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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sterlingD(m): 2:20pm On Apr 28, 2020
djon78:


That was what I was trying to let that lady that was running her mouth know.
Many married men go through a lot as regards that, even pastors. Which man doesn't like sex. Sometimes these women are very selfish.


I remember I read one research that highly sexed libido men who there wives understand the power become very rich and wealthy. That extremely rich men are highly libido men. Sex radiates energy that can be turned to money by couples that understands this hidden secret.



Can you explain the above in Bold?.lt got my attention
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chccho(m): 2:29pm On Apr 28, 2020
codelady:


Hi Juliet! Came across this thread and felt compelled to respond. I recently assisted a couple of friends who were having a similar challenge in their marriage. You can PM if interested (this is at no cost to you, just felt concerned). For now I'd say there is no problem without a solution. Cheers smiley
Can u assist me in getting a good,beautiful and God fearing lady? I want to settle down!!!! cry
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 28, 2020
Julietsim:
Married women who who experienced this, please advice me. I am getting tired


If your story is true...


Your best solution is to give him more than he requires (fi su) na him go tire last last.

After finishing a round, even when you are tired climb him a again tell him you want more... give him excessively for a week or two...he will start running from it.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by codelady(f): 2:41pm On Apr 28, 2020
chccho:

Can u assist me in getting a good,beautiful and God fearing lady? I want to settle down!!!! cry

No I can't do that, but I can help you become the kind of man no God-fearing lady can resist wink

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by ElderE(m): 2:46pm On Apr 28, 2020
You want me to say something. Just do the needful that all.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by travelland(f): 2:50pm On Apr 28, 2020
Put sleeping pills in his drink at least three times a week so that you can rest and he can also sleep well too. Use your initiative not everything you come and ask. Make sure you spike his drink with sleeping tablets, that's all. Also secretly visit a doctor and ask what you can do to reduce his libido, do your own online research and look for food that reduce libido, prepare these meals for him so that both of you can rest.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by djon78(m): 2:54pm On Apr 28, 2020
sterlingD:



Can you explain the above in Bold?.lt got my attention

Sex is energy or power.
Most wealthy, rich and successful men are highly libido and highly sexed
Men there wife understand this scenario fuels, utilises and channels this energy aright by engaging there husbands sexualy appropriately.

Napoleon Bonaparte the great conqueror of Europe was said to be highly libido man, who had a wonderful intimate relationship with his wife. Historians linked the peak of his reign to his intimate relationship with his wife, and his failure when the relationship went sour.

Many great men throughout history were highly sexed Men. Most of the richest men are highly sexed Men. Donald Trump was a highly sexed man. He had reputation way back before he became the President of United States. Had three marriages and many affairs. It's well known.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Spe23: 2:55pm On Apr 28, 2020
Lizboh:

There is time for everything, she should create the time for it. She should not listen to those telling her its bad to always give in because am sure most of them are going through worst. If the husband is caring and takes good care of her, then she should take as his fault and help him. Another thing is attractiveness, am over 50 and getting dress in my husband's presence is war because he will sha want to do in. She should love her husband for who he.

God bless you Madam. I love all your responses. I wish I married a woman like you cry
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Apr 28, 2020
travelland:
Put sleeping pills in his drink at least three times a week so that you can rest and he can also sleep well too. Use your initiative not everything you come and ask. Make sure you spike his drink with sleeping tablets, that's all. Also secretly visit a doctor and ask what you can do to reduce his libido, do your own online research and look for food that reduce libido, prepare these meals for him so that both of you can rest.

lol they are coming for you

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by travelland(f): 2:59pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
lol they are coming for you

Lol I'm saying what I will silently do whether they come for me or not grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by beta247: 3:01pm On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

Some religion offered solutions to issues like this but we always turn a blind eye
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by DMerciful(m): 3:01pm On Apr 28, 2020
Remember our forefathers married multiple wives so their urge is handled by several wives.
Now christianity came with one man one wife but does that men the urge has disappeared from men with high sex drive?
You said you did not have sex before marriage,
you can now see a compatibility issue that could have been avoided. Only safe solution is either to comply or get him to take a second wife else he gonna cheat with the risk of associated diseases!
Julietsim:

