complaining of. Come on. I ask again, did you get married at 16 yrs?

Jeeezzz..you think its exaggeration ?, then am a very luck woman since my husband still see me good enough for sex 50+. When your wife is 40, pls cast her out. Age is in the head. I married my friend and age grade. Wish you good luck with your marriage, byeeee

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by craves(m): 8:52am On Apr 28, 2020

this is not an issue. you should be very happy that your hubby still find you attractive and willing to have sex with you all time. you will know the real definition of emotional torture when you have a partner who detest anything sex or romance with you, and yet your vow dont permit you to cheat

meanwhile...

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Goalnaldo(m): 8:53am On Apr 28, 2020

Graxie:
I think you and whosoever that is calling me cococandy alternative handle is mad. Check when I registered on nairaland. It's obvious some of you are sick. I made up my mind that I will never quote your role model, stop involving me in your stupidity.

you don tey for the forum oo

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