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Shimzyy:
Big gbola Na the hungry her
Instead of studying her books she's busy studying the guy and wishing to see him always

lol and the first thing on your mind is big gbola.

Filomena:
lol and the first thing on your mind is big gbola.

Yes, because that's the only thing that will reset your brain right now

summerset:
He doesn't like you enough to date you.Simple.

alright thanks.

Stevyne:
He wants to eat your work. Besides how old are you

I'm 20.

pls which sch is dat if i may ask

Filomena:
I'm 20.

Ohhhh
Lemme mention elsewhere

BrilliantGigolo:
You sound naive, immature , innocent, callow, unsophisticated, sincere , unadulterated, above board, Frank, honest, candid , unspoiled , untainted , untarnished , undefiled , unblemished ,unsullied , uncorrupted , virtuous , decent , demure , vestal and pure as the driven snow.

I , sincerely , blame everything in this country but you. We only read about people who got married to their college sweethearts on Wikipedia and foreign non-fictions.

I doff my cap for this your synonyms.


Two hands in the air for you

Makavelli25:
Maybe he doesnt like you. Maybe he just wants to be friends. You just keep your cool. It is well


and oga gigolo your siggy seems onekind. I suspect you are amaikpe alternate

I'm not. LoL.

sunkieisland:
I doff my cap for this your synonyms.


Two hands in the air for you

Thanks.

Filomena:
okay
but why does he keep staring?

Infatuation maybe.

Filomena:
there's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us.we have gradually become friends. i find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me,I hide my face.ive also observed that he stares at me alot too and smiles and then says hey to me.we had a small talk in school too.
I didnt know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read,I saw him,like I couldn't believe it because I was hoping to see him again because I tot I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike,till it was called off.so I was really shocked and happy when I saw him,then he hugged me and hugged him too and held him tight.
so he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes,he told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him.i felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more.so he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day,I told him and he said okay..and told me good night.he didnt even ask for my phone number.i wonder why he didnt.
the other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that,so after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasnt really in the mood for that but I still stared back,he then told me hey and passed,he was with his friend and i greeted him too and passed.
so the last day i saw him,I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled.lo and behold,I saw coming towards me with some of his friends.he then hugged me and we had a small chat.i was still hoping that he'd collect my number,still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not.
since he's yet to ask for my number..
please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
thanks.

You must put your senses on at this stage

Both of you likes each other, calm down and watch how it goes

Don't rush at all at all

He can read you faster than you can read him

He wants to put you in suspense before declaration so that you don't say no

So be guided, I know you will not be happy if he does the heat and run on you

For that single reason, just respect yourself and behave well

Filomena:
there's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us.we have gradually become friends. i find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me,I hide my face.ive also observed that he stares at me alot too and smiles and then says hey to me.we had a small talk in school too.
I didnt know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read,I saw him,like I couldn't believe it because I was hoping to see him again because I tot I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike,till it was called off.so I was really shocked and happy when I saw him,then he hugged me and hugged him too and held him tight.
so he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes,he told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him.i felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more.so he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day,I told him and he said okay..and told me good night.he didnt even ask for my phone number.i wonder why he didnt.
the other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that,so after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasnt really in the mood for that but I still stared back,he then told me hey and passed,he was with his friend and i greeted him too and passed.
so the last day i saw him,I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled.lo and behold,I saw coming towards me with some of his friends.he then hugged me and we had a small chat.i was still hoping that he'd collect my number,still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not.
since he's yet to ask for my number..
please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
thanks.

Start forgetting him.....

If you persist like this, one day he go use you count scores one time sex and dump you


Leave the nigga alone and run

They are so many ladies i have given this attitude to trust me run dont put bad thought in his mind


But if you like him that much tell him you can be his Bleep buddy no feelings attached.....

Shimzyy:
Big gbola Na the hungry her
Instead of studying her books she's busy studying the guy and wishing to see him always

If dem check u now na prevert you be


Na all this nonsense yans na dey make our ladies not fit express themselves

If na gbola dey hungry her leave her she b human beign

Nonsense

Filomena, Follow Me Na

Randy91:
You will not Goan read ur bookz...Fuvk don dey hungry u!