I thought married women who have experienced this will advise me but it is clear that it is only unmarried guys who are talking. Maybe I wasted my time coming to ask here. I have discussed it with him severally. His reply is "would you prefer I get it outside?. I cannot allow my husband to cheat. Because it hurts alot
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 28, 2020
travelland:


Lol I'm saying what I will silently do whether they come for me or not grin
plus let her look so dirty and smelly(garlic and onions),it will reduce those urges LMAO.men and sex, I'm beginning to wonder if all these our Men of God are obsessed with sex too like all these ones I've read their comments here.

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by kiddapunk: 3:04pm On Apr 28, 2020
Romanoff:
I'm not married yet but I'd like to think you're lucky you're the only one he's having sex with.

Maybe now that you know, incorporate other fun activities into your lives that can give you some space.

Maybe binge watch some series, especially during this lockdown.
powerful advice�
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by beta247: 3:05pm On Apr 28, 2020
travelland:
Put sleeping pills in his drink at least three times a week so that you can rest and he can also sleep well too. Use your initiative not everything you come and ask. Make sure you spike his drink with sleeping tablets, that's all. Also secretly visit a doctor and ask what you can do to reduce his libido, do your own online research and look for food that reduce libido, prepare these meals for him so that both of you can rest.


I disagree. If he last two seconds, you complain. Don't drug your man
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by sterlingD(m): 3:09pm On Apr 28, 2020
djon78:


Sex is energy or power.
Most wealthy, rich and successful men are highly libido and highly sexed
Men there wife understand this scenario fuels, utilises and channels this energy aright by engaging there husbands sexualy appropriately.

Napoleon Bonaparte the great conqueror of Europe was said to be highly libido man, who had a wonderful intimate relationship with his wife. Historians linked the peak of his reign to his intimate relationship with his wife, and his failure when the relationship went sour.

Many great men throughout history were highly sexed Men. Most of the richest men are highly sexed Men. Donald Trump was a highly sexed man. He had reputation way back before he became the President of United States. Had three marriages and many affairs. It's well known.

The thing is how to understand the hidden secrets
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by chccho(m): 3:09pm On Apr 28, 2020
codelady:


No I can't do that, but I can help you become the kind of man no God-fearing lady can resist wink
So u want to make me a super man grin
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:15pm On Apr 28, 2020
Lizboh:



I just replied a mention now..read up pls

Please madam no vex, can you please tell me the page number you replied a mention in....


Because I'm already seeing page 31 and I might not have time to read from page 21 to 31 because of time...



Just tell me the page number please oooo
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:18pm On Apr 28, 2020
travelland:
Put sleeping pills in his drink at least three times a week so that you can rest and he can also sleep well too. Use your initiative not everything you come and ask. Make sure you spike his drink with sleeping tablets, that's all. Also secretly visit a doctor and ask what you can do to reduce his libido, do your own online research and look for food that reduce libido, prepare these meals for him so that both of you can rest.



Do you know taking too much of sleeping tablet has a tremendous side and negative effects? (Please search Google for answers)

Do you want to kill the man eventually...

Please suggest another thing.


Desist from sleeping pills because if the man finds out...na express she dey go
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:20pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
plus let her look so dirty and smelly(garlic and onions),it will reduce those urges LMAO.men and sex, I'm beginning to wonder if all these our Men of God are obsessed with sex too like all these ones I've read their comments here.

You'll be surprised when you do your research ...


But don't get it twisted, because women love and enjoy sex more than men
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Shanana1(m): 3:21pm On Apr 28, 2020
LilMissFavvy:
Ohh.... God pls help married women o, it's like nigerian husband's are so unfaithful to an extent that those commenting are telling the woman to be grateful that her husband still finds her attractive, or is having sex with her alone. So a Nigerian man is not supposed to be having sex with his wife alone or find her attractive, huh! sad

Give the woman your advice and ignore other people's comment....You did not contribute anything.....
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 3:24pm On Apr 28, 2020
KomonSense:


You'll be surprised when you do your research ...


But don't get it twisted, because women love and enjoy sex more than men
.joke of the century ,I hear you
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by irunoko(m): 3:26pm On Apr 28, 2020
MrBrownJay1:


fulfilling/satisfying sex is an important foundation of any union... and when in such union, everything you do is a reward for each other's action...so just like a woman will give herself fully to a great man acting right, she will equally refrain from being nice to this same man if he doesnt act right (and vice versa).... so as this man does everything RIGHT, there is no reason why he shouldnt expect sex everyday (unless they were sexually incompatible).



who is talking about forcing himself unto her?! here is a simple clue: if wifey has a problem with it, why doesnt she simply explain what she is feeling to this man and exactly why she doesnt want to have sex with him? is that so much to ask OR should this man read her damn mind?



come on sista, now you are trying to turn this into something else... there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a woman being exhausted, but this is irrelevant to the issue at hand, unless you actually believe that the solution to this problem is for wifey to tell her husband everyday that she is tired....thus letting that sexually frustrated man go out in this "sexually dangerous" world. this lady 1st has to understand that unless she let this man knows that there is a problem, then chances are NOTHING will change...so she should sit down and discuss the issue with hubby. if she cant handle the sexual intensity placed upon her and her honeypot, then let husband get a 2nd wife to alleviate her sexual duties at home. if husband cant afford a 2nd wife then i see no other ways than to allow hubby to find sexual "helpers" (aka mistress, gf, oloshos etc)...et voila!



there are few important issues here:
- what kind of man are we talking about...? does he really NEED sex everyday or this is simply what he demands from the wife he has paid for.
- is it that this lady doesnt WANT sex or that she doesnt ENJOY sex with hubby?
- if they aint compatible then let them divorce as nobody should force anyone (men/women) to stay married to someone who cant fully satisfy them.
- i guess you have no clue of the animal you are dealing with so let me explain to you: a sexually frustrated married man/woman is a dangerous person... which is the reason why so many deluded men fukc their ugly nasty maid OR wives fukc their bastard drivers. some men/women out there need sex as a way to function properly, as a way to release life frustrations etc and therefore, there is no point trying to stop these people as they will ALWAYS achieve their aim (aka having sex whenever the desire it)
errmmm uncle you seem not to be paying attention to a significant issue here which is very obvious.the husband in question here is a N*Y*M*P*H*OM*A*N*I*A*C.a nympho is like a kleptomaniac.he can never be satisfied.if she likes make she do cow girl,66, missionary,doggy and every sex style and position in this world he can never be satisfied.


What do they call a person that likes sex too much,no be nympho? It is a compulsive disorder that needs to be fixed.sex will not fix it.more like giving a junky more and more drugs thinking he will ever get satisfied.you don see where drug addict dey say no to drugs before? So continuous sex can never solve nymphomaniacs problem.if he likes sef make he marry 50 of Beyonce, another 50 of Kim Kardashian,he can never get satisfied.the problem is a psychological/ mental health one.that should be resolved first


Meanwhile there's another myth that needs to be cleared out the fact that you are married doesn't mean you have to be satisfying your husband's raging testerosone everytime.which Kain life be that one? Na every month she go dey get belle o shocked
But in all everything done in excess becomes a bore or tiring that includes sex.if it's too much it becomes bothersome.even Yorubas say eni hmmnnn,Ola hmmnnn Ara lonfabosi.