It will surely end in bed!

Filomena:
okay but why does he keep staring?

which school are you,philo?

No guy who's really into you will allow an opportunity of getting your number slip.

He may like you but is committed to another within the same cycle. He could be holding back because of that. It's enough reason to hesitate if you ask me.

He may not really be into you, could be all the small talk is just him being civil.

Your age (I don't need to ask you) is when you mistake infatuation for love. You have to be careful and leave men out of your curriculum for now. Use this time to build your GPA.

If you still feel you wanna go ahead then
don't collect his number if he doesn't ask for yours. Don't offer yourself on a platter of gold for him. He should work for it.

If he's yours, Providence will sort it out. Facebook, that's top priority now.

He has given you little or let me say next to nothing of his feelings but you are head over hills for him, maybe because of his approach or demeanour. Tell your heart not to run faster. I can't even say you guys are friends yet so enjoy the conversations, do not place a timeline or try to force events. See if this chatting leads to friendship but don't be the one pushing(it must come from two of you). Watch friendship grow and if it yields love then fine. If it is does not then you have made a life long friend and you will be able to live with yourself but when you pressure yourself on what he did or didn't do or what he should or shouldn't do then your push become greater and may open you up to be exploited. Wait, watch, let the chat mate develop and see if the birth is friendship and from there the picture become even more clearer

Filo

Filomena:
okay thanks alot.

Take note, that guy’s advice isn’t entirely correct. If the guy isn’t entirely sure if you like him or not, he wouldn’t want to fall his own hand. That’s part of the reasons why he hasn’t made his move. So make your intentions clearer and see how he reacts. Not every guy chases a girl he likes up and down.

He doesn't love you. I think he appreciates the fact that you're crushing on him. Yes, he knows you're crushing on him. So take your mind away from there.

Most "curshees" don't usually reciprocate and you can't blame them. Though they may try to be nice and friendly but will never ask you out.
It doesn't always play out that way. So, don't go too deep with the crushing thing and stop fantasizing about them otherwise you'll end up hurting yourself for nothing.

Give it time, the feelings would go away. Ive had a few crushes here and there but i found out that after a while, the feelings fizzle out cos I try not to feed it by going home and fantasizing about them.

Cheers!

Filomena:
there's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us.we have gradually become friends. i find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me,I hide my face.ive also observed that he stares at me alot too and smiles and then says hey to me.we had a small talk in school too.
I didnt know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read,I saw him,like I couldn't believe it because I was hoping to see him again because I tot I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike,till it was called off.so I was really shocked and happy when I saw him,then he hugged me and hugged him too and held him tight.
so he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes,he told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him.i felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more.so he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day,I told him and he said okay..and told me good night.he didnt even ask for my phone number.i wonder why he didnt.
the other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that,so after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasnt really in the mood for that but I still stared back,he then told me hey and passed,he was with his friend and i greeted him too and passed.
so the last day i saw him,I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled.lo and behold,I saw coming towards me with some of his friends.he then hugged me and we had a small chat.i was still hoping that he'd collect my number,still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not.
since he's yet to ask for my number..
please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
thanks.

Firstly you sound like a teenager and even if youre not one... Just leave guys and face your studies even the guy isnt ready for love or dating we all just wanna Bleep... Youre not obsessed wth making your parent proud na relationship wey go end beforw granduation dey your mind. God if you go give mw pickin abeg make am boy.

gregyboy:
If dem check u now na prevert you be


Na all this nonsense yans na dey make our ladies not fit express themselves

If na gbola dey hungry her leave her she b human beign

Nonsense

Nor worry you go born grl and she will also go to school and will be focused on boys not her caree or studies... This is why we have damaged girls everywhere

BrilliantGigolo:
You sound naive, immature , innocent, callow, unsophisticated, sincere , unadulterated, above board, Frank, honest, candid , unspoiled , untainted , untarnished , undefiled , unblemished ,unsullied , uncorrupted , virtuous , decent , demure , vestal and pure as the driven snow.