Sex is meant to be enjoyed moderately not abused through excessive sex

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Shanana1(m): 3:28pm On Apr 28, 2020
Jesuisbelle:
Your husband is controlled by his bodily urges, it's a sex addiction and you have become his personal sperm disposal unit if you don't take a stand. His type will still cheat, watch pornography because it's always in his imagination. I can see some women think their only role is to service Oga just because he paid your bride price and made you a Mrs!!! You are a woman, someone's daughter with human dignity! If you like continue submitting because you want to please him to your own unhappiness. Sex is not everything in marriage. Nne don't kill yourself, dat everyday own is a very big No!!! To me, if u don't have strength explain to him if he gets angry allow him to get angry in peace he will be alright las las, no be today dem don begin dey get angry on matter like dat

I almost fall in love with you when I was reading your comment till it gets to when you advice her that she should allow her husband to get angry it he must. Women are not sex machine quite alright but in this situation, she's the woman, she should talk to her husband about the pain she's feeling due to too much sex and they should both discuss on how to go about it that both of them will not be hurt and still enjoy their sex life. Let them introduce some fun games into their sex life, it shouldn't be putting d**k in p***y alone. I'm sure you understand me wella���, please continue from there.. re-advice her.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:29pm On Apr 28, 2020
mamatwiny:

When I was single, I had a friend that loved sex so much. This was her no 1 criteria for choosing a mate cos she cant do with a lack lustre performance. B4 any relationship can start, she must test your manhood. Woe betide you if your performance is avg or below average, she won't even pick your call afterwards cos it was of no need, no matter how good a person you are. Some ppl are just wired like that. Very high libido .
I also know of a man at prisons quaters Enugu who would chase his wife round the quaters . His dick is big and he has high libido on top. On hot afternoon like this, he will be chasing his wife after she gets tired from plenty sex. This woman will run out from the house and he follows in pursuit,the wife will be shouting and he will also be shouting,' m ga- alalili GI taa' He can have sex with her every and anywhere including under the mango tree in front of their house. This happened about 15years ago. I wonder if they are still married.

This your last example is humorous...LWKMD ...sex under a mango tree?

THE best thing is that men with high libido should find and marry women with high too...

But how will they know if they didn't have (premarital sex) sex before marriage
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by mamatwiny(f): 3:34pm On Apr 28, 2020
choo:


Chai,, the lady go don dey ask God question ife oji isi kote. I once sent a PM to you based on something I read on your diary.
My dear, forgive me ooo. I saw it but can't remember what happened.
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:36pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
.joke of the century ,I hear you

I'm not joking ooo

I'm damn serious

I use to have a friend who's a play boy...

He says the secret to a woman is if you can suck them well esp the clitoris. But you can say older women (from 35 years) like sex more than younger women


This boy bought a Mercedes for himself and built a house for his parents while we're in 400 Level, courtesy of his numerous sugar mummies.

I'm telling the pure truth...

Just do some research
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by travelland(f): 3:37pm On Apr 28, 2020
Rozz:
plus let her look so dirty and smelly(garlic and onions),it will reduce those urges LMAO.men and sex, I'm beginning to wonder if all these our Men of God are obsessed with sex too like all these ones I've read their comments here.


Most men are crazy over sex. Yeah she should appear dirty and smelly always, that will cure his konji grin

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Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by travelland(f): 3:39pm On Apr 28, 2020
KomonSense:



Do you know taking too much of sleeping tablet has a tremendous side and negative effects? (Please search Google for answers)

Do you want to kill the man eventually...

Please suggest another thing.


Desist from sleeping pills because if the man finds out...na express she dey go


Bru there are people who have been taking sleeping pills for the past decade and they're not dead. Stop being an alarmist, the man need proper sleep and rest, sex was never meant to be a daily activity
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by travelland(f): 3:40pm On Apr 28, 2020
beta247:


I disagree. If he last two seconds, you complain. Don't drug your man


Bro the man need it
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by KomonSense: 3:40pm On Apr 28, 2020
Jeweltz:


Na this kind of man I want in my life.

God, give me a good husband that won't cheat on me. I don't mind giving him sex every minutes cuz I love sex too embarassed sad. Not all these fuckboys with swag and no sense at all

If you're ready to settle down, I'm game.

I'm serious ooo
Re: How Do I Handle A Husband Who Wants To Have Sex Almost Everyday? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Apr 28, 2020
travelland:



Most men are crazy over sex. Yeah she should appear dirty and smelly always, that will cure his konji grin
yes ooo, since he wants to kill somebody's daughter LMAO

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