I predict that your story is that of a first time lover. It's definitely not just a story of infatuation. You have nurtured him for months in your mind as a crush. I know you hold your pillow tight with a soothing cuddle every night and speak to it ,wishing it was him- the king of your heart. I'm an audience in the theatre of your day dreams especially the ones you said "For Better for worse" to the invisible and a prince in absentia .

I , sincerely , blame everything in this country but you. We only read about people who got married to their college sweethearts on Wikipedia and foreign non-fictions. I am not oblivious that such genuine admiration of the one you love is not uncommon with girls your age. I am only worried about the end.

You smiled when you started reading this comment and the large grin you started with is diminishing towards my conclusion. That's why a person cannot claim he saw a drama after its prologue. The Epilogue is everything because it makes a comedy or tragedy no matter the beginning.


PADLOCK YOUR PANTS UNTIL THE YOUNG MAN CAN PAY YOUR BRIDE PRICE AND FINANCE A FAMILY WITHOUT EXTERNAL DEPENDENCE OR IT WILL END IN TEARS . I GIVE YOU MY BLESSING, LITTLE ONE.
Dominique I have served my ban. Thanks for correcting me. I now have sense.

This you are too much, keep it up. You will go places

Filomena:
there's this guy I met in school and there has been this connection between us.we have gradually become friends. i find myself staring at him most of the time and when he tries to catch me,I hide my face.ive also observed that he stares at me alot too and smiles and then says hey to me.we had a small talk in school too.
I didnt know he stayed in campus too so one night when I was going out to read,I saw him,like I couldn't believe it because I was
hoping to see him again because I tot I was not going to see him again after they declared the two weeks strike,till it was called off.so I was really shocked and happy when I saw him,then he hugged me and hugged him too and held him tight.
so he then asked if this was my room and I told him yes,he told me he just escorted his friend that just finished cooking for him.i felt bad hearing that because I felt they had something more.so he then asked me which church I'd be attending the following day,I told him and he said okay..and told me good night.he didnt even ask for my phone number.i wonder why he didnt.
the other day he just saw me and didn't talk to me and i felt bad for that,so after that day I saw him and he was just busy staring at me and smiling and I wasnt really in the mood for that but I still stared back,he then told me hey and passed,he was with his friend and i greeted him too and passed.
so the last day i saw him,I was coming back from church and was hoping I'd see him again one last time before I travelled.lo and behold,I saw coming towards me with some of his friends.he then hugged me and we had a small chat.i was still hoping that he'd collect my number,still he didnt..
I dont know if he wants to have something with me or not.
since he's yet to ask for my number..
please guys I need your thought on this cuz I really want to go into a relationship with him..
I want to know if he likes me or bidding his time or just playing around.
thanks.

Youre 20... Its going to be hard to tell you to forget men at that age as your p**y go don warm die but all the same focus on the right thkngs

How come he does not even care to go further to request for your number? Either he is trying to play games with your heart or he is in a relationship already. However, even if he had a relationship before meeting you, if he loves you, he will one day be yours. Relax, take things the way they are, what will be will be. But never force yourself on him, let him make the move.

Skmoda360:
Should we tell her?

Please do. Let's help a sister. It's a small world.

Won ma do e faya

Filomena:
okay but why does he keep staring?

Because he wants to fùck then dump you.
I have broken many a girl's heart like you. you obviously want him more than he wants you
Your over staring has made you his Christmas food. he will just select the meat, leave the rice and go.
You will later say we broke your heart.

una know how I dey take look this girl?

una Sabi;

hungry lion under tree way see young antelope dey waka nonchalantly from the herd.

gregyboy:
Start forgetting him.....

If you persist like this, one day he go use you count scores one time sex and dump you


Leave the nigga alone and run

They are so many ladies i have given this attitude to trust me run dont put bad thought in his mind


But if you like him that much tell him you can be his Bleep buddy no feelings attached.....

that's not what I want from him.
still thanks